Apabila Giliran suami/isteri nak cium....dia mencium dahi isterinya/suaminya...air mata mengalir kepipi jenazah....di peluk isteri/suami agak lama...Kalu secara fitrah nya akan mengalir air matanya terkena kain kafan jenazah...
Seorang makcik bersuara:
"Angkat suami dia tu...jgn peluk lama2 arwah isteri awk tu...jgn sampai air mata ni menitik kene jenazah...kesian dia..berat dia nak pergi...."...maka si suami di papah oleh anak lelakinya keluar rumah....
Ini lah khilaf yg sering berlaku dlm masyarakat melayu islam kita...sebenarnya biarkan sahaja contohnya jika si suami ingin mencium dan memeluk isterinya lama buat kali terakhir...kalau pun dia menangis dan air matanya terkena kain kafan xmengapa...
tiada hadis atau nas yg mengatakan xboleh...disaat itulah si suami mungkin sedang berbisik memaafkan dan menghalalkan segala makanminum kpd isterinya....
Begitu juga sebaliknya yang berlaku pada isteri yang mencium jenazah suaminya...
Malah tidak akan batal wuduk si mati oleh kerana sebab dicium oleh suami atau isteri nya. Yg batal wuduk hanya lah orang yg hidup.
Ingat...yg tak boleh itu jika kamu meratap atau meraung dihadapan jenazah atau sewaktu kematian nya..dilarang keras oleh Rasulullah saw..wallahualam
Kekhilafan yang ramai lakukan dan masih berlaku hingga hari ini..😢
Basyirol Abu Bakar
When the husband / wife's turn to kiss.... he kisses his wife / husband's forehead... tears flow with the body.... being hugged by his wife / husband is a little longer... if it's naturally it will flow his tears hit by the corpse's shroud...
A Aunt speaks:
" lift up her husband... don't hug your late wife too long... don't let her tears get the body... pity her.. She wants to go...."... so the husband in papah by her son is out Home....
This is the mistake that often happens in our Muslim Malay Society... actually let it be for example if the husband wants to kiss and hug his wife for the last time... even if he cries and his tears get hit by the shroud...
There is no hadith or nas that says cannot... that's when the husband may be whispering to forgive and make all his blessings to his wife....
So is the other way that happens to the wife who kisses her husband's body...
Will not even cancel the ablution of the dead because of being kissed by her husband or wife. Those who cancel ablution are only people who live.
Remember... that cannot be if you mourn or cry in front of the body or during his death.. it is forbidden by Rasulullah saw.. Wallahualam
The mistakes that many do and still happen until today.. 😢
Basyirol Abu BakarTranslated
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