“Sayang, baju kotor semua dalam bakul nie ya?” tanya aku
“Haah, oh dekat atas ada satu baju sayang sangkut belakang pintu” jawab isteri aku
Aku terus menaiki anak anak tangga untuk mengambil baju kotor isteri aku tanpa banyak soal lagi.
...Continue Reading" dear, all the dirty clothes in this basket?" ask me
"Haah, oh there's one shirt love stuck in the back of the door" answer my wife
I keep on my stairs to pick up my wife's dirty clothes with no more questions.
After taking it, I went down and put the clothes in the washing machine with the clothes that haven't been washed yet.
"eh brother, let my baby wash later tomorrow"
" it's okay dear, let me do it. Dear just taking a break." answer me trying to comfort
Done pressing the washing machine "start" the washing machine, I went to the fridge. Then I open look at what dish is left.
"oh a lot is over" Getus my heart
While waiting for the washing machine ready to wash I'm getting ready to go to the supermarket. Not far from home. So hurry up and buy a dish.
" eh where are you going?" ask my wife happiness
" for a while dear, I want to buy a dish. I've done a lot of people watching that " answer me while reaching the car key
"takpelah bro, later love can go buy it yourself"
" it's okay, this is my duty too. It's a pity that you don't have to be tired. Just sit and rest ya " I said that I give advice for my wife to rest. I pity seeing him, woke up early in the morning. Cleaning up the house. Treat me. Entertaining the child. He made it all the way. Sometimes watching him don't have "me time".
" brother okay to harinie? It's a pity to see my brother doing everything I want to do?" it's about my wife that I'm sure to love
"eh brother is okay, let me do all the work dear harinie ya" answer me to calm his heart.
That's why I decided to do all the work, I want to let him rest.
I turned on the car engine and went straight to the supermarket. When driving I was pensive thinking of something.
Actually my situation at that time I don't have enough money, many problems come, business is slow, people ask for debt again, so many things to pay.
I'm tangled.
I don't know why I feel so wrong to let my wife do everything before. I feel so guilty. And that's my responsibility. My duty.
After I decided to help my wife, I keep doing it without a lot of questions. I'm trying to lose my mistakes.
"torn torn" sound horn sounds loud behind my car. Ah it's a green light. I'm high for a while at the signal light.
I entered the gear d and continue the journey to market.
Just arrived at the market, I see in my wallet there is only rm50, I think what dish is enough to buy.
Without Care, my intention is to try to give my wife and children to eat.
I took one chicken, a kilo of wings, a kilo of chicken feet, vegetables, a little raw material, a piece of egg, bread, and a few small items for my child.
" is this enough?" I'm about to think that there's only rm50 in my wallet.
"all of them rm49. 20"
Thank God it's suitable! I smile because the money I have is enough for my family.
Without delay I keep going home. Just until I arrange all the dishes, keep the raw ingredients, and I see the washing machine is done. I immediately put my clothes on.
"Thank God this weather is good" I said while looking at the sky
I managed to take my wife away, apparently she just noticed my move from a while ago
"thank you bang" while give the most charming smile I think
I'm only able to be disputed. Hihi
Since the other day, the next day I suddenly felt something else. My heart feels calm.
When I think of the problems that I face directly I find an unexpected solution.
The person I owe is the one who said pay when it's okay, there are people who are balu, I'm shocked too. What is this dream.
My slow business, suddenly got attention. My car washing center is so focused. Cushion Wash orders also get a celebration. I'm happy in my life.
The day of the coming day then I feel something in my life, it feels easy, my time that I've been feeling like chasing to be a lot of time. I fully spent serving my wife and my children.
Because of this feeling i found a ustaz, it happened that he came to give me a quote. And I'm telling you what's going on.
The Ustaz said, that is the advantage of a husband if he serves his wife. The responsibility and making a living should be.
Not only ringgit is a priority, but in terms of spiritual is also very important.
If the wife's heart is easy, then the husband's business will also be easy.
I don't want to show that I'm a wonderful. Not at all. But this is the experience of a husband who serves the spiritual wife.
We don't know, brother, we're tired of looking for sustenance. They're tired of serving us too. There are those who are looking for sustenance together. After that, treat you, brother. Entertaining the kids again. Enjoying the house again. Tired.
We husbands don't always think that wives need to obey their husbands. But our true responsibility is that we close one eye.
More if talking about polygamy, everyone wants to show off the champion and the other one is still udder. There are people who are kind of hanging out with friends. Remember to remember. Wives and children need our attention.
Don't be like that, husbands.
The task that the wife has done is just because she helps, because of the intention to help us. After all the affairs of the house needs Sunnah. I don't want my husband to follow me.
Remember, the happiness of the husband lies in the heart of a happy wife.
So this is why my life feels orderly when one of them I have served my wife's spiritual. Really woman is the jewelry of the world.
I hope this story can benefit all husbands. So our choice is to live in harmony or a mess.
Love your wife is not only with speech but with deeds.
That's how it is.
- Saiful Bahari -
I love my wifeTranslated
