媽媽總是活的很有哲理,所謂的身教言教,從小她總是站在我的前面,一一示範。發生事情的每一刻,轉頭跟她求救的同時,她總是溫柔地接住你,牽起你的手,邊走在荊棘道路上,不絲不忙的帶你閃躲,告訴你這些刺背後的故事又該如何避開,或是受傷後要怎麼包紮,她的智慧無庸置疑。
而這半年多來對於「家庭」想說的話太多,各自和爸爸、媽媽單獨相處的時間也漸漸變多之後才更發現,他們活得比我想像的還要『通透』。不管是生活還是他們腦袋中的想法,我以為他們不能理解的,其實早就在他們的計算之中,或是存在他們的邏輯。
最近跟他們說了很多話、講述很多自己的煩惱,再看他們的應對與生活習慣,更意識到耀松對我的影響似乎超乎我想像的多。對於細節執著研究還是待人處世上,原來我身上有著他那麼多的樣子,這個新發現很有趣!
那天跟爸討論到,他跟朋友的女兒相處的很自然,我隨口問他說「那我是不是跟她一樣很隨和啊~」爸說『沒有!我女兒比較有個性!』
哈哈哈,好吧,有個性也是像你。
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這陣子的拍下很多夕陽照片,因為回家的日子總會和他們在傍晚去散步看夕陽,一群大人看夕陽的時候很像孩子很可愛,有誰沒到或是太晚沒看到夕陽還會互傳照片給彼此,我覺得很浪漫。
啊!說到浪漫,因為我跟爸媽的腳都是差不多大的,那天我穿球鞋沒穿襪子就跟他們去散步,走到一半我覺得我的後跟快磨破的,看著我爸腳上的KEEN涼鞋,忍不住問他可不可跟我換,他邊唸邊脫下鞋給我。嗯,這最浪漫了😍
#剛過完10天大小姐回台北的時候好不習慣
#雖然翠娟穿螢光橘球鞋很舒服但女兒的審美觀有點過不去
#但她穿起來開心舒服最重要其他真的無所謂
#PobbisTalk
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【不要縮窄你的財路】(English writing below)
DON’T SHRINK YOUR INCOME SOURCES
我今年最大的成就之一,就是幫了一位負債累累的中年客人,開創了第二條收入的來源。
他現在一年內能賺多一萬多新幣,提供一種網路服務。
我的分析仔細到,我還指出要他寫信去哪一家公司。他也只有一個選擇。
我甚至還和他解析,他在電郵中應該如何推薦自己給他的客人。依據他的八字五行所需,我教導應徵當天,他該如何穿扮及攜帶什麼來獲得勝利。
我花了很多精力和時間,嘮叨了兩個星期來說服這位客人。一般人只要年過四十,人會變得固執己見,無法接受新事物。
他不敢寫信求職,因為該公司的網站並沒有招聘那職位。
他認為工作性質太低劣了,不宜他這種高學歷高才能的人。
他對新的行業不感興趣。
他說他沒時間。
他只要賺大錢!
他愁如果做第二份工作,他沒有精力來開發他的企劃。
我說,哈咯,看看你現在的處境。
這是等著你來拿的錢。我已算出你一定會得到的。每天晚上,你只需要在家,做兩個小時以下的工作。我沒有叫你放棄你的夢想。
拿這筆錢,還債,同時也繼續去開發你的夢想。你的太太會比較開心。每個月底,你看到銀行戶口多個四位數時,你會很欣慰你並沒有把你的夜晚浪費在社交媒體上,而是從中牟利。
既然他不會在發薪員工表裡,我告訴他何不換個角度來想,自己是提供一項服務給該公司。哇!也就是說,他已是一位小型企業家,一創業就以提供簡單卻很重要的服務而賺錢。
該公司雖沒刊登廣告招聘,不代表他們不需要他的服務。這反而代表他不會面臨任何競爭。為客人辨認出他們的需求,顯示他的主動和洞察力。
是,這工作是低等的,但這算是高薪的低等工作,這樣他才有足夠的腦力,繼續為他的夢想奮鬥啊!
為了讓客人清醒過來,你看我真的是費盡唇舌啊⋯⋯
只要這錢是通過正當的手法來賺取,就不要輕易說「不要」。況且,也要想到你還欠錢的家庭。
不是每個人一開始就有這個命和本事能進大財。不要人心不足蛇吞象。
從小做起,沒什麼好丟臉的。而且我建議客人做的生意,根本也不需要像一般生意一樣下什麼成本。
快進到現在,這位中年客人說在新的行業服務,認識和他完全不一樣的新人士有種釋放的感覺
這樣的感覺就對了!要財源廣進,就是要有這樣闊達的心態。活著,不要像個糟老頭似的,錢才可以從很多方面來。
天啊,我回想自己花了多少精力來說服這位客人,心就累了。感覺很像自己在唸老公的時候(寶貝,你怎麼又不看鏡頭了呢?)
親愛的客人,如果你有閱讀此文,請買個美味可口的巧克力木桐蛋糕來感謝我這叨叨念念的功夫。這次的八字分析,我真的是做超時了⋯⋯
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One of my biggest accomplishments this year was helping a debt-ridden middle-aged client set up a second income stream.
He now brings in an extra low $10K+ per year for his family, with this second income of providing an online service.
I was so precise in my analysis, that I even told him which EXACT company I want him to write in to. There was only one choice suitable for him.
I sat down with him and went through the entire email, on how he should sell himself to his new client. Based on his Bazi elemental needs, I told him how to dress and what to bring to ace the interview.
It took me A LOT of pushing and nagging (2 weeks!). Because when a person is above 40 years old, he/she is very set in the way he/she does things.
He didn’t dare to write in and ask for a job, that was not listed on the media company’s website.
He thinks the job nature is too lowly for a highly-educated and qualified person like him.
He wasn’t keen in a new industry.
He said he didn’t have time.
He only wanted BIG MONEY.
He fretted that he would not have the energy to work on his pet project, if he took up the second job.
I told him, HELLO, look at where you are right now.
This is READY MONEY. I know you would be able to get it. The stars are in your favour. You only need to work a couple of hours or less, every night AT HOME with this. I am not asking you to give up your dreams.
Take the money, pay off your debts and work on your dreams AT THE SAME TIME. Your wife will be happier. Every month when the salary is banked into your account, you will be glad that you didn’t waste your nights away on social media but are actually making an income from it.
Since he wasn’t going to be on payroll, I told him to reframe his thinking as providing a service, and BAM! That means he becomes an entrepreneur, who makes profit right from the start providing a simple yet much-needed service, discounting his home WiFi bill.
The fact that it wasn’t advertised doesn’t mean his service wasn’t needed. It can mean he faces zero competition and demonstrates initiative and perception in identifying that need for his “client”.
Yes, it’s “lowly”, but hey, it’s considered a highly-paid lowly job, and he will still have the brain space to work on his dreams!
The things I say to make my clients wake up...
Don’t say no to money when you need it, as long as it is an ethical way of earning it and other families are waiting for you to repay them.
Not every person has the destiny and abilities to make big money right from the start. Don’t be greedy.
There is nothing embarrassing about starting small. Especially when you don’t even need investment costs like most businesses.
Fast forward to now, the client told me it was very liberating serving a new industry and meeting people very different from him.
EXACTLY! To receive abundant wealth from all sources, you need an open mind to match up to it. Don’t be an old man in the way you live your life. Money can come from all sources!
Gosh, I’m feeling so tired just recalling all these persuasion I had done to convince him to try. It almost felt the same as me nagging at my husband. (Darling, why are you not looking at the lens again?)
Dear client, if you’re reading this, please buy me a nice chocolate log cake to pay me for all the extra hours of nagging. This is WAY beyond my usual scope of Bazi analysis man...
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【玳瑚師父課室】《第32場回顧:妳你家財位知多少餐會》
32nd Learning Session Recap: Your Store of Wealth At Home (English version below)
玳瑚師父在2017年7月26日,舉辦了第32場活動:《妳你家財位知多少餐會》,教導大家讓不再忽略,一直陪伴在妳你身邊的財。
愛不愛財,我們大可不必高談闊論。但,常言道:錢不是萬能,沒錢則萬萬不能。這句話,虽俗但实在。
舉凡來見玳瑚師父的人,師父都會教導她他們,如何合掌彎腰向修行人問好。師父耐心地解釋:合掌彎腰不是代表自己卑微,而是顯示自己是個能夠放下身段和降伏傲慢的人。身體的禮儀,也是決定妳你未來成功的重要基礎。
師父速看了出席者們後,說:「看妳你們身上,沒有佈施的善報。」
我們都要問自己:是否曾經歡喜地幫過人?看到售旗日的義工捧著捐款铝罐,是否會閃開?
在玳瑚師父這裡學到的智慧,妳你一生都會受惠。
餐會回顧:
一、玳瑚師父問出席者問題#1:怎樣才會有錢?
林小姐:「禮。」
師父回答,禮能爲妳你增進好人緣,但不能給妳你有錢。
二、這個人爲何能夠這麼快成功?肯定是因爲她他很注重細節。
三、身材的肥瘦,如何影響個人財富?
四、做善事要有智慧。
五、玳瑚師父問出席者問題#2:財庫位有何重要?
鄒小姐:「累積所有的財富,留給下一代。」
師父說,要這一代先夠用,才去想是否能留給下一代比較實際。
六、恰巧一大群人在大聲喧嘩,玳瑚師父提醒大家,我們始終是比較有禮貌的,不要像她他們那樣地打擾他人,還以爲自己很應該。
七、台灣富豪豪宅的財庫位被拆掉,結果斷了手指、工廠關閉,最後還⋯⋯
八、爲什麼有些人做生意十做九敗?
九、多唸往生咒,去想妳你人生中,要多一個貴人還是要多一個敵人?
十、怎樣的房間最能夠生財?
十一、墮胎會把妳你的福報,如切蘋果一樣,一刀就斷了一半。
十二、師父指出某出席者吃飯的樣子,沒有福相,如何有錢。身邊的男出席者,馬上糾正自己的吃相,但那位出席者並沒有。師父當場斥責出席者,她才糾正。
師父提醒她,她口口聲聲說很有誠意要向師父學習,所以師父給她機會,教她就是希望她好。如果她沒想改,不受教,那這也可能是最後一次給她機會,看她自己如何把握。
不好的,就要馬上改,不要拖拉,因爲金錢祇屬於動作快的人。
十三、不要信半路出家的「風水師父」。身邊有時會有很多親朋戚友,以爲自己懂一些風水知識,雖然沒有實戰經驗,卻會擅自給意見,而擾亂了師父給於當事者的寶貴建議。
十四、玳瑚師父幫人,不是先看錢,而是先看對方的道德。
十五、如果妳你不需要這樣東西,把它放在妳你家中,必定是妳你事業走下坡的時候。
十六、玳瑚師父現場看風水!從照片分析所有出席者的居家客廳和臥房,並給於改善財運的好辦法!
十七、供米供香種種不可思議的功德。
十八、原來這樣的屋子,代表後代跟不上上一代。
不要以爲妳你現在有錢,就不用向善知識學習。錢和福報,很快就會用完了。
有智慧的人,會天天都會去想,如何補福,如何增慧,而不是等到要用完的時候,才撥電給玳瑚師父急診室求救。
玳瑚師父的文章能療心靈之傷,妳你一定會看到一篇講盡妳你心坎裡。
無論妳你的過去如何如何,一切還是可以從現在從新開始。
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《靠近我就在今晚 - 家寶知多少餐會》
KNOWING THE TREASURES IN YOUR HOME
7 Aug 2017, 830pm
https://www.facebook.com/masterdaihu/posts/1214735718637976
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Master Dai Hu held his 32nd Meal Session on 26th July 2017 with the theme "Your Store of Wealth At Home", teaching participants how not to neglect the wealth that has always been by our sides.
The love or lust for money should not be a matter of debate here. As the saying goes, "Money is not all, but one cannot do without money as well!" Although this phrase sounds materialistic, there is some truth in it nonetheless.
At every Learning Session, Master Dai Hu would teach all participants how to say greetings to a Buddhist practitioner like him with a respectful bow and clasped palms. He patiently explained this is not a sign of weakness or inferiority, but an indication that one is willingly to let go of his self attachment and arrogance. Our physical conduct of etiquette forms the critical foundation for your future success.
Master took a quick look at the participants and said: "I cannot see on you, any merit cultivated from being generous."
We need to always self-reflect. Have we ever help another person joyfully? Do we avoid those volunteers holding donation tins on flag day intently?
The wisdom you learnt from Master Dai Hu at his sessions will benefit you for the entire life.
Highlights from the session:
1. Master Dai Hu asked the participants, "How can you be wealthy?"
Miss Lin answered, "By observing proper etiquette. "
Master replied, "This will improve your likability with others, but will not make you wealthy. "
2. Why can this person achieve success in such a short span of time?
It must be due to his/her keen eye for detail.
3. How does your body shape affect your personal wealth?
4. Doing virtuous deeds require wisdom.
5. Master Dai Hu asked, "Why is the Store of Wealth so important?"
Miss Chew answered, "So that we can accumulate more wealth for the next generation."
Master said it is more practical to ensure that us, the current generation, have sufficient financial resources to start with.
6. By chance, a group of people was making a ruckus, and Master Dai Hu reminded everybody that we are more civic-minded, and should not behave like them, disturbing others while thinking they are still right.
7. A wealthy man in Taiwan hacked away his store of wealth in his mansion. As a result, he broke his finger, lost his factory, and eventually...
8. Why do some people fail repeatedly in business?
9. Do more recitations of the "Rebirth to Pureland" mantra. Think about your life, do you want more benefactors or enemies?
10. What kind of room is best for growing your wealth?
11. Abortion is a grave sin, and will slice away your merits as swift as a knife cuts an apple into half.
12. Master pointed out to a participant that her eating mannerisms is not a sign of fortune. The gentleman sitting beside her immediately corrected his, but not the lady herself. Master rebuked her before she corrected herself.
Master then reminded her that she professed to be very sincere in learning from Master Dai Hu, and was thus given the chance to learn from Master. To teach her is to hope that she would have a better life. If she did not wish to receive his teachings and mend her ways, this may be the last time Master gives her a chance, depending on if she treasured it.
13. Do not easily believe those inexperienced Feng Shui practitioners. You may have some friends or relatives who think they know a little or two about Feng Shui and start dishing out advice. These kind of distractions often confuse a person receiving the right advice from an accomplished master.
14. Master Dai Hu decides to help a person based on one's merits, and never his or her wealth.
15. If an object is of no benefit to you, placing it in your home will only bring a downfall to your career.
16. Master Dai Hu did a Feng Shui analysis on the spot, based on photos from the participants, advising them effective ways to improve their wealth!
17. Offerings of rice and incense has immeasurable merits.
18. This kind of house signifies the descendants having lesser achievements and unable to keep up with those of the ancestors.
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Do not think that being wealthy now means no need to learn from virtuous masters. Money and merits get depleted faster than you realise.
A wise person will ponder every day how to increase his own merits and wisdom, and not wait till both these qualities are almost depleted before desperately calling Master's emergency hotline for help.
Reading Master's FB articles can heal your emotional wounds. You are bound to find one that resonates deeply with you.
Your past does not matter. The power lies in the now. Your new beginning can start now.
www.masterdaihu.com/第32場回顧:妳你家財位知多少餐會/
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Upcoming Learning Session #35:
《靠近我就在今晚 - 家寶知多少餐會》
KNOWING THE TREASURES IN YOUR HOME
7 Aug 2017, 830pm
https://www.facebook.com/masterdaihu/posts/1214735718637976
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但有些事情沒有點出來好像就不會發現 因為不是母語者 也聽不出差別在哪
例如剛剛在女版看到
sh的發音其實嘴唇沒有那麼翹 牙齒也是咬合的 而不是ㄩ的發音方式
那想請問一下 台灣人還有些哪些發音方式普遍不到位?
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