It’s always baffled me that we think it’s appropriate to remark about changes in someone’s weight when we see them... this video has been a long time coming.
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Do we think they have no mirrors in their house and they haven’t noticed?
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I’ve used a few examples here that are closest to my personal experiences, but it’s an issue that affects people young and old, skinny, fat and everything in between.
Everyone seems incapable of putting themselves in the other person’s shoes.
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It’s really fucking simple. Just shut the fuck up and keep your observations the fuck to yourself.
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Maybe it’s a dear friend and you’re concerned about what the changes in their physique indicate about their lifestyle and their happiness... well then find a way to ask them about that! There are plenty of ways to ask someone how they’re doing and if they’re taking care of themselves without highlighting how it shows to everyone who looks at them.
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I live behind the scenes these days, working with people who struggle with their physiques and as a confident for friends. I know how sensitive a subject it is, even if they don’t show it and nervously laugh off comments.
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I grew up thinking it was an Asian thing, but then I realised that in Asia people (particularly older relatives) are particularly blunt about it with “Wah, so fat now ah?” whereas in the West people like to make it a joke with a “Ooh heck, you’ve let yourself go a bit eh mate!”.
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Both parties can go fuck themselves, and I’d love it if as many of you as possible who ever get made even slightly self-conscious about such remarks would take it upon yourselves to tell them so 🖕🏽
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Spread the word. Maybe, if it happens enough, we can sway the culture.
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💃🏻SEVENTEEN他們的《Adore U》開頭變化跟結尾變化都很用心的設計
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《Russian Roulette》Joy唱歌的這part,站在最後一位的熊瑟琪小姊姊,
總是會換各種不同的表情動作。Super Junior已經是很有名的愛搞怪前輩吧!看這《DEVIL》舞台即興就能感受到!Apink《I'm so sick》娜恩跟夏榮的part,動作時不時會更改。少女時代不能不提《lion heart》的打歌舞台,偏偏負責即興動作的是平常在團內超調皮的孝淵跟潤娥,每次動作都不一樣。SEVENTEEN他們的《Adore U》開頭變化跟結尾變化都很用心的設計。BTS泰亨一直變換表情,根本就是表情包。MAMAMOO《um oh ah yeh》頌樂和華莎每次對話都不同!EXO燦烈和世勳自由發揮的《power》part,每一次表現強壯的動作都不相同。NCT Dream《we young》上一秒楷燦才改變動作,下一秒成員們就得跟上。
宣美在這首《pporappippam》紫色的夜晚,展現時間的橋段,都會照著打歌節目的時間,去做舞蹈上的改變。TWICE除了影片開頭的《Alcohol-Free》外,娜璉在《knock knock》的開場手勢都會改變。
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【酷狗音乐已经上线: 杨家成 以父之名】
原唱Original: Jay Chou周杰倫
英語填詞English Lyrics: MrYang楊家成
翻唱Singer: MrYang楊家成,Cami陳晨溢
Re-arrangement編曲: 李鳴曦
MV拍攝團隊: MrYang's Team
导演: Joker Lin
攝影主機位:謝偉賢
攝影副機位: Joker Lin,羅盛旭,陳皖輝
剪輯: Joker Lin
編劇: Summer
道具: Summer, 番茄, Harry
Lyrics 歌詞:
The cool morning dew
微凉的晨露
moistened the black clothes
沾湿黑礼服
Fog on the stone road
石板路有雾
Priest just praying
父在低诉
Helpless consciousness
无奈的觉悟
only be more cruel
只能更残酷
Its all about the way to sanctuary road
一切都为了通往圣堂的路
The fog can't be blown
吹不散的雾
hiding all the truth
隐没了意图
Who gently walk to, Stop to
谁轻柔踱步 停住
There's no time to cry,through bullet hole
还来不及哭 穿过的子弹
body heat gone fool
就带走温度
We all sinners everybody
我们每个人都有罪
All have different sin hey
犯著不同的罪
I choose who is ok
我能决定谁对
Who should sleep for today
谁又该要沉睡
arguments can’t be solved
争论不能解决
The night is forever young
在永无止境的夜
Shut your big mouth
关掉你的嘴
The only thing is you pay
唯一的恩惠
The one who stand in front are guilty
挡在前面的人都有罪
There ain’t no way back to regret
后悔也无路可退
Judgment in the name of father
以父之名判决
That feeling doesnt fit in
那感觉没有适合字汇
Its like I’m laughing to cry
就像边笑边掉泪
looking at nothing tonight
凝视著完全的黑
The tragedy stops the pain untill the day I die
阻挡悲剧蔓延的悲剧会让我沉醉
Bow and kiss my left hand
低头亲吻我的左手
exchange for help if I you can
换取被宽恕的承诺
Bridge:
old organ in the corner
老旧管风琴在角落
like an instrumental
一直一直一直伴奏
The black curtain was blown by wind
黑色帘幕被风吹动
The sun lights through wordlessly
阳光无言的穿透
The tamed crazy animal came back to me suddenly
洒向那群被我驯服后的兽
To shout in silence, shout in silence
沉默的喊叫 沉默的喊叫
Loneliness begins to cry
孤单开始发酵
laughing at me from the sky
不停对著我嘲笑
Memories begins to play
回忆逐渐延烧
Innocence of me replay
曾经纯真的画面
Cruelty becomes name of game
残忍的温柔出现
Time for us to pray
脆弱时间到
I only pray for one more day
我们一起来祷告
Chorus副歌:
Oh Kind father, I have fallen into this world with no truth
仁慈的父 我已坠入看不见罪的国度
Forgive me please don’t be cruel
请原谅我的自负
Ah ya ya check it check it ah ya
哎呀呀听着听着哎呀
No one can say, no one will say
没人能说 没人可说
so hard to cope
好难承受
With glory it comes with baggages too
荣耀的背后刻著一道孤独
Ah ya ya check it check it ah ya
哎呀呀听着听着哎呀
Close my eyes and I see again
闭上双眼 我又看见
the dream that made me came to
当年那梦的画面
The night is pretty so smooth
天空是濛濛的雾
Ah ya ya check it check it ah ya
哎呀呀听着听着哎呀
oh father took my hands
父亲牵著我的双手
and gently came about
轻轻走过
Morning skies came to wake me up with the truth
清晨那安安静静的石板路
Ah ya ya check it check it ah ya
哎呀呀听着听着哎呀
Bridge:
Oh hey father
仁慈的父
The love we know
我已坠入
The kind of love we had
看不见罪的国度
We lost it all
请原谅我
We don’t know oh
我的自负
But we will move forward
刻着一道孤独