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Masa awal aku kahwin dengan isteri aku, aku dapat pakej 4 orang anak. Alhamdulillah. Yang mana 2 daripada 4 ni istimewa sikit. Dua-dua aspergers. Sorang ADD sorang lagi ADHD. Paling mencabar sekali tau tak apa? Anak-anak ni sebelum kehadiran aku, diorang ni di manjakan betul. Cukup manja! Semua nak, dapat. Tak boleh kena tegur, mesti menaangis dan membentak. 3 lelaki, sorang perempuan. Masa tu umur yang sulung 14 tahun. Yang second 12 tahun...
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When I married my wife, I got a package of 4 children. Thank God. Which 2 of the 4 is a little special. Both aspergers. Another ADD another ADHD. It's most challenging to know it's okay? These kids before my presence, they are being pampered right. Pretty spoiled! All want, got it. Can't be told, must cry and snap. 3 men, a woman. At that time the eldest was 14 years old. The second 12 years old. Third 9 years old. Fourth of 6 years old girl.
First time entering the family, I've had a meeting done. With gangster style, long hair braids. I'm doing a LIVE FB meeting with children. In the meeting, I just entered the family, so follow my rules. I don't follow their rules.
At the beginning, many people who are nearest have started tripping and spreading stories, not saying that I will hit the kids. The swing bowl is right who reads people from this person's use.
Remember the early marriage, my wife always reminds me of me. If these kids promise anything they need to be fulfilled, they will cry badly and scream. Hard to persuade. Sometimes I want to break my breath and cry. The other one is ADHD if he cries, he can't be angry, he has to say it carefully. Because later he will be raging and coming hyper. The one who added is his own attitude. It's just his problem that he doesn't take the port. The eldest is the most pamper. Ask for whatever the confirmation gets. After that it's urgent to work.
I really don't feel like I'm suitable at all. What should I do? Wash his mother first. My wife cried when she washed her first. I said it's simple. I don't want my son to grow up to die and get everything he wants to wear. Nothing, tomorrow won't be given, he rebel like going crazy.
Everything that my wife says can't do, I prove it to my wife, everything that she thinks is wrong. I made it. I didn't see anyone doing what my wife said. I just tried to bring MCD, then I parked at the Tomyam shop. Look at all the faces that are slammed. But no one is crying.
That's where it all started. Until one part I saw my wife still wrongly. I said it's simple.
′′ Want something big, need a big sacrifice. If you maintain like this, it's too wrong that you have to follow all your child's wishes, you're afraid to say NO and then you're crying and tired of your brother Trust me. Just like this, you'll lose your brother. Choose. ′′ ′′
Hah my wife was shaking at that time.
Yes, it's not easy to fight the mother's instinct. I really understand. But have to remember, you want to be sad until when you just want to entertain the extreme motherhood instincts? How do you want your child to grow up? What's he doing today, he's already big tomorrow. You're poor, he asks for something you can't fulfill. You think he got it? That's the wrong time he just said this sentence.
′′ Why is my mom not like someone else's mom. It's okay. I am not important ′′
Heart was shaking at that time. He didn't tell me 100 times, once didn't let him release such a painful sentence?
I'm nothing, kids like this even more men, have to grow up to be men. Not a bapok, not a Kpop. Man. The world will come far more evil. Responsibility is far bigger. It is compulsory to grow up to be a man. I repeat.
MEN.
That's when my wife slowly became a mad mother. Kah kah kah. The kids were shocked at that time. Suddenly mom is good at screaming? Suddenly mom is good at tunjal head? Suddenly mom is good at slapping? Suddenly mom dares to throw her phone against the wall?
Most power if a child I say near her mother,
′′ Mom doesn't love me, I hate mom.."
If my wife used to hear this verse, she will feel sinful and crying. Now you know what my wife answer?
′′ Once you hate me, 100 times I hate you.."
Stunned again child. Feels like the tactical of playing sentiment is not going to be. Continue to continue doing homework.
After that the scene of running away from the middle of the night, haa my wife is already cuak. Look for me to tell my child to run home. Cleaning up the bag. If you're as a mother, are you rocking? 10-year-olds when they were running home. Other siblings are busy trying not to run away, they insist on running.
I told my wife I'm happy je.
′′ Do not persuade. Just ask him to run the house faster. Go help her pack the bag. Do not worry. I used to threaten my mother like this when I was small. When my mother is stupid, I stay outside for a while and then I will go home because it's scary outside the dark.. if you persuade, don't run away, believe Tomorrow he's busy threatening to run again."
My wife went down and asked her to leave her house faster. This kid won't go out after opening the door. Look at the dark outside. He immediately opened the saji headscarf, making him hungry. It's so hard to look at it.
Want to turn into a Lion, it looks evil. Many will talk about this. You say you don't love your children. If this part is not strong, it will be stupid to be eaten by these words. But you have to believe one thing. This mother and father knows her child better than all of you. He knows so much. Know which limit he can make or not. We who watch from outside don't pretend to teach other people's children, teach our own children first to let go. Look at our children today he appreciate us how.
I was worst being criticized at that time.
He said since my wife married me, my wife's attitude has changed. Getting harder. Fierce with the kids. And many more lah. I'm lazy to take a port. The one who speaks is a woman who has never tasted anything. Work is great. So bored listening to it. But I'm cooking so much, it's normal that the sound of this person's confirmation since childhood has never lived hard, the child and the one that is like diva is usually the same. Just deaf the ear. Focus on the mission for the good of the child to come.
After 3 years, I recently had a meeting with all my children. I ask, did you notice that mom used to be different from now?
All bobbing. Getting more ferocious and crazy people say.
I'm so happy to hear. Let go of that I said.
′′ Try all of you to look back at this day. What's the difference? Neno 8 years old can be brushed by school clothes. Already able to wipe Ayra out. Luth 10 years can wash everyone's dishes. Hoze is the most improvement. From my own world today, you are the most helping to work in your house. 13 years old, washing clothes, hanging clothes, sleeping ayraa, bathing ayraa. And many more. Anish, you are the eldest brother. Thank God. No more pushy. See you already understand the reality of being a brother. Every morning sitting in the kitchen helping mom cook.. that's okay. Proud for a while Dedi. Dedi is nothing, you ask Dedi's siblings if they are rude to his mother, what happens to them. Must eat Dedi's feet. You become a son, you have to be a protector to your mother. Don't make it a slave mother."
All sighs. I'm connecting again.
′′ Do you know why this Seremban house Dedi doesn't install air conditioner near Indeed Dedi doesn't let mom install air conditioner. Let me sleep hot. Learning how to use a fan. Dedi used to grow up but never sleeps in air conditioner, thank God I grew up healthy. Dedi wants anything can't just get like that. So men have to learn how to feel hard. So that tomorrow, you will learn to be grateful. I will remember your parents when they are happy. You'll be close to siblings, tomorrow this is what you'll laugh back when you tell the story. Trust me. All of these are the sweetest memories. Mother and father don't know when will die. Maybe tomorrow we die, at least Anish can take care of the younger siblings."
Everyone was laughing at that time. My eldest child will interrupt in a while.
′′ Dedi, but honestly Anish likes the current mother from mother before. Even though it's fierce, but it's true when I remember it again. All of us are good at all. I just noticed that someone else is 8 years old but doesn't even know how to take care of the baby who is a year old and shower and defecate. Luth has changed a lot. No more crying. Hardworking. Hoze has changed a lot of crazy. Playing with the phone. There's only one problem, when you have a relative, you can come, don't sit in the Just sit down once. Anyway, I swear, Anish loves the mother who was now from the old times. Even though the current mother is crazy saiko! Haha. Mom, you are Queen Of My Heart! Mother is crazy, before Anish didn't understand a lot. When Anish sees mom struggle, Anish becomes a pity. Just saw all the sacrifices of the mother for all of us."
Others bobbing heads agree and laugh with what brother anish he said.
All impressed when I remember back. Until neno's turn, she keeps crying. She really apologizes near her mom.
The most powerful, they are siblings when their aunt wants to ask them to come out. Each one has completed the job of who managed his / her sister's clothes this year, who will beat his / her younger sibling's pampers, who will manage his / her sister's pampers. All of them think for themselves. Talk to each other and manage the equipment of his little brother who is a year old. No need to have a mother with her dedi.
Power, isn't it? Two Aspergers, an ordinary person. The eldest has entered MRSM. It means that the number two child of ADD is taking over.
Even when I'm going back to hometown, my wife just gave me an order. They all clean up their own bags. My wife doesn't even mix a single dust. My wife looks like a big boss today. All homeworks are managed by the child. My wife's duty is to cook. Wash clothes, dry clothes, wash dishes, wash toilets, throw away garbage, shower ayra for a year, all the kids who manage it.
If I don't move, I won't let my wife shout out to other children. But mad at the eldest child. Let the eldest child be stressed. Whatever happened to the younger siblings, I told her mother to kill her eldest child. So when the younger siblings aren't working, fighting, the eldest brother already knows that he needs to be tiaw with his mother later. Didn't say much, he just settled his younger siblings. That's it brother!
Thank God. The story is only one. Our children, we know each other. There's a part of being fierce, there's a part that needs to be There's a part that can laugh. This mother has one veto power, but many are afraid to use it because she is not in other s' language and is so afraid that her child will hate It doesn't mean anything! It's boring to entertain the sentiment of pity that is extreme. You used to be your mother who hit your face, do you hate your mother to big? Nothing. We're fierce because we just want to educate. Not fierce all the time. More than firm. When you see your child hardworking, listen to it, there's a day that will give you a surprise Chocolate or what? Taking a walk to the park. Time with family has to be there.
If you're too spoiled, you can make your child become responsible and the person who will defend your family, I think that the Malay soldiers won't even be training hard as hard as possible. It's better for them to just pray for all the new soldiers. What do you want, everything is given. Wake up late, swipe your hair and then kiss your forehead. Even eating time is delicious. Sleeping at night comfortably, installing air conditioner. Put on the wifi.
What was it?
Before you want to say this person, ask ourselves first. Our 7-year-old child eats, is he good at washing his own dishes? Do you know how to follow your time schedule? Can you brush your own school clothes?
If you're not good at anything, don't make me feel bad about the way other father's mother educate someone's child.
The hardest episode in educating children at this age. Believe me, this will all be a longing for the kids when they leave the house later. And this also makes them siblings get closer.
Patience, victory day is coming! Early sacrifice is the most important. Fight all the wrong feelings that always play in the soul. Only one thing you have to remember, as long as you don't fight with religion. Mom is never wrong! Angry, fierce lah. Do not worry. Continue to educate our ways. Don't forget the power of Veto!
Eh forgot, waimah is a special child. What the doctor said put number two. Accompanying kids like normal kids before but there's a limit. Don't teach him to be a special child since you were young. We know our children again, right? Because I always believe, crazy people when we clap their hands twice when they want to take our food, the third time they will understand and won't take it anymore. That's the crazy person. So, Don't let the child know he's special. Don't disturb her brain. Just entertaining the same thing.
Everyone is like that. If he feels like there are advantages, there is someone who defends more, he will start to get a chance. Can't believe it? You try to pamper your child crazy. Let go of the try in front of you, someone tease him less, you see how he has torn to tears later he will get your attention.
Anyway..
Only one thing I'm still failing. Failed to change their name call among siblings. No call Along, Angah, Bangde. I feel strongly, calling this name also has a certain advantage to put the difference between the younger brother and brother. There is a family aura.
Don't forget, Father's role in psychology is important to be crazy. Because with this mother, no matter how fierce it is, the child is brave to fight. Dad must be good at playing roles. No need to touch, you need to know when you want to have a high voice. When you want to call your child, sit down and talk about others.
Become a child idol.
Trust me, step child and biological child two things that are impossible. Because the power of VETO only exists in biological children. This step child has a risk that you need to face. What happened to them, people will say that you don't love them because it's not your biological child. Painful and sad that sentence is for me. Allah knows how I love them.
I wrote it,
Mr Amir Lake
P / s: In the past my wife was criticized by the Aspie group when my wife said she educated her aspie's child in the way she was a little firm. All sorts of people are teasing, he said that this aspie child will take revenge and kill him. Have to be teased every day. Poor. My wife doesn't agree with my actions early because she holds the doctor's order. Today, I'm asking my child aspie. Tomorrow if mom gets disturbed by someone else in front of you what will you do? What did he answer? I'll hit him enough! And I asked my wife, how about the person who teased her child? He said his child is under control but sometimes he's raging badly until he's about to breath. At the same time today my child aspie is good at cooking, can do all homework and love his siblings so much.
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[翻轉視界 3] 媽媽是世界上最辛苦工作
To all the mothers out there, thank you for your sacrifices and happy Mother’s Day!
辛苦了, 媽媽們!
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結婚前,我在日商公司的工廠工作,當到管理幹部,本來也存了一筆錢準備婚後買房,沒想到婚後,根本來想的完全不一樣。
Before I got married, I worked in a factory ran by a Japanese company. I worked my way up to management and saved some money to purchase a house after marriage. Little did I expect how different life would be after I got married.
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2. little did somebody know/realize/think 用來說某人不知道或認為某事會發生或是真的: https://bit.ly/2SJ7s4Z
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我和前夫是朋友介紹認識的。一直以來,我在感情裡面都沒什麼自信、處於弱勢,總是被拋棄的那一方。之前也有個男友曾經論及婚嫁,但他媽媽嫌我內向不會講話,沒辦法幫忙做生意,所以後來還是分手了。我跟前夫交往沒有幾個月就結婚,那時候覺得他在公司工作五、六年,應該很有定性,感覺也是個顧家、愛小孩的人。雖然不致於大富大貴,但夫妻倆應該可以過個穩定的幸福生活。
My ex-husband and I were introduced by friends. I have never had much confidence in my relationships. I was always the weaker half, the one who was always left behind. Before my ex-husband, I had a boyfriend who proposed marriage, but his mother felt that I was too much of an introvert and could not help him manage his business. We parted ways in the end. My ex-husband and I got married a few months after we began dating. He had been working in his company for five to six years at the time, so I felt he had a stable life. He also felt like a family man and one who loves children. While he was not rich, I felt we could live a stable and happy life.
3. have confidence in… 對…有信心
4. propose marriage 提出結婚、論及婚嫁
5. introvert 性格內向者
6. part ways 分開
7. see each other 交往,談戀愛
8. a family man 關心家庭的人
9. stable life 穩定的生活
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婚後,陸續生下大女兒和小兒子,兩個差三歲,但都是我在養。老公婚後都是半夜才回家,而且他除了房租以外,其餘生活開銷都不肯出。我盡量維持他在外的形象,都沒有跟別人說。因為實在沒錢,我還曾經打去他的公司,問老闆什麼時候發薪水?老闆很驚訝地跟我說,他的薪水比廠長還高,我們應該生活無虞才對。
After marriage, we had our eldest daughter and a son three years later, but I had to raise them myself. My husband would always return home after midnight, and he never paid for any living expenses other than rent. I tried to help maintain his image so I kept silent. However, I just did not have enough money, so I called his company one day and asked his boss when he would be paid. His boss was surprised. He told me that my husband’s salary was higher than that of the factory director and we should not have to worry about basic necessities.
10. raise 撫養
11. pay living expense 支付生活開銷
12. maintain one’s image 維持形象
13. factory director 廠長
14. basic necessities 基本生活必需物品與花用
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我實在不知道他半夜都去哪,把錢花到哪去。總之,我一直苦撐,我總覺得小孩要有爸爸、要有完整的家庭;撐越久,又覺得「我都已經撐這麼久了」,如果現在放棄的話,那不就前功盡棄了嗎?本來要用來買房子的存款,為了養小孩,全部花完,後來我幾乎一天只吃一餐,最慘的時候,還曾經母子三人吃一個便當。
I really didn’t know where he went in the middle of the night, and where he spent all his money. I hung on because I felt that the children must have a father and a complete family. I thought that I had already hung on for so long—if I had given up, then everything would have been for nothing. The money I had saved to purchase a house was completely spent on my children. I could only eat one meal a day, and at times the three of us would only share a single lunchbox.
15. hang on 堅持*
16. at times 有時
17. lunchbox 便當
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你能想像嗎?我家沒有電視也沒有電腦,冷氣壞了沒辦法修,洗衣機壞了,我只能手洗衣服。社工問我,為什麼小孩身上臭臭的?我也不知道該怎麼說,因為他們的衣服本來就是二手的,而且我只能手洗,他們一流汗就臭了。還好,我去工作之後,偶爾可以把衣服拿去投幣式洗衣機啦。
Could you imagine what we went through? There wasn’t a TV or a computer in our house. Even when the air conditioner or the washing machine was broken, we could not fix it. I had to wash the clothes by hand! The social worker would ask me why the kids’ clothes stank, and I did not know what to tell them. Thankfully, after I began working, we could occasionally take our clothes to a coin-operated laundromat.
18. go through 遭受,經歷,經受(苦難等)
19. stink (v.) 散發異味,發出難聞的氣味
20. thankfully 通常用於句首,表示高興或感激)幸好,幸虧
21. coin-operated laundromat 投幣式洗衣店*
*launderette: https://bit.ly/2Wb8FUz
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我苦撐了十年才離婚,後來徹底心寒,是因為債務問題。我前夫不拿錢回家,我只能用信用卡去大賣場採買日常用品,前夫要買什麼,也會要我刷卡,甚至還要幫他付電話費,一個月就兩萬元。我說我不幫你繳,他說好阿,那被停話你跟小孩就找不到我了。就這樣債務累積越來越多,到最後,我只好跟銀行談妥還債計畫,跟娘家借錢還債。這也讓我決定離婚。
I hung on for a decade before filing for divorce. I found out later that my ex-husband had debt problems. He did not bring any money home, so I could only use credit cards to purchase groceries. Whatever he wanted to buy, he would ask me to use my card. I even had to pay his phone bills. Sometimes the bills amounted to 20,000 a month, so I told my husband I would not pay. "That's fine, but then you and the kids wouldn't be able to reach me anymore, " he said. The debts piled up until finally, I negotiated a debt settlement with the bank and asked my in-laws for money to pay the bank. I decided to file for divorce afterward.
22. get a divorce 離婚
23. debt problem 債務問題
24. purchase groceries 購買食品雜貨
25. pile up(使)(不好的事物)增加,(使)累積
26. debt settlement 還債計畫*
27. in-laws 姻親
28. file for divorce 在法庭提起離婚訴訟
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目前,我們還跟前夫住在一起,因為要搬出去,就得準備兩個月的押金和第一個月的租金,我得要努力存錢才有能力處理。阿山他們介紹我去超市工作,我希望超市趕快開幕,我才有辦法趕快賺錢搬出去。
At present, my children and I are still living with my ex-husband, because you need to have a two-month deposit and payment for the first month to rent a place. I have to work harder and save. Ah Shan and them (social workers) found me a job at a supermarket. I wished it would open soon so I could save and move out.
29. deposit 押金
30. social worker 社工
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其實,哪個女生不希望嫁個好老公?但是老公再有錢,沒有真心愛妳都沒用;即使老公賺不多,但只要願意顧家,那就是好老公。
All girls want a good husband. However, if your husband doesn't really love you, it doesn't matter how rich he is. Even if your husband does not make much, if he cares for his family, then he is a good husband.
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"can't decide by myself"
" Ready 3 ways to make you
I'm the one who decided "
Now now.
Graduating
About to find a new job
Making a decision that
I will choose to work full time. I get high salary.
Or.....
I will choose to work, sell, no salary to get skills to do business.
What should I choose?
A
Here's a popular question.
No matter the whole inbox
Or live talk
When I find this question
I won't choose.
And won't answer that
What's better than anything
The mood is like
Should I buy a Japanese or European car?
Or...
I will choose a white car.
Or
Good Black?
" I believe no one can pay back
B
And.....
It must be crazy how people can pay back.
Who knows someone's heart better than him?
If you answer, it's just an opinion.
Like I replied....
White is good, handsome brother.
It's clean when it's clean.
But it's easy.
It's raining. I need to wash it.
Because it will be red and yellow stain.
Make the car a doctor.
Or
Black is also cool.
New wash time
Or the more glass coating, I ride.
But get over it
Just put your hands on the dust
Or clean cloth to wipe
Cat hair marks!
The question is....
If I could answer the question.
That's all I can do.
Promotion from car salesman
Become a cell in how to
" can you imagine?"
C C E C E E E
Honestly.
Most of the time I won't answer.
But I'll ask everyone
" what is the goal?"
Why am I asking this?
Because.....
Back to the car story.
I told you.
If a customer asks me
Should I choose white or black?
I'll tell you...
" let me see which color is stock?
I will be able to cheer for the colors that I have "
So I can sell.
And I will get money "
Frankly, is this okay?
" therefore
You will only get his opinion.
Which doesn't help you much "
Apart from temporary comfort
D
But if you ask...
Hey a!
I intend to...
Give my wife a car.
I will pick up my kid.
Most of them can't drive in the alley. Main Road.
Drive back less than 10 kilograms a day. That's all.
There's another big car anyway
I can imagine that's all.
No need for top model. No need to be a lot of system.
The Air Conditioner is not cold yet.
It's down.
So take the eco car enough
And then and and and and and
Or like me now old accord
Since I worked almost 7-8 years old.
Another 300 kg run. I will complete 200,000 km.
Start fixing tens of thousands at a time.
Of course age
It's time to buy a new one
I came to think.
Let's be honest.
Since I have a business.
Out of full time job
Plus do expert biz
Frankly, life is at home.
Some days I don't get a car stud.
Taking mom to travel. Eating is not far from home.
Going back for a few kilograms
If you go far, use it to fly.
Then rent a car
Actually use any car
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Now now.
I'm starting to know a clear lifestyle
What do you want to do?
Assemble with the clear goals of life.
I plan to be 35
"there are plenty of people left"
So I'm very clear
And the highlight that everyone sees is
"I'm a very serious person"
"if you don't want to do anything, you won't do it"
"but if you want something, it must be the best"
"even if anyone disagrees, I will do it"
Not going around.
G G
So....
1. Current car goals
Just taking mom to eat around the house
Driving around Bangkok.
Far away from khao yai, chanthaburi, hua hin.
That's it.
Go further, fly and rent a car.
Meeting appointment. Now I use online.
2. Life goals. Age 35
I have to have a lot of use.
No more thinking about work
Thinking about passion
Thinking about family anyway
And Society continues
Create a society of going continuously.
Work according to happiness enough
Whatever you want. Enough!
Be like this for the rest of my life
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So I calculated
Very little use of my car
And the biggest goal is
Retirement goal. Rich at 35
Which I can say cuddle wor for sure.
If I have continuous discipline
Of course today
Even though I don't drive much
I want to repay happiness
Give yourself some by leaving benz BMW
About 5 million
And when I get it, I'll be so happy.
And....
I'm going to be proud of it for 6 MONTHS-1 years
Then it will be indifferent
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After that, the mood is gone.
And I have to pay back for a month for hundred thousand.
Warranty 60,000 per year
Not including checking range
And of course it will make me
Retire slow down
Of course I am clear
So in the building period
Common sense easily
I should cut the car I want
Temporary response to the mood
These go out
Use it just necessary
It's the same Japanese car.
Might lower the size again
From accord is a bunch
Be City car guys
Civic City altis hrv anything
If I don't think I will take mom to take the family.
Go to other provinces
Might as well drive eco car
%
So so
Willing to reduce happiness a little bit temporarily
Reduce big face, extravagant daddy
To reach the real goal faster
"surrender to jump higher"
" because if you stand tight legs, how can I jump up?"
I took this model from a successful man.
And used it all the time
Don't know
So so
Every problem, I can answer by myself.
Because my goal is very clear
Back at the question
Do you know why so many people can't choose?
Can't decide
And keep asking for confidence from others.
Because....
Actually...
" the goal is not clear!"
Or not even at all
Only day by day
Month per month
Year per year
But...
I can't answer the next 10
What will he be?
L's
When I was in my early 20 s.
I said to myself
Next 10 years before 30
I will earn 4-500,000 per month.
I pin the flag.
Which is now too much
It's not that I'm coming to show off.
Everybody knows I'm not that kind of person
But I would say
If people have goals
Let's be clear.
Even if I don't know how?
But if you move forward...
The way will come.
And most importantly.
This is clarity.
It will help us reach it
M L M L
It keeps telling me from the beginning
" when I want to be
Business owner something
I got 4-500,000 "
It also ordered me to go find knowledge.
I found a good book.
Told me to go to work for sale
Because I will...
Gained entrepreneurship skills
So, of course.
I'm fighting against all my friends
That keeps asking me
Why don't you follow the line of work?
Why do you go to work for sale?
N n n t
When I was working on selling Japanese cars.
At that time, income was included in every way.
2 million per year.
I said I was leaving
Going to be in Europe car
Everybody tell me crazy
Why start building a new customer base?
Old customers are tight.
I will get money here for cuddle days.
But I'm out because
The main goal is before 30
I have to be a business owner
So so
I need time
Sure.
I do what most people
I don't understand when I look at it.
Well, I lost half the income.
The O O O O O O
But that gives me time to go to business.
And...
9 months later
My big goal is accomplished
Income over set
I also left the sales job.
So so
On the way
I barely consulted anyone
If on the way
There are crossroads to choose from.
I'll put my big goal on it
"business owner 4-500,000"
And I'll know right away.
That's.....
"which way is good for me"
" which way makes me achieve my main goal
Starting with me, clear to myself.
What is my goal
Don't know what to do?
But I will!
P
So so
I told you today.
I'm not a salesman how to
I can't recommend anyone.
What should I choose?
Or which way is better
How can I know your heart ^_
But I solved this problem.
I will give all brothers and sisters for sure.
If you really do it
You can do it like me
The problem is....
Most of the people.
Like.......
1. Choose the path before goal
Would he think that he should go to do an uncle?
Or....
Let's go do this job?
Like you are
Ask yourself...
I'm going...
That Road?
Or...
This line is good?
The question is
" your goal is to stay on the road forever?"
Almost everyone will answer, not!
I will always ask.
I have seen it since I graduated.
Pay attention. Choose each other but the road.
Choose a career as the main point.
But never really told where to go?
So where are you going?
So I can choose the right road.
So I can choose the right career.
Many people are confused!
Can't answer
That's it.
Most people so
Still on the road next
Because he chose a career before the goal.
So so
These questions will never happen
If.....
1. You have clear life goals
And you can answer the next 10 years
Who will you be?
(answer in mind, no need to announce)
2. You make it clear enough
I don't know the way. It's
(when I was 20, I said this.
Own a business, earn 4-500,000 every month.
But that day, I don't know what to do)
3. Time you find choices in life
Each time you have to choose.
Between one.
With the.
Another one.
You will not hesitate or listen to anyone's word.
Even who doesn't understand
Or someone broke your wings
But I will look at that
My main goal first
I think it's way 2
Which leads to my goal
Let's talk about it
Without Consulting anyone
(I told you on top
That all the way
A lot of people don't understand.
My decision.
But I'm clear)
3 ways to make me....
"got a real goal"
"the one who decided"
" and no need to consult.
Ask someone a question often "
A10(Aten)
Prince of sales
"a society of possibilities"Translated
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