最好的自己不在未來,就在現在。
認真回想,以前我好像在每一段關係中都是在扮演某一個角色,不由自主的在為每個對象做調整。不只有在戀愛上,有時候可能跟朋友、工作夥伴都是,尤其是在前輩面前,常常我都會本能反應似的改變自己。聲音要甜一點嗎?笑話要低級一點嗎?從穿衣服就可以看出,我今天是要跟誰吃飯。雖然是微調,但透露出了一件事,我好像不夠喜歡真正的自己,所以才會擔心大家也不會喜歡真正的我。我告訴自己即使累,但如果持續努力,有一天就能變成大家都喜歡的Lara。
久而久之我和世界的相處模式只有「由外到內」,會依照別人對我的反應去斷定我的下一步。大家會覺得我很好相處,我卻越來越不快樂。現在我慢慢開始懂了,原來我把順序弄反了。我該優先處理的是自己內心的感受,其他人買不買單,其實跟你一點關係都沒有。就像找另外一半,如果我跟夢中情人在一起,但我根本無法在他面前做自己,最後還是會走不下去。
我現在33歲,So What? 終於懂,「當下的自己」才是人生時間軸上最重要的!
對了,有人好奇這次「{}」的意思嗎?簡單說是「大括號」,在數學運算式中稱作「空集合」。數學不好的人就想像一個清空的行李箱吧。「空」不是無,而是無限可能。括號還有另外一個更好懂的意思,就是「優先處理」。將過去整理過後的自己,回歸純粹,態度成熟自信!(失戀後重新出發的人應該很有感觸吧!🤣)
Your best self is not in the future, but in the Now.
Looking back, I seem to have been playing a role in almost every relationship I was ever in. I'm not just talking about romantic relationships. Whether it was with friends or colleagues (especially seniors), I would modify myself almost instinctively. Should my voice be sweeter? My jokes dirtier? If you wanted to know who I was eating with that day, all you had to do was look at the clothes I was wearing.
The changes were subtle, but they still reflected a truth: I didn’t feel like the real me was enough so I was worried that other people would also find her lacking. I told myself that if I just kept working at it, I would someday become a version of Lara that everyone accepted.
Eventually I only knew how to get my cues from the external world. I would always base my next step on feedback I got from others. Most people considered me easy to get along with, but I grew more and more unhappy.
I think I had it all wrong. My first priority should have been listening to my inner voice. Whether or not other people agree with it is not in my control nor of my concern. Take looking for a partner. Even if I found the person of my dreams, it would never last if I couldn’t be myself around them.
I am 33 years old. So What? I finally understand that "the present self" is the most important thing on the timeline of life! It’s time to prioritize me!
By the way, is anyone curious about the meaning of "{}" this time? Besides the more commonly known representation of parentheses as prioritization, these curly brackets are called “the empty set”. The empty what? If like me, math is not your strongest suit, think of it as an empty suitcase. "Empty" doesn’t mean nothing, but infinite possibilities! What will you fill your life with this time?
2021全新專輯《來者何人{}》
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天啊,兩歲是個讓家長煩惱的年紀…… Kali 開始有自己的想法並開始懂的表達自己。她愛玩,愛笑,更愛開玩笑,有時會用開玩笑的方式將她的碗和盤子打翻。她也非常依賴某些物品,比如說特定的沐浴玩具、絨毛布偶、衣服,甚至是兒童餐具。
好險Kali使用我們為她準備的第一套 Miniware 時,她立刻就喜歡上了這套餐具!我們也超愛,因為它大大的降低了孩子們用餐時混亂的場景。Miniware有別市售一體成型的兒童餐具,它的盤子和碗的吸盤都可拆卸互換,吸盤可以很容易穩定的吸在桌面上,當大寶開始調皮,嘗試將她的盤子和碗從桌子上推下來時,這個功能超有用(好動寶寶真的必備!)。
Miniware也幫助孩子們越來越獨立的學習吃飯,不僅外觀非常簡約美型,和我們使用的餐具沒什麼差異,很有大人味。整套餐具的設計也非常直觀,大寶好握拿、好挖食,當Kali第一次拿起叉子和勺子時,她就知道可以將它們直立起來,而且搭配超美的花瓣盤,食物看起來更美味,還能分隔湯湯水水,這也是她喜歡在任何地方使用這套餐具的原因之一。即使是在遊戲室吃她的小零嘴時,我們只需要把她的零食放在花瓣分隔盤上,然後大寶吃完後只要快速沖洗一下,就可以放回盤子上,當晚餐時間到時再拿出來使用。
Miniware非常容易收納和攜帶。我們住在充滿植物的自然公園旁邊,疫情前經常全家人去野餐。Miniware非常輕巧、耐用,很適合外出使用!說到自然,大家知道Miniware是聚乳酸材質,100%植物澱粉製成嗎?可回收還對地球十分友善!這樣優秀的產品,值得我們支持呢!
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Ah, the terrible twos... Kali is starting to have her own opinion and really express herself. She loves to play, she loves to laugh, and she loves to crack jokes. That includes flipping her bowls and plates on the floor. She also gets pretty attached to certain things like specific bath toys, stuffed animals, clothes, and yes, even dinnerware.
The first time we introduced her to her first Miniware set, she immediately loved it! We do, too, as it has significantly reduced kiddie clutter at dinner time. Miniware's plates and bowls come with removable, interchangeable suction mats that simply stick to the surface, which comes in handy when Kali tries to push her plates and bowls off the table. It’s definitely a must have!
The Miniware set does a great job at helping kids feel more independent; the set doesn't look like other kids' dinnerware that are drastically different from what their parents are using. The set is also super intuitive. The moment Kali picked up the fork and spoon, she placed them upright, which is one of the reasons she likes to use this set everywhere - even during snack times in her playroom. We just put her snacks on the 矽膠聰明分隔盤 and then give it a quick wash and use it again for dinner on top of the plate.
Miniware is so easy to pack and carry. We live next to a sprawling nature park and often go there for family picnics. Our Miniware set is lightweight, durable and perfect for this! And talking about nature, do you know that Miniware's products are made of plant-based, recyclable materials? This is a great product that supports a great cause!
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Accurate representation of how my day went when I switched lives with @debbwie for a day 😩🥵
Full video HERE: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=1uEGJVtFeVg
Jokes aside, I never thought it would be THIS challenging to stay home and look after our house, Starley, and handle @thestarry.co all at the same time. Debbie has been doing an amazing job and she makes it look so easy. When I took over, I realised that it’s not as easy as it seems. There are so many things going on at the same time 🤣
Hence, I challenge you guys to break the norm, and #MakeTheNorm. Looking after the family should always be a collaborative partnership as much as possible, instead of having 1 person shouldering the responsibilities alone. I’ll also definitely play my part to help out at home whenever I can after realizing how tough it is. What are some of your ways to #MakeTheNorm? Share them with me down below 😌
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My husband has 18 years of experience in the hair-industry so this was NO EASY TASK AT ALL !!!
Being married for 2 and a half years now but it’s MY VERY FIRST TIME CUTTING HIS HAIR OK! #THEPRESSUREISRRRREAL?
I HAVE ZERO KNOWLEDGE IN CUTTING HAIR BUT OF COURSE I HAD THE BEST GUIDANCE FROM THE BEST BARBER IN MALAYSIA - @LexLow.co ?
Jokes aside, cutting his hair gave me a glimpse of his work and I truly admire him for what he believes in - truly craftsmanship & excellent spirit.
This is such a great bonding exercise. You can contact Lex directly if you want to book an online video appointment too - as a couple bonding activity or something.. ♥️♥️
How many of you actually cut your boyfriend / husband’s hair too? Leave a comment and tell me how did it went?!
See you in the next one!
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Hey,
was there a time when you feel like talking to someone but you are afraid that you would burden them with your troubles?
or was there ever a period of time when you had a lot of small issues that eventually rolled up into a HUGE one?
I wrote this song to say that , everyone experiences hard times : times when you feel like you're gonna go BOOM, times when you just wanna cry it all out. just do it, we all are humans after all.
and you're not alone , you don't have to keep your worries to yourself, I know its not easy but find a healthy way to express it :)
Also had a go with a stop motion lyric video! hope you guys like it ~
thank you !
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lyrics:
Hear, what I’m bout to say
Cause I have no way, hmm.
I hate, when I’m bout to speak,
It feels like drowning everybody
when they say they’ll stay
They might help a little
but it stays the same
Got my friends online
with their jokes on mind
You’re a party pooper
If you just don’t smile
I tried ,
So , let me
Let me cry it out
Been holding on for ages
But it don’t seem to work out
Got a strong little heart
But it’s broken now
Let me,
Let me cry it out
Been waiting for a chance like this
To find myself
I need a lil more time
It’s gonna turn out, fine.
Woah.
It’s all , the same.
Everyone goes back and through and back to that state of mind
It lingers for awhile ,
It’s not gonna stay.
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