Be Who You Are, Not What Others Want You To Be!❤
Why are you single? When are you going to get married? When are you having kids? Why you don't have kids? Why is she/he divorced? What happened to them? Why are they like that? Why and why and why people like to ask these insensitive questions, being prejudice, stereotyping, speculates, gossips, and make inappropriate judgments.
How can you ask something that someone can't 100% control, just like death? Some things are unknown, it's like asking, when are you going to die? It's common sense. If you don't know this answer, means you won't know the exact why for such questions.
When someone is single by choice or it's not just the right time for them, let it be. So what if that person wants to be or will be single forever? It may be better for the person than being with the wrong partner for the rest of the person's life. You don't meddle with God's plan or even someone's choices. You can't force people to get into relationships, what's more marriage. If it is forced, how can a marriage be happy and whole? Love is a huge topic. Again it's not just about relationships and marriage.
People should not pretend to be stupid, play dumb, needy, spoiled, or fake just to attract/be with a life partner. Women and men should have their own intelligence, personality, independence, and truthfulness in life. We want to be real and genuine, and if someone wants us to be part of their life, it's better for them to know the real us from the get-go. Not presenting a false front.
A healthy relationship should be two individuals who love and care for each other, support, motivate, respect, be kind, honest, loyal, help, guide, communicate well, listen and give the very best to each other, by also being the best version of themselves. Not one person should be superior to the other or vice versa. If you feel forced and put yourself down for another person, you are probably in the wrong relationship.
Put aside status, education level, salary, or position in career, a partner and a healthy relationship should be side by side, be supportive, help each other, understand each other strengths and weaknesses, able to give and take/compromise, and open to learning from each other when it comes to marriage or any relationship.
A woman's or man's characteristics for example being soft or strong, and men prefer soft/more feminine women, and women who are less intelligent/educated than them, should not be generalized. Some men admire women who are intelligent/educated, strong, and independent and women have their preferences too. Different people are attracted to different traits. No one size fits all.
No one should pretend to be less than she/he is for the opposite partner to feel desirable or dominant. If a person desperately and constantly trying to boost their ego, be dominant or prove power especially in a relationship, this may lead to negative behavioral patterns and impacts such as emotional instability, harassment, abuse, bullying, verbal and physical violence, unhappiness, and depression.
We are all individuals in the end and have our differences. As a human being, one of the goals in life is trying to be better than we were yesterday. Trying to change ourselves for the sake of pleasing someone and pretending just to make someone feel happy or superior is not healthy and can jeopardize our own mental health and also the relationship in the long run.
If we want to change something, for example, I want to be more fitter, healthier, happier, smarter, financially independent, and so forth, it is for ourselves (without being selfish or self-absorbed). If we take care of ourselves first then we can take care of others better. Do for yourself and the motivation will be sustainable than doing for other people.
Respect and love yourself. Respect the people around you. Then we should not be degrading or intimidate anyone. This will make you a better person. We attract what we are.
Life is unique, so does human beings. Life itself is bigger than getting married, having kids, make tons of money, and so forth. This is the typical life cycles, stages and goals we all have learned in our life. The strong pressures in society dictate what is better and not just because that's what it is for the past generations have been. The pressure to fit in with society's standards and expectations is also there.
As a society and individual, let's understand deeper that not everyone will have the same life cycles and even life goals. There are things we can control and can't control. Not everything that is good for you is going to be good for other people. Having or not having something can be a blessing and sometimes only God knows why.
In life, some may walk their path of life and make choices completely different from us and that's perfectly fine. We all have our own unique journey and that makes us different, and we can use that differences to make life better for ourselves and the life of others.
Let this sink in.
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Happened to be part of the crew🤩😂🤪 Marvel Marvel Studios
There are always many life lessons you can learn by reading good books and watch great movies.
Stan Lee is one of the influential writers out there. It's amazing to see how he humanised the heroes. The heroes have characters and personality, flaws and insecurities despite having their supernatural strengths.
Even though we don't possess supernatural powers like our favourite Marvel characters, we do have the choice to help others and beings around us.
When you do help them, that makes you a hero. Just like our Marvel heroes, we all have flaws and insecurities, we are not perfect, and never will be.
Always try to keep on improving ourselves, let's be selfless and focus on how can we help other people, animals, nature around us, one day at a time. ❤
"It's not about how much we lost. It's about how much we have left" - Tony Stark, Avengers: Endgame 🙌
"That person who help others simply because it is the right thing to do, is true without a doubt, a real superhero" - Stan Lee💫
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【恨む時間の減らし方】
いつも、「一筆書きで喋っている」と言いますか、終わりどころとか何も考えずに、フラッと喋っているので、喋っている自分に気づかされることが時々あります。
それこそ、昨日、「嫌いな人がいない」と言ったんですが、そういえば、僕、本当に嫌いな人がいないんです。
嫌いな行動はいくつかありますよ。
なので、「人としてできている」というわけではないです。ヤリチンだし。
喋ってみて、「あれ? なんで僕は嫌いな人がいないんだっけ?」と、そこで初めて考え出すわけですが、昨日の場合だと、『「意見」と「人格」を分けて考えているから』ということで片付くんですね。
あとは、そこそこ忙しいから、わざわざ「嫌いな人」を作って、そこに時間を割くのが面倒だと思っているのかもしれません。
「映画『えんとつ町のプペル』の公開まで、あと2ヶ月」というタイミングで、不倫をした有名人に時間と感情を割いている場合じゃないじゃないですか。
心の底からどうでもいいんで。
なので、ツイッターとかで有名人の不倫に対して、怒りのツイートとかしている人がいたら、ソッコーでフォローを外します。
他人の不倫なんて、僕の人生において、1秒も必要がない時間なので。
バシバシと(笑)
で、「嫌い」繋がりでいうと、そういえば僕は何かを「恨む」みたいなこともないんです。
ここはハッキリしておきたいのですが、僕は、たとえば当時のクラウドファンディングをした時とか、絵本を無料公開した時とか、「ひな段」以外に活躍の場所を求めた時とか、「何か新しい挑戦をした時にはその都度、日本中から批判された」ということをよく言います。
これは批判してきた人を攻撃しているわけでも、恨んでいるわけでもなくて、「皆、『正しいか正しくないか』で判断していなくて、『知らないもの』を脊髄反射的に批判する傾向があって、それは、巡り巡って皆の首を絞めることになるから、批判をするのならば、キチンと咀嚼した上で、批判しようね」という注意喚起です。
とにかく僕は話を前に進めたいヤツなんです。
そこに下心なんて一切ない。
皆と面白いことをしたいだけです。
「いやいや、本当は金儲けでしょ」とか言われるのですが、そんなものには一切興味がない。
僕の生活費と、僕がエンタメに投資している額および、被災地や貧困国に支援している額の比率を聞いたら、ドン引きすると思います(笑)。
ちなみに僕のレギュラーの生活費は貧乏大学生とさして変わりません。
嘘だと思うのなら、僕の近しいスタッフに聞いてみてください。
贅沢なんかには、興味がないんです。
世の中には、そういうやつがいるんです。僕です。
話を戻します。
「恨む」って、かなり長い時間を奪われるじゃないですか?
そう考えると、なるべく恨まない方がいいですよね?
となると、ちょっとややこしいですが、自分の人生において「恨む確率」を減らした方がいいと思うんですね。
その時、「避けることができない恨み」と「避けることができる恨み」を分けた方がいいと思っています。
たとえば、「大切な家族が被害者になってしまった」ということで発生する恨みは、なかなか避けられないと思うんですね。
ここはもう諦める。
じゃあ、「避けることができる恨み」って何なんだ? と考えた時に、結論、「代替案を作ることができる問題」だと僕は思っています。
たとえば、映画『えんとつ町のプペル』のプロモーションとして、もともと全国の映画館をまわって、映画『えんとつ町のプペル』のストーリーを全部喋るイベントを開催しようとしていたんです。
で、各映画館をおさえて、スケジュールも組んで、「じゃあ、始めるぞ!」となったタイミングで、コロナが来ちゃって、全部白紙になったんですね。
そこで、どこだけブーブー言おうが、コロナがフッと消えることはないので、「じゃあ、オンラインに切りけるか?」となって、白紙になった3日後にはクラウドファンディングを立ち上げて、そのリターンで「映画の宣伝を兼ねたオンライン講演会」とか、「それこそストーリーを全部喋る会のオンライン版」を出したんです。
一回の講演会で1万人を超える人が集まって、結果、オフラインで全国を回るよりも多くの人に届けることができたので、「ああ、これはこれで、良かったね〜」となった。
でも、それって、僕が「クラウドファンディング」という選択肢を持っていたからだし、オンラインイベントも慣れまくっていたから、「じゃあ、こっちに舵を切ろうか」となったわけで、そんなものを一切持っていなくて、そんな選択肢があることを知らなかったら、コロナに全部持っていかれたわけだから、「コロナが憎い」となったと思うんです。
代替案がなければ、奪われちゃうんですね。
だから、奪った人や現象を恨んでしまう。
つまり、「恨み」というのは、知識不足が生んでいる。
物事を知らなければ知らないほど、「恨む確率」が上がっちゃう。
否定ばっかりしている人って、新しい知識を入れていなくて、選択肢が極端に減っているから、恨む頻度が増えて、恨みに割いている時間が増えちゃう。
健康に気を使って80歳まで長生きしたところで、恨んでいる時間が10年ぐらいあったら、実質、稼働しているのは70年なわけで、健康に気を使うのなら、それと同じモチベーションで、ちゃんと知識を入れて、恨む確率を下げた方がいいと思います。
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テレビ東京
「クロストークラウンジ」
【OA日】
11/1(日)16:00~17:15
関テレ(フジ系列全国ネット)
「華丸大吉&千鳥のテッパンいただきます」
【OA日】
11/10(火)22:00~22:54
[how to reduce time to hate]
Do you always say ′′ I'm talking with a konigs," I'm talking about the end of the day, and I'm talking to flats, so I'm sometimes aware of myself that I'm talking about.
That's why yesterday I said, ′′ I don't like anyone," but when I think about it, I don't really hate it.
There are some nasty actions.
So it doesn't mean ′′ it's made as a person," It's a yarichin.
Talk to me," what? Why don't I have a haters?" it's the first time I've ever thought about it, but in the case of yesterday, I'm thinking about ′′ opinion ′′ and ′′ personality ′′ so I'm going to finish it I'm sorry.
Later, I'm pretty busy, so I might think it's troublesome to make ′′ haters ′′ all the way and spend time there.
Isn't it the time to take time and emotions to a celebrity who has adultery at the time of ′′ 2 months until the release of the movie ′′ a town
I don't care from the bottom of my heart.
So, if anyone is doing anger tweets against celebrity adultery on Twitter or something, I will remove the follow in sotto.
The adultery of others is the time I don't need 1 seconds in my life.
With ba lol
So, when I think about it, I don't even ′′ hate ′′ something.
I want to be clear here, but when I did crowdfunding at the time, and when I published a picture book for free, I asked for a place to be active other than ′′ Hinata Dan," When I do something new, I often say that every time I have been criticized from Japan
This is not attacking people who have been criticized, but not a grudge," everyone is not judging by ′′ right or right," and the spinal cord of ′′ what I don't know ′′ I tend to criticize reflective, and it's going to strangle everyone's neck over the tour, so if you're going to criticize it, let's criticize it and criticize it
Anyway, I'm the one who wants to go forward.
There is no ulterior motive there.
I just want to do something interesting with everyone.
′′ No, no, it's actually money but I'm not interested in anything like that.
I think I'm going to pull a don off when I hear my living expenses and the amount I'm investing in entertainment and the ratio of the amount that I'm supporting in the disaster area and poverty country (lol).
By the way, my regular living expenses don't change to poor college students.
If you think it's a lie, ask my close staff.
I'm not interested in luxury.
There's something like that in the world. It's me.
I'll bring back the story.
Isn't ′′ hate ′′ going to be robbed of quite a long time?
If you think so, it's better not to grudge as much as you can, right?
It's a bit confusing, but I think it's better to reduce the ′′ probability of hate ′′ in your life.
At that time, I think it's better to separate the ′′ grudge that can't be avoided ′′ and ′′ grudge that can be avoided,"
For example, I don't think it's quite inevitable that the grudge that occurs because of ′′ the precious family has become a victim,"
I'm already giving up here.
So what is ′′ a grudge that can be avoided," When I thought about it, conclusion," I think it's a problem that can make an alternative,"
For example, as a promotion for the movie ′′ a no-in-town ′′ I was originally trying to hold an event to talk all about the story of the movie ′′ a in the town ′′ as a promotion.
So, I've been holding each movie theater, and I'm going to have a schedule, and I'm going to start," then I'm going to start!" and the corona is coming, and it's all blank.
So, how much do you say oink, but corona doesn't disappear, so," then, I'm going to cut it online?" and after 3 days of being blank, I'm going to have a crowdfunding. Standing up I raised it, and on the return, I put out the ′′ online lecture with the promotion of the movie ′′ and ′′ it's the online version of the meeting that talks all about the story,"
Over 1 million people gathered in one lecture, and as a result, they were able to deliver to more people than going around the country offline," Oh, this is it, good for you ~" It has become.
But that's because I had an option to ′′ Crowdfunding ′′ and the online event was also used to it," then I'm going to cut the rudder here," and I'm going to have a good time with that. If I didn't know that there was an option like that, I would have had it all in Corona, so i think I've become ′′ I hate corona,"
If you don't have an alternative, you'll be robbed.
So I'm going to grudge the people and the phenomenon who took it.
In other words, ′′ grudge ′′ is a lack of knowledge.
The more you don't know, the more you don't know, the more you hate,"
People who deny it don't have new knowledge, and the option is reduced to extreme, so there are more frequency to hate, and there are more time to grudge.
When you take care of your health and live long until 80 years old, if you have a grudge time for about 10 years, it's been 70 years since I've been in the middle of a long time, and I'm going to take care of my health. I think it's better to put knowledge properly and lower the probability of hate with the same motivation.
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[OA day]
11/10 (Tues) 22:54 ~ 22:00Translated
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