Kau mengharapkan anak-anak besar esok jadi anak soleh, huffaz quran, orang berjaya, taat mak bapak., pemimpin negara... Tapi hari-hari dalam hidup kau mengadap handphone lebih lama daripada masa kau mengadap anak-anak. Kau senyum depan gajet lebih banyak daripada kau senyum depan anak.
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Pergi kedai makan sama-sama dengan anak, tapi kau mengadap Telegram sepanjang waktu. Anak yang duduk berhadapan dengan kau terpinga-pinga tak tau nak buat apa sementara tunggu makanan yang d...
Continue ReadingYou expect big children tomorrow to be a religious child, Huffaz Quran, successful people, obey your parents., leader of the country... but the days of your life facing your handphone longer than the time you face the children. You smile in front of the gadget more than you smile in front of your child.
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Go to the restaurant together with the kids, but you're facing telegram all the time. The child who sits in front of you is not sure what to do while waiting for the food that is ordered to arrive. If he's a little squirm, you'll put him in front of the people.
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Your child has a fever, you take him to the clinic. While waiting for the number. Turn up, you watch insta until you neglect the child who is holding the pain. The child has no friends to chat with. Even the strongest you let him watch Youtube or play games on his handphone. Your promise is not disturbed.
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School Sports day, your child is excited to run, jump, compete with friends. Got the medal and the cup to show his parents. But the child is in the middle of the night, in the field, you shelter under the tent, watching whatsapp while smiling alone.
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Take the kids to the playground, your kids let go of playing alone. Playing Slide Board, Jongkang-Jongket, hammock... where are you? Sitting on the bench while update facebook status, "this evening it's fun to bring the kids to play at the toy park" and wait for the comments guys. The children are waiting for you to participate, but unfortunately their wishes are not achieved.
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You put hope in the future of your child as high as a mountain, want him to be a religious child, a successful person in the afterlife, but the value of gadget you put is much higher. Communication with a via "Middle" Youtube and Ipad. If there's no gadget, you're also dead how to treat children's karenah and communicate.
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A bitter truth, but a daily scenario that can be observed around us. Now kids are small maybe you don't see the effect. But after 20 years you will realize, after you see the effect in front of your eyes, then you can't even break back. So while you still have time and opportunity, use the best opportunity.
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You are the one responsible for your children...
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All of you are a shepherd, and all of you are responsible for his flock, the prince is a shepherd, and the man is a shepherd of his house of her husband and son, you are a shepherd, and
You are the leader, and you are responsible for the one who is the one who is the one who is the one who A Amir (King) is a leader, a husband is also a leader of his family, and the wife is also a leader of the house of her husband and her children. All of you are leaders and you will be asked for your blessing. (hr al-Bukhari and Muslim. This is the chant of al-Bukhari)
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May Allah ask every shepherd what he has taken care save it or lost? Until a man asks about his home people.
Indeed, Allah will ask every leader about anything that he has given. Is it nurture or it is wasted, until someone is asked about his family. (hr an-Nasaa ' ie and ibn Hibban, from Anas bin Malik. Ibnu hajar up)
Credit: Ahmad hisyam sabraniTranslated
