1. Seorang wanita 42 tahun datang klinik untuk routine maternity checkup. Usia kandungan baru 15 minggu. Kata dia, dia saja stop pil perancang bulan 12 tahun lepas. Tak sangka lekat pulak. Kata dia lagi, anak kedua dia bakal melahirkan anak lepas raya nanti. Dia ingatkan nak jaga cucu, tak sangka nanti kena jaga anak sendiri pulak hihi. Kata dia, dia meloya 4 bulan, suami asyik muntah2,check pregnancy test 4 bulan pun negative, tapi perut makin besar. Doktor rujuk untuk scan tengok2 dah ada kantung baby. Lepas habis scan dia malu nak balik rumah. Malam tu dia bagitau suami, suami dia seronok bukan main. Dia ja malu2 hihi.
2. Seorang remaja 16tahun. Masih bersekolah & kehidupan agak liar. Terlanjur bersama kekonon cinta hati sampai mati. Dah sah mengandung. Menangis dan keluarkan kata2 kesat. Kata dia, dia hanya nak seronok2 tak sangka jadi. Selama ni elok ja tak lekat. Astagfirullah. Saya hanya boleh nasihatkan sebab kalau marah pun tak berguna. Harap dia tak gugurkan anak itu. Ramai sangat yang mahu mengandung tapi tak dapat2.
3. Seorang wanita baru lepas kahwin bulan lepas. Bulan ni dah dapat tahu mengandung. Alhamdulillah. Seronok tengok riak wajah dia dan suami bila scan nampak kantung bayi & denyutan jantung. Ini momen paling best bila aku jaga klinik ibu anak. Belum bila dah nampak tangan kaki gerak & kadang2 ada rezeki nampak jantina baby. Seronok mereka, gembira lagi aku.
4. Seorang wanita 35 tahun. Berkahwin umur 23 tahun. Sudah 12 tahun menanti pregnancy test positive. Siap ambil anak angkat, siap buat bermacam jenis test, siap makan itu ini, jumpa ustaz dan sebagainya. Tapi masih negative. Allah belum masih mahu memberi rezeki anak untuk mereka. Tetapi alhamdulillah hubungan mereka laki bini bahagia even dgn anak angkat yang satu tu.
5. Seorang wanita 26 tahun. Berkahwin lepas spm. Sudah beranak tiga dan memutuskan untuk memotong tiub peranakan. Sebab ingat semua akan ok dan takmahu mengandung lagi. Mana tau allah mahu menguji, di usia 30, suami ceraikan dia. Tiga tahun lepas tu dia kahwin lain dan suami baru mahu anak. Allah punya nak uji. Tiub itu cuba disambung balik tapi penuh komplikasi. Dan suami baru pun ceraikan dia juga. Nauzubillah.
Cerita mengandung ni ada bermacam warna. Ada yang seindah pelangi, ada yang kelam suram & ada yang suam suam.
Tak semua orang gembira dengan kandungan. Tak semua orang bahagia bila ada anak. Tak semua orang mahu zuriat.
Tapi allah takkan beri atau takberi dengan sengaja. Pasti bersebab. Pasti ada hikmah di sebalik setiap sesuatu.
Jika allah sudah kurniakan kamu anak, maka jagalah amanah yang satu itu sebaiknya. Dialah penyambung zuriat, dialah cermin ibu bapa dia.
Jika allah masih tidak mengurniakan zuriat lagi untuk kamu, maka bersabarlah. Berusahalah sehabis baik dan berdoa. Pasti ada sebab musabab kenapa masih belum ada anak. Mungkin allah masih rindu nak dengar rintih rayu kita.
قَالَ النَّبِيُّ صَلَّى اللَّهُ عَلَيْهِ وَسَلَّمَ كُلُّ مَوْلُودٍ يُولَدُ عَلَى الْفِطْرَةِ فَأَبَوَاهُ يُهَوِّدَانِهِ أَوْ يُنَصِّرَانِهِ أَوْ يُمَجِّسَانِهِ كَمَثَلِ الْبَهِيمَةِ تُنْتَجُ الْبَهِيمَةَ هَلْ تَرَى فِيهَا جَدْعَاءَ[2]
“Setiap bayi itu dilahirkan atas dasar fitrah. Maka kedua orang tuanyalah yg membuatnya menjadi Yahudi Nashrani atau Majuzi.”
Redha & bersyukurlah dengan apa yang ada pada kita sekarang.
Kerana kasut hidup kita takkan sama dengan kasut hidup orang lain🙃
Dr. Erna Nadia😊
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pregnancy test negative 在 急症狂人 Dr Kwong Facebook 的最佳貼文
有冇人睇《天命》?
我都想好似清朝啲太醫咁勁,把一把脈就知懷孕定流產,返工睇「佳麗」(即Gynae =婦科)超聲波都慳返!
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pregnancy test negative 在 Bubzvlogz Youtube 的精選貼文
Hello Youtube family,
I'm a little nervous about posting today's video. I'm sorry it's not the usual chirpy type of vlog. Originally, the footage wasn't supposed to be up so early but life never goes the way we plan right?
It’s been a bit of an emotional week. Due to a missed period, I took a pregnancy test on 8th October to find out we were expecting again. Just to be sure, I sent Tim out to get more tests to be sure. Since he came back with a two-pack, I took another test and it came back positive again. With one spare, I took the other test the next day but it came back negative (note- it wasn’t morning urine). Confused- I sent the hubby to grab more. This time, he came back with a triple pack. The next test was a big fat positive. After the initial confusion, we realised we really wanted this baby and thought maybe this baby was truly meant to be.
At the same time, Tim and I didn’t want to think too much. It was very early so we knew anything could happen since 1 in 5 pregnancies end up in a miscarriage. However, it didn’t stop us from thinking of baby names and envisioning our life as a family of four.
During my photoshoot in London, I felt lightheaded and my stomach pains started to feel more intense. I thought maybe I was just over fatigued so didn’t want to worry myself too much. As I was waiting for my flight back home, I felt pressure in my lower region. I stumbled to the bathroom and realised I was bleeding. Rather than the dark brown spotting I had days ago, it was a brighter colour of red indicating fresh blood. The bleeding eventually stopped for a bit so I felt more assured but as I got out of the airplane, I felt the bleeding started to return. Since I was emotionally and physically tired from the long day, I went to to bed early with hopes that rest could maybe prevent the worse from happening. Around 6am, I woke up to more stomach pains and pressure as I went to use the bathroom, I finally accepted I was having a miscarriage.
I knew my body wasn’t in it’s best condition so in a lot of ways, I wonder if it could’ve been prevented. It’s been an emotional few days. I spent it doing some grieving and I feel a lot better now. Since I was less than 5 weeks along, I’m thankful the loss happened early. To those who have also experienced a loss, I am so so sorry and my heart is with you. Know that you are not alone. We can only try to understand that everything happens for a reason. I hope you can take comfort in your family and friends.
It made me thankful to know Isaac was born into the world safely with no complications. I know Tim and I are still young and we have more opportunities in the future to expand our family.
We were not ready for another baby and the pregnancy was definitely a shock but our early loss has made us realise that if we are blessed to get pregnant again in the future, we would be ready and happy for it.
Physically, my body doesn’t feel too bad. It just felt like I was having a very heavy period. Usually my flow finishes in 4-5 days but my womb completely cleared within 2 days. Still experiencing a little nausea and cramping but I’m getting lots of cuddles from the family. Chubbi and Domo make fantastic hot water bottles too.
Even though it was an early miscarriage, I think I was a more upset about it than I thought I would be. I wasn’t as excited as I was with my first pregnancy and it was because I was overwhelmed since I knew what to expect. Once I started to embrace the changes about to come our way, I was able to connect with my pregnancy with excitement. Unfortunately, by then- the pregnancy couldn't progress.
Tim has reminded me that I could’ve been perfectly healthy and careful and yet sometimes, these things will just happen. We still feel incredibly blessed for our family already. We will leave it all to the Lord. He has been taking care of our family and we know everything happens for a reason. We know other people out there have had it way worse. Our situation is nothing in comparison. We are always going to be thankful ^_^
Love, the Bubz family xo
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