【德多少,就得多少】
YOUR VIRTUES DETERMINE HOW MUCH YOU GET
最近家附近有建築工地,噪音多了。
客人聽我的聲音不會有問題,因為我的耳機有麥克風,但如果他們不戴有麥克風的耳機,我聽他們的聲音會比較辛苦。
幾天前,為一位年輕的保險經紀通過Zoom批八字。
他進入Zoom會議室後,呆看著我。
我微笑看著他,故意不出聲,觀察著他。
幾秒後,他才粗魯的說:「哈囉?!」
奇怪了,貴為一個保險經紀,見人應該無數,打招呼的方式,怎能這麼粗俗?我阿姨阿伯級的客人,雖不常用Zoom,都比他懂禮貌。
我馬上回:「X先生,您好。您進來會議室,怎麼打招呼這麼粗俗?」
「我一向來都是這樣先哈囉,有聲音我才正式打招呼。」
「我倒是從來不會這樣。」
其實,這是個人修養的問題。
「你沒有讀我發給你的貼文嗎?為何你視訊沒有戴耳機?」
「我一向來Zoom都是這樣,沒有戴耳機。我以為你只是建議而已,不一定要戴。」
「我在貼文裡寫關於戴耳機的理由,你覺得不成立嗎?」
他想了幾秒,回:「是成立的。」
「我們都是提供服務的人。客人找我們,需要三大元素。第一個,就是同理心。你沒有同理心,難怪你說你的客人寧願聽別人說,也不信你說。」
「如果你要我戴,我現在就戴。」
他講完後,依然坐在那裡看著我,一動也不動。
後來,我說了幾句,他肯戴上耳機後,藍牙耳機也並沒操作好。
等了我一個月,這麼簡單的事情都不願事先做好。
看著他理直氣壯的模樣,頓時覺得他很可憐。
貴人坐在他面前,他說的一大堆話,都是以「自我」為出發點,完全不懂得「以和為貴」的道理。這不就是親手把貴人轟出門嗎?
「你這樣講話,就算講贏了,你真的贏了嗎?」
換成我是他的客人,我絕不會向他買保險,因為很明顯這不是一位真心為別人著想的保險經紀人。
那天,雖為他看八字,該說的我都有說,但我依然保留許多。
因為他缺德。
許多人把「德」看得很輕,覺得沒做壞事就是好人。事實上,不按照別人合理的要求做事,蓄意破壞規則,只顧自己,也是沒有德行可言。
有些人會吐槽,哎呀你學佛的人,要慈悲,何必跟他計較?不要著相!
我不是在意氣用事。
沒有智慧的慈悲,會害死人的。
祖師有訓 - 看命本來就是依客人的福德多寡,而賜福。品行不端的人,承受不起更多的福報,反而會遭反噬。再說了,對貴人都不好的人,對沒有利用價值的人就會更善良嗎?
不是捐錢的,就一定是好人,什麼事情都是要用心才算。
每個人都想要與眾不同,可是如果你的所作所為和一般人一樣,沒有比他們做得更好,那你的命格只配拿得起一般的命運。
不要迷信,以為什麼都是人家為難你,就跑去求神拜佛要打小人。我們命運裡的每一個障礙,每一粒石頭,都是自己放進去的。
你不改,障礙物就不會移。
在這裡聲明:沒有麥克風耳機的Zoom客人,我一概會取消諮詢,進行退款,沒得商量,沒得瞎掰。
能突然放假,真是太過癮了!
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Recently, a construction site sprouted up beside my place, creating a lot of noise every day.
Zoom clients wouldn’t have a problem hearing me, but if they do not have a earpiece with a mic, I would have a problem hearing them.
Few days ago, I did a Bazi analysis for a young Insurance Agent via Zoom.
After he entered my Zoom meeting room, he looked at me blankly.
I smiled at him, deliberately staying quiet, and observed him.
Few seconds later, he said bluntly, “Hello?!”
How strange that an insurance agent, who probably have met tons of people, would greet in such an abrupt manner. My middle-aged clients, who rarely use Zoom, have better etiquette than him.
I replied instantly, “Hi, Mr X. Why is your greeting so crude, upon entering this meeting room?”
“I always say hello like this and wait to hear a reply, before I greet officially.”
“I never do that.”
Actually, this demonstrates the refinement of a person.
“Did you not read the post I sent you? Why are you not wearing a earpiece?”
“All along, I do Zooms in this manner without a earpiece. I thought it’s just a suggestion from you and it was not mandatory.”
“I wrote about the reason for clients to wear a earpiece. Do you find it invalid?”
He pondered for a few seconds and replied, “It’s valid.”
“We are both service providers. Clients look for us based on three main qualities. The first being the quality of empathy. You lack empathy and it’s no wonder you say your clients rather listen to others and not trust you as much.”
“If you want me to wear, then I will wear it now”
And he sat there looking at me, not moving an inch.
When he finally put on his ear pods, they did not operate well either.
It’s peculiar how despite a month of waiting for me, he was slow to get this simple thing done right.
Seeing how “self-assured” he was, for a brief moment, I find his behaviour pitiful.
His benefactor was sitting right in front of him, yet his words remained self-serving, totally oblivious to what harmony is about. Wasn’t this sending your benefactor straight out of the door?
“Even if you gain an upper hand talking like this, have you really won?
I would never buy insurance from such an agent, as obviously he was not the considerate kind.
I still read his Bazi that day, said what I should but there were also a lot I did not reveal.
Because he is lacking in virtues.
Many people think lightly of virtues. They assumed that if they do no evil deed, they are virtuous humans. Fact is, if you do not follow the reasonable requirements of other people, deliberately breaking the rules for your own gain, you have no virtue to speak of.
Some naysayers will tell me, but hey you are a practicing Buddhist, so you should exercise your compassion and not be bothered with his behaviour! Don’t get attached to external form!
This isn’t about me.
Compassion without wisdom brings more harm than good.
Since ancient times, it is a rule of thumb that we practitioners allocate good fortune to clients, based on their conduct and luck.
A person with undesirable conduct is unable to bear greater fortune, or there will be adverse consequences. Moreover, if a person is unkind to his benefactor, it is very unlikely that he will be kinder to another person with no value to him.
You can’t define a person as a good man, just because he is willing to donate money. We got to look at how he uses his heart.
Everybody wants to be special and different from others. But if what you are doing is the same as other people, nowhere better than them, then you can only carry a mediocre Destiny.
Don’t be superstitious to think that everybody is out to get you, and you go running to the temples or Feng Shui masters to chase away the villains.
Every obstacle in our destiny, every little stone that trips us, is placed in our lives by no other person but ourselves.
If you do not change, the obstacle isn’t going to budge either.
And here’s an official note: For any Zoom client that does not wear a earpiece with a microphone, I will cancel the consultation and give you a refund.
Having off days out of the blue are so much more fun!
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been waiting for the right moment to get my hair dyed at the salon but I couldn’t wait any longer -
dyed my hair Ash Khaki at home on my own to finally cover my pudding head hehh though not fully for coming new shoots annddd of course 907 #justtofeelgoodaboutmyself✨
I miss hair pampering session by my professional hair stylists at the salon btw - first place to visit when it’s safe to travel!
greenish brown, how’s that?
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Ok i will try to do my livestreaming every Friday from now on!
Oh so much balls i have doing the stream on a primetime! But oh well i just wanna let people relax on a Friday night after a long week. Wanted to name it take five but then 5 minutes will never be enough of you guys so i named it #RoseTakeTwo so i can spend my whole 2 hours with you 😘
Come send your requests, chat with me or even just have a listen and relax, i wanna see you all. Promise i’ll try to read all your comments til your mom thinks we’re best friends 😆
So our song theme for today would be which song pops in your head on your vaccination day since i will have my 2nd dose tomorrow. From the moment u walk in, wait for the que, do your check up, when the needle sticks in your arm or when you sit there 30 minutes afterwards trying to tell yourself you’re superman now. Any song will do. Or if you have the ability to write a parody please do so and teach me the lyrics!
See you tonight at 1utc (8pm Bkk time)
Can’t wait to see you 😉
จะพยายามกลับมาไลฟ์ให้เป็นเวลาแล้วค่ะ!
กล้ามากด้วยไลฟ์ prime time เลย แต่ไม่เป็นไรความตั้งใจก็คือแค่อยากให้ทุกคนผ่อนคลายกันในคืนวันศุกร์เลยตั้งชื่อช่วงว่า Rose Take Two จริงๆอยากใช้คำว่า take five ที่เป็น idiom แปลว่า พัก 5 นาที แต่ห้านาทีไม่มีจริงนะคะ โรสเลยขอสักสองชั่วโมงในคืนวันศุกร์ก็แล้วกัน
มาพูดคุย ขอเพลง ปรึกษาปัญหาชีวิตอะไรก็ได้ มาคุยเป็นเพื่อนกัน ด้อมอื่นคนดูเป็นหมื่นตอบไม่ทัน ด้อมเราคนดูยี่สิบ คุยกันจนที่บ้านคิดว่าเป็นเพื่อนกับโรสไปเล้ย
ตีมวันนี้เนื่องจากพรุ่งนี้โรสจะไปฉีดวัคซีนเข็มสองค่ะ เลยอยากรู้ว่าเวลาไปฉีดวัคซีนมีเพลงอะไรแวบมาในหัว ไม่ว่าจะเป็นตอนนั่งรอ ตอนวัดความดัน ตอนเห็นหน้าพยาบาล ตอนเข็มกำลังจะปัก ตอนไหนก็ได้ ขอสักคนละเพลงสองเพลง ใครมีความสามารถแปลงเนื้อก็แปลงแล้วแปะมาในเม้นเลยค่ะ
แล้วเจอกันสองทุ่มน้า 😘
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一口啜った瞬間の衝撃!富山県魚津市『はじめ家』に伺ってきました。好みを伝え、目の前の厨房で店員さん達のキレのある職人技を拝見しながらラーメンができるのを待ちます。お話を伺った後、久しぶりに頂いた一杯、続きはぜひ動画をご覧ください!
・『はじめ家』について
横浜にある『家系ラーメン総本山吉村家』の創始者であり「ラーメン界のレジェンド」とも言われる吉村実氏の許しを直接得た直系店。【北陸の虎】の異名を持つ。昨今の家系ブームに乗って多くの家系ラーメン店が乱立するなか【総本山直系店】を名乗れるのは全国に10店舗(吉村家を含む)しかなく、富山県内のみならず週末になると近県や遠く関東からもその味を求める人が訪れる人気店である。
*感染対策を徹底して撮影を行っています。
*撮影に際しては、お店の方や周りのお客様に充分配慮して撮影をおこなっています。
The shock of the moment you sip! I visited "Hajimeya" in Uozu City, Toyama Prefecture. Tell your taste and wait for the ramen to be made while watching the sharp craftsmanship of the clerk in the kitchen in front of you. After listening to the story, please watch the video for the drink that I received after a long time! .
・ About "Hajimeya" A direct line shop that directly obtained the permission of Mr. Minoru Yoshimura, the founder of "Yoshimuraya, the head of iekei ramen" in Yokohama and also known as "the legend of the ramen world". Has the nickname of [Hokuriku Tiger]. While many Iekei ramen shops are crowded due to the recent boom in Iekei, there are only 10 shops (including Yoshimuraya) nationwide that can call themselves [Sohonzan direct line shops], and not only in Toyama prefecture but also in nearby prefectures and far away on weekends. It is a popular restaurant that is visited by people from the Kanto region who are looking for that taste.
* We take thorough measures against infection.
* When shooting, we take the shop and the customers around us into consideration.
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#家系ラーメン #家系直系店 #はじめ家 #ラーメン #ロイドごはん #大食い
—————《ロイド のサブチャンネル》
【メロンシートジャーニー】
https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCwNlBAUziFWkJZFY_u3t65A
【フラメンコロイド】
https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCsFJHNg3SR41R2a3vctUInw
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『はじめ家』
https://www.google.co.jp/amp/s/s.tabelog.com/toyama/A1602/A160202/16000104/top_amp/
—————《ロイドごはんオススメの動画! ROIDGOHANs’ Recommended video》———————————
78才おじいちゃん屋台ラーメンの朝『幸っちゃん』夜明けの銀座【飯テロ】Old Style Ramen Stall Yatai Japanese Street Food
https://youtu.be/YHiWYvhxUI4
【家系ラーメン特集!】
https://www.youtube.com/playlist?list=PL6yW17uB9uIVUmOS8qnXrRwcBu8W-uRYZ
神回【ラーメン二郎の貴重映像】全増しが出来るまで一部始終を大公開!【ラーメン二郎 ひばりヶ丘店】ramen
https://youtu.be/mBFcdMHyaxA
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★ロイドwalker《人生をドラマチックに彩る旅とグルメと温泉図鑑》
https://ramenjapan.net/
★メロンシート《フラメンコギターの世界一の旅》
https://pordiotama3.xsrv.jp
★フラメンコロイド 《フラメンコロイドの神話と伝説》
https://flamenkoroid.net
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★ロイドごはん
https://twitter.com/roidgohan
★メロンシート
https://twitter.com/meloncito310
★フラメンコロイド
https://twitter.com/flamenkoroid
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Hey there guys!
i’m so happy to finally be back on my channel. I know I’ve been missing for such a long time.
Life’s catching up..
I couldn’t avoid responsibilities ;(
how is everyone doing?
Can yall believe that this is my VERY FIRST KPOP ALBUM?! Although I only bought the jewel case version I’m beyond happy! and guess what, my first pull of photo card. now I do understand the craziness over PCs, hahahaha!
One of the many reasons I uploaded it here is because I wanted to cherish this moment of my life. I’m such a sentimental type of person... I could always go back to this!
what’s your favourite song so far from this MASTERPIECE? Mine is definitely BAMBI & Cry For Love! ? yall should go listen to this amazing man right here just flexinggg his vocals. ah, king only!
happy enlisting our Byun Baekhyun, our EXO main vocalist. serve well love! we’ll wait for you ?
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周興哲《如果能幸福》(HBO Asia原創影集「戒指流浪記」片尾曲)小提琴版本
| Violin cover by Lin Tzu An of《Fortunate (HBO Asia Original Series "Adventure of the Ring" Theme Song)》by Eric Chou
人生是無數的選擇堆砌而成,我們做出選擇之後,都有個「如果」。
「如果」能更勇敢一點?又或是「如果」我不放棄?
所有的抉擇也都讓我們帶著這些遺憾,走向往後的人生。
我們承擔的遺憾都是活過的痕跡,這些痕跡不是為了提醒我們一直沈溺在過去,而是我們可以比自己以為的更好。當時的全心全意沒有浪費,因為僅有的一次,給了唯一的人給了當初的決定。如果是真的,必定值得;如果不是真的,也不代表決定錯了。
這些過去帶來必須承擔的遺憾,都是為了最後的那個決定做準備,所以即使站在各種人生的十字路口,也勇敢坦然不遺憾地做自己想做的,走往自己想要的方向吧:想哭的時候哭、想愛的時候就抱緊身邊的人或是直接說出口、想念已經不在身邊的人的話就寫下來對方會看到會知道的。
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Our life is about lots of choices. After we make a choice, we all have a condition, a what if. What if I could be more brave or what if I could be patient waiting for you.
These are all our own stories and the sorties are bringing us to the present, telling us we may be better than we supposed to be, instead of being stuck in the past.
It’s not waste of time loving you for I did love you with all my heart and I want to believe you loved me too even for a split second.
If I were to choose again, I would still connect with you, love you again and stuck with you asking if you can develop a vaccine against missing you just because you were the only holic I have. The world with you in it is vague, the only one truth would be I told you I love you at the moment, looking at you with the light in my eyes for you are everything I've been looking for and I'll wait for you. I gave my heart to the very thing I know would break it and I'd love to do it again, without question =]
Okay it’s enough being so emotional. Another week, another cover. Let's goooo, hope y’all like this!
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