Let’s talk about today. I got so many messages and feel like since it happened so publicly during my live stream, I can’t not address it. I was at a march for animal rights, doing a live stream here on Instagram, when I heard screams and crying. I actually noticed the couple a few minutes before but felt like it wasn’t my place to do anything. However seeing the guy starting to manhandle the girl was so scary, it just didn’t matter if it was “my place” or not anymore. Nobody deserves to be treated like that. We walked over and stood between them, and we called the police. He yelled, yanked her hand, physically picked her up. We stayed with her until he stormed off, and she said she was ok. Context is everything, but abusive behavior is one of the things that cannot be explained away. I don’t know if what we did was the right thing to do, maybe he’s even more upset now. I don’t know their story, I don’t know what she’s feeling. But I hope that if there’s one good thing about this situation today, it’s that you have to stand up for what you believe in. Look at the girl stepping in. She must have been scared. I know I was. Standing close to someone who’s lashing out like that... that’s the reason I didn’t turn off the live stream at first. It’s good to have witnesses, in case things get ugly. I really don’t know what the right thing is, I only know pretending you don’t see something and walking away is not. I hope she’s ok. I hope she knows there will always be people to support her. I hope whatever might happen to you, you know it’s ok to reach out for help, and that love doesn’t accept violence in any way, shape or form. You are never supposed to be scared of someone you love. It’s not your fault. Nothing you do or say or wear or think makes it ok for anyone to act disrespectfully towards you. It’s ok to call the police on someone who hurts you, even if you love them. Not all violence is physical. Respect yourself. Respect everyone around you. I hope he will be ok, too, and he will learn to control his temper, and that he knows people are not afraid to stand up to him. So.. yeah. Dunno how to end this. Be safe guys. Take care, I love you.
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Let’s talk about today. I got so many messages and feel like since it happened so publicly during my live stream, I can’t not address it. I was at a march for animal rights, doing a live stream here on Instagram, when I heard screams and crying. I actually noticed the couple a few minutes before but felt like it wasn’t my place to do anything. However seeing the guy starting to manhandle the girl was so scary, it just didn’t matter if it was “my place” or not anymore. Nobody deserves to be treated like that. We walked over and stood between them, and we called the police. He yelled, yanked her hand, physically picked her up. We stayed with her until he stormed off, and she said she was ok. Context is everything, but abusive behavior is one of the things that cannot be explained away. I don’t know if what we did was the right thing to do, maybe he’s even more upset now. I don’t know their story, I don’t know what she’s feeling. But I hope that if there’s one good thing about this situation today, it’s that you have to stand up for what you believe in. Look at the girl stepping in. She must have been scared. I know I was. Standing close to someone who’s lashing out like that... that’s the reason I didn’t turn off the live stream at first. It’s good to have witnesses, in case things get ugly. I really don’t know what the right thing is, I only know pretending you don’t see something and walking away is not. I hope she’s ok. I hope she knows there will always be people to support her. I hope whatever might happen to you, you know it’s ok to reach out for help, and that love doesn’t accept violence in any way, shape or form. You are never supposed to be scared of someone you love. It’s not your fault. Nothing you do or say or wear or think makes it ok for anyone to act disrespectfully towards you. It’s ok to call the police on someone who hurts you, even if you love them. Not all violence is physical. Respect yourself. Respect everyone around you. I hope he will be ok, too, and he will learn to control his temper, and that he knows people are not afraid to stand up to him. So.. yeah. Dunno how to end this. Be safe guys. Take care, I love you.
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What have I ever done to make you treat me so disrespectfully?除了Friendship,《教父》出現得最多的另一個字眼是Respect,最好當然是人人有份永不落空,偏偏江湖恩怨正源於有人感到不被尊重。Spect-這個英文字根的意思是看,所以respect就是「別人怎樣看待你,你怎看待別人」的問題。
沙特說得對:Other people is hell. 不想煩惱看來看去的最好方法,就是與他人保持距離,一旦建立關係,你就會在意別人怎看你,你亦害怕得失了他人。尊重亦是一條矛盾律,親疏與尊重往往成反比,最親最認識你的人會當你無到,相反萍水相逢者會懂得敬重你欣賞你。
以我為例,你們讀者很尊敬我,會耐心研讀我所寫的字句,相反我的朋友卻大多不屑一顧,他們都知道我會寫東西,但寫了甚麼呢?Who cares?No,所以我老早就放棄在朋友身上找尋尊重和肯定。注定徒勞,Friends should always underestimate your virtues。
這種想法可能有害的,二子Fredo在家裡沒有地位,感受不了尊重,於是投靠外人尋求肯定,結果做出了損害家族利益的事。跟外人才享受到友誼的甜美,手指自然拗出唔拗入。
問題更艱深是:外人怎會比親人更愛你呢?為甚麼你對父母的態度會比對朋友差勁呢?你沒法處理這個反比的話,你就會在交際中失望而回。
因為至親的連繫是天生的,你不需要做甚麼去贏取母愛,但朋友的愛呢?你就要花心思去經營,友誼比親情蘊含更大動力因,要付出才可把人與人的距離拉近,而前提正正是互相尊重。與親人本來已經那麼親近,尊重就變得次要。
但問題再複雜一點。耶穌說:「先知除了在本家之外,沒有一個不受尊敬的。」所以他回到拿撒勒的時候,拒絕施行大神蹟,「因為他們不信」。不信甚麼?不信這個由細睇到大的木匠之子、死廢青居然可以呼風喚雨,能言善道。說明甚麼?說明認識你的人不會願意再認識你,而只有不認識你的人樂意。
友誼去到這個層面變得難搞,耶穌變相對拿撒人說:「我不需要你們做我的朋友,我已經有很多外邦人爭做朋友。」陌生的珍視比熟悉的嗟來之食彌足珍貴,新人把舊人比下去,人的友誼之路注定忘本。到最終,人需要的不是知己,而是無形的觀眾。
怎讓人人仰望?就是變得偉大,陌生人以為你非常偉大,偏偏識得嘅就覺得你不堪,相反,他人覺得你偉大,亦有可能是高估你。Johnny在外人眼中是矚目的巨星,在Michael心裡只不過是父親眾多契仔之一。Kay發現Michael認識Johnny後,感到難以置信:「Michael, you never told me you knew Johnny Fontane!」
Michael冷淡回應:「 Sure, you want to meet him?」Johnny每次來到,都是有求於教父,其實是裙腳仔。Johnny見教父這一幕,完全睇到佢有幾弱雞。內容不文字轉述了,你自己看:
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=idP5-vtkhBE
我想你留意末段當大仔Sonny進房時,教父Vito的反應。他眼尾稍到Sonny來了,然後向Johnny問了一個不關事的問題:「Tell me, do you spend time with your family?」
「Sure I am.」
「Good. Because a man who doesn't spend time with his family can never be a real man.」教父偷看Sonny的反應,他顯得有點慚愧,因為他背着老婆包二奶,換言之父親剛才係畀說話佢聽。Vito這招真是高明,面斥Sonny他不會聽,但在兒子面前讚許外人,卻非常湊效,可逼使兒子為了贏回父親尊重而改變。
明天再講更厲害的東西。
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