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「好痛！」
低頭一看，兒子忽然拔起我的腿毛。
「把拔把拔，為什麼我沒有腿毛？」他邊拔邊問。
「長大就有了啊。」
得到答案後，他又拔了好幾根。
究竟是在玩還是真的好奇？
‘Ouch!’
I lower my head and see my son suddenly pluck out a hair on my leg.
‘Daddy, why don’t I have hairs on my legs?’ he asks as he plucks.
‘You’ll do when you grow up.’
He keeps plucking a few more after I answer his question.
Is he just playing or really curious about it?
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I have been told before that my hair was too dark to achieve a pastel look, and that my hair might snap after all the bleaching. It took me a year (more or less) to grow my hair to the length I had before I chop it off.
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Did not achieve the color that I envisioned last time due to the treatment I had a year before that. After 2 years, grew healthy hairs, we attempt this pastel feel again. Gila punya susah mo hilang tu treatment. 2 tahun masih lagi tu nda luntur. I almost gave up on pastel colors or any white and accepted the fact that my hair was just too dark.
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This took bleaching 3 times and till the roots (never bleach my roots before, the pain is no joke, it's like abrasions on your skin, why I never had it done). This time around coz I wanted to try it 🤣 we decided to just go ahead with it. Also, this is the longest process in comparison with my other sessions (almost 12 hours sebab relaxing main kucing, makan makan lagi hahaha 😜)
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My initial request was micro bangs with layered razorcut bob with bleaching so I could just throw any color that I decided to it later. But Ying being Ying, she suddenly had a burst of ideas, I just let her decide on the outcome of my hair and this is the end result. This is a mixture of silver and ash blue, there's a touch of purple in there soemwhere too, ngam kaitu? Loveeeeee ❤️❤️❤️ I have been wanting this tone for the longest time!!! OMFG! Finallyyyy, thank youuuu.
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Follow her page at @spectrum_bycaramel who knows you might win a free giveaway, she sometimes does free giveaway haircut and colors 🙈
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Such a heartwrenching retelling of why protective behavior and body safety is important for our little ones. Let’s give them a voice. ❤️
"To the other adults in the room this is fine.
A grown man looms behind my three-year-old daughter. Occasionally he will poke or tickle her and she responds by shrinking. Smaller and smaller with each unwanted advance. I imagine her trying to become slight enough to slip out of her booster seat and slide under the table.
When my mother views this scene, she sees playful taunting. A grandfather engaging with his granddaughter.
“Mae.” My tone cuts through the din of a familiar family gathering together. She does not look at me.
“Mae.” I start again. “You can tell him no Mae. If this isn’t okay you could say something like, Papa, please back up—I would like some space for my body.”
As I say the words, my step-father, the bulldog, leans in a little closer, hovering just above her head. His tenebrous grin taunts me as my daughter accordions her 30-pound frame hoping to escape his tickles and hot breath.
I repeat myself with a little more force. She finally peeks up at me.
“Mama…can you say it?” Surprise. A three-year-old-girl doesn’t feel comfortable defending herself against a grown man. A man that has stated he loves and cares for her over and over again, and yet, stands here showing zero concern for her wishes about her own body. I ready myself for battle.
“Papa! Please back up! Mae would like some space for her body.” My voice is firm but cheerful. He does not move.
“Papa. I should not have to ask you twice. Please back up. Mae is uncomfortable.”
“Oh, relax,” he says, ruffling her wispy blonde hair. The patriarchy stands, patronizing me in my own damn kitchen. “We’re just playin’.” His southern drawl does not charm me.
“No. You were playing. She was not. She’s made it clear that she would like some space, now please back up.”
“I can play how I want with her.” He says, straightening his posture. My chest tightens. The sun-bleached hairs on my arms stand at attention as this man, who has been my father figure for more than three decades, enters the battle ring.
“No. No, you cannot play however you want with her. It’s not okay to ‘have fun’ with someone who does not want to play.” He opens his mouth to respond but my rage is palpable through my measured response. I wonder if my daughter can feel it. I hope she can.
He retreats to the living room and my daughter stares up at me. Her eyes, a starburst of blue and hazel, shine with admiration for her mama. The dragon has been slayed (for now). My own mother is silent. She refuses to make eye contact with me.
This is the same woman who shut me down when I told her about a sexual assault I had recently come to acknowledge. This is the same woman who was abducted by a carful of strangers as she walked home one night. She fought and screamed until they kicked her out. Speeding away, they ran over her ankle and left her with a lifetime of physical and emotional pain. This is the same woman who said nothing, who could say nothing as her boss and his friends sexually harassed her for years. This is the same woman who married one of those friends.
When my mother views this scene, she sees her daughter overreacting. She sees me “making a big deal out of nothing.” Her concerns lie more in maintaining the status quo and cradling my step-dad’s toxic ego than in protecting the shrinking three-year-old in front of her.
When I view this scene, I am both bolstered and dismayed. My own strength and refusal to keep quiet is the result of hundreds, probably thousands of years of women being mistreated, and their protests ignored. It is the result of watching my own mother suffer quietly at the hands of too many men. It is the result of my own mistreatment and my solemn vow to be part of ending this cycle.
It would be so easy to see a little girl being taught that her wishes don’t matter. That her body is not her own. That even people she loves will mistreat and ignore her. And that all of this is “okay” in the name of other people, men, having fun.
But. What I see instead is a little girl watching her mama. I see a little girl learning that her voice matters. That her wishes matter. I see a little girl learning that she is allowed and expected to say no. I see her learning that this is not okay.
I hope my mom is learning something, too.
November 21, 2018
Fighting the patriarchy one grandpa at a time
By Lisa Norgren
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Happy Tuesday! Sorry this week's upload came a little late; my new laptop was put on backorder and the laptop I'm working on rn is super slow but trust we will be back on our regularly scheduled content soon ?
FIRST OF ALL!! I filmed this at the studio and left my frizz fighter at home so if you also have a lot of baby hairs/your hair tends to stand up, remember to use that asldkgha; I didn't realize how bad it was until I looked back at the footage (×﹏×)
This video has been requested for a LONG time now...I think I've done a total of like. 2 hair tutorials on my channel lol and they're both on how to curl hair, so today's video is on how to STYLE curled hair (specifically 2nd day hair)
(¬‿¬ ) hope u like it! I don't branch out of my regular hairstyle often, but these are some cute looks to do when I want to try something new or want to make second day hair look like first day hair lol
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