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1. Talk.
Critical Age: 0-2 years old.
This is the most important element in the life of a human being. Talking is important for us to communicate about our thoughts and feelings so that the people around know what we want to say so that there will be no misunderstanding.
Start since your child just came out to see the world, which is within 24 hours after being born. Greet your child, give greetings... say 'hi', kiss.... hug, say whatever you want to say. Just chat. It looks like it's not right when sitting in the ward, we're talking alone while giving eye contact to the baby. But that's the first thing we have to do since our child was born. And konsistenlah talks to them until they grow up, nak2 in the first two years.
I often ask parents, ' child can talk or not? 'most answer' already, said... ABC, 123 all he knows. Even jawi letters. ' I said, that's not talking. Where is the same talk by knowing those letters!
Talking is communicating. There is an eye contact, got a child answering back to the question, react to the name from mom dad, calling, not mention it.
Once when my child was admitted in the hospital, there was a mother 'talking' to her child who was a year and 6 months in spelling. That's strong! ' B.U.K.U... Book! ' I guess he's the target of his child to be good at spelling while talking. The rest of the time, I see his son just given a gadget and 'learn' through gadgets. Rampage Toksah say it. As long as something is wrong, the child is just raging. Noisy one ward listen!
I'm crazy looking at it!
Spelling is not talking!
Reading is not talking!
Counting not talking!
Talk need to have eye contact.
Speaking must have a understanding between two parties.
Talk must have expression and expression.
Talking is communication, there are people who listen, there are people who reply back.
Speaking must have a impersonation, better to copy in terms of style or sound of rattles.
Giving gadgets and learning at this age?
If possible, avoid it!
2. Doodling & painting
Critical Age: 1-3 years old.
It's important for your child to learn to hold a pencil or a crayon or a big painting brush at the moment for a doodling session.
If you're worried that your child will doodle the wall, buy a big paper paper, paste it on the wall of the house. If there is more budget, wall the wall with paint is easy to delete. If it's so hard to do, just accept that the walls of the house have to be doodle.
Contenting helps the child express their mind.
Doodling helps children strengthen hand muscles.
Content there is a visual element of perceptual (this is another chapter).
Doodling creates midline crossing abilities.
Doodling helps the formation of a finger holding a pencil (Pencil Grip).
Don't care where to doodle. On Paper, on the floor, near the wall, books... we are grown up, please think of the best way to encourage children to be doodling. Follow everyone who wants to control your heart and feelings to see the house messy or what.... most importantly, think of the way!
May I make the element of the sand, the ground, the stone... for the wood twig... no complaints, as long as the child can be conteng.
During this age, don't force your child to write too much. It's fun to ask to write ABC, number, jawi letter...
Teach child painting after doodling.
Paint bentuk2 that is around us.
Animal Paint, plants, homes, or anything.
Accompany the child to draw.
Use water colour, crayon or any drawing tools.
It's not a waste to spend money buying these things. Not a loss!
3. Coloring.
Critical Age: 1-3 years old.
Teach the color at this age.
Coloring activity helps children form straight, vertical, oblique, rounded lines and so on.
The Color of the painting that is in let it fit the age of the child.
Don't be asked to coloring the complex painting. If possible, avoid coloring the painting inside the gadget.
Coloring in gadgets does not bring any meaning to hand muscle. How to develop a memory motor against the line?
At this age, you don't have to worry if the children are still not good at the color in the line. Still the color out the line is normal. No problem. The most important thing is, he knows where to color it.
Create a concept of coloring as early as possible. No need to wait until school is just about to coloring.
No need to bring to the mall, coloring at the that has of for in, then you have to pay. The color at home is better. It's better for us to draw a picture of our family, ask our children to be color. Simple. Saving a lot.
4. Writing and reading.
Critical age of writing: 4 years
Starting age knowing letters and numbers: 4 years
Beginning of reading age: 5 years and above.
Age that is considered late to be able to read: 11 years.
Logically, when the child has learned a lot of lines through doodling and coloring, it's self-prepare to write. This time it's easy to write letters and numbers even though they don't know the letters and numbers yet. No problem.
Can teach to write in a session, then teach to know the letter in the later session.... at the age of 4! This is the earliest age! Not too late yet.
No need to worry because once a child and learn letters, a few letters... start to read at the age of 5
If we follow all this process gradually, God willing, the child has no problem! No need to worry too much.
If we 'turn' all this process, there will be consequences because it has violated the development of a human being.
If you feel there is an effect, don't be shy to bring the therapist to fix the problems that are available.
So much.
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Picture for example only not encourage for children to doodle walls.
Parents please paste the big paper on the wall so that the children are free to play at the same time they can work comfortably
Source: Liyana Raya
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write a letter to parents 在 Daphne Iking Facebook 的精選貼文
I attended Child law lectures to understand the plight of children and what was being done legally about it in Malaysia better with Tuan Syed Azmi.
One of the things we learnt was about Restorative Justice. Coincidently, I was just reading the book this afternoon to refresh my mind on the notes taken.
Please read Azmi’s take on this.
I knew he was back for sure at around 3 years ago.
One of the thing that i have to accept is that he is back.
I have requested MCMC to use his skills to find other similar interest like him, but my request was denied. I accept.
Now it really depend on which perspectives are we going to see him.
As a child advocate, of course i am afraid of him to be able to be close to any children.
I am sure his name is in eDKK e-daftar Kanak-kanak, sex offenders list. Now even the government let any employer to check at JKM of anyone who works with children to be screen this way for free.
What is clear-
He cannot be around children.
He cannot have access to children image material on line- how can we stop that even.
He cannot interact with children online- even through games.
I am afraid. But i know that i don't hate him as a person, i hate his actions.
Then i took child law. I take this seriously.
The law that i am learning taught me about protecting victims and bringing justice.
In my experience of protecting children. Most children wish not to be hurt, the actions to stop. Even when i write this, the actions although from pornographic material to grooming to sexual assault and rape are different in nature, we cannot deny the hurt and trauma to every child is different too.
I am not saying having child porn is considered mild, no no no. If it hurts a child, you cannot out a degree to that.
But during law, i also learn about Restorative Justice. It is not about to forgive or forget but more to restore back the individual so that he could be part of the society again and the victims participation is important for the perpetrator to understand and take responsibility of his mistakes.
It is not for all crimes and takes careful research.
Clearly it sounds like Second Chance.
But reading comments, i sense Malaysians are not ready to accept him back.
But do they want him to die?
And lets say victims have the choice to castrated him, will that be the closure needed?
Then i wonder can we wirk back on restorative justice.
Maybe not for his case.
I have a huge respect for children who are abuse because of what they have been through and we never talked about to forgive the perpetrator because that right is only to the victim and at their own time.
My role, the act of abuse must stop.
Back to our Math Genius.
What about his right?
Or do we believe he has no right?
Honestly for how many years pun, i hope he could never work with children or be near one. If he abide to that at least i know he tries.
I don't have the liberty to know what is our countrys ability to monitor his online activity so i cannot comment on that.
Yes people or parents have the right to prevent him to be around the area etc i agree.
But to voice out to say "He Will Hurt Your Kids" out loud and to invoke scare in public has a better method than scare tactics. Seriously.
Might as well hang a scarlet letter around his neck eh?
Trust me, even with that i dont think society will be ok. Clearly they want to see someone die.
Is that what you want to do go ahead your way. I cannot condone that.
I rather we focus more lobbying for children in Malaysia to be protected.
But noo, people love punitive actions to others because it feels good, satisfied, safe?
If i can pledge i would say lets focus back to Childs Right, Children's safety and better treatment to children.
To the said person: i am not letting you off the hook, but respect my boundaries not to be near a child. Online or offline.
Just my opinion.
Syed Azmi Alhabshi
Small Lamb
write a letter to parents 在 Roundfinger Facebook 的最佳貼文
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ได้ยินเสียง 'ผู้ใหญ่' หลายคนเป็นห่วงว่า 'คนรุ่นใหม่' จะตัดสินใจเลือก 'ผิด' อันนี้ก็ชวนให้สงสัยว่า อะไรคือสิ่งยืนยันและทำให้มั่นใจนักหนาว่า ตัวเลือกของตนเองคือสิ่งที่ 'ถูก'
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จากที่ได้คุยกับคนรุ่นที่เพิ่งมีโอกาสเลือกตั้งครั้งแรก (18-21 ปี) พอจะจับความรู้สึกได้ว่า เขารู้สึกรู้สากับบรรยากาศรอบตัวซึ่งเกิดขึ้นในช่วงที่เขาไม่ได้เลือก เมื่อมีโอกาสเลือกตั้งจึงต้องการเลือกในสิ่งที่ตนเชื่อว่าน่าจะดี ซึ่งคำตอบว่า 'ดี' นั้นก็หลากหลาย
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Hearing many ' Adult s' are worried that ' new generation ' will decide to choose ' wrong '. This one asks you to wonder what is confirmed and ensure that their choice is ' right '
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From talking to a generation who just had the first election chance (18-21 years), he felt that he felt about the atmosphere around which happened during the time he didn't choose. When there was a chance to vote, he wanted to choose what he believed would be good. The answer is 'good' is a variety.
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Think and similar to ' Adult ' in an atmosphere without prejudice. When it comes to election opportunity, we will decide from government work. Before that. If you like it, choose that party again. If you don't like it, turn to try another party. There is no gods or permanent devil. You are good at not following the policy that you said or the cuddle-Function Corps will change your mind.
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The new generation is based on the current government's work. Their vote will reflect how he feels. (no one knows the result, only some adult concerns)
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The need for what values and value in each person's life. Each age is different. Taking the value that you hold to judge the value of others is a bit ' not honoring ' (don't want to use the word insult) when we are in the era. All ages have access to the news. Maybe - the new generation may even have access to new resources than some predecessors.
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When the constitution determines over the age of 18, it means he is a self-thought citizen and imposed to show his will. He chooses what he values, what is the value for him and what he wants to see. In this country which... is his country as much as the elders.
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The important point is that we should not divide the people into ' Adult ' and ' young generation ' because the way to look like this is risky to use proverbs that follow adults. Dogs don't bite or adults. Hot shower before. It's worth the birth before senior knows better. Better, smarter. Even thinking about virtue more
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I don't mean that the new generation is better than nothing. I just want to say that we should think that the voters at any age is equal status. Adults have adult value. The new generation has value. There are many ideas, beliefs that are true. It's not. Can be divided by ' age '. It's a matter of background and focus on something different.
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The more you draw, the more you create conflict. The world is not divided by 'age' in each group. There is a variety. Putting signs for each other to create conflict for Maya City.
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The most important thing is that we all should honor and respect the opinions and choose of different people from us, whether he is a young generation, women, gender, poor, rich, handicapped people, other provinces, yellow shirts, red shirts, etc.
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'honoring' means that his 1 VOICE IS EQUAL TO OUR 1 voices.
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If you want to convince those who think differently from us, convince by giving information, not to oppress you that I know better. I am more virtue or you were born later. These things besides not being able to change your mind and also create a line for two sides to spread. More and more and more.
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We all were young people before. We both know that when adults say he knows better, it doesn't make us want to listen to him. Ask you to smile weak and smh with adults who like to use ' Adult ' to oppress.
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The world has changed. We have to accept that the difference is made more ' equal ' every day. When everyone realizes their own ' right ' to act, check and objection without thinking he is older than me. He is more powerful than me. He is a man I'm a girl, he's high school, I study less, etc.
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Because older people don't mean to be a good person, powerful people do wrong, think a lot of bad things. Good education people are not that they think good to everyone. When it's like this, we can't ' surrender ' and ' believe ' anyone who says they are ' better ' better ' Someone else if you don't have a chance to check it out
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What is the advantages to realize your own 'rights' and equality for me? Then this brings honor as human beings.
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I just went to make a list of life areas in South Korea, a country that has been talked about as a transition from a long military government to strong democracy. (of course, there are many dimensional problems like in many countries, but there are things to learn)
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With the basis of Confucius cult, South Korea, there is a similar to Thai similarity in the old days. Social Hierarchy is very focused. The crew must listen to the boss. Students should not argue. Teachers, teachers, female must respect men, children must obey parents,
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Those things have beauty and good things, but there are bad sides too. For If those who should respect ' do wrong, it is difficult for those who have lower status to fight. But these values have changed quite.
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While I travel to Seoul National University (number one university in South Korea), there was a student protest in front of the chancellor building. In Case a male teacher uses words and touch to abuse. Many students come out to gather together. Ask the university to manage the university. There is an important tv channel.
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I have a chance to talk to Thai teachers who teach Thai language to South Korea. The teacher told me that when teaching, you need to be careful of words. Because if you speak sensitive or disrespectful things, it may be complained by students like examination. It must be very thoughtful if I have scored less than I thought. I would write a complaint letter to the teacher to explain. Everyone takes care of their rights. Not let anyone take advantage of or do bad things for themselves
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These things make the teacher not think that they are big or more powerful than our students are equal. Just have different duties. But the rights in life are not high, low. You can check it out.
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This kind of equality brings honor of humanity. He is younger. It's not that we can do anything to him. Men are not to abuse young women on a whim.
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The more you honor, the more power in us will be reduced, the power against respecting the thoughts and humanity of others.
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In Thailand, there is also complaints and keeping rights like this. What is considered is the result when complaint. When criticize or examining someone who has more powerful than that person is taken care of.
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Not accepting election results by thinking that another group of less knowledge or less virtue reflects the level of respect of social friends as well.
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In a society where many people are so normal for us to like. Different. Choose different. What we should realize is the ancient idea. Melody " I know better " or " I am higher " how often does it come up in our hearts? What we use to support. That belief that self is better than higher than it is, age? Experience? The number of gray hair? Qualifications? Being a city man? Status? Or what? Are those ' Maya s' that we use to fool ourselves that we should have more rights than other lives?
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Do we believe that every life has the potential to learn. It's not different from us. Let him choose him to try wrong and learn to choose a new one. Just like we used to choose right and choose wrong.
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More than that, how do we know what we say is good for him?
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Which is right - wrong. Good-bad for choosing a leader is hard to judge many good people. When power becomes bad people. It doesn't mean cheating only. Even if it's bad, using power in the wrong way. imposed others is not good too.
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More important than choosing ' good person ' or ' choose right ' is to choose and have the right to check, ask, ask, criticize.
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These need citizens who believe in their rights and protect their rights. Choose and continue to check.
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But how can we expect citizens who realize their rights if we keep intimidating others that they are stupid to choose that. Don't know that choose like that and say that you have to choose like me only to be right. This is the idea that doesn't honor different people. Very corny.
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This election should be a good opportunity for us to start exploring our own thoughts when we hear which party this person chooses. Which party do we feel, how do we feel about him. Hold yourself big or honor the difference.
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The reason to honor other people's thoughts because that is honoring him by honoring each other. It will create a better atmosphere than intimidating each other, because that may be the foundation of how some people see that they are better than others. It may be. The Root of how men disrespect women by thinking that it's okay. Seniors punish juniors when they accept the younger brother and think it's normal. People are better than insulting people until without knowing. For a better society, it has to start by giving the same person to honor his thoughts
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Seeing a lot of people coming out to pre-election. I feel excited about using the rights of friends, brothers and sisters in society. I want to support the new generation (of course, all generations) who just had a chance to go out to use the first election rights in my life. I want I want to listen to your voice. It may be different from me. But no matter what I choose, I will honor and count every voice equal to one of my own voice.
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I don't think I know better. Don't believe that the value I hold is more important than the value that the kids hold or see that it's good and also see that we still have to exchange. Learn from each other on a long path that we have to try wrong. Try right and correct. Let's develop together
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A path called " democracy
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Democracy is not just about going to be bad and dropping the election card. If it is to realize your rights and honoring other people's rights, not only the right to election, but also means everyday rights in every dimensions.
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The Beauty of democracy is here. It is an atmosphere that no one can abuse another. Just because they are different. Don't think the same, don't like each other, but we have to respect each other's humanity rights
When so, there will be no ' Adult ' or ' young generation '.
There are only 'people' who honor each other.Translated