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【不要只說「小心陌生人」】(English writing below)
DON'T JUST SAY "BEWARE OF STRANGERS"

保護孩子、培力兒童是大人的責任，不是嗎？可是很多父母都失職了。

兩年前，我寫過這篇文章《防狼之心不可無》：https://www.facebook.com/l.jiqian/posts/10155915660644614

我一貫的影片離不開佛法、風水命理和改命補運的題目。去年，因搬進風水更好的新家，我見的客人多了，收入也增長了一倍。當時，就在想：取之社會，用之社會，因此，就已策劃要拍些社會課題的影片。

為了這支影片，去年特別拉隊回到我童年的居住地區拍攝。第一次這樣的拍攝，收音方面沒做好，請您多多包涵。

孩子被熟人性侵，會造成孩子一輩子的陰影，其殺傷力比很多病毒來得更深、更痛。

蔑倫越理的邪淫，會種下未來無窮盡的禍根, 死後墮入畜牲道，百千劫難得人身，但依然有加害者執迷不悟，以為能一手遮天。

因此，身為父母和教育者，我們都有責任教導孩子正確的身體自主權，及如何拒絕和向可信任的大人求助。

三十多年前，我母親苦口婆心教導我多年，今天，我做這影片，適合大人小孩一同觀看。除了希望小孩子能學到自我保護的能力，我也期盼他們未來不會成為性暴力的加害者，將來還能幫助其他的孩子脫離被加害的困境。 ❤️

到我YOUTUBE頻道觀看影片：👉 https://youtu.be/bawSUo2Zy7s

欲了解防止兒童性侵和兒童自我保護的更多資訊，請瀏覽新加坡兒童會 Singapore Children’s Society 的臉書專頁。

感謝：
攝影師 + 「壞叔叔」- Joseph Ng
母女檔真情演出 - Wan Fong
+ 李先生的獻聲
我姪兒，洋洋
我姑婆

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Empowering and protecting children are the responsibilities of adults, right? Yet, there are many parents who have failed in this aspect.

Two years ago, I wrote an article "What my mum taught me about wolves": https://www.facebook.com/l.jiqian/posts/10155915660644614

My usual videos revolve around the topics of Buddhism, Chinese Metaphysics, destiny transformation and luck improvement.

Last year, after moving into a new house of better Feng Shui, the number of clients I seen increased and my income doubled. At that time, I had this thought: what is taken from the people should be used in the interests of the people. Hence, I made plans to do videos on societal issues.

For this video, I went back to my childhood neighbourhood with the filming crew. This is my first time producing such a video, and I seek your tolerance for the lacklustre audio.

There are many illnesses that one can recover from, but a child who has suffered sexual abuse from a known person may never lead a healthy life again.

Immoral sexual misdeeds sow the seeds for endless misfortunes in one's future. Upon death, one will be hurled into the animal realm and be denied of the human form for hundreds and thousands of kalpas. Yet, sexual predators are persisting in their acts, naively thinking that they can get away with it.

As parents and educators, we have the responsibility to teach our children body safety skills, and how to reject sexual advances and seek help from trusted adults.

30 over years ago, my mum had taught me this painstakingly over many years. Today, I am paying forward by producing this video that is suitable for both the adults and children to watch.

I hope for more children to learn self-protection abilities, and that they will not become the sexual predators that we abhor. Who knows? Perhaps in the future, they may even help free other children from being sexual preys. ❤️

WATCH ON MY YOUTUBE CHANNEL:
👉 https://youtu.be/bawSUo2Zy7s

For more information on prevention of children sexual abuse and body safety skills: please visit the Facebook page of Singapore Children's Society

Extending my gratitude to:
Cameraman + "Bad Uncle“ - My husband
Mother & daughter duo - Wan Fong
and her husband's voice
My nephew, Yang Yang
My grandaunt

Missing this puff while I'm in Tokyo! Went to Disneysea today and bought him loads of stuff. Thank you for all the very kind comments on the previous post (except this one f*cker who said I deserved it. You deserve premature balding)... They made me feel much better.

Anyway I'm in Tokyo thanks to @dwgprojects. Tomorrow I'll tell you guys exactly why!

Ps: Thailand's bombing made me soooooo angry. Buddhism isn't even really a religion, it's more of a teaching or philosophy. Buddhists are very peaceful and accepting, they have no wars with anyone and don't try to convert people or have issues with any other religion. Why would ANYONE bomb a temple?? Just... WHY? Luckily no children or babies died this time round (am I right?) but there could have been! If religion is the reason for this bombing, then what sort of God approves of killing innocent people, including possibly infants? If so, f*ck your shit God. Sorry, very pissed off. I can't see much news while I'm here, but I saw a photo of many monks gathering today in unity and it was a touching sight. Stay strong Bangkok. #prayingforbangkok

Edit: Just read that a Malaysian 4 year old girl did die. Omg. I cannot... The bombers are just... beyond inhumane.

Edit 2: Is it not an Buddhist temple? 四面佛? Now I'm reading news saying its a Hindu temple? Paiseh I got no time to properly read the articles before writing this caption.

【玳瑚師父隨筆碌】 《人比鬼更可怕》
Humans are More Frightening than Ghosts (English version below)

去年吾有寫過一篇有關農曆七月「鬼節」的文章。雖然「鬼節」剛過，我依然在此為你妳們介紹人與鬼“爲人不知”的一面。

在近半百的人生歲月裏，吾所接觸過的人，其數之多實不在話下。而吾的工作也必須接見很多很多人。因此，對於人的「人性」，有吾最真實的認知。。坦白說，吾是較怕人多過於鬼。蓋人的性格，並不鮮明。幫了他她之後，不求他她的回報，但求他她不會反回頭咬吾就好。相信吾這樣的説法，在在都有共鳴。

這裡就披露幾則發生在吾及吾衆多客人身上的真實事情，讓你妳們參考，人的「人性」，何為不鮮明。有位弟子的父親，爲了要讓其子國外攻讀碩士學位，毅然將賣屋的錢，圓其兒子的「夢」。這兒子的「夢」是圓了，可是至今仍然沒有感恩的心、盡孝父母、回饋社會，反而還跟父親慪氣、冷戰，甚至自私自利地不管父母弟妹的未來生死問題。養兒防老，看來是養兒煩惱啊！哀哉其父。記得最初見這位弟子時，着實有點驚嚇。因其臉相有如「惡人谷」出來的。但吾依然收他為徒，希望他能夠認真學佛，清除累世的業障及現世心中的垃圾。吾的天真卻忘了「相由心生」這句話。後來他果然常犯戒，更嚴重的是，他既然不把戒律放在眼裏 ，一錯再錯，如今罪如山、過如海，再不速速懺悔重新受戒，恐怕悔時已晚。

另有一學生，也是碩士生。雖有碩士學位，可是卻失業，也找不到就業機會。吾知道後，馬上二話不説的，親自出馬運用玄學的力量，為他謀得現今這份高職，並且授予他真實的佛法與基本玄學，好讓他從中體悟人生實相、生命實相以及福份次第的種種。至今他每次來上課，都會有新的怨言及新的欲望。（感恩的人，不會有怨言。）吾想，他是男的沒錯。可是怎麽“怨”力如此大，宛如怨婦再來，真是阿彌陀佛啊！做男不容易，難道你想做女不成？受人恩惠，不圖回報，還成天打妄語、怨這怨那的，再這樣下去，人身不保，三途惡道等著你。速醒，速醒。

有位客戶來電欲批八字。吾問爲何？她答欲找新工作，因與公司經理不和。她好意幫經理處理鐘長的問題，哪知反遭經理“盯死”。她覺得這樣做下去沒意思。這是「狗咬呂洞賓，不識好人心」。另有位美麗的空姐，因丈夫不忠，找吾堪輿其陽宅，想生個寶寶來「圓滿」婚姻。不久後，果然得了個女娃。吾認爲不忠就是不專一，因從專一努力，婚姻才能真正圓滿。

鬼的性格較鮮明，在於鬼大多數是直腸子。你妳祗要幫過他她一次，他她一定等待機會來報答你妳。不像人的心理如此的歪曲。幫了他她，不求他她回報，但求他她不會轉回頭，反咬你妳就好。因此，吾認爲人比鬼更可怕。你妳認爲呢？哈！哈！哈！

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I wrote an article about the Hungry Ghost Festival around the same time last year. Even though the festival has passed, I am still going to introduce the less known sides of a human and a spirit.

As I approached the half century mark in my life, as part of my job scope, I have interacted with countless number of people. Thus I possess a thorough appreciation of the human nature. Frankly speaking, I am more afraid of a human than a ghost. The human nature is not pure. When I helped a person, I do not expect him to return any favour. Instead I will be glad if this person does not turn around and harm me. I believe many of you would resonate with my sentiments.

Here, I shall divulge some stories which happened to people around me, to allow you a closer examination of the human nature which is primarily clouded. One of my students got his dreams of overseas studies fulfilled when his father sold their home and raised enough funds. This student had his wish but remains an utter ingrate, one who is unfilial to his parents and does not bother with contribution to the society whatsoever. Instead, he scoffed at his father, is constantly at odds with him and sports a selfish attitude towards the spiritual mortality issues of his parents and siblings. To raise a son to guard against old age? Seemed to me like 'to raise a son to give you more troubles at old age!' I pity the father. I remembered the first day I met this student and was slightly shocked. His face resembled that of a villain from the fictional notorious Bandits Valley. But I still took him in as my disciple, hoping he will change by learning the dharma and eradicating the bad karma and all the filthy thrash from his heart. Alas, I was naive to ignore that a person's appearance stems from his very heart. In the end, he flouted all the precepts, belittled them even and continued his errant ways. Now, his bad karma has accumulated as high as the highest mountains, and as deep as the deepest seas. If he does not repent now, I am afraid it will be too late.

Another student was jobless for some time, despite having a Masters. I got to know of it and immediately applied the principles of metaphysics on him and eventually landed him his current high post job. In addition, I endowed upon him actual knowledge of Buddhism and the basics of metaphysics in hope that he will see the truth of life and understand the different levels of merits. Till today, whenever he comes for my lessons, I would hear new complaints, grudges or new desires. (A grateful person is not prone to complaining.) I thought to myself, he is a guy, a man alright, but he is so full of complaints, just like a vengeful woman! Amituofo! It is not easy to be born a man. Does he really want to be a woman instead? To receive kindness from others yet does not reciprocate, coupled with frequent lies and complaints, if this carries on, he will lose his human form in his next life. The three lower realms awaits. Please wake up urgently!

A client called me, wanting to an analysis of her birth chart to be done. I asked her for the reason. She replied saying she needed help to look for a new job due to her current job dissatisfaction. She helped her manager with good intention but yet ended up being a 'marked' person. She felt it was not worth staying on. As the Chinese saying goes 'the dog that bit Master Lu Dong Bin does not realise his kind heartedness'. Another client, a beautiful flight attendant, got me to audit the Feng shui of her house in a bid to save her crumpling marriage, due to her husband's infidelity. She wished for a baby to complete the family. With my help, she got her wish. I feel that being unfaithful is akin to losing one's focus. To diligently keep oneself focused is the key to a blissful marriage.

Ghosts, on the other hand, are much clearer and more direct in their intentions. As long as you have helped a spirit before, the spirit would be sure to repay your kindness, unlike humans with their warped psyche. Do not expect a fellow human to repay your kindness all the time. You would be lucky if he or she does not return your favour with malice! Thus I feel that a human is far more sinister than a spirit. Don't you think so? Ha ha ha!

不要只說「小心陌生人」DON'T JUST SAY "BEWARE OF STRANGERS"
(English writing below)

保護孩子、培力兒童是大人的責任，不是嗎？可是很多父母都失職了。

兩年前，我寫過這篇文章《防狼之心不可無》：https://www.facebook.com/l.jiqian/posts/10155915660644614

我一貫的影片離不開風水命理，改命補運的題目。去年，因搬進風水更好的新家，我見的客人多了，收入也增長了一倍。當時，就在想：取之社會，用之社會，因此，就已策劃要拍些社會課題的影片。

為了這支影片，去年特別拉隊回到我童年的居住地區拍攝。第一次這樣的拍攝，收音方面沒做好，請您多多包涵。

中了武漢肺炎病毒，還有機會可以痊癒，可孩子被熟人性侵，會造成孩子一輩子的陰影，其殺傷力更深、更痛。

蔑倫越理的邪淫，會種下未來無窮盡的禍根, 死後墮入畜牲道，百千劫難得人身，但依然有加害者執迷不悟，以為能一手遮天。

因此，身為父母和教育者，我們都有責任教導孩子正確的身體自主權，及如何拒絕和向可信任的大人求助。

三十多年前，我母親苦口婆心教導我多年，今天，我做這影片，適合大人小孩一同觀看。除了希望小孩子能學到自我保護的能力，我也期盼他們未來不會成為性暴力的加害者。

說不定，將來他們還能幫助其他的孩子脫離被加害的困境。 ❤️

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Empowering and protecting children are the responsibilities of adults, right? Yet, there are many parents who have failed in this aspect.

Two years ago, I wrote an article "What my mum taught me about wolves": https://www.facebook.com/l.jiqian/posts/10155915660644614

My usual videos revolve around the topics of Chinese Metaphysics, Buddhism, destiny transformation and luck improvement. 

Last year, after moving into a new house of better Feng Shui, the number of clients I seen increased and my income doubled. At that time, I had this thought: what is taken from the people should be used in the interests of the people. Hence, I made plans to do videos on societal issues. 

For this video, I went back to my childhood neighbourhood with the filming crew. This is my first time producing such a video, and I seek your tolerance for the lacklustre audio. 

One has a higher chance of recovering from Wuhan virus, than a child who suffered sexual abuse from a known person. 

Immoral sexual misdeeds will sow the seeds for endless misfortunes in one's future. Upon death, one will be hurled into the animal realm and be denied of the human form for hundreds and thousands of kalpas. Yet, sexual predators are persisting in their acts, thinking that they can get away with it. 

As parents and educators, we have the responsibility to teach our children body safety skills, and how to reject sexual advances and seek help from trusted adults.  

30 over years ago, my mum had taught me this painstakingly over many years. Today, I am paying forward by producing this video that is suitable for both the adults and children to watch. 

I hope for more children to learn self-protection abilities, and that they will not become the sexual predators that we abhor. Who knows? Perhaps in the future, they may even help free other children from being sexual preys.  ❤️

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阿彌陀佛，你好！我是李季謙，來自新加坡的風水命理師。我將我的一生貢獻於弘揚佛法和中華玄學。這過程曲折離奇，卻也充滿了許多人生的領悟。

通過我的影音與寫作，我希望能與你分享，盼你也能夠突破自己命運的束縛，真正活得精彩：我命在我，不在天。

人生長短無所謂，最重要的是活得有價值，有貢獻。

??‍? 服務諮詢 ：
https://qianyu.sg/consultations/?lang=zh-hant

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Hi, I am Lee Ji Qian, a Chinese Metaphysics practitioner from Singapore. This journey in propagating Buddhism and Chinese Metaphysics has been full of hard knocks and exciting discoveries.

Through my videos and online writing, I hope to share my journey with you. So that you too can break free from the limits of your destiny and truly live a life you can call fulfilling. My destiny is in my own hands, not Heaven. So is yours.

It does not matter whether we can live a long or short life.
What matters most is living a life of value and contribution.

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