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เธออาจกำลังรู้สึกว่าโลกพังครืนลงมา จากความผิดหวังไม่ว่าเรื่องอะไร แต่เรื่องนั้นเป็นเรื่องสำคัญที่สุดอย่างหนึ่งในชีวิตแน่ๆ
ความรู้สึก 'โลกพัง' หรือ 'หัวใจสลาย' ไม่มีชิ้นดีแบบนี้ ไม่มีใครเห็น ไม่มีใครรู้ ไม่มีใครเข้าใจถึงความเจ็บปวดและความว่างเปล่าที่เกิดขึ้นในใจเรา บางสิ่งที่เคยอยู่ในหัวใจเหมือนถูกควักออกไป และหายไปตลอดกาล
...Continue ReadingDear you.
You may be feeling the world down from disappointments no matter what, but it is one of the most important thing in life.
The feeling of ' the world is broken ' or ' heart broken '. No one sees this. No one knows. No one understands the pain and emptiness that happens in our hearts. Something that has been in our heart is like being taken away and gone forever.
I just want to tell you not to feel bad about your weakness today. It's normal for every human being. When you are broken heart, there is a weak time. Cry without strength.
Don't keep smiling or trying to act okay. I understand that you have to spend a while with pain. I'm okay that you are not okay. People don't have to be strong. Laugh at every time. Every time that makes us closer together.
Don't cover the pain, because when you show it in front of someone you can trust, that is opening the opportunity for him to take care and show care and open the opportunity for yourself to be cared for others.
Society may judge her weak, pressure to be strong soon, but it's okay. Have space to be weak with some people who truly understand you.
You may have to admit that in times like this, you are no different than the injured bird. You can't fly as usual. Don't pressure yourself to get up and act like -- I'm okay.
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Please be careful of the same hope, thinking about the events that have passed. When everything is beautiful. She may think about these things often to compensate for feeling, loss or emptiness today. But doing this makes you live in the past. No. Can walk from it
With your lover, if you separate ways, don't follow him in different channels. The more you do this, the more you poke the wound and never dry day.
Anxiety, depression, confused, exhausted... it's
Give yourself time
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The important thing is that you have to stop being negative to yourself when everything falls apart. The first thing people like to blame yourself, blame yourself and then walk around thinking " if we don't do that day " or " that day we should do this kind of thought. The more you cut the wound, the more painful because it will lead to overload of yourself. See yourself too bad.
On the other hand, with the lover, you can stop thinking that he is a good person in a corner because he is not or we are like this. It doesn't mean he is wrong, but I want to look at that person as ' person ' with bad. Too much too.
Don't remember and walk around with the good side. Remember the bad things or the bad things that you did to us. When you think about this, we will be less longing for him. If you think about the good side or good night, you will walk around and Hurt repeatedly
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Take a while to ' withdraw ' from that person or that event. Unfollow, unfollow, live without him in the world. This condition is like a ' quit drug ' person. Otherwise you are like a drug addict who secretly taking it. I will stop. No matter how it is, it can still hurt us all the time.
Go back to old places and make new memories. Don't let parks, coffee shops and other places be stamped by one person's picture. Go to the same place with new people with new people. Have new memories with new memories with new life.
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The strength that you need to have is not to recover from being weak. If it is the strength of the mind -- I will walk on the path of healing, not the path with suffering. When you have to follow the intention strictly.
The bond that I used to bind and bind you in the place will slowly fade by day. If you help yourself as we talk about. That's it.
- Allow yourself to be weak.
- Tell the pain with the person who listens.
- Don't rush to be strong. Give yourself time.
- Stop being addicted to hope.
- Stop watching. Stop following that person in different channels.
- No blame on yourself.
- Remember the bad things he did to us.
- see his bad side too
- Take yourself in a world without him.
- Back to old places to make new memories.
- Focus on your own advantages.
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Above all, you must believe that this pain doesn't last forever. She will gradually get better from walking on the path of healing. Tell yourself - I won't be around the same place.
Keep your self-respect.
Love yourself. Be kind to yourself. Don't hit yourself to hurt yourself unnecessarily.
If you want to start over with someone, it's not too soon. You don't have to forget that person (which is impossible) or wait for the wound to heal. It's okay. You heal yourself together and start a new relationship as well.
Her heart is big enough to contain old stories and turn out to welcome new people.
I wish you to see ' pain ' as outside, not what you can be in who you are. Don't hold it back until you become part of your life.
But you have to help yourself in keeping this pain from being stuck with her forever.
People in this world have to go through heart break together. But when it happens, our lives don't have to break with heart. Restore it again. Start again.
Get through this, we will have a stronger heart, understand more life. Accept the bad things better.
When you really get through this beautifully. One day you will look at it and smile at yourself. Thank you for this event. Thank you for bringing yourself through it.
Yes, there are still new smiles from new people. New events await in the future.
Slowly getting through this incident
I'm rooting for you.Translated
