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Happy 56th birthday, Singapore! 🇸🇬

We didn't do anything fanciful today but instead stayed home to have an intimate family celebration. It was a day that I needed because truth be told, I am still trying to mend the pieces and move on slowly but surely.

The kids and I woke up to catch the ceremonial parade together and then my parents came over for lunch. We ordered nasi lemak for takeaway and spent the afternoon looking through my childhood pictures and all the pictures of popo that I compiled (I did it over the past few nights when I couldn't sleep). We talked about the past, talked about her final days, I told my parents about my regrets and guilt, we talked about death - something which we have never done so - but not in a morbid way. In fact, I was thankful to find out what they would like us to do for them when the day comes. The topics were heavy, but in a sense, the chats allowed me to process my grief and loss a little better and I know we are all in it together.

My dad and I then took the kids to the playground and bought bubble tea before we headed home to watch Mr Unbelievable and ate a simple steamboat dinner prepared by the hubby. We managed to take this photo before calling it a night because I now realise more than ever on how pictures are priceless and can mean so much to me.

Thank you, Singapore, for giving me this home and family that I love so much. I'm always so proud to be a part of you. ❤

We did it before, and we'll do it again.

#ahappymum #happynationalday #happybirthdaysingapore #proudtobesingaporean #familyiseverything

𝐑𝐄𝐆𝐈𝐒𝐓𝐄𝐑𝐄𝐃 𝐂𝐎𝐔𝐍𝐒𝐄𝐋𝐋𝐎𝐑
𝐖𝐀𝐍𝐓𝐄𝐃 𝐚𝐭 𝐗𝐈𝐀𝐎 𝐄𝐍!

Job Type : Permanent
Job Vacancy : 1 full time position available
Industry : Funeral & Bereavement Care
Location : Cheras, KL
Specialism : Humanities & Social Sciences
Report to : Advisor of Counselling & Support
Submit a CV to: counselling@xiao-en.com.my
Open Date：Friday 19.3.2021, 10AM
Closing Date : Monday 29.3.2021, 10AM

**𝑷𝒍𝒆𝒂𝒔𝒆 𝒏𝒐𝒕𝒆 𝒕𝒉𝒂𝒕 𝒐𝒏𝒍𝒚 𝒔𝒉𝒐𝒓𝒕-𝒍𝒊𝒔𝒕𝒆𝒅 𝒄𝒂𝒏𝒅𝒊𝒅𝒂𝒕𝒆𝒔 𝒘𝒊𝒍𝒍 𝒃𝒆 𝒄𝒐𝒏𝒕𝒂𝒄𝒕𝒆𝒅 𝒇𝒐𝒓 𝒊𝒏𝒕𝒆𝒓𝒗𝒊𝒆𝒘𝒔.**

𝐀. 𝐉𝐨𝐛 𝐅𝐮𝐧𝐜𝐭𝐢𝐨𝐧𝐬:
• Provide grief counselling and support to bereaved children, teenagers, adults, and families.
• Provide crisis intervention, counselling, follow-up and debriefing calls, and referrals to community resources as needed.
• Research, organise, direct, and coordinate special grief and support services as assigned.
• Provide education and support to the community as available through presentations, training workshops, and outreach programmes.

𝐁. 𝐑𝐞𝐪𝐮𝐢𝐫𝐞𝐦𝐞𝐧𝐭𝐬:
• Bachelor’s Degree / Post Graduate Diploma / Master’s Degree in Counselling, Education, or related field.
• Minimum 2 years of working experience in the following preferred areas: hospice & palliative care, funeral and bereavement care, grief and loss counselling, support groups, case management, life and death studies, or health education.
• Must be able to read, write, and speak in Mandarin and English. Basic conversational skills in Cantonese, Hakka, or Hokkien will occasionally be required.
• Valid driver’s license and good driving record.
• Able to work independently with minimum supervision.
• Able to work on public holidays or weekends.
• Physical ability to perform job duties with occasionally exposure to the sun and heat.

𝐂. 𝐂𝐨𝐫𝐞 𝐂𝐨𝐦𝐩𝐞𝐭𝐞𝐧𝐜𝐢𝐞𝐬:
• Curious, passionate, and care about death and bereavement support.
• Exhibit good judgment in dealing with grief and loss issues.
• Experience and education in leading support groups.
• Maintain and respect professional and personal boundaries.
• Approach situations with clarity, flexibility, professionalism, and dependability.
• Demonstrate ability to be self-directed, flexible and cooperative in fulfilling role obligation, and ability to work effectively within an interdisciplinary team.
• Demonstrate understanding of the principles of grief and loss and the skills needed to assist the bereaved in the healing process.

**𝑹𝒆𝒎𝒖𝒏𝒆𝒓𝒂𝒕𝒊𝒐𝒏 𝒘𝒊𝒍𝒍 𝒄𝒐𝒎𝒎𝒆𝒏𝒔𝒖𝒓𝒂𝒕𝒆 𝒘𝒊𝒕𝒉 𝒓𝒆𝒍𝒆𝒗𝒂𝒏𝒕 𝒒𝒖𝒂𝒍𝒊𝒇𝒊𝒄𝒂𝒕𝒊𝒐𝒏, 𝒔𝒌𝒊𝒍𝒍𝒔, 𝒂𝒏𝒅 𝒘𝒐𝒓𝒌𝒊𝒏𝒈 𝒆𝒙𝒑𝒆𝒓𝒊𝒆𝒏𝒄𝒆 𝒐𝒇 𝒕𝒉𝒆 𝒔𝒖𝒄𝒄𝒆𝒔𝒔𝒇𝒖𝒍 𝒄𝒂𝒏𝒅𝒊𝒅𝒂𝒕𝒆𝒔.**

𝐑𝐄𝐆𝐈𝐒𝐓𝐄𝐑𝐄𝐃 𝐂𝐎𝐔𝐍𝐒𝐄𝐋𝐋𝐎𝐑
𝐖𝐀𝐍𝐓𝐄𝐃 𝐚𝐭 𝐗𝐈𝐀𝐎 𝐄𝐍!

Job Type : Permanent
Job Vacancy : 1 full time position available
Industry : Funeral & Bereavement Care
Location : Cheras, KL
Specialism : Humanities & Social Sciences
Report to : Advisor of Counselling & Support
Submit a CV to: counselling@xiao-en.com.my

Open Date：Friday 19.3.2021, 10AM
Closing Date : Monday 29.3.2021, 10AM
**𝑷𝒍𝒆𝒂𝒔𝒆 𝒏𝒐𝒕𝒆 𝒕𝒉𝒂𝒕 𝒐𝒏𝒍𝒚 𝒔𝒉𝒐𝒓𝒕-𝒍𝒊𝒔𝒕𝒆𝒅 𝒄𝒂𝒏𝒅𝒊𝒅𝒂𝒕𝒆𝒔 𝒘𝒊𝒍𝒍 𝒃𝒆 𝒄𝒐𝒏𝒕𝒂𝒄𝒕𝒆𝒅 𝒇𝒐𝒓 𝒊𝒏𝒕𝒆𝒓𝒗𝒊𝒆𝒘𝒔.**

𝐀. 𝐉𝐨𝐛 𝐅𝐮𝐧𝐜𝐭𝐢𝐨𝐧𝐬:
• Provide grief counselling and support to bereaved children, teenagers, adults, and families.
• Provide crisis intervention, counselling, follow-up and debriefing calls, and referrals to community resources as needed.
• Research, organise, direct, and coordinate special grief and support services as assigned.
• Provide education and support to the community as available through presentations, training workshops, and outreach programmes.

𝐁. 𝐑𝐞𝐪𝐮𝐢𝐫𝐞𝐦𝐞𝐧𝐭𝐬:
• Bachelor’s Degree / Post Graduate Diploma / Master’s Degree in Counselling, Education, or related field.
• Minimum 2 years of working experience in the following preferred areas: hospice & palliative care, funeral and bereavement care, grief and loss counselling, support groups, case management, life and death studies, or health education.
• Must be able to read, write, and speak in Mandarin and English. Basic conversational skills in Cantonese, Hakka, or Hokkien will occasionally be required.
• Valid driver’s license and good driving record.
• Able to work independently with minimum supervision.
• Able to work on public holidays or weekends.
• Physical ability to perform job duties with occasionally exposure to the sun and heat.

𝐂. 𝐂𝐨𝐫𝐞 𝐂𝐨𝐦𝐩𝐞𝐭𝐞𝐧𝐜𝐢𝐞𝐬:
• Curious, passionate, and care about death and bereavement support.
• Exhibit good judgment in dealing with grief and loss issues.
• Experience and education in leading support groups.
• Maintain and respect professional and personal boundaries.
• Approach situations with clarity, flexibility, professionalism, and dependability.
• Demonstrate ability to be self-directed, flexible and cooperative in fulfilling role obligation, and ability to work effectively within an interdisciplinary team.
• Demonstrate understanding of the principles of grief and loss and the skills needed to assist the bereaved in the healing process.

**𝑹𝒆𝒎𝒖𝒏𝒆𝒓𝒂𝒕𝒊𝒐𝒏 𝒘𝒊𝒍𝒍 𝒄𝒐𝒎𝒎𝒆𝒏𝒔𝒖𝒓𝒂𝒕𝒆 𝒘𝒊𝒕𝒉 𝒓𝒆𝒍𝒆𝒗𝒂𝒏𝒕 𝒒𝒖𝒂𝒍𝒊𝒇𝒊𝒄𝒂𝒕𝒊𝒐𝒏, 𝒔𝒌𝒊𝒍𝒍𝒔, 𝒂𝒏𝒅 𝒘𝒐𝒓𝒌𝒊𝒏𝒈 𝒆𝒙𝒑𝒆𝒓𝒊𝒆𝒏𝒄𝒆 𝒐𝒇 𝒕𝒉𝒆 𝒔𝒖𝒄𝒄𝒆𝒔𝒔𝒇𝒖𝒍 𝒄𝒂𝒏𝒅𝒊𝒅𝒂𝒕𝒆𝒔.**

Hey guys! This is the final film I made during my semester in NYU and I finally got the chance to re-edit it. I'm really excited to share it with ya'll cos this was the only one shot in colour and has sound. I love love love love love filmmaking and I think this represents who I am and what I want to explore (in terms of themes and style) as a filmmaker. I've added extra info down below if you'd like to get better acquainted with it. Enjoy!

» Synopsis

A couple, Sophie and Robert, have just suffered the unexpected death of their son. Inspired by the play Rabbit Hole, the short film tracks Sophie's trajectory of grief and mourning through the framework of the Kübler-Ross model.

» Concept

The Kübler-Ross model, otherwise known as the five stages of grief, postulates a series of emotions experienced by terminally ill patients prior to death, or people presented by the loss of a loved one, wherein the five stages are denial, anger, bargaining, depression and acceptance.

We shot this film mostly handheld, with tracking shots, and almost always cropped, framed or filled with negative space. I’d like for the audience to be as engaged and uncomfortable at the same time, reminding them that this is never an easy process- even to witness it is a chore. My key details lie in the visceral nature of the close ups and eye contact.

For the first few stages, a warped sense of time and space will reflect her depression and inability to tune in to reality, so shots will be choppy, slightly unstable and cyclical to emphasise the feeling of suffocation and entrapment. As the film progresses, it will taper into coherence and continuity.

Off-screen ambient sounds such as water, fire and space add in its amplification. The seamless mismatch of the soundscape was something I set out to experiment on.

Produced for NYU Sight and Sound Filmmaking Fall 2017

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