【勿因過小而為之】NEVER UNDERESTIMATE A SMALL MISTAKE (English writing below)
她閱讀我文章許久
終於鼓起勇氣聯絡我
她說從我文章和影片學到的
之前的風水師看了幾年
都沒教過她
她家運一直沒更好
希望我幫她批八字看風水
她說晚上會把資料發給我
結果隔天我才收到資料
沒有道歉沒有解釋
彷彿一切都是理所當然的
直到我問
最後我選擇不幫她看
六月時
一位男士欲找我批八字
他說七月份會再聯絡我
結果九月才收到他的私訊
他一樣沒有道歉
沒有解釋
直到我問
我請他另請高明
三月時
一位女士經友人介紹
想我為他們夫婦倆批八字
我說自己的命自己負責
請她先生親自聯絡我
五月份
她再次私訊我
想在七月或八月見我
我告訴她兩人先捐款再給我資料
她說捐了後會聯絡我
結果九月份
我才收到資料
她沒主動道歉沒解釋
直到我問
後來我請他們另請高明
她先生始終也沒聯絡過我
一直都是太太
可能很多人以為
我們這些風水師和生意人
沒什麼兩樣
有錢就賺
客人沒信用沒道德
只要紅包到手who cares?
I care.
當你說你晚上會私訊我
我是真的會騰出時間來等你
當你要求我安排某個時候見我時
我是真的會先安排再等你的回覆
我會給你機會解釋
為什麼出爾反爾
但不要說「我還沒給你資料就覺得無所謂」
之類的話
沒把握做到的事就不要先說
這是妄語
如果說了又沒做到
要主動解釋認錯
不要當作什麼都沒發生過
你忙
剛巧我更忙
第一位客人說
找我時就已做好心理準備
我不會幫她看
這樣的心態甚奇怪
你一方面很想我幫你的家庭
又何必另一方面做出令人匪夷所思的舉動?
為什麼沒有好好爭取及把握?
難不成你以為
我就那麽喜歡跟錢作對嗎?😄
你能夠這樣隨便地對我
也必定會這樣對別人
我的工作是教導你
如何把生命裡的障礙物移開
讓你的發展可以更順
這個障礙物
簡短地說
就是你的陋習
你的陋習造就了你的性格
製造了你的命運
也奠定了你的未來
你如果不願移開這個障礙物
就會永遠面對同樣的問題
不斷重覆循環著
永遠不會解決問題
永遠無法脫離原本命運的軌跡
我不是一般的風水命理師
我給你的不是暫時的鎮定劑
因為那治標不治本
我的能力可以讓你知道
你是什麼時候
讓你的命運出現了違和
給你真正的解藥
但如果你習慣
把別人的時間和信任
當成你的方便來使喚
而不覺得自己有過
會影響命運
那很抱歉
我不是一個好的選擇
請另請高明
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She has been reading my posts for quite some time. One day, she finally plucked up the courage to contact me. She told me the knowledge she learnt from my writing and videos were things that her Feng Shui master of a few years never taught her. Her family luck had not been improving. So she wished for me to help her analyse her Bazi and audit her home Feng Shui.
She told me she would send me her details in the night but I only received it the next day. There was no apology or explanation. It was as if things were taken for granted. Till I asked for it.
In the end, I declined to help her.
In June, a gentleman sought my help to analyse his Bazi. He said he would contact me again in July. But I only received his PM in September.
There was similarly no apology and explanation, till I asked for his reason for going back on his words. I advised him to seek another Master afterwards.
In March, a lady looked for me upon her friend's recommendation. She wanted Bazi analysis for herself and her husband. I told her that every one should be responsible for his/her own destiny, and asked for her husband to contact me personally.
In May, she PM me again, requesting for a date in July or August for both of them. I told her to proceed with the donation and send me the details.
But I only got the information in September and it was incomplete. There was no explanation and apology till I asked for her reason.
I did not take up the jobs but invited her to seek another Master. Throughout this time, I never received any message from her husband. The lady was still doing all the liaising.
Perhaps many people think that we Feng Shui practitioners are no different from the usual businessmen. If there is money, we will take it. Who cares whether the client lacks trustworthiness or morals, as long as we receive the red packet?
Well, I care.
When you say you will PM me at night, I will really make time to wait for you.
When you ask me to arrange a certain time to meet, I will really make the arrangement while waiting for your reply.
While I do give you the opportunity to explain why you went back on your words, do not come and tell me things like "I thought it's okay since I never give you my information".
If you do not have faith that you will do what you say, then don't say first. Because that constitutes a lie.
If you are unable to keep your word for whatever reason, take the initiative to explain and apologise. Don't act as if nothing happened.
You are busy. What a coincidence. So am I, if not more than you.
The first client said she was mentally prepared that I would not take up her case when she contacted me. This is a very bewildering mindset. If you are very keen to seek my service to help your family, ,why would you do something to screw it up?
Also, did you think I enjoy being loggerheads with money? 😄
If you can treat me so carelessly, you can easily treat others the same way too.
My job is to teach you how to move the obstacles away from your life, so that you can have a smoother development ahead.
This obstacle, simply put, is your bad habit.
Your bad habit forms your character, which establishes your destiny and goes on to create your future.
If you are unwilling to move this obstruction away, you will always face the same problems and sink into a vicious cycle. The problem never gets solved and you are unable to break free from the trajectory of your original destiny.
I am not an ordinary Feng Shui practitioner. What I can give you is not just a temporary tranquliser, for that does not cure the problem at its root. I am capable of telling you at what point in time your Destiny fell sick and the antidote to resolving it all.
However, if you are very used to making use the time and trust of others for your own convenience, and see nothing wrong with that, I am truly sorry. I am a bad choice for you. Please seek another more qualified Master.
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《玳瑚師父的看見(三)》(English version below)
THE SIGHTINGS OF MASTER DAI HU 3
成就的人生如何來?成就的人生是一個人,在她他生命中的每一天,對於她他所經歷過的人與事,很認真去思考,然後告訴自己,下一次一定要做得比上一次,更好甚至更圓滿。吾,玳瑚師父,就是堅守著這樣的一個準則,去開發吾內心的光明,再將這光明,照向一切的有緣有情眾生,使她他們的內心,早日光明點燃、智慧增長,能自利也能利她他,沒有怨親會苦,沒有愛憎會苦,沒有地獄,祇有天堂。吾的意思是祝福大家,最起碼有福天的福報是也。
吾記得曾在文章裡,傳授大家一些面相學。若干年前,有對年輕夫妻因吾的其中一位門生,介紹來問前程。事先女者有給吾來電,禮貌及誠意的說明,是由誰所介紹而來的,找吾有何需求。之後得知,原來是爲其先生的事業,盼吾能指點一二。見面時,吾請她他們倆,將她他們倆的愛巢格局,清楚的畫在紙上,然後給於她他們倆吾專業的見解。女者這時才告訴吾,她他們倆曾請過某位師父,到她他們的愛巢勘查過風水。但,根據她所畫的,吾所問的,明顯的不夠完整。因吾現場的「表演」,她他們倆就異口同聲的邀請吾,到她他們倆的愛巢去,重新規劃一番。
上門勘察的當日,隨同的有吾的門生,印象中至少有兩位。因此,吾勘察的整個過程之精彩,是有人證的。多人找吾爲她他們的居家、工廠、公司、辦公室、店面等等,規劃風水,乃因吾都會全力以赴,給足時間之余,還給了她他們一堂免費的風水課程。吾本身有問過幾位客人,爲何不去找其他師父,她他皆回曰,吾勘察風水很有耐心,很仔細,有準,效果明顯,等等。這對夫婦要求有子女運,吾就在她他們倆的寢室裡,佈了局並當場在眾人面前預言,她他們倆很快就會添丁。有一天,她他們倆請吾吃飯,原因是太太真的有孕了。吾觀男者的氣色,再次大膽預言是千金。再有一天致電於吾,除了告訴吾準確的預言,也請吾爲其千金撰名。
有位美麗可愛,但事實上,脾氣有點那個的少婦(一笑),由吾的客人,也是她的同事,推薦來找吾爲其住宅,賜福賜吉祥。除了陽宅勘察,她他們夫婦倆,也有請吾爲她他們倆,重新撰個良名,以及大運批算,佛像金身開光安座。甚至有一回,她他們必須出遠門,無法拜天公,因而將房屋鎖匙交予吾,請吾幫她他們拜天公。在此,再感謝她他倆對於吾的信任與厚愛。有一回與她他們夫婦倆有飯局,吾驚覺少婦的氣色,和往常很不一樣,一問之下始知,她那時所服務的公司,會給員工服食「神符」。吾,玳瑚師父,奉勸大家勿隨便服食符紙,若畫符之人心術不正,食符的人會後果很不堪設想啊!這位少婦在吾的勸解下,再加上吾請佛菩薩放光加持後,臉上氣色總算回到健康水平。
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How does an accomplished life come about? An accomplished life happens when a person does serious reflections about the people and things he/she encounters every day in his life. He then tells him/herself that he/she will definitely do better and more perfectly next time. I, Master Dai Hu, hold fast to this standard in igniting my inner light, with which I shine towards all sentient beings I have affinity with, so that they too can sooner ignite their inner light and increase their wisdom. Then, they can bring benefits to themselves as well as others, and endure no sufferings of being with people they dislike and separating from loved ones. They will only experience Heaven, not Hell. What I am saying is I wish everyone of you to have the good fortune of heavenly blessings at the very least.
I recalled imparting knowledge of face reading in my previous writings. Many years ago, upon a recommendation by my disciple, a young couple came to seek my advice on their future. Before the actual meet up, the lady rang me, and told me politely and sincerely from whom she got to know me, and why she wanted my advice. Later, I learnt that she wished for me to advise her husband on his career.
During the meeting, I asked them to draw the layout of their love nest clearly on a piece of paper, and gave them my professional opinion. The lady then told me they had previously engaged a Feng Shui master to audit their love nest. However, based on her drawing, and what I gathered from my questions, the Feng Shui was obviously not done up completely.
Because of my “live” performance, both of them unanimously invited me to do a Feng Shui audit for their love nest, so as to plan afresh.
On the day of the Feng Shui audit, I remembered having at least 2 disciples that came along with me. Thus there were definitely witness to the many highlights of my Feng Shui audit process that day. My Feng Shui planning service is sought after by many people, eager for my advice on their homes, factories, offices, retail stores, etc. The reason is due to me always doing my best dedication and giving them sufficient time, as well as a free lesson on Feng Shui knowledge.
I did ask some of my clients the reason why they did not look for other masters. Their reply was that I was very patient, very meticulous, and accurate in my Feng Shui audits, and results were evident, etc.
This couple also wished to have children luck, thus I set up a Feng Shui formation in their bedroom. In front of everyone, I made the prediction that they would be expecting soon. One day, they treated me to a meal. It turned out that the wife was indeed pregnant. I observed the aura of the husband and again, boldly predicted that they would have a daughter. Sometime later, I received a call from them, confirming my prediction, and also requesting that I pen the name for their daughter.
There was this young married lady, pretty and cute but with a somewhat fiery temper, who came looking for me upon a recommendation by her colleague, also a client of mine. This lady wished for me to bestow blessings and auspiciousness to their home. In addition to the Feng Shui audit, she and her husband also requested for me to give them good Chinese names and analyse their luck cycles. They also engaged me to conduct consecration and enshrinement for the Bodhisattva's statue in their home altar.
On one occasion, they had to travel and unable to pay homage to the Heavenly Jade Emperor on His holy birthday. They handed me their house keys and asked for my help to do the prayers on their behalf. Here, I would like to thank them for their trust and great kindness.
Once, I was dining with this couple when to my horror, I noticed something amiss with the wife. Her aura was abnormal. Upon probing, I realised that the company she was working for mandated that their sales staff to consume a talisman frequently. I, Master Dai Hu, strongly advised everyone against consuming talisman randomly. If the person who draws the talisman harbour evil intentions, the consequences for the one who consumes it are unimaginable!
Upon my advice to stop the talisman consumption, coupled with me beseeching the light blessings from the Buddhas and Bodhisattvas, the lady’s facial aura finally restored to a healthy equilibrium.
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《家中常被忽略的財位》(English version below)
THE OFTEN NEGLECTED STORE OF WEALTH IN YOUR HOME
勘察居家風水這麼多年,當然清楚明白,爲何還是有這麼多,這麼多的貧寒家庭。有些人認爲,風水是屬於富貴人家的,貧寒人家無法擁有之。吾,玳瑚師父,請講這些話的人,勿長她他人之氣,滅自己威風。吾實實在在的告訴大家,好的風水既不是屬於富貴人家的,也不是屬於貧寒人家的。那它到底是屬於誰的?它是屬於福德、功德兼備之人的。富貴人家未必有德行之人。貧窮人家未必無德行之人。積善之家 必有貴人臨。
有位婦人因同事推薦,致電於吾欲請吾「出山」,爲她的新居勘查風水,以及爲她批看大運等等。她的誠意爲她邀得吾,相當的時間及寶貴的佛法與玄學知識。祇是苦了吾,事後必需得加班,完成吾例常公事罷了。(一笑)這位婦人在談話中告訴吾,她家中有供奉神明,吾就問她其家中,所供奉之神明尊稱。她答一尊是「南無大慈大悲觀世音菩薩」。另一尊則是「土地公」。吾的經驗是,有些人會錯把「福德正神大伯公」當成門口「土地神」來拜。這位婦人就是其中一位也。吾當然適時而教,是義務也是介紹吾的「好朋友」,讓妳你們認識。
大家要謹記以下這幾點:
一、一般的家庭,不宜供奉太多的神明。基本上,三尊足矣。
二、神明之金身,一定要請真修行得力的師父,擇日開光點眼。
三、對供奉的神明,最最基本的,應該曉得祂們尊稱才是。就好比身爲子女的我們,總得曉得父母的姓名,是一樣的道理啊!而且,在我們早晨出外謀生之前,上香時尊稱其聖號,是感應道交的第一步也。
四、知曉佛、菩薩、神明的佛辰聖誕或千秋,是感應道交的第二步。
五、神龕或神桌,應擺放在那裡,是有其學問與玄機的,這也唯有真懂的師父,才能效勞之。
吾,玳瑚師父,在此實實在在的告訴大家,神位其實也是家中,非常重要且有力的財位。吾曾用此法幫助多年不得志的公務員,登上其夢寐以求的第一把交椅。也幫助過一甲子歲數的老婦人,走出廚房重新踏入社會,擁有她的另一片天空,等等。大家必需知道,祖先牌位及西方信仰的擺設,同屬神位也。神位一定要安置在藏風聚氣之處。神位也最好在不動方,等等。神位若安置得非常妥當,住者精神飽滿、事業有成、財源不斷、招財進寶⋯⋯。若妳你已受夠貧窮,就好好的打理,妳你家中常被忽略的財位吧!
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After so many years of doing Feng Shui audits, I obviously fully understand why many families are living in poverty. Some people feel that Feng Shui is only for the rich, and out of reach for the poor. I wish to tell these people not to deflate their own morale. Good Feng Shui belongs neither to the rich nor the poor. So who does it belong to? It belongs to the virtuous ones that have also accumulated a lot of merits and good fortune. A rich family may not have virtuous members. Likewise, a poor family may have virtuous members. A family that accumulates virtuous acts will definitely see the descent of benefactors.
Upon recommendation by her colleague, a lady called me, hoping I would come out of my semi-retreat and audit her residence Feng Shui, and analyse her fortunes. Her sincerity got me to give her much of my time and precious knowledge of the Dharma and Chinese Metaphysics. Poor me, as I have to work “overtime” to complete my usual matters. (laughs) In the conversation, this lady told me that she enshrined deities in her house. I asked her for Their names. She replied that one of them is the Namo Guan Shi Yin Bodhisattva and the other is the Earth God. In my experience, many people confuse the Earth God at their doorstep with the God of Fortunes and Virtues. Indeed, this lady was one of them. Of course I took the opportunity to teach her, and at the same time, made it my responsibility to introduce my “good friend” to everyone.
Everyone must remember these few pointers:
1. Most homes are not suitable to enshrine too many deity statues. Basically, 3 statues are more than enough.
2. You must engage an accomplished spiritual cultivator to perform consecration for the statue on an auspicious date.
3. The most basic respect towards the deities you enshrine is to know the right way to address Them. This is just like, as children, we should at least know the names of our parents! Also, before we leave our homes in the morning to eke a living, to offer incense to the deities and address Them by Their holy names is the first step to merge your thoughts with those of the Deities.
4. To know the holy birthdays of the Buddhas, Bodhisattvas and deities is the second step to merge your thoughts with those of Them.
5. The positioning of the altar is a deep and profound subject. Only a master with genuine knowledge can assist you on this.
Let me, Master Dai Hu, tell everybody truthfully:in your home, the altar is a very critical and influential store of wealth.
I had applied this technique in the past to help a civil servant, a laggard in his career for many years, achieve his long-desired highest rank in his department. Similarly, I had also helped an elderly lady over 60 years of age to step out of the kitchen and re-entered the workforce, claiming her new lease of life. There are more examples.
Everyone needs to know that both the ancestor’s tablet and shrines of western faith are considered altars. Altars must be located at the concentration spot of positive energies, and ideally with minimum movement around it, etc.
If the altar is positioned correctly, the occupants of the house will be in good spirits and full of vigour, enjoying success in career and continuous inflow and attraction of wealth & treasures.
If you already had enough of poverty, please tidy and upkeep the often-neglected store of wealth in your home!