[出走地平線:大海]
Flattening The Curve: The Big Sea
我隨海成長,三歲懂得游泳,七至八歲已滑浪。每逢上學、午餐甚至放學時間,都會跟同學到海灘游水。如果衝浪得爽,甚至有些日子會逃學。
我在海邊認識第一位女友,所以大海跟女人於我是環環相扣:大海像女人,時隨風浪轉變,無限可能,熱情有活力,又深邃難測。
當我選擇離開澳洲,二話不說是隨海而去。我在貨輪找份差事,隨航從悉尼經非洲到歐洲。貨輪全長四百米,滿載層層集裝箱,由32位船員操作。
一開始,我由普通海員(OS)做起。
油漆船身,擦擦甲板。一日比一日享受奇妙無比的「大海」。
海員一般只受聘於特定時間。只要時辰到,新人便加入,舊人會上岸。
在杜拜,有五個印尼新海員加入。貨輪雖然靠岸,但其中兩位海員一上船便不停嘔吐,暈船浪。
「似乎不太好」水手長跟我說。
「他們明顯沒有出過海。」
五人中有兩個被分派到甲板工作,兩人操作機房,餘下一人做舵工﹐駕駛貨輪 。
我們在大海工作幾小時,船長召喚我到駕駛室。
那名印尼舵工站在方向盤前,害怕得顫抖。因為前方有一首巨輪朝我們方向駛來,我們要熟練地控制方向盤避免相撞。
我看著船長命令印尼舵工改變航向5度,避免跟對家相撞。
在國際水域,不論你來自何方都要接受英語下達的指令 。印尼船員聽到後說「是,長官﹗」但沒有任何舉動。
前方輪船越來迫近。船長再說「接著左舵10度﹗」
「是,長官﹗」印尼海員依然無動於衷。
情況越來越壞,巨輪在咫尺之間。
船長面向舵工說「你顯然之前沒做過,完全不明白任何一個該死的指令﹗」
「是,長官﹗」舵工再回應。船長旋即命令我「Chris,你來掌舵。看在老天份上,立刻左舵15度﹗﹗﹗」
「是,長官﹗」舵工跟我又一起應聲。我手執方向盤,花盡狗牛二虎之力扭左。
I grew up by the sea. I was swimming at the age of three and surfing around 7 or 8. Schoolmates and I would go to the beach before school, during lunch break and as soon as classes were over. If the surf was really good, we wouldn't even go to school on those days.
I met my first girlfriend by the sea. So the sea and women have always seem connected to me: the sea is like a woman: always changing with its winds and tides, endless, embracing, refreshing and deep.
So when I decided to leave Australia, of course the only way for me was by sea. I took a job on a Container Ship, sailing from Sydney to Europe via Africa. The ship was about 400 metres, piled high with containers and manned by a crew of 32.
I started as what is called an Ordinary Seaman ( OS ) .
Painting the hull, scrubbing the decks. Each day enjoying more and more the wonder of “the big sea”.
Seamen are contracted for a certain period so occasionally some new crew arrive when its time for others to go.
In Dubai, five new Indonesian crewmen joined the ship. We were docked, two of them started throwing up, seasick.
“This doesn't look very promising” the Bosun ( crew leader ) says to me.
“They have obviously never been to sea.”
Two of the five are supposed to work on deck. Two in the engine room. One as Quartermaster operating the wheel that drives the ship.
We have been at sea a couple of hours. The captain calls me to the bridge.
The Indonesian “quartermaster” is standing at the wheel, shaking with fear. There is another large ship heading our way. We have to manoeuvre to avoid crashing into it.
I watch as the captain orders the Indonesian guy in English to adjust course by five degrees to avoid the oncoming boat.
Inside international waters, no matter where you ship or you come from all orders are given in English. The guy replies “ Yes sir!” but does nothing .
The oncoming ship is getting closer. “Ten degrees Port is the next order.”
“Yes sir” the Indoneseian once again replies. But again nothing happens.
It’s no looking good. The ship is getting closer.
The captain turns to the “quartermaster and says ; “ You obviously have never done this before and you don’t understand a bloody word I am saying do you”.
“Yes sir” comes the reply. The captain turns to me “Take the wheel Chris. And for God’s turn us fifteen degrees Port right now!!!!”
“Yes sir!” both the guy and I reply. As I take over the wheel and turn it as hard Port as I can.
攝於拍攝電影《海洋天堂》(2010)
Photo was taken in shooting "Ocean Heaven" (2010)
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關於教育
留意不同的country例如:England, Scotland, Wales & Northern Ireland可能會有不同的制度,我主要以England來分享我的經驗
Early Year: 5歲以下的小朋友並不是強迫上學的,3-4歲的小朋友可以入讀nursery,每年有38星期可以有15小時免費的nursery education
雖然5歲才係一定要入學,但我住的county係4歲就可以入讀year Reception(簡稱year R), 家長可以申請defer等小朋友夠5歲先入讀year 1, 但是因為學校是由year R開始,year 1申請時就要看學校還有沒有位才能收到,所以大部份小朋友都會在year R的統一派位時就申請入學了~
以Hampshire County Council來做例子
統一派位for year R & year 3的報名日期通常在11月至來年1月中,然後4月中放榜
統一派位for year 7的報名日期通常在9月至來年10月尾,然後3月頭放榜
如果趕不上這個統一派位就要in-year application,申請日期大概是6月頭,我們上年是6月10日交申請,然後兩日內已經收到兩兄弟的學校回覆
要申請學校,一定要有住址證明:
如果買樓,要提供律師信證明exchange of contracts
如果租樓,要提供簽好的租約,通常要12個月或以上,租約期一定要長過在入學後的時間
如果本身已有住址,就提供證明
如果搬去和其他人住,就要有那人的信證明這安排,另外要有兩份證明你是這個住址的住戶證明,例如車牌、銀行信、最近的水電媒氣單之類
當有學校收了,家長去註冊時就要帶埋住址證明去學校做註冊手續
報學校的程序
類似香港小學,以校網黎劃分,越近機會越大,當然也有其他因素影響,例如有無特別教育需要、有沒有兄弟姊妹在該校就讀,有沒有父母在家任教等等~
這裡報學校可以選3間學校排次序,如果3間都有位就會安排志願排較前的學校
選學校的其中一個參考可以看各學校的收生數據,知道各學校受歡迎程度
Hampshire County 有個數據提供往年各學校關於收生的資料,例如:每間學校的計劃收生人數,報每間學校的人數,他們是由哪個條件去取錄等等,頗詳細的,雖然唔同County可能有不一樣,但相信都會有相似的數據,有興趣可以望望
https://www.hants.gov.uk/educationandlearning/admissions/data
另外就是參考學校的Ofsted report
Find an Ofsted inspection report
https://www.gov.uk/find-ofsted-inspection-report
政府網頁有不同學校的比較
Find and compare schools in England
https://www.gov.uk/school-performance-tables
Key Stage 1 (大概是4-6歲) 就是year R year 1 & year 2
這3年的小朋友會在infant school返學,有些學校會提供由year R - year 6或再高的年級,但普遍都會分開infant school,然後再升到junior school
每間學校的功課量會不一樣,以我小朋友為例,每天都要做的就是讀書,他們會每天在學校換一本書,然後回來讀,紀錄再帶回校。半個學期一次功課,一個學期一次project,雖然功課好像不多,但他們每天都會在學校學phonics,寫作,數學,美術,D&T等等~每天有故事時間,另外定期會檢查小朋友串字情況,約半個學期會有一天家長可以去看他們在學校的習作,然後約每個學期會有一次小朋友的小演出給家長看~
Key Stage 2 (大概是7-10歲)就是year 3 - year 6
通常叫junior school,政府學校跟National Curriculum的科目包括:English, Mathematics, Science, Design Technology, History, Geography, Art and Design, Music, Physical Education (PE) including swimming, computing, Ancient and modern Foreign Languages, Religious Education。
雖然有這麼多不同學科,但學校多以不同的主題來貫通各個學科
哥哥的每天功課也是讀書,每星期會有一些串字,在學校有不同的寫作,研究,一個學期一次project,當他們完成專題研究,學校會邀請家長去看他們的成果
和香港的功課默書測驗考試量來比較,實在是開心太多了!還有,這裡放假就真的是放假,幾乎都沒有功課的!❤️
每一個Key Stage完都會有考評,但這個考評不影響學生,只影響學校的砰級,且也沒有操練
11+ 考評(不是必需考的)
如果想入private schools或政府的grammar schools,就需要報考這個試
因為是在year 6 開學不久考,所以小朋可能year 4/5就要開始準備
接著就是
Key Stage 3 (大概是11-14歲)就是year 7 - year 9)
Key Stage 4 (大概是14-16歲)就是year 10 - year 11)
Key Stage 5 (大概是16-18歲)就是year 12 - year 13)
因為我的小朋友還未到
所以我還未仔細研究 😂
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【要麵包也要愛情】LOVE AND BREAD PLEASE
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看了三個小時的風水後, 看到一台販賣機猶如久旱逢甘露的感覺。
有些客人會請我喝水,有的客人問也不問。我個人是沒有邊看風水,邊喝東西的習慣,但客人的大方和體貼程度,我都會銘記在心,因為這些會決定我能佈多少福給這戶家人。
許多客人常常用「詳細」這字眼來形容我的服務。
我如何確保每一次都能把風水看好?
把它當成自己的家來看,自他互換。
如果我也面對債務問題,錢不夠用的困擾,工作上的煩惱,我會希望那位風水師為我做什麼?
許多人不是本來就相信風水的,尤其是在新加坡這樣洋化的社會裡,因此他們會來請我,是真的很大的心態上的轉變。
所以我會覺得自己有這責任在短短的兩小時相處裡,讓他們看到風水的珍貴價值。
對一個凡夫來說,人生變幻莫測,因為大多數的人
一個家庭,先由兩個人開始相愛,認定彼此是要長相廝守的人後,而決定在一起,心裡希望著是一生一世。
然後他們就決定買一個家,結婚,再成家。依哪一個次序,就看這對情侶有多會規劃自己的人生了。
我們經過社會的薰陶,父母的教導,認定這就是前往幸福的道路,是人生的最終目標。
接著,很多事情就開始發生了。
有的客人會問我,他們幾時會有這福氣能有孩子。
我告訴他們,每個生命都是可貴的,但不是每個孩子都是福氣來投。
兩個曾經發誓要愛到海枯石爛的人,可以因為育兒而鬧意見分歧。如果這婚姻的方程式裡還參雜了雙方父母,那這意見就會鬧得如世界大戰三那種規模了。
如果孩子很難養,常常生病,再相愛的人都會有壓力。現在又輪到誰請假來照顧孩子了?
你知道為孩子付出那麽多,最辛苦的是什麼嗎?對有些人而言,是當孩子依然「不爭氣」,讀不好書時。家裡面對的問題,現在也變成學校的問題,自己在家罵孩子還不夠,還要聽到學校的老師講一輪給你聽。
有些父母最心痛的是當孩子忤逆他們時。
我發現一個現象。有時,家裡最多麻煩事的,往往都是那些事業沒什麼問題的人。
如果他們的事業很多問題,往往家裡的孩子不怎麼會給他們頭痛,伴侶也算善解人意。
可能你就會說,這就是所謂的「公平」,因為人生不可能都盡你所願。
我說,那是廢話。說到底,是你福不夠,才不能夠都如你意。
有些八字是真的不要結婚比較好,不要生孩子比較開心。但既然我們無法改變過去,我們就來好好地看看你家的風水。
一個負債累累,常常週轉不靈的人,他的家就是長那個樣,裡頭的氣處處都阻塞。
古曰:上樑不正下樑歪。為什麼孩子那麽無禮?很多時候,因為父母也是如此,只是自己不察覺,那自自然然居家環境也會有孕育無禮後代的格式。
如果你的家死氣沈沈,你的事業便會停滯不前。
如果你的居家擺設擺在不對的卦位上,你就會常常在富與貧的邊緣掙扎著,渴望有幸福和富足,卻又遙不可及。
我個人認為,最大的問題就是很多人很習慣受苦受難。那是多麼愚蠢的想法!
有的客人私訊我說,要看風水批八字,另一方面又說什麼他們的人生沒什麼問題。很自我矛盾和自欺欺人的心態。
正式見面時,我說的越多,就會發現其實他們人生的問題可多呢!
他們彷彿被洗腦,覺得人生有很多問題是正常的。
不是這樣的,你根本不必硬去吃這個苦的。
就算和同事吃飯,每每都是在埋怨伴侶,或為孩子的事互相訴苦,不要以為人生有問題才叫正常人生。
如果真是這樣,那請問我們何必天天做得像頭牛一樣,換來的結果就是不快樂呢?這不是笨,是什麼?
一個沒有情的房子不會形成一個家。
一個有愛卻沒有錢的家,也無法擁有長久的快樂。
我不確定你是怎麼想,但我覺得要維持一個家,錢財是不可缺的。
我目睹我的父母如何因為沒有錢而吵架。
他們常常為了錢財事務而起爭執,然後,就什麼事都可以吵起來了。
年幼的我無法明白,每一次看著父母美麗的結婚照時,我都會問自己,明明好不容易才在一起的兩個人,怎麼可以吵到好像夙敵一樣?
到底哪裡出錯了?
後來分析他們的八字,再想到兒時的居住環境,才恍然大悟。
我自己也不確定今天要寫的是什麼,但每一次我見完一個客人,都會有許多感觸。
有時,我會難過,看到一些客人看不清自己的思想錯誤,或缺乏決心去改變自己的人生。
我從不放棄任何一個人,但往往有的人把自己的人生搞砸了後,會放棄改變自己。
兩年前,我看了映輝家的風水。據聞,他現在做的很不錯。我希望,不只是愛情和金錢方面,心靈和身體健康也一樣好。
他在九月份時寫了這感謝函給我。我很開心收到這信。
新加坡人普遍教育水平都很高,但是很多人根本沒有這個知識,去改善他們的命運。羅盤在手,我當然希望可以幫助越多人越好,但條件是,他們必須願意改變自己。
如果你想深入地認識你的命運,在2020年迎接新的人生,歡迎聯絡我。
www.qianyu.sg/consultations
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That’s me, delighted to find a vending machine after a 3-hour Feng Shui audit.
I was not offered any drink by the client. Haha, no lah, I think they did, but I don’t have a habit of drinking when I am on my feet working. Then again there are also clients who do not bother and I will make a mental note of their generosity. 😉
If there is one word my clients often used to describe my services, it would be — detailed.
How do I make sure I do my Feng Shui audit well?
By always imagining that it is my own home.
Put myself into the shoes of the client.
If I am facing debt problems, cash flow problems, work issues, what do I hope for the Feng Shui master to do for me?
Many people are not inherent believers of Feng Shui, especially in a Westernised society like Singapore, so for them to take the step to engage me is a very big mindset shift.
So I take it upon myself for them to see the value of Feng Shui, in the short 2 hours I have with them.
Life can be unpredictable.
It all starts out from two persons falling in love and deciding to commit each other, hopefully, for the rest of their lives.
Then they buy a house, get married and start a family. In whichever order, depending on how well-planned the couple is.
That is supposed to be the route to happiness and eventual destination in Life, as we are all taught by societal norms.
Then things just start happening.
I have clients asking me when they can get blessed with children.
I tell them, every life is precious but not every child is a blessing.
Two persons, who vow to love each other till the oceans dry out and the stones rot, can be torn apart because of parenting differences. Put in-laws in the marriage equation, and the differences blow up to WWIII proportions.
If the child is “difficult” or often sick, it puts a strain on the parents. So whose turn is it now to take paternity leave?
You know what is the hardest part after giving so much to your children? For some, it is when their children are not academically inclined - in other words, cannot study. Problems at home also become problems at school. As if scolding the children at home isn’t enough, now you have to listen to the teachers telling you.
For others, it is when their children defy them.
I notice a trend though. Sometimes it’s parents who are doing fine in their career, that seem to have the most prominent problems at home.
If their career is full of problems, their children do not give much headache and they also have an understanding spouse.
And you say, that’s why people tell you you can’t have it all, because that is how Life is being “fair”.
I say that’s rubbish. Fact is, you do not have enough good fortune to have all these good in your life. You know how to use your good fortune, but you do not know how to replenish it. So when it's gone, you are left with never-ending problems.
It’s true some Bazi are better off not married or having any children. But since we cannot reversed what had happened, your best bet is to take a long hard look at your home Feng Shui.
A person in debts or with cash flow problems will have a home that look just like that. A home of stuck energies.
There’s a Chinese saying: If the upper beam is not straight, the lower beam will be crooked. Why do you have children who are rude? Chances are that the parents themselves are such, but they do not realise.
And the home environment will have living patterns that breeds such insolence.
If your home has dead energies, your career get stuck.
If your home arrangement is not aligned to receive auspicious energies, you will always find yourself struggling for happiness and prosperity.
The problem I find with people is they are very used to suffering.
And that is dumb.
I have clients who write to me, saying that they are not facing much problems, but just want to see Feng Shui or Bazi.
Then during the analysis, the more I say, the more worms come swimming out from the can.
It is terrifying that they are conditioned to think that it is normal that Life is full of problems.
It is not. It should not be.
Even if all that you and your colleagues gossip and whine about over lunch is each other’s spouse and children, it is not NORMAL that things should be wrong.
Why would we work so hard in everything only to be unhappy? Is that stupid or what?
A house that has no love cannot be a home.
A home that has only love and no money always struggle to find lasting happiness.
I’m not sure about you, but I think money is essential to keep a family going.
I saw how the lack of money drove a wedge between my parents.
They fought over money, and then, everything else also become “quarrel-able”.
I couldn’t understand why, and every time I look at my parents’ nice studio wedding photo, I kept asking myself how could two persons who went through so much together fight as if they are each other’s foe?
Just what went wrong?
I got my answer when I could analyse their Bazi and recall the Feng Shui of my childhood home.
I’m not sure what I really want to write over here, because there is so much going on in my mind every time I see a client.
I sometimes feel so sad for the client who cannot see his/her problems or lack the resolve to work things out.
I don’t give up on anybody, but there are people who give up changing themselves after creating a mess in their own lives.
I saw the Feng Shui of Yeng Hwee’s house 2 years ago. Last I heard, he is doing well. And I hope both in love and money, and of course, health too.
He dropped me this thank-you note in September, which I was really happy to receive.
There are many highly educated people in Singapore, but unfortunately, not many are educated on how to transform their destinies, much less that of their loved ones. With my Luo Pan in hand, I aspire to help as many people as possible, but only if they are willing to work on themselves. So would you be the next one?
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