《光明之心旺渡猴年》
To A Fortuitous Year of The Monkey (English version below)
很多很多的人,都對自己的命運,或來年的運程抱著一種「先睹為快」的心理。吾,玳瑚師父認為,這是可以理解的。問題是在於,妳你知道了妳你的命運,或來年的運程後,妳你可曉得,如何趨吉避凶、扭轉乾坤、反敗為勝嗎?又或者增旺自己的運勢,使之好上加好呢?還是「先睹為快」後,淒淒慘慘,慘慘淒淒呢?若然是這樣的話,妳你就得歸類迷信者了哦!
生肖屬猴、虎、豬、蛇者,請向妳你自己的師父(若有的話),請示要如何安奉當年太歲星君,以保流年身心、身體健康、事業順心、家庭合樂、道心堅固、智慧增長、投資安穩、大事化小、小事化無等等。一般人都不會及較少,在家中安奉當年太歲星君。因此,可到有供奉六十位太歲星君的廟宇拜太歲及點光明燈。禮拜太歲星君時,除了獻上供品、蠟燭紙金以外,千萬要記得虔心稱呼,值年的太歲星君啊!歲次丙申太歲星君叫管仲,在拜太歲時,妳你就虔心稱呼祂為「丙申年管仲太歲星君」,這樣妳你才真真正正,拜到那一位值年的太歲星君。
接下來就讓玳瑚師父,為妳你們「紙上談運」吧!生肖屬猴的妳你,在這猴年裡,凡事要加以忍耐、忍讓,退一步才可以海闊天空,且莫食喪家之物、送葬出殯宜避之、夜間場所勿流連、對於年邁的長者或親屬,應多加關懷與關注,她他們的身、心發展,以免真的給玳瑚師父「說中了」,妳你也不必對著她他們唱: 我是不是妳你最疼愛的人,妳你為什麼不說話?哈....! 若妳你正打算「東家不打,打西家」的話,吾勸妳你待明年再說吧!喜歡投資的妳你,則要小心陰溝裡翻船哦!今年應該不圖非份,「萬事如意」才可能在妳你身上應驗。
生肖屬虎的妳你,請勿暴飲暴食哦!不食喪家之物,也勿「自告奮勇」的奔喪,以免累己累人。今年家中乃「多事之秋」,心情忐忑不安、情緒波動,再所難免。但,還是要把家中長者照顧好,或許可免喪神入屋。今年亦是妳你忙碌的一年,轉工、搬家、旅遊,流年中必應驗,要不然就應驗在跌倒哦!請多加注意足下的「工具」,是否是良好的「狀況」。一切宜守不宜攻。
生肖屬豬的妳你,在六親眷屬的關係方面,應多加關注,敢敢做個有愛心的人,自然就能歡度此猴年了。工作、事業與投資,應按部就班地進行,風險自然化小。婚姻及感情生活,祗要不要執著一個「我」字,也就會融洽了。
至於生肖屬蛇的妳你,身邊的親人、愛人、朋友等等,有可能會「突然間不見掉」。真心誠意的對待與珍惜,是唯一的安撫靈藥。再加上「不在乎天長地久,祗在乎曾經擁有」這句「名言」,那就更能夠釋懷了。
其實犯太歲,並不祗是人而已。妳你的宅地的坐山及向首,妳你的公司,妳你的辦工桌,妳你家中的書桌、床位,每個隔間,都可能是在太歲的位置上,因此也就犯了太歲。無論是老、中、少或幼(嬰孩),犯之意外連連,生病破財是小事,不慎連命也陪了,對一般人而言,就非小事了。不妨禮請一位妳你信得過的師父,為妳你及家人,規劃妳你居家的風水,擁抱妳你生命中美好的每一天,根本無需提心吊膽、戰戰兢兢地過日子。若妳你從來都沒找過任何師父勘察妳你居家的風水,那就在今年吧!給妳你及家人,生命中最大的禮物,而且是最愛的禮物,來個「水濂洞中勝樂大,花果山上年年好」。猴塞磊(廣東話),哈....!快樂得不得了。
吾,玳瑚師父,在此溫馨提醒哦!在立春來臨前,就好去拜太歲了哦!可別等或拖到清明,或農曆七月才去拜哦!因為這兩個節日,是讓人們上山掃墓祭祖,及拜俗稱的「好兄弟」的哦!若立春妳你所謂的錯過了,可請妳你信得過的師父,依妳你的生辰四柱,在農曆初一至十五日間,擇吉日良辰去拜太歲,那是很棒的拜太歲法之一。祝:大家「猴塞磊」哈....!
相信大家對「近水樓臺先得月」這句話,應該不會太陌生吧!如果妳你還是有些陌生的話,那「投其所好」,應該有聽聞過了吧!如果還是陌生的話,那看來妳你真的是....。丙申年管仲太歲星君,乃是位熱愛行善、佈施、教育、為善不落人後的神明。因此,妳你若要祂特別「注意」、「守護」、「關照」妳你的話,今年妳你就要比往年,更積極、更勤勞地行種種善,打個比方說;放生戒殺、助印、印施善書、開口勸善、捐錢建寺廟、撥款振災、關注及協助社會不幸的一群,等等。
天天做,天天增。增什麼?增福增慧、增資糧。當中也含蓋了改善命運的利益,天天不計較時間、不計較金錢、不計較體力、不計較工作量的多寡,持之以恆地做下去,很快的就會產生一種力量,無與倫比的力量,可改命可改運。反之,存有計較的心,那妳你所做的,就不能、也無法產生光明。沒有光明之心的「善行」,就不可能「投其所好」,妳你的心和太歲星君的心,始終扣不上,今年妳你諸多的願,就變成了天馬行空。什麼意思?泡湯了!
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There are countless number of people who cannot wait to take a "sneak preview" into their future. Master Dai Hu thinks that this mentality is not without reasons. The problem lies in this: after you have had a glimpse of what your destiny hold, or what would be your fortunes in this coming year, would you know how to usher in the good luck and evade the bad ones? Would you know how to turn a disastrous situation around and emerge as the eventual winner? Or would you be able to ride on the waves of good fortune for an even better outcome? Would it be the case that after you had known what lies ahead, that you fall into depression and self-pity? If this is true for you, then I would say you belong to the category of superstitious people!
For those of you born under the Chinese zodiac sign of the Monkey, Tiger, Pig and Snake, please seek advice from your Master, if you do have one, on how to seek blessings from the Grand Duke of Jupiter of the year to ensure well-being in your physical and emotional health, career, family and investments, faith in your spiritual cultivation, growth in wisdom, and that the magnitude of all disasters be minimized or reduced to none. Most people do not or rarely worships the Grand Duke of Jupiter at home. So you can visit temples that enshrine the 60 Dukes of Jupiter to pay your respect and make a light offering. When you are paying respect to the Duke of Jupiter, with the offerings, candles and joss papers, please remember to address Him with all your sincerity and faith. In the coming Lunar year of the Fire Monkey, the Grand Duke of Jupiter is addressed as "Guan Zhong". You should formally address Him as the "Grand Duke of Jupiter of the Fire Monkey Year, Guan Zhong". In this way, you can be sure that your prayer goes to the correct Grand Duke of Jupiter.
Now please allow Master Dai Hu to talk about your fortunes, on paper at least! If you are born under the Chinese zodiac sign of the Monkey, please exercise more tolerance in the coming year of the Monkey. Taking a step back will often lead to clear skies. Please do not consume any food from anyone with recently-deceased family members, and refrain from attending funerals and funeral processions. Stay away from places of leisure which operate in the night time.
For the elderly at home, please watch out and show concern for their health and mental well-being as Master Dai Hu does not want to be spot on with his words. I am sure you would not want to be singing, "Am I not the one you loved most? Why are you not talking to me?" Ha!
If you have any thought of changing employer, I would advise you to hold off the plan for another year. For those of you who love to invest, please exercise caution so as not to get caught out by unexpected situations! Do not go after wild ambitions this year so that you can have a smooth and fulfilling year ahead.
For those born under the Chinese zodiac sign of the Tiger, refrain from overeating! Do not consume food from anyone with recently-deceased family members, and avoid any misguided bravery in attending funerals. This will bring harm to yourself and others around you. Unavoidably, this year is going to be a season of troubled times, often with plenty of unease and emotional upheavals. However, please take extra care of the elderly at home to ward off any visit by the Angel of Death. This is a very hectic year for you with plenty of activities in your career moves, change of residences, as well as travels. If these things do not happen, the year's fortune will take on another appearance: you will risk suffering from falls! So please inspect your footwear to ensure they are in good condition! Every plan this year should be set to defensive mode, instead of invasive.
For those born under the Chinese zodiac sign of the Pig, please treat your relationships with your family and kin with extra care, and be bold to shower more love towards them, so that the Year of the Monkey will be a happy journey for you. As for your career and investment, do not deviate from your plans so as to minimize your risks. In your marriage and relationships, let go of the notion of "self", and all will be nice and harmonious.
As for those of you born under the Chinese zodiac sign of the Snake, your family relations, your lover and friends, etc, may "suddenly disappear" from your life. The only way to seek comfort from this is to treat them sincerely and cherish the affinities with them. Remember this famous saying, "It may not last forever, but at least you had the moments. " and you will come to a closure with it.
In actual fact, it is not only human beings that come into conflict with the Grand Duke of the Jupiter. Your residence, specifically its sitting and facing directions, your office premises, your work desk, your study desk at home, your bed, and every individual room can be in conflict with the Grand Duke of Jupiter. No matter your age, even if you are a baby, you will encounter accidents, illness, and loss of wealth if you are in conflict with the Grand Duke of Jupiter. But these are small matters. In more serious cases, your life may be in danger.
There is no harm to engage a Feng Shui Master whom you can trust to conduct a Feng Shui audit at your home, for the sake of your family and yourself. Embrace every beautiful day in your life. There is no need to live each day in trepidation and fear. If you have not engaged any Feng Shui master for your home before, make it this year! Let this be your perfect gift to yourself and your family, a gift of great significance and love, and create a haven of bliss and years of prosperity! Ha! How joyous that will be!
Master Dai Hu would like to sound out a gentle reminder: please pay your respect to the Grand Duke of Jupiter before Li Chun, the beginning of Spring. Do not wait until the Qing Ming Festival or the Lunar Seventh Month before you fulfill this important task. The Qing Ming Festival and the Lunar Seventh Month are meant for paying respects to our ancestors and the wandering spirits, commonly known as the "good brothers"! If you had missed the Li Chun date, you may request a Master you can trust to select an auspicious date and time, based on your birth chart, to pay your respect to the Grand Duke of Jupiter any time between the First Day and the Fifteenth Day of the First Lunar Month. This is an excellent way to pay your respect to the Grand Duke of Jupiter. I wish everybody an awesome Year of the Monkey!
The Grand Duke of Jupiter, Guan Zhong, for the Year of the Fire Monkey, is a God who is passionate about performing virtuous deeds, generous giving, education and always the first in line when it comes to kind deeds. Therefore, if you would like Him to take notice of you, to protect and take care of you, you should therefore be more enthusiastic and diligent than the years before to perform virtuous deeds. For examples, refrain from killing lives, liberate lives, sponsor the printing and distribution of virtuous books, speak to encourage virtuous behaviour, donate to build temples and towards disaster relief funds, show care and give assistance for the less fortunate, etc.
Consistent action on a daily basis yields consistent gains. What do you gain? Your merits, fortunes, wisdom and resources increase. In the midst of this lies the enormous benefit of altering your destiny for the better. Do not be calculative in your time, money, bodily effort, and volume of work. Press on day by day, consistently, and soon, you will witness the emergence of a powerful force that is unprecedented, one that can turn your life and fortune around! On the other hand, if you live with a calculative mindset, all that you have done will not invoke the radiant Light, without which your supposedly virtuous deeds can never be aligned with the Grand Duke of Jupiter. Ultimately, there is still a distance between your heart and His, and your many wishes and hopes for this year are just a figment of your imagination. What do I mean by that? I mean you can kiss your dreams goodbye!
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【周四大人物】從野台戲、道士到最佳女配角獎的美麗人生
2015年08月05日 21:18
(蘇立坤攝)
灰黑色眼線,老菸槍黃牙,成天搖搖晃晃醉醺醺度日,連罵兒子都難掩媽媽桑江湖氣勢…。這哪裡是人們熟悉的溫柔慈母,簡直令人搖頭。
呂雪鳳便是靠這角色,拿到本屆台北電影節「最佳女配角」。幾天後她一臉淡妝,端坐我們面前輕柔分析:「媽媽有千百種,堅強或軟弱或迫於無奈的媽媽。那個媽媽是戲班出身,可能沒受過什麼教育,也不聰明。我想兩個兒子可能都不喜歡媽媽,甚至瞧不起,心裡會OS:『為什麼不去死!為什麼要管我!』」
導演張作驥的新片《醉・生夢死》裡,呂雪鳳演一位丈夫移情別戀拋家棄子、她傷痛之餘還得養小孩因而下海的媽媽桑,自此沉迷酒精,兒子明白母親苦處卻無法不厭惡…,真實世界的種種情感從來不是八點檔演得那樣黑白分明,是千瘡百孔各色交錯。
「真的是生活歷練出來的。我只讀過小學一年級,沒讀過什麼表演藝術,你覺得我能演到什麼樣有深度的戲嗎?」上台領獎時,呂雪鳳一開口就說,自己是唱歌仔戲的。然而若不明白呂雪鳳對歌仔戲的複雜情感,便難理解這句話的重量。
她是野台戲班出身,「我們全家都不識字,小時候一睜開眼就是掙飯吃。」她的父母都唱歌仔戲,「所以我三歲唱歌五歲演戲,戲班像吉普賽人到處流浪。」上了小學一年級,學校禁止說台語,「但我們戲班出身的哪裡會講國語,就被老師拿木板打,打完叫我去走廊罰站,掛一塊牌子在身上:『我說台語,我是小狗』。」
她也只讀一年就沒錢讀下去,繼續演戲,「但我開始知道唱歌仔戲很羞恥,人家問我在做什麼,我都說在髮廊當洗頭小妹。」
她永遠在還父親欠戲班的錢。「我老爸愛賭,把我們賣給一個戲班,換錢去賭,接著又去另一個戲班借錢,所以我們把這個戲班的錢還完了,還要再去另一個戲班演戲還錢。」父親永遠不見蹤影,偶爾回家便是打老婆、向小孩要錢。
從小很討厭父親吧?偏偏人總是非理性,「不會,爸爸只打媽媽,不會打我們,還對我們很好,因為是我們在演戲賺錢給他。媽媽壓力大,對我們永遠一直打一直罵,所以我們從小知道爸爸不好、媽媽很苦,可是就是喜歡爸爸不喜歡媽媽。」
淡季沒戲,她還得去工地做小工,甚至學當道士、牽亡魂。「道士一樣是低下階層,但喪家很尊重你,師父、師父地叫,當道士都比演歌仔戲高尚。」底層之人對於階級尊卑,如含羞草般敏感。
二十一歲那年,父親生了大病,呂雪鳳向戲班陸續借七、八十萬醫藥費,還不出錢。最後,「那時舞廳正紅,我去應徵舞小姐,結果…被打回來,太矮。我甚至也去…那時只有舞廳能一次簽約借你八十、一百萬,就算賣給私娼寮也頂多借二、三十萬。」她頓了一秒才又說下去:「因為我都接觸過了。」
她只能繼續苦幹,「一大早走陣頭送死人,下午演野台戲,晚上做家庭代工,車棒球帽、皮包,拚命賺錢。」二十六歲她未婚生子,忽然開始懂得當母親的心情。但,「小孩六個月大時,我媽媽過世了。那時農曆七月不能出殯,她在殯儀館冰二十一天,我有十八天睡在殯儀館,每天有二個小時可以打開冰櫃看媽媽,我每天就等那二個小時。」
「我記憶中的媽媽只會打罵,等我有小孩才慢慢想到,她可能是憂鬱症,因為她晚上都不能睡,她長期被老公打,又有三個小孩夭折,她幾乎是不能生存了,還要照顧大姐跟我…但以前哪裡知道什麼憂鬱症。這種痛不會隨著時間淡去,是越來越自責,我們從頭到尾不知道媽媽有病,一直誤會、討厭媽媽,一種無來由的恨。」
她擤了一下鼻涕,聲音才轉趨鎮定:「所以張作驥導演的東西我有經驗,我不但有當媽媽的經驗,也有當孩子的經驗,我就是電影裡那個不喜歡媽媽的孩子!」電影裡,討厭媽媽酗酒、對媽媽不耐的小兒子,在媽媽猝逝後竟也開始酗酒,還買了一件昂貴寶藍色上衣送給心愛女孩,電影最後一幕,便是媽媽穿著一件美麗的寶藍色上衣。
呂雪鳳的工作史儼然一部台灣社會變遷史,從野台戲、鄉野道士、到工地小工(都市化高樓興起)、家庭代工(八O年代經濟狂飆),然後她三十多歲,政治風向轉變,那是九O年代,「復興劇校新設歌仔戲科,我是第二屆的特聘老師。」她也去社團、大學演講,成了「雪鳳老師」。她對歌仔戲的心情完全不同了,開始有使命感。即使五年前開始演電視電影,片約不斷,她仍抽空演歌仔戲。
滄桑的過往,成了她演戲的養份,她第一次演電影就入圍金馬獎,這次則拿下台北電影節最佳女配角。但,她沒忘記歌仔戲:「到了這年紀,我知道這個情份,歌仔戲是我的根。所以我上台第一句就是,我是演歌仔戲的,我很急於讓大家知道歌仔戲這三個字。」風光拿獎後,她的臉書也只短短這三句:「我是演歌仔戲的,我拿獎了,我是呂雪鳳。」(撰文:簡竹書)
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