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อย่าเป็นคนที่

ฝันใหญ่ขึ้นทุกวัน

แต่การกระทำเล็กเท่าเดิม

นี่ก็เป็นอีกคำที่

เฮียคนที่เป็นลูกค้าตอนขายรถของผม

พูดให้ผมคิดได้
แล้วชีวิตขึ้นตั้งแต่เจอเขา

(จริงๆผมเขียนไว้ตั้งแต่ต้นปี
ใครเคยอ่าน
ผ่านมา100วัน
เป็นยังไงบ้าง?)

ผมเองเอาตรงๆหลังได้ภารกิจ
รายได้ปีละ1ล้านตอน20ต้นๆ
พอทำได้ติดต่อกันปี2ปีแล้ว
ปัญหาเรื่องเงินทางบ้านก็เริ่มหมด

ก็กลับมาที่นิสัยเดิมคือ

ตัวผมเอาจริงๆแล้ว
ไม่ได้เป็นคนที่Activeอะไรตลอดเวลา
ผมไม่ได้ขยันเหมือนภาพ
ที่หลายคนคิด

จริงๆก็มีมุม
อยากสบาย
อยากพักผ่อน
ชอบชีวิตสงบๆ

เฮียพูดมาคำนึงว่า...
ขี้เกียจได้
แต่ต้องมีกินก่อน

เลือกงานได้
ก็ต่อเมื่อมีเลี้ยงครอบครัว
โดยไม่ต้องเป็นห่วงอะไรแล้ว

ถ้าเดือนหน้าเอไม่สบาย1เดือน
ทั้งบ้านมีผลกระทบไหม?

ถ้าใครในครอบครัวป่วย
หรือเดือดร้อนขึ้นมา
เงินพอไหม?

ถ้ายัง
ก็คือยังนั่นแหละ!

ช่วงอายุ20-30เป็นช่วง
ที่ร่างกายเราแข็งแรงที่สุด
ดีที่สุดที่จะสร้างตัว
เอไม่เหนื่อยตอนนี้
เอจะเหนื่อยตอนไหน?

ครับ(ผมตอบ)

จริงๆผมก็ฝันว่า
ผมจะต้องมีบ้านให้แม่
ก่อนอายุ30

แล้วก็หยุดทำงาน
หมายถึงทำหรือไม่ทำก็ได้
แบบเฮียภายในอายุ30

ฝันมากี่ปีแล้ว?(เค้าถาม)

2ครับ(ผมตอบ)

เค้าถามต่อว่า....
แล้วที่ผ่านมาได้ทำอะไร
มากกว่าเดิมที่เคยทำหรือยัง?

ผมอึกอักในการที่จะตอบ

เค้าคงรู้ว่า...
ไอ้การที่ผมนึกนานๆ
เท่ากับจริงๆผมไม่ได้ทำอะไรเลย
ไม่ได้คิดอะไรต่อ

และเค้าก็พูดประโยคนึง
ที่เรียกสติผมกลับมา
และส่งผลดีมาตลอด
กับทุกๆเป้าหมายในปัจจุบันคือ...

“เฮียอยากสบาย
เฮียรู้ปลายทางว่าเฮียต้องสบาย
แต่เฮียรู้เช่นกันว่า
การทำให้ชีวิตสบาย
เราต้องพยายามก่อน”

ฝันเล็กก็ต้องพยายาม

ฝันใหญ่ก็ต้องพยายามมากขึ้น

จงอย่าเชื่อเรื่องคนสำเร็จง่ายๆ

สิ่งนั้นไม่มี

ทุกความสำเร็จล้วนใช้ความพยายาม
พอเค้าพยายามมามากพอ
เค้าสร้างระบบได้
จนถึงวันนึงที่ระบบมันเดินเอง
ได้แบบ Autopilot

รู้จักAutopilotไหมเอ?

ผมส่ายหน้า(เพราะผมยังไม่เคยได้บินเลย)

AUTOPILOTคือ
ระบบควบคุมขับเคลื่อนเครื่องบิน
Automatic
ที่ใช้บนเครื่องบิน

มันนำพาเครื่องบินจากจุดนึง
ไปถึงจุดนึงโดยอัตโนมัติ
แต่นักบินก็ต้องคอยมอนิเตอร์
ควบคุมเป็นระยะๆ

มันก็เหมือนกับ
ตอนที่เราไม่เป็นอะไรเลย
เราต้องพยายาม

แต่วันนึงพอเราทำมากพอ
Setระบบได้
แค่คอยมอนิเตอร์ห่างๆ
วันนั้นชีวิตเราจะเหนื่อยน้อยลง
แต่สบายมากขึ้น

จงอย่าเชื่อเรื่องสำเร็จง่ายๆ
คนสำเร็จทุกคน
ที่เราเห็นว่าใช้ชีวิตสบายๆ
ทำอะไรก็ดูง่ายๆ

ก่อนหน้านั้น
มันก็มีช่วงที่เค้าทำงานหนัก
และพยายาม สร้างระบบทั้งนั้นแหละ

มันไม่มีทางลัดอะไรที่ไร้ความพยายาม

จำไว้...

สำเร็จไวมี!

สำเร็จง่ายไม่มี!

ทุกอย่างมันคือความเหมาะสม

เงินคือสกอร์ที่มาจากความสามารถของเรา
ที่ไปมีประโยชน์ต่อผู้คน

ผลลัพธ์ชีวิตที่เราเป็นอยู่ทุกวัน
ก็คือสกอร์ของความสามารถเรา

อยากให้เงินในกระเป๋าเปลี่ยน

อยากให้มีชีวิตดีขึ้น

เออย่าเอาแต่อยาก

“เอต้องเพิ่มการกระทำ”

และก็ทิ้งท้ายด้วยประโยค
เรียกสติ

“อย่าเป็นคน...
ที่ฝันใหญ่ขึ้นทุกวัน
แต่การกระทำเล็กเท่าเดิม”

A10(เอเท็น)
Prince of Sales
“สังคมแห่งความเป็นไปได้”
Don't be the one

Dream bigger everyday

But the actions are small as before.

This is another word.

Brother who is a customer when selling my car.

Talk to me to think.
And life has been up since I met him.

(I actually wrote it since the beginning of the year.
Who ever read
It's been 100 days
How are you? (sighs))

It's me. Honestly after mission.
Income for 1 million per year. Early 20
Enough to do it in a row for 2 years.
Money problems at home are starting to run out

Come back to the same habit.

I really take it
Not being active at all the time
I'm not as diligent as the picture
That many people think.

Actually, there is a corner.
Want to be comfortable
Want to relax
Love the peaceful life

Brother said that...
I can be lazy.
But I have to eat first.

Choose a job
Only when there is a family.
Without worrying about anything.

If next month, a is sick for 1 months.
Does the whole house have an impact?

If anyone in the family is sick
Or get in trouble
Is it enough money?

If not yet
Not yet!

The age of 20-30
Our body is the strongest.
Best to build yourself
A not tired now
When will a get tired?

Yes (I answer)

I actually dreamed that
I need a home for mom
Before the age of 30

Then stop working
I mean do it or don't.
Like brother within 30 years old

How many years have you dreamed? (they asked)

2 (I answer)

He asked me....
What have you done in the past?
More than before, have you done yet?

I'm tough cuddle to answer

He probably knows that...
What I thought for a long time
It's equal. I didn't do anything.
I don't think about anything.

And he said a sentence
For calling my consciousness back
And it has been good all along.
With every current goal is...

" I want to be comfortable.
I know the destination that you must be comfortable.
But I know that too.
Making life comfortable
We have to try first "

If you dream small, you have to try.

Dream Big, you have to try more.

Don't believe in successful people easily.

None of that

Every success takes effort
When he tried enough
He can build a system.
Until one day the system walks by itself.
Got an autopilot type

Do you know autopilot? A?

I shake my face (because I haven't flown yet)

Autopilot is
Airplane Drive control
Automatic
Used on the plane

It took the plane from one point.
Get to a certain point automatically
But the pilot has to wait for the monitor.
Control periodically

It's like
When we were okay
We have to try

But one day, when we do enough.
Set the system.
Just keep the monitor away
That day our lives will be less tired.
But more comfortable

Don't believe in success easily
All successful people
That we see that we live comfortably.
It's easy to do whatever you want.

Before that.
There are times when he works hard.
And trying to build a system

There is no shortcut. Nothing without effort.

Remember...

Fast Success!

Easy to succeed, no!

Everything is decency

Money is the score that comes from our ability.
That goes to benefit people

The result of the life we are everyday
It's the score of our ability.

I want money in the bag to change

Want to live better

A. Don't just want to.

"a must add action"

And backing up with a sentence
Call consciousness

" don't be human...
Dream bigger everyday
But the action is small as before "

A10(Aten)
Prince of Sales
"a society of possibilities"Translated

"MY WIFE, I AM SORRY"

He woke up in the morning and found her praying. He heard her praying for him.He stared at her. It has been a long time since he
has seen her praying. For the past few months, they have been arguing. Last night, they had a nasty fight.He went to the kitchen in a hurry to prepare himself breakfast.

These past days, she hasn't been cooking for him. Shock on him. He found breakfast already set at the table. He ate. He went back to the bedroom, to prepare for a shower. She left the shower. "Good morning. Have a blessed day" she said as she entered the bedroom and he left for the bathroom. After his shower, all dressed up for work; he found his wife at the kitchen, eating breakfast in peace. She was looking at some funny videos on her phone and giggling. He looked at her then walked out the door. The last look he had of her before he left was of her at peace.
That last look disturbed him. This is not how she should be. This is not how she has been. He has been hurting her, she has recently found out that he has been flirting with other women, he has cheated once and used money meant for their family on other women. She should be angry.Her peaceful demeanor disturbed him.

Evening came. He went home and met his peaceful wife again. She was cooking and laughing with their children. She had come from work two hours ago.The dinner was enjoyable. Good food, she having warm conversations with the children. He as the father felt left out. His wife and children seemed to be having fun despite him hurting them.
After dinner, as she washed the dishes and the children had gone to bed. He approached her.
"Are you OK?" he asked her.
"I am more than OK. I am blessed "She answered.
"Are you not mad at me? After all that I am doing and have done wrong?" he asked.

She placed the washed plate in the rack then looked at him and said, "I asked myself, what is the most important relationship in my
life? The one I have with you or the one with God? And I realized it is the one with God. I live for God, not for you. Marrying you was a blessing but it is not all there is in life. God has blessed me with life and I will not waste it crying because of the hurt you cause me to feel"
She picked up a dirty glass and began washing it. "I realized I had given you too much power... Yes, you are my husband, the closest human being in my life and the human being I love the most; but you are not God. You have failed me but God never fails me. I will not let you ruin my joy, my peace and my progress. You break our marriage if you want to, but I will hold on to God. And as I hold on to God, I will be full of joy despite what you do" She said rinsing the glass.

She looked at him and continued, "When you hurt me and disrespected me, I realized I was acting out like a woman who has no God. I got mad and hurled insults, I wanted to revenge and I allowed you to mess me day after day. My performance at work went down, I talked less to our children, I became bitter to the children, I felt sorry for myself, I developed ulcers. And then I realized, I have God, I shouldn't act like someone with no relationship with God. Why should I be hopeless yet God is with me? I had focused so much on you that I forgot about God. When you found me, I had God. We dated and got married and I let everything be about you because I wanted to make our marriage work. Our marriage became the idol I worship instead of the blessing I have in God. Our marriage is failing apart because of you but my relationship with God is still intact"

She scrubbed the pot.
"You have chosen to abandon our marriage but that doesn't mean my whole world has collapsed. I will still continue being a good mother to our children. They will never say the problems between mom and dad, made mom a monster. You do as you please with other women, I will raise our children."
She looked at him and told him, "Do I hate you? No, it will be a lie to say I hate you. You are the man I married, the one I vowed to, the one I love"
Tears fell down her cheeks. She wiped them. "I can't just cancel all the years we have been together. The Quran as well as the Bible asks us to love our enemies. If I am able to love my enemies, surely I can still love you despite all you have done. I am angry and disappointed, but I have taken my power back. I live for God who has exceedingly blessed me, not for you and the pain you cause"

She wiped her wet hands, took the apron from her body and told him, "In my peace, I am planning on where the children and
I will move to. Since you have chosen to have an affair, you have shown clearly that you don't need us. So we will not make your life uncomfortable by forcing you to live with us. You need to be able to bring the woman you are cheating with to your own house. I am working on something. I came into this house in peace and I will leave in peace. You will not kill my smile and shine"

She walked to the bedroom. Minutes later. He followed her to the
bedroom. He found her peacefully asleep.He nudged her. He woke her up and said,
"Please don't go, don't move out. I will hurt you no more, I will cheat no more. I am not OK. I want the peace you have. I want to be the kind of husband you are as a wife."

Since that day, he has been a reformed man. No more affairs, no
more hurting her, no flirting with other women, or endless fights. She didn't move out. She and the children stayed. He submitted to God and learned how to be a good husband, Love is powerful enough to humble the most proud ....... I don't know what you are experiencing this morning but my prayer is ,may you enjoy over whatever you are going through and behold, God is going to rain everlasting peace and freedom upon your life...Amen.

Kindly SHARE this to bless someone out there. Credit : Pious Muslim Husband and Wife.

I realised that Mother's Day is always overly-advertised and celebrated everywhere we go, with tons of promotional posters and lovely messages but never really the same for Father's Day. I'm not too sure how you feel about this, but personally I think that most of us tend to take our Dad's love for granted since Dads are usually the sole breadwinners, the chauvinist, and the one who's supposed to be strong and supporting the entire family. And perhaps due to all these factors, we neglect to shower him with the love he actually deserves just because we assume that he's a man and doesn't need it.

For me, I was always closer to my dad when I was way younger but as I grew older and had more "problems" I turned to my mom to share my woes instead. It saddens me though, that my Dad and I are so busy working that we hardly even meet over the recent months. When I'm back, he's asleep and when he's out I'm asleep... This cycle repeats and when we actually get to speak, we use it to discuss about even MORE work or even argue about little things, leaving us with hardly any time left for anything else.

However, my Dad (and I believe most Dads) is the kinda dad who doesn't wear his heart on his sleeve and expresses his love in various forms of action but never through his words. But despite of all that, he is one of the gentlest people that I know and I am thankful that I can always count on him. #MyFathersBest is enough for me, which is why I'm hoping we could spend some quality time this Father's Day and I think we all should as well!

Now, it is your turn to share with me your Father’s Day Story with me:

1. Post a photo of you and your Dad
2. Share your story on your relationship with your dad and hashtag #MyFathersBest #GiveHopeShareJoy

The 2 postings with the highest number of likes will be featured on Community Chest’s page on 25 June 2016! Can’t wait to read your entries #sp