上課時,我談到「命令」是親子關係的殺手,請學生造句。
學生在社團造句寫道:
去把玩具「給我」收起來。
你「給我」分手。
手機收起來,「給我」立刻去讀書。
快「給我」去睡覺
「給我」做完功課再去做其他事情。
班上有中南美洲來的學生,同學跟她解釋說「給我」就像語助詞一樣,沒什麼意思。
雖說如此,但的確我們的語言不少都傳達了我們做什麼事是為別人,不是為自己。
譬如聽話是聽「我」話的簡寫。主角是說話的人,而不是行為人。
而中文的「乖」在英文是「約束你自己的行為」(behave yourself),主角是行為人,不是說話的人。
難怪很多人對於自己要什麼模模糊糊的,對於別人要自己做什麼倒是清清楚楚的。頗有活著是為別人,不是為自己的潛意涵,有可能為自己而活被誤以是自私自利,剝削他人了。
如果大家能夠轉個方向,不把手伸到別人到盤子裡,把自己照顧好,要求好自己,或許人際間會太平些。
~郭葉珍的《和自己,相愛不相礙》~
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~郭葉珍的《我們,相伴不相絆》~博客來2020年親子教養排行榜第六名
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【給自己一個機會紅起來】❤️
Give Yourself A Chance To Shine
如果說宇宙的力量可以分為五種,那那五種力量就是金、木、水、火和土了。
世界萬物萬事都能以這五行去分類,而每個人的八字就是這五行的獨特混合體。這混合體遇到外在人事物的五行力量時,就會產生不同的吉凶禍福局面。
我個人經驗是,就算有著同樣八字的雙胞胎,也不會有一模一樣的命運,因為面相有細微之分,姓名的字義、音韻、筆畫和含義也會有不同的靈動力,影響著雙胞胎的命運。
看命,關鍵就在於找出自己需要的五行是什麼。這很考經驗,不是把八字裡的五行加減乘除一番就能斷出。如果這第一步搞錯,全盤的分析就會錯得一塌糊塗了。
在捉準需要的五行後,再來就是引導客人如何在衣食住行方面去補運,進而趨吉避凶。坦白說,如果客人不照著做,其實來看命也沒什麼意思。
知道未來好或不好,然後就聽天由命嗎?那豈不是只是花錢,來聽我說出你人生電視連續劇的劇透而已嗎?
我見了那麼多客人後,自己有個感想。如果人生一切都很安好,但自己就是開心不起來,這樣活著如行屍走肉,太痛苦了。
在批八字時,我都會告訴客人該用什麼顏色來旺自己。不要小看色彩學,每個顏色都有它們的五行。我也多次以色彩學,幫助一些客人應徵成功,在疫情期間依然能奏效。
但在七彩繽紛的顏色當中,只要我一提到紅色,客人們的反應普遍都很大。
什麼?那麼亮啊?
我的老婆說看不慣我穿這色!
那不是天天過年嗎?
我以前的命理師也是這麼說,
但我就是沒有做。
我的答案:你穿了幾十年這樣的顏色,也不見得你好。想命好一點,何不試一下我說的顏色?
紅能分出深淺、濃淡、明暗和不同的色度。沒有人叫你每天穿得像紅包似的。你每天穿黑,也不見得你像包青天那般的黑白分明。
附上A小姐和B先生「走紅」後的個別見證。
寫這電郵見證的B先生,在九月與我做了個後續諮詢。我遠遠看到他時,就已在想,怎麼身上絲毫沒有改變,而且還一副苦瓜臉?
他說,當初我三月見他時,他剛買了一堆衣服。顏色雖不利他,但他不捨得丟,而且老婆也不支持他穿紅色。公司裡的人也都是穿暗色的。
我說,那些新衣你也穿了幾個月了,可以拿去捐給有需要的人,佈施也不算浪費。老婆固然好意,但命是你自己的,你痛苦只有你自己知。
對待自己的命運,我們應該持有科學家的研究精神。你不去做這個實驗,你永遠不會知道我說的到底對不對。做這個實驗不難,不妨叫你的太太給你一個機會去改變。
換衣服顏色而已,又不是叫你換老婆。😂
與其內心糾結直到頭腦打結,我永遠選擇踏出第一步試一下。Never try, never know.
我一生人經歷了那麼多起起落落,老實告訴大家,命好起來時,心豁然開朗時,那種感覺真的很爽。不信,你試一下。
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If the energies in the Universe can be categorised, they would come in the 5 forms of Metal, Wood, Water, Fire and Earth.
All manifestations, be it things or events, in this world falls under these 5 elements, and each and every one of our Bazi is the combination of these 5 elements. The interaction between these elements in our Bazi and those in our circumstances will result in myriad of happenings, good fortunes or otherwise.
My personal experience tells me that even though 2 person may have exactly the same Bazi, but their destinies may turn out different. Reasons being the discrepancy in their facial features, the meanings, tonality, character strokes and essence of their names.
The crux of reading your own destiny lies in uncovering which of the 5 elements is or are mandatory for you. This calls for plenty of practical experience. It is not simply doing simple math of plus, minus, multiply and divide. If this first step is wrong, the whole deck of cards will surely collapse.
After deciphering the correct element, the next step is do guide the client on how to use it to boost their energies in all aspects, from external clothing and living environment to what they eat so as to attract good tidings and ward off misfortunes. Frankly, if the client is uncooperative, the whole of point of Bazi analysis would have been lost.
To know how your future will unfold but behave like a sitting duck? That’s just like buying a movie ticket to watch a preview of your life drama, isnt it?
I had this thought after seeing so many clients: if one’s life is seemingly smooth sailing but one remains unhappy, such zombie-like existence is very painful.
During a typical Bazi analysis session, I would always recommend the client certain colours favourable to him or her to boost the luck. Never underestimate the power of colours. Each colour has its own elemental nature. I have used this successfully several times to help clients succeed at their job interviews, even during this pandemic period.
However as soon as I mentioned the red colour, reactions from my clients tended to be bigger than usual.
Why?
Such a bright colour?
My wife said she’s not used to me in this colour!
That’s like Chinese New Year everyday!
The previous master I consulted said so too, but I did not heed the advice.
My answer: if you have been wearing your same old colours for the past many years and getting not much favours from Lady Luck, why not give my suggestion a try?
There are many tones and shades of Red. Nobody is asking you to dress like a big red ang bao (red packet) everyday. Dressing black everyday doesn’t make you Justice Bao either.
Attached are testimonies from Miss A and Mr B after they went red.
Mr B. came to me in September for a follow-up consultation. When I saw him from afar, I was thinking why there wasn’t any sign of change in him. He even sported a sour face.
He told me that after seeing me in March, he had just bought some clothes in colours that were unfavourable to him. He couldn’t bear to throw them away, and his wife didn’t really support him wearing red either. He said his colleagues were all wearing darker colours.
I told him that those clothes he bought had already served him for several months and he could donate them away. That would not constitute wastage. His wife may have good intentions but your destiny is your own business and only you know your sufferings.
We ought to treat our destiny with the spirit of a scientist. If you don’t experiment, you will never know if my methods work. This experiment is a simple one, ask your wife to support you this once.
It’s only changing the colour of your clothes, not asking to change your wife. 😂
Rather than getting oneself in knots, I will always choose to take the first step. Never try, never know.
My life’s journey has been that of ups and downs. Frankly speaking, when the winds begin blowing in your sails, and lift your spirit, those emotions are exhilarating. Don’t believe me? Try it out yourself.
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🤦🏻♂️欸你好意思喔!🤦🏻♂️
讓愛罵人的Ricky教你怎麼用英文回嗆人❤️
圖片是我家嗶啵翻白眼的樣子,講以下的英文很適合搭配翻白眼~
剛從大學教書下班回家路上,坐捷運位置旁邊的大學情侶在吵架,
算了與其說是吵架,倒不如說是男友在挨罵。
「你不要每次別人約你都說好!都不用問我嗎?你朋友就都比較重要,啊我就沒人陪死在房間就好了啊!」(要是我是男友心裡面一定會覺得:歐~~趕緊,趕緊死😂)
男生一臉很衰小的樣子😞
然後罵到一半女生的手機響了,一接起來就露出那種跟閨蜜說話的三八可愛表情~但還是偶爾配上小髒話那種聊天模式,我想你們懂的~
我還真的很像變態一樣一直在聽她談話的內容😂😂
聊天大概就是姊妹淘打來約明天吃飯逛街什麼的,然後其中關鍵句在於
「欸你幹嘛不早說啦!很臨時耶~幸好我明天沒排什麼。喔喔喔好啦好啦,那就明天下午約喔」
然後男友的臉從衰小變成更衰小,因為他跟朋友約被罵得跟狗一樣,女友答應臨時約,他也不敢吭聲😂😂
說實在話女友不覺得自己拍謝,我都替男友覺得不值😂
這種情形就是「欸你好意思喔」,英文不要以為不好意思是excuse me或是sorry,就跟這兩個句型有關,
英文我們會說👉🏻Look who's talking!
例如170公分95公斤的男紙跟65公斤的女友說
Hey! You should be on a diet! (欸!別再吃了好嘛!)
或是每天不穿上衣自拍以為是胸肌但實際上只是隆起的竹筍奶的男友跟穿C字褲的女友說
Hey! Behave yourself! (欸!你給我檢點一點!)
或是愛喝酒的爸爸跟偷抽煙的兒子說
Hey man! Keep an eye on your health! (欸欸欸,臭小子!注意健康好嘛!)
或是穿七分褲的人跟戴阿姨登山遮臉遮頸遮陽帽的人說
C'mon! Where's your sense of fashion? (欸拜託,你的時尚感呢?)
這些人都很值得被回答
Look who's talking!!!
如果要再更三八雞巴一點的話,可以加上很台灣阿姨口吻的
喲~~~~(拖三拍)Look who's talking!!!
我好久沒有教回嗆人的英文,現在打完這篇覺得舒坦❤️
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