Pain + Reflect = Progress
Half of 2021 is gone. Reflecting back to what I had done in the first half of the year, I made some right decisions and I failed to execute some of my plans that I should have done it when I can at that point of time. It was a painful moment when it's getting even tougher to execute those plan right now. Nevertheless, I still have faith on it and I will never give up on those plans.
On a side note:
Many of us felt regretted on not making the move, the change, and don't dare to take the risk as we hope things will eventually better in the end and believe that we can or could still get back to normal.
But things have changed, and it will never be the same after this. We have to live with it and to build an infinite mindset that survive is the key now.
The most important thing in life is to have a healthy body, to have enough food on the table everyday, have a shelter and to have a happy life together with our family members.
The other things that we can do right now is to support each other. Give a helping hand to those less fortunate and spread positivity to the community that we will survive through this.
We need to have the belief and faith that humanity are kind and helpful. Talk to friends and family members when there is a need. Do not give up. Do no commit suicide.
Life gets tough no matter how much we prepare. Things beyond our control, unexpected obstacles and hardships happen all the time, but together, we can always get through them.
If things don’t go as planned, it doesn’t mean you have failed. As long as you get up and try again, you will eventually achieve it. Stay strong to all Malaysian including myself.
#PowerOfSelfBelief #Faith #Humanity #Together #KeepGrinding
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【別以爲孩子不完美就不能有自己的成功】
Don't Assume That An Imperfect Child Will Never Have His Own Success
我教書,從小學到中學級別,斷斷續續有十年。
我學命理堪輿超過十五年。
在我家族裡的孩子,還未到十歲,每個幾乎都有十八般武藝,生活能力特別強,就算是女生也特別獨立。
因為這幾種經驗的結合,對於如何栽培孩子的潛能我特別有心得。
在我眼裡,每個人都是佛,所以有無限的可能,孩子也一樣。
但諷刺的是,有時父母反而成為孩子的絆腳石。他們會把自己思維的侷限套在孩子的身上,斷了孩子未激發出來的潛能。
怎麼會這樣?
因為父母本身的八字潛能,也從來沒有被他們的父母激發過,因此成了這惡性循環。在忙於工作和兼顧家庭的無頭蒼蠅日子裡,他們又有何能耐和知識去做這些看似吃力不討好的事呢?
我批的孩童八字當中,有自閉兒、過動兒,有先天缺陷如聽力障礙、語言障礙等,學習過程會比一般孩子來得艱辛。
孩子還未進小學,要嘛就是父母因為這孩子而影響了婚姻,要嘛就父母覺得這孩子不行了,將來做什麼工作就將就吧!
今世的先天缺陷是前世惡因結的果,不該代表孩子的這一世就是死刑。
六歲前為孩子看八字和風水,對孩子的學習人生有很大的補助。三歲前,更佳。
破繭而出的蝴蝶,才能展翅高飛,而不是你打著真愛的口號,拿把剪刀去剪破毛毛蟲的繭。
父母是孩子的第一任老師,如果你們不懂得改善自己的命,你的孩子也會很容易向命運低頭。
愛孩子,就請告訴他們,人生的選項沒有必要鎖在ABCD,我們可以自己創造XYZ。
成功不只是有一種定義。
無論您是一位老師還是一位家長,我大力推薦大家去看這部適合一家大小一起看,由鄧超主演,挑戰我們華人社會對教育和親情習以為常的觀念的大陸電影《銀河補習班》。
看了之後,深入的去思考:我們追求有個孩子真正的意義應該是什麼?
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I have ten years of intermittent teaching experience, from primary school level to secondary school level.
I have also learnt Chinese Metaphysics for over 15 years.
In my family, before the age of ten, almost every child would have acquired a lot of life skills. Even the girls in our family are especially independent.
Because of these myriad experiences, I have my unique insight on how to cultivate the potential of children.
I see everyone as a Buddha, thus having infinite potential. The same goes for children.
Yet ironically, sometimes parents, the people who proclaimed the loudest that they love their children, are the exact ones who tripped their children in Life. They impose their limiting mindset on their children, disrupting the undiscovered potential of their children.
Why so?
Because the potential in the adults' Bazi was also never unearthed by their parents, thus forming a vicious cycle. In the daily grind of juggling family and work, running around like a headless chicken, how will they have the patience and knowledge to do such seemingly thankless acts?
In the children's Bazi I have analysed, some have autism, ADHD, listening or speech disabilities etc. Their learning process will understandably be more difficult than normal children.
Thus even before the child enters primary school, the parents would either face marriage disharmony or think that the child should just settle for any decent job in the future.
Born disabilities of this life are the fruits of our past-life karmic deeds, but this should not mark a death penalty in the child's destiny this lifetime.
To get the child's Bazi analysed and Feng Shui audited before age 6 can have enormous positive effects on the child's learning path. Even better if before age 3.
The butterfly that breaks out of its cocoon on its own is able to take flight, but will be crippled when you cut the caterpillar's cocoon with a scissors in the name of supposed true love.
Parents are the first teachers in a child's life. If you do not know how to change your destiny, your child will bow down to Life easily.
If you love them, please let them know life does not have to be restricted to ABCD options. We can create our own XYZ choices.
Success has more than one definition.
Whether you are a teacher or a parent, I recommend you and your children to watch this inspirational China movie on challenging Chinese societal norms in parenting and education, Looking Up (銀河補習班), starring Deng Chao.
And think in depth, what should be the real meaning in having children?
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<無限賽局>
James Carse 的 Finite and Infinite Games,兩次都只翻了前十頁,智慧還不夠,所以先來讀 Simon Sinek 的 THE INFINITE GAME
很易讀的書,但讀了很有感,整理一些 quote 和簡單的短評
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"生活充滿著無限遊戲,贏不是目的。就像 Ready Player One 最後說的:It’s not about to win; it’s about to play"
- 在婚姻或友情中,沒有第一名;我們或許有離開學校的一天,卻無法「贏下教育」;我們可以打敗對手得到工作或升遷,卻沒有人能戴上職涯贏家的冠冕;儘管全球各國競相爭奪土地、影響力或經濟利益,卻沒有贏得全球政治這回事;無論人生多成功,死去之後沒有人會被稱為是人生的贏家;當然也沒有所謂的「贏得商業」。
- 無限思維的人生,就是服務的人生。就像所有的無限賽局,在人生的賽局中,目標不是要獲勝,而是繼續玩下去,以服務為目標的生活。沒有人想要自己的墓碑上寫著銀行帳戶的最後餘額,我們希望被記得的,是我們為他人做了什麼。
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"為什麼?很重要"
- 以成長為目標的公司領導者可以不停地談論他們的成長策略和目標,就像在解釋去度假時,打算走哪條公路和時速多少公里,這無法說明當初為什麼出發、或希望到達哪裡,這種成長的背後沒有更大的目的。
- 錢是推動信念的燃料,但錢本身不是信念。成長是為了有更多的燃料來推動信念。就像我們買車的目的不是為了能買更多的汽油,公司也必須擁有賺錢以外的價值。公司就像汽車,如果可以帶我們到我們原本去不了的地方,對所有人才更有價值。我們想要去的地方,才是崇高的信念。
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"在商業中,好的產品不是能讓你持續玩下去的關鍵、好的商業模式也不是。Mindset、信念、願景...才是能讓你繼續參與遊戲的關鍵"
- 我們的產品和服務是用來推動信念的方法,不是信念本身。如果我們完全用產品來定義我們的信念,那麼組織的存亡就完全取決於這些產品,任何新技術都可能在一夕之間淘汰我們的產品、我們的信念,甚至是公司。
- 擁有出色的球員、受歡迎的產品,或殺手級應用程式,並不代表我們有能力在無限賽局中活下去。以產品為主軸的願景聲明,只有在沒有更好的產品、市場沒有變化,以及沒有新技術出現的情況下才會有用。
- 如果鐵路公司把自己的意義定位在運送人們與物品、而不是推動鐵路發展,那些鐵路公司今天可能就是大型汽車公司或航空公司了。出版社把自己定位成圖書事業,而不是傳播思想的事業,於是錯過了利用新技術推動理念的機會,他們本來可能創立亞馬遜或發明電子閱讀器。唱片公司如果把自己定義為音樂的分享者,而不是唱片、錄音帶和光碟銷售商,那他們在數位串流興起的潮流中就不會過得那麼辛苦。如果他們以更遠大的信念來定義自己、而不只是銷售產品,當初就可能發明出 iTunes 或 Spotify 等服務,但是他們沒有……也為此付出了代價。
- 跟商場一樣,時代會變,玩家也在變。在商場,一家大公司破產並不等於賽局就結束,也沒有哪家公司成為贏家,留下來的玩家都知道,馬上會有其他公司崛起,也會有新的公司加入戰局。
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