三十有几,最美丽的年纪 : )
从前,我想象的三十几,是做着一份稳定的、朝9晚6的办公室工作,结了婚,也已身为人母,成熟、稳重。这样关于年纪的「既定印象」,好像已经根深蒂固,活在每一个人对「人生的定义」里了。
后来,真的已经三十几了,而并没有活成三十几的模样,我开始慌了。
我努力,但不成功。
我想要的,却又求而不得。
好像,你没有一个好看的职业头衔,没有跟同龄人一样结婚、怀孕、生小孩,就活得很难看一样。所以,有很长的一段时间,我很抗拒承认自己已经三十几了。仿佛,三十几岁,是一个贬义词。
我用了好长的时间,才领悟到「成功」在别人眼中也许有一个「既定模样」,但并不等同于我必须活在别人的期望里。如果真的要定义「失败」,我会认为最失败的就是 —— 不接受自己。不愿意接受自己原来的模样,是一件非常累的事情。
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NETFLIX 英剧「Sex Education」里,Adam不愿承认自己是双性恋者,在面对自己喜欢的Eric,Adam甚至不敢在众人面前牵Eric的手。
Eric无法接受一段不能公开的恋情,「我很辛苦才学会爱自己,我不能再继续隐瞒自己的事了 I tried to work really hard to love myself, and I won’t go back to hiding things about me again. 」
Adam讨厌自己,所以感觉任何人都讨厌他,「我感觉所有人都恨我 I feel like everyone hate me.」
Eric的这句话说到我心坎里,「喜欢一个无法自爱的人会很辛苦 It’s kind of hard to love someone who doesn’t love themselves.」
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「接受」,是成长的第一步,也是最难跨过的一步。如果你不爱自己,没有人会更爱你。
真的,并没有在什么年纪,就要活成什么年纪的样子。你这一生要努力的,就是活成自己喜欢的样子。
我三十三,比二十三的我更美!
Love yourself ~
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#三十有几最美丽的年纪
#三十有几
同時也有337部Youtube影片,追蹤數超過2萬的網紅lol-エルオーエル-,也在其Youtube影片中提到,Listen and download on your favorite platform♡ https://lol-JP.lnk.to/honoka-futureID Honoka is a member of the Japanese dance and vocal group“lol -エル...
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love to hate me 在 厭世月姐დ Little Moonდ 小月 Facebook 的最佳貼文
If you hate me, I don't really care. I don't live to please you.
攝影: @marsl91
造型: @ryan_bridestylist @ryan_modeling
服裝: @ansonli0810
地點: @mumu_space
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love to hate me 在 厭世月姐დ Little Moonდ 小月 Facebook 的最佳解答
If you hate me, I don't really care. I don't live to please you.
攝影: @marsl91
造型: @ryan_bridestylist @ryan_modeling
服裝: @ansonli0810
地點: @mumu_space
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love to hate me 在 lol-エルオーエル- Youtube 的最佳解答
Listen and download on your favorite platform♡
https://lol-JP.lnk.to/honoka-futureID
Honoka is a member of the Japanese dance and vocal group“lol -エルオーエル-”.
This song was produced by KM, one of the most talented producers in Japan today.
The song is about love that hasn’t been erased from memories yet.
This piece is about an important love and the feelings that you can’t forget even though you know that you have to move on because it’s for you and your future.
This work carries a message that only a woman can send to the worldview of Alternative Pop.
◆Official web site
http://avex.jp/lol/
◆YouTube
lol -エルオーエル-Official Channel:https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCTAs...
Playlist:https://www.youtube.com/playlist?list...
◆Twitter
honoka:https://twitter.com/lol_honoka
lol-エルオーエル-:https://twitter.com/lol_avex
◆Instagram
lol-エルオーエル-:https://www.instagram.com/lol_official/
honoka:https://www.instagram.com/honoka_lol/
◆TikTok
https://www.tiktok.com/@lol_avex
Produced by KM
Music & Lyrics : KM & Lil'Leise But Gold
Music Video Credits
Director : Nickey Rourke
Producer : Kento Shinozaki
Production : 蔵屋
Stylist : Keita Uchida
Costume : SUPPLIER
@supplier_official
https://www.supplier-tokyo.com
Lyrics♡
Now remember, Falling Falling is inevitable
Going Going I wanna start walking
Never ever stop, a big 1step
Future is mine
I remember you
Sorry
I didn’t hear that
Lonely, I want to forget just that day, big 1step
Future is mine
1.2.3 call, not answering my phone
4.5.6 move out from your room, change into a dress, redraw the rouge, pressing down my temples
Narrowing my eyes. Do you like pure girls wearing fur? Unfortunately, I don’t have it in me to balance the scales of Love & Money. After I lose and realize, I can’t do anything about it later.
Memories still stacked not erasable
I miss you but I can’t hate you. You are my special. Frustrated feelings
I’m in love, I still hear you
Now remember, falling falling is inevitable
Going Going I wanna start walking
Never ever stop, a big 1step
Future is mine
I remember you
Sorry
I didn’t hear that
Lonely, I want to forget just that day, big 1step
Future is mine
A sunny sky
Wobbly and
Soft determination, cloudy vision, dragging an umbrella that I don’t even use.
The heart flies away. Thoughts of that day, pretend to not know. Falling tears thinking that I might have forgotten something.
One after another, memories become glorified, I hear voice from the heavens saying, stop doing that.
A gulf that cannot be filled even if I pick up all the love and open doors. Sadness is transparent, I feel like I’ve lost my smile. I can’t go back to that place.
I’m sure someday, the memories of my feelings will melt, far and far away.
Soar high, I’m letting the wind carry my body and mind
Memories still stacked not erasable
I miss you but I can’t hate you. You are my special, frustrated feelings
I’m in love, I still hear you
Now remember, falling falling is inevitable
Going Going I wanna start walking
Never ever stop, a big 1step
Future is mine
I remember you
Sorry
I didn’t hear that
Lonely, I want to forget just that day, big 1step
Future is mine
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love to hate me 在 MANDARK梁丹郡 Youtube 的最佳貼文
𝑭𝑼𝑳𝑳 𝑬𝑷 𝑰𝑺 𝑶𝑼𝑻 𝑵𝑶𝑾
https://lnkfi.re/WeWereSoYoung
⟢ ⟣⟢ 告別夏日主打,MV上線 ⟢ ⟣⟢
別讓紀念將你囚禁;送我們一場派對,
慶祝你我之間,到最後都沒有謊言。
⟢ ⟣⟢ ⟣⟢ ⟣⟢ ⟣⟢ ⟣⟢ ⟣⟢ ⟣⟢ ⟣⟢
You got a tattoo of me
but we broke up
You’d better not regret it
like you used to do
I loved the smile on your face
You loved the sunshine after rain
You will never feel the same
I’m the one who can’t be tamed
Cherish the moment we first met
Collect those pieces of my faith
Don’t be so sad, by the way
Cause there’s no time for you to waste
Baby What do you want from me
I never hate someone I love
You know it is nobody’s fault
We’ve probably did all that we could
⟢ ⟣ Video ⟢ ⟣
製作公司 Production Company | Nakama Studio
專案管理 Project Manager|提摩西 Timothy Chen
導演 Director|提摩西 Timothy Chen
製片 Producer|提摩西 Timothy Chen
美術指導 Art Direction|提摩西 Timothy Chen
造型指導 Costume Designer|提摩西 Timothy Chen
化妝師 Makeup Artist|萬芹菲 Wan
髮色設計 Hair Color|梁晴 Jrina Liang
攝影師Director of Photography|提摩西 Timothy Chen
攝大助 1st AC|翁悅 Yeah Weng
攝二助 2nd AC |賴泓甫 Roy Lai
剪接師 Editor|提摩西 Timothy Chen
調光師 Colorist|萬芷瑋 Abby Wan
字體設計 Typography |鄭宇辰 u_u
特別感謝 Special thanks |Lisa Hu・王玫芸 Mei Yun Wang・周士軒 ZHOU SHI XUAN
⟢ ⟣ Music ⟢ ⟣
作曲 COMPOSER|梁丹郡 Mandark Liang
作詞 LYRICIST|梁丹郡 Mandark Liang・曾國洵 AHHKUO
製作人 PRODUCER|張家誠 Chia Cheng Chang・梁丹郡 Mandark Liang
配唱製作人 VOCAL PRODUCER|暴龍 (恐龍的皮) Trex (The Dinosaur's Skin)
編曲 ARRANGEMENT|張家誠 Chia Cheng Chang
演唱 VOCAL|暴龍 (恐龍的皮) Trex (The Dinosaur's Skin)・梁丹郡 Mandark Liang
電吉他 ELECTRIC GUITAR|張家誠 Chia Cheng Chang
合成器 SYNTH|張家誠 Chia Cheng Chang
電吉他 GUITAR|張家誠 Chia Cheng Chang
弦樂 STRINGS|梁丹郡 Mandark Liang
鼓 DRUMS|張家誠 Chia Cheng Chang
合聲 BACKING VOCAL|梁丹郡 Mandark Liang・暴龍 (恐龍的皮) Trex (The Dinosaur's Skin)
合聲編寫 BACKING VOCAL ARRANGEMENT|梁丹郡 Mandark Liang
電貝斯 BASS|張家誠 Chia Cheng Chang
製作助理 PRODUCER ASSISTANT|
翻譯協力 TRANSLATOR|陳思翰 Hank Chen・暴龍 (恐龍的皮) Trex (The Dinosaur's Skin)・何筱翠 Agnis Ho
鼓組錄音師 DRUM RECORDING ENGINEER|張家誠 Chia Cheng Chang
人聲錄音師 VOCAL RECORDING ENGINEER| 吳奕宏 Wu Yi Hung
人聲錄音室 VOCAL RECORDING STUDIO| Playroom
人聲編輯 VOCAL EDITING|陳以霖 Yi Lin Chen
鼓組錄音室 DRUM RECORDING STUDIO|+x studio
混音師 MIX ENGINEER|周已敦 Itun Chou
混音錄音室 MIXING STUDIO|Rave Sound Studio
母帶後期工程師 MASTERING ENGINEER|周已敦 Itun Cho
母帶後期錄音室 MASTERING STUDIO|Rave Sound Studio
封面視覺設計 Visual Design|梁丹郡 Mandark Liang
卡帶插畫設計師 Cassette Cover Designer|火曜び Tuesday (JP)
藝人照攝影師 Artist Photo Photographer|陳泓旭 Milkgreen・楊大彥 Dean Yang
EP 標準字 Logo|楊力龢 Edney Yang
Rabbit |黃庭聖 Tinson Huang・楊大彥 Dean Yang・陳泓旭 Milkgreen
宣傳統籌 Marketing Dept.|九踢文化 9 KICK
企劃 Marketing Executor|梁丹郡 Mandark Liang
文案 Copywriter|范懷心 Sandra Fan @ROOM.338
數位發行 Digital Publishing|福祿壽音樂 FRUIT SOLD MUSIC
協力單位 Cooperation|九踢文化 9 KICK・福祿壽音樂 FRUIT SOLD MUSIC・OOO-ing・StreetVoice 街聲・派歌 Packer・吹音樂 Blow
特別感謝 Special Thanks|吳倬安 Leon Wu・黃培華 Sunday Huang・毛毛ㄉ快樂好朋友 HappyKawaiiFriends・呂佩蓬 PP L・王玫芸 Mei Yun Wang・梁晴 Jrina Liang・My Birds・Shigeyoshi Omura・鳥井 寛
Sponsor|王永楠・梁豐順・張淑瓶 Ping Chang
OP|福祿壽音樂娛樂有限公司Fruit Sold Music Co., Ltd.
SP|Universal Music Publ. Ltd Taiwan
In memory of my baby bird: Mochi
僅以此紀念我的愛 Mochi 伴我完成這張作品
⟢ ⟣⟢ ⟣⟢ ⟣獨立製作・歡迎贊助⟢ ⟣⟢ ⟣
Merch 周邊 / Paypal 贊助 / Others
https://linktr.ee/mandark.jpg
♪ MANDARK
𝗙𝗔𝗖𝗘𝗕𝗢𝗢𝗞 https://www.facebook.com/mandarkliang
𝗜𝗡𝗦𝗧𝗔𝗚𝗥𝗔𝗠 https://www.instagram.com/mandark.jpg/
𝗦𝗣𝗢𝗧𝗜𝗙𝗬 https://reurl.cc/WEDal9
𝗕𝗔𝗡𝗗𝗖𝗔𝗠𝗣 https://mandarkravel.bandcamp.com/music
♪ The Dinosaur's Skin 恐龍的皮
𝗙𝗔𝗖𝗘𝗕𝗢𝗢𝗞 https://www.facebook.com/TheDinosaursSkin
𝗜𝗡𝗦𝗧𝗔𝗚𝗥𝗔𝗠 https://www.instagram.com/thedinosaursskin/
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love to hate me 在 阿牧Amoo Youtube 的最佳貼文
這首歌應該怎麼開頭 拿著蓮蓬頭 當作麥克風
在廁所拍攝有點不知所措 對著攝像頭 別這 麼緊繃
會不會有點滑稽 配這背景 唱著抒情
一直在這拍攝會不會看膩 那換個場景
但是規定要在浴室拍攝 於是換了一間
空間有限會撞到擺設 但我真的沒有意見
這主題新鮮 能夠被聽見
或許我這首歌能成為經典
耳機戴起我哼起 二七發起的主題
出擊造成觸及 別粗心小心出局
這首歌響起你會想起 beat and melody
相信會裝進你的腦裡成為 memories
first and foremost please Keep it clean
親愛的抱歉我有點小潔癖
我的牙膏拜託不要從中間擠
babe please listen cuz i mean it!
你忘了嗎我再說一次keep it clean
damn love 你真的太隨意
I hate to tell you again請你聽進去
Yo babe, i really do mean it
My babe 別再氣
This is my house please Keep it clean
U gotta listen up or you gotta leave
My honey I got it
baby I’m sorry 我有小潔癖
But thank god, 你有聽進去
這首歌該怎麼收尾 回到座位 再來杯 咖啡
混搭著五味雜陳的氣味 配著拖鞋 別有一番風味
會不會有點滑稽 這個場景 唱著抒情
baby I know you got me
所以牙膏 別從中間擠
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