DECODING JEALOUSY
Jealousy isn’t as bad of an emotion that it seems to be. Feeling jealous doesn’t mean you’re a bad person.
In my coaching experience, it is often an accurate signpost to your deep desire.
I used to have a hard time feeling jealous of another female entrepreneur. She was beautiful, young, successful, and famous. Her organisation has touched hundreds of thousands lives.
The more I checked her Facebook status, Instagram updates, Youtube videos, websites…, the more insecure I felt.
Until I took a deep breath and ask myself one question:
“𝐖𝐡𝐚𝐭 𝐝𝐨𝐞𝐬 𝐬𝐡𝐞 𝐡𝐚𝐯𝐞 𝐭𝐡𝐚𝐭 𝐈 𝐝𝐞𝐞𝐩𝐥𝐲 𝐝𝐞𝐬𝐢𝐫𝐞?”
The answer came instantly:
"She is putting herself out there in a big way to serve the world".
When I got clear about my heart’s desire, I could begin to work on it. Now I feel inspired when I think of her achievement.
So if you’re feeling envious towards some one, ask yourself the same question. Uncover your desire and do the work it takes to fulfil it.
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When people talk bad and treat others badly, they are projecting their negative behaviour, insensitivity and cruelty because they have something wrong with them. It's a reflection of their unhappiness, insecurity and inadequacy in their life.
Dealing with negative and toxic people is common in our lives, it can be our friends, colleagues, family members and random people or strangers who come to you when they need something or trying to get to know you.
If a person behaving negatively, disrespectful, disregard feelings, ignore boundaries and continue to talk and treat you in a harmful or hateful way, let these people go. Some people are evil, hateful, spiteful, sneaky and try to use people for their benefit.
Some people stand up to bad behaviour and choose to do nothing about it. Some people behaviours are one of the reasons which may constitute why animals are far better than humans.
For me, I may be nice and I treat people to the best I could. But if you continue to disrespect, use, rude, manipulative, envious, vengeful, cynical, bully, fake and all the negativity and cruel behaviour, I will not tolerate it. There are no rooms or vacancies for these people in my life.
I'm not naive, I know things, I know what I want and I only respect people who are total genuine with me. If you need help, do it properly. If you want to talk or ask things, do it nicely. Never assume. People's life is not your business. Always think then say and act accordingly. Behave appropriately. Be mindful. Change for the better.
If you are behaving negatively because you were once destroyed, stop destroying other people just because you want them to feel the same. Change your behaviour, be more matured, find wisdom and peace.
To those people who have handled many people in their walks of life, they are people who are willing to change and they are people who refuse and don't want to change for betterment. Truth be told, you can't change everybody. You can't expect everyone to be kind.
Time is limited. If we are still breathing, we still can fix what's wrong and improve our behaviour and quality of life.
Have some respect for yourself to become a better person.
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❌No money
❌No background
❌No connections
When I started my business 10 years ago, I had been in Singapore for less than 2 years. I barely knew anyone. I didn’t come from money and I didn’t have any background in business.
What I had was just a mentality that I have nothing to lose. I come from nothing anyway. 🤷🏻♀️
So if i fail, I may lose some pride but life is not over.
It is OVER when you’re not living it to your full potential. When you see other people living the life you want, and you feel envious. Deep down you know you have it in you.
I’m sharing this because I want you to see that if I can do it, you can too. There’s really nothing special about me.🤷🏻♀️
If starting a purposeful business from home has always been your dream, start today.
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