【51歲了,看八字還有用嗎?】
At Age 51, Is Bazi Analysis Still Relevant?
曾經有人問過我類似以上的問題。
我的答案是:人生已過了一半。如果目前沒有您無法解決的難題,對於未來您也沒有什麼想要實現的夢想,不需要指導,那倒不如好好學佛,消業增福,為將來百年歸去時做好準備。
畢竟,無常和明天,不知哪個先到。
提供見證的女客人,年過半百,面對好些家庭問題。我們在今年二月過年前見面。
其中,讓她最頭痛的是與兒子之間的關係。兒子與她說話時,很容易不耐煩,也不聽她的勸告和教導,不像以前會聽完她講整句話。
許多母親遇到這樣的問題,會問我怎樣改善孩子的態度。
我的答案都是:先改變自己。
去改變任何人是很累的事情,也容易吃力不討好。在他的眼裡,會覺得你在逼他。可是,當你能夠改變自己的時候,你身上的磁場會隨之起變化。
人與人之間,喜歡和不喜歡,合與不合,說明了,就是五行的遊戲,磁場碰觸而產生的「火花」。
你的磁場與孩子的磁場不合,源自於你們八字的不合。
想擁有更好的親子關係,玄學上,可採取三種方法:改名、批命,和/或調居家風水。
個人磁場往正確的方向改進,你會發現很多本來不行的事情,突然就通了,不合的人,摩擦也減少了。
當然,如果兩人都願意改變,那就事半功倍了。
女客人說,孩子現在還會跟她開玩笑了。
我指點這位女客人,因為她八字所需,應該常去捐血。她說,2018年體檢報告顯示她有貧血。
可是,這八字不應該有貧血問題的。
我認為是她之前用錯五行,飲食習慣出了岔子。
她見了我後,照著我的話做了一個月,三月時,去做體檢。報告顯示一切正常,她可以捐血。
一個藥,不見得就能醫好所有的人,因為每個人的體質不一樣。一般人會以為喝紅棗茶能補血,所以有這方面的問題,就該多喝。
但在玄學上,這可不一定。對症下藥,在這裡就是要看客人八字而定。
年紀越大的客人,往往越固執,不容易改變自己的看法和作風。有些也因為以前已給不同的師父看過幾次命,更會固執己見。
這位女客人做得到,也真是命不該絕啊!哈~
偶爾,我會遇到客人,在諮詢時詢問關於他們父母的健康。
坦白說,與其東敲西打,如果父母願意,那你倒不如大方點出錢幫自己的父母看命。
真要改善父母的生活,我無法三言兩語就能交代清楚。這樣未免太敷衍你了,可我也不能只收看一個八字的收費卻變成看三個人呀~
客人便會問,孩子與父母,應該先看誰的八字?
一定是父母為先,因為沒有父母就不會有我們。
他們在人間的時間,隨著每一個生日,已逐漸減少。
百善孝為先,這點不要等到母親節才記得。
你真有善功德時,又何愁孩子不受教不成才呢?
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Someone once asked me the question above.
My answer: You have lived half your life. If there is no insurmountable issue at the present and you have no further ambition for the later years, it would be wise to focus on the Dharma diligently to eradicate your karma and prepare for your eventual passing.
After all, you cannot tell which will come first, tomorrow or death.
The female client who provided this testimonial is past 50 years of age and faced plenty family issues. The one which pained her the most is her relationship with her son. Her son is impatient when talking to her and does not heed her advice and teachings, unlike in the past when he would at least hear her finish her sentence.
Many mothers who faced the same dilemma would ask me for ways to improve the attitude of their children.
My answer to them all: Change yourself first.
To change another person is a tiring chore and often goes unappreciated. In the eyes of the other person, he would feel that you are forcing him. But when you can change yourself, the energy fields of your body will start to transform.
The dynamics in a relationship, simply put, is a game of the five elements and the chemistry reaction that arise when two energy fields come together.
The incompatibility in energy fields between you and your child stems from both of your Bazi.
From the Chinese Metaphysics viewpoint, there are three ways to improve the parent-child relationship: Change of the Chinese name, Bazi Analysis and/or alter the Feng Shui of your house.
As you change your own energy field in the positive direction, new paths will open up for problems seemingly hard to resolve and conflicts lessen with people whom you could not get along with.
Of course things would improve doubly quick if both parties are willing to change.
The female client told me that her child could even joke with her now.
I advised her, based on her Bazi, to donate blood regularly. She said a health examination in 2018 revealed that she was anaemic. But this Bazi should not have such a condition. I believe that was due to her using the wrong elements as well as her dietary habits.
She followed my advice for a month, and a health check in March showed that all was well and that she could donate blood.
One type of medicine does not necessarily work for everyone as all of us have different disposition. Most people would assume that drinking red dates tea improves anaemia.
But from the perspective of Chinese Metaphysics, this may not work well. The best cure is the one that is customized to the client’s Bazi.
Older clients tend to be more resistant and stubborn to change. Some clung onto their views so tightly due to their many Bazi analysis with different masters.
This client of mine managed to break the resistance to change. This shows that there’s still hope!
Sometimes I would get questions from clients during Bazi consultation asking about their parents’ health.
Honestly, rather than asking bits and pieces, be generous (if you can afford) and pay to have their Bazi read. I am unable to offer real improvements to your parents’ lives with sparse advice here and there. That would be trying to pull a fast one on you but I can’t be analysing 3 Bazi when you only paid for one.
The client will then ask who should be their priority for Bazi analysis: their child or their parents?
Parents. No two-way about this. Where would you be without them?
Their time in this world is dwindling as each birthday passes.
Filial piety is the foremost of all virtues. Don’t remember this only on Mother’s Day.
If you truly can garner merits from your filial piety virtues, why worry that your child will be disobedient and unable to make the mark?
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動態回顧跳出十年前的這一天,我在大小霸山~
The FB Dynamic review show me this day ten years ago, I was in Mt.Papak waqa~
十年前的雪況,與現在的雪況...「哎呀,今年是暖冬啦!」,每年都聽到這句話,是否也太多年了~
Compare the condition of snow ten years ago, and the poor condition of snow now... "Oh, this year has a warm winter!" I hear this sentence every year. Is it too many years~
這真的是全球暖化的影響,還是地球間冰期的正常起伏?
我真的不知道...
Is this really the effect of global warming, or is it the normal ups and downs of weather in the interglacial period?
I really do not know...
只是很懷念四季分明的山,每個季節都獨具風格。
I just miss the mountains with four clear distinct seasons, each season has its own style.
#大霸尖山 #taiwan #mountain
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嗚呀~終於等到spotify、apple同itunes etc都上齊咗喇,終於可以upload呢個前衛後現代眼花MV喇(拍攝by後衛前現代Lam1Hey)
同我其他的歌一樣,睇返呢首新歌啲歌詞,都係覺得充滿人生矛盾和思想矛盾,同埋會打冷震的,希望可以為大家解暑一下,慳返一日冷氣費風扇費 :3
希望大家可以幫忙CLS
《as brave as that stupid girl》at youtube:https://youtu.be/8MXWfQl5YCI
《as brave as that stupid girl》
written by the pancakes
arranged by Lam Ah P
sup9 video by Lam1Hey
just like every other day i spent another day
和其他日子一樣
peacefully safely in a cowardly way
我又平和地 安全地 懦弱地渡過了一天
all i do is procrastinate
我只懂得拖延
and envy those who don’t hesitate
和羨慕不會猶豫的人
scared of quarrels so i stopped speaking
害怕爭執 所以我停止了說話
to avoid failures i stopped dreaming
為了避免失敗 我停止了夢想
but i can’t stop wondering
但我問自己
is this the life i should be living
這是不是我應該過的人生
please let me think
請讓我想想
please let me let me let me let me think
請讓我想想
please let me think until tomorrow
請讓我一直想到明天
i have a chance but i’ll let it go
我有一個機會 但是我會讓它溜走
it’s better to be safe than sorry
安全一點總好過抱憾
cos i don’t wanna hear
因為我不想聽到你說:
“see, i told you so”
「看,我就是告訴過你」
so i will find myself a blackhole
所以我會去找一個黑洞
i’ll live in it
住在裡面
to kill the chance of fiascos
去殺掉失敗的可能性
some might say
有些人可能會說:
“oh no you’re not who i used to know”
「你不是我最初認識的那個人」
it’s the same sentence
較早前
i said to myself a while ago
我也跟自己說過一樣的話
just like every other day i stayed up until late
和其他日子一樣 我很晚才去睡
regretting, sighing, envying others’ grapes
後悔 嘆氣 羨慕別人的葡萄
if i used such energy to create
如果我用這些力量去創作
i would have written a thousand songs by today
我今天應該已經寫了一千首歌
the day jamie left us all last week
上週jamie離開我們的那天
he said “you’ve been your very own enemy
他說:「你是你自己最大的敵人
i will be gone, please promise me
我要走了,請答應我
be your own best friend and love yourself dearly“
你要成為自己的好朋友,並愛錫自己」
but wait oh wait
但是請等等
please give me give me give me one more day
請給我多一天
please let me wait until tomorrow
請讓我等到明天
i have a chance and i will let it go
我有一個機會 我會讓它溜走
it’s better to be safe than sorry
安全一點總好過抱憾
cos i don’t wanna hear
因為我不想聽到你說:
“see, i told you so, so, so”
「看,我就是告訴過你」
so i will find myself a blackhole
所以我會去找一個黑洞
i’ll live in it
住在裡面
to kill the chance of fiascos
去殺掉失敗的可能性
some might say
有些人可能會說:
“oh no what if there’s no more tomorrow”
「假如沒有明天了怎麼辦」
it’s the same question
兩天前
that i asked myself 2 days ago
我也是在問自己同一個問題
please let me be as brave as that stupid girl X years ago
請讓我好像X年前那個笨女孩般勇敢吧
另外:
https://www.patreon.com/thepancakes
https://open.spotify.com/artist/3PRt51b9N0y4akRbx2JfzZ
https://itunes.apple.com/us/artist/the-pancakes/101940322
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hear, hear in a sentence 在 渡辺レベッカ ☆ Rebecca Butler Watanabe Youtube 的精選貼文
Here is an English cover of "Kimi ni Todoke" by Japanese band flumpool. It was the theme song for the 2010 movie of the same name.
I have been getting a lot of requests for this song for a while, so I finally decided to give it a try. It was fun to translate into English and play around with the words (as always!), but it was a bit challenging to actually sing it with my vocal range, so the vocals aren't my best :-$
Also, there were a few places where it was hard to tell if the subject was "you" or "me" (Japanese doesn't always use a subject in each sentence), so please understand that this translation is just my interpretation :) Hope you like it!
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今日は、皆さんからいただいたリクエストの中で特に人気のあったflumpoolの「君に届け」の英語訳を作って歌ってみました(^^)/ この曲は、2010年の映画『君に届け』の主題歌でした。
この曲を英語に訳すのは、いつもと同じように楽しい作業でしたが、歌うことに関しては、歌えるキーに直してみると低い部分は低く、高い部分はかなり高いので歌うのがとても困難でした(ボーカルが怪しいところがあるかと思います(笑))。また、歌詞については、主語が「僕」なのか「君」なのか分かりにくい部分があったので、この翻訳はあくまでも私の解釈です。気に入っていただけると嬉しいです(^^♪ Enjoy!
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曲情報 / SONG INFO
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flumpool / Kimi ni Todoke (May It Reach You)
Released 2010
Lyrics: Ryuta Yamamura / Music: Kazuki Sakai
English Lyrics: Rebecca Butler Watanabe
flumpool/君に届け
2010年リリース
作詞:山村隆太/作曲:阪井一生
英語詞: 渡辺レベッカ
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リンク / LINKS
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■HP⇒ http://BlueEyedUtaUtai.jimdo.com
■Facebook⇒ http://facebook.com/blueeyedutautai
■Twitter⇒ @BlueEyedUtaUtai
■Chords
(Coming soon)
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歌詞/LYRICS
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Oh, the way you look at me
With your eyes, precious and round
And your hands so small
And voice, a playful nasal sound
When you smile a smile so rare
I know I’m lucky to view
Yeah, you make another dream
I dreamed that day come true
Why do I find myself desiring
The happiness of everyone that passes by me?
Want to share my joy with all the world
Honestly, the day that we met
I can say it truly was the best in a while
And I want to protect that enchanting smile
Every day my feelings will grow
Which every coming year ‘til we are old
Want you to know how I really feel inside
I won’t hide the words only I can say
And hope that, now, they can find their way
Straight into your heart
There are times you want to run
And times you cry or break down
There are argument and always
Something to worry about
But you keep on walking forward
In your own special way
Underneath the sunlight pouring through the trees
You’re lovely
As lies and jealousy surround me, I won’t stray
Oh steady heart, please help to ground me
For I just have one simple wish
And now I am closing my eyes
Picturing a future by your side and I can see
That incredible smile that you showed to me
There’s one thing, just one thought that stays
On my mind forever and always
I love you so much I can’t keep it in
As I spin the words that I’ll only say
To you alone, may they find their way
Straight into your heart
And no matter how many sides of you I see
Maybe I’m overstating what I mean
But every one of them makes my heart skip a beat
And I wanna hold you tight
And if you were filled up inside with a sadness
I would go to your side to comfort you
I’d be there in the blink of an eye
Hear these words, the words that I shout
That I could not say to you ‘til now: “I love you”
Now I sing it aloud straight into your heart
来年も 再来年も
rainen mo sarainen mo
今以上に 君が好きで
ima ijou ni kimi ga suki de
それぐらい 僕のすべてで
sore gurai boku no subete de
僕にしか言えない言葉を 見つけたから
boku ni shika ienai kotoba wo mitsuketa kara
心まで交わしたい想い 君に届けたい
kokoro made kawashitai omoi kimi ni todoketai

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