I am also struggling, but surprisingly my long distance partnerships are the ones that are fine right now. ❤️ As a relationship anarchist/polyamorist, I have varying degrees of connectedness with my partners. I also have a tendency to "fishbowl" when I'm left alone too long, and I overthink excessively.
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Now that I'm visiting no one (I hang out with 1 local partner weekly), I'm starting to doubt the strength or necessity of some of my relationships (not to forget, friendships). In normal times silly, less entangled relationships work for me as well as any other relationship, but right now when all we have is texting or video calls, those who are more aloof or shallow in our connections seem to disintegrate. The LDRs know how to maintain connection without physicality, but the others....
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I've decided that I'm not going to make any relationship status changes during this pandemic (at least on my end). No break ups, no big talks about feelings.... Because my feelings are coming from a place of despair, uncertainty, and frustration under unique circumstances that are undermining the validity of relationship models that I usually feel great in.
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I just hope we flatten the curve and find a miracle vaccine and get it under control. I do not do well in isolation. Who can relate? 🤗
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