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ความรู้สึก 'โลกพัง' หรือ 'หัวใจสลาย' ไม่มีชิ้นดีแบบนี้ ไม่มีใครเห็น ไม่มีใครรู้ ไม่มีใครเข้าใจถึงความเจ็บปวดและความว่างเปล่าที่เกิดขึ้นในใจเรา บางสิ่งที่เคยอยู่ในหัวใจเหมือนถูกควักออกไป และหายไปตลอดกาล
...Continue ReadingDear you.
You may be feeling the world down from disappointments no matter what, but it is one of the most important thing in life.
The feeling of ' the world is broken ' or ' heart broken '. No one sees this. No one knows. No one understands the pain and emptiness that happens in our hearts. Something that has been in our heart is like being taken away and gone forever.
I just want to tell you not to feel bad about your weakness today. It's normal for every human being. When you are broken heart, there is a weak time. Cry without strength.
Don't keep smiling or trying to act okay. I understand that you have to spend a while with pain. I'm okay that you are not okay. People don't have to be strong. Laugh at every time. Every time that makes us closer together.
Don't cover the pain, because when you show it in front of someone you can trust, that is opening the opportunity for him to take care and show care and open the opportunity for yourself to be cared for others.
Society may judge her weak, pressure to be strong soon, but it's okay. Have space to be weak with some people who truly understand you.
You may have to admit that in times like this, you are no different than the injured bird. You can't fly as usual. Don't pressure yourself to get up and act like -- I'm okay.
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Please be careful of the same hope, thinking about the events that have passed. When everything is beautiful. She may think about these things often to compensate for feeling, loss or emptiness today. But doing this makes you live in the past. No. Can walk from it
With your lover, if you separate ways, don't follow him in different channels. The more you do this, the more you poke the wound and never dry day.
Anxiety, depression, confused, exhausted... it's
Give yourself time
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The important thing is that you have to stop being negative to yourself when everything falls apart. The first thing people like to blame yourself, blame yourself and then walk around thinking " if we don't do that day " or " that day we should do this kind of thought. The more you cut the wound, the more painful because it will lead to overload of yourself. See yourself too bad.
On the other hand, with the lover, you can stop thinking that he is a good person in a corner because he is not or we are like this. It doesn't mean he is wrong, but I want to look at that person as ' person ' with bad. Too much too.
Don't remember and walk around with the good side. Remember the bad things or the bad things that you did to us. When you think about this, we will be less longing for him. If you think about the good side or good night, you will walk around and Hurt repeatedly
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Take a while to ' withdraw ' from that person or that event. Unfollow, unfollow, live without him in the world. This condition is like a ' quit drug ' person. Otherwise you are like a drug addict who secretly taking it. I will stop. No matter how it is, it can still hurt us all the time.
Go back to old places and make new memories. Don't let parks, coffee shops and other places be stamped by one person's picture. Go to the same place with new people with new people. Have new memories with new memories with new life.
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The strength that you need to have is not to recover from being weak. If it is the strength of the mind -- I will walk on the path of healing, not the path with suffering. When you have to follow the intention strictly.
The bond that I used to bind and bind you in the place will slowly fade by day. If you help yourself as we talk about. That's it.
- Allow yourself to be weak.
- Tell the pain with the person who listens.
- Don't rush to be strong. Give yourself time.
- Stop being addicted to hope.
- Stop watching. Stop following that person in different channels.
- No blame on yourself.
- Remember the bad things he did to us.
- see his bad side too
- Take yourself in a world without him.
- Back to old places to make new memories.
- Focus on your own advantages.
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Above all, you must believe that this pain doesn't last forever. She will gradually get better from walking on the path of healing. Tell yourself - I won't be around the same place.
Keep your self-respect.
Love yourself. Be kind to yourself. Don't hit yourself to hurt yourself unnecessarily.
If you want to start over with someone, it's not too soon. You don't have to forget that person (which is impossible) or wait for the wound to heal. It's okay. You heal yourself together and start a new relationship as well.
Her heart is big enough to contain old stories and turn out to welcome new people.
I wish you to see ' pain ' as outside, not what you can be in who you are. Don't hold it back until you become part of your life.
But you have to help yourself in keeping this pain from being stuck with her forever.
People in this world have to go through heart break together. But when it happens, our lives don't have to break with heart. Restore it again. Start again.
Get through this, we will have a stronger heart, understand more life. Accept the bad things better.
When you really get through this beautifully. One day you will look at it and smile at yourself. Thank you for this event. Thank you for bringing yourself through it.
Yes, there are still new smiles from new people. New events await in the future.
Slowly getting through this incident
I'm rooting for you.Translated
follow your own path and let the others talk 在 Roundfinger Facebook 的最讚貼文
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ได้ยินเสียง 'ผู้ใหญ่' หลายคนเป็นห่วงว่า 'คนรุ่นใหม่' จะตัดสินใจเลือก 'ผิด' อันนี้ก็ชวนให้สงสัยว่า อะไรคือสิ่งยืนยันและทำให้มั่นใจนักหนาว่า ตัวเลือกของตนเองคือสิ่งที่ 'ถูก'
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จากที่ได้คุยกับคนรุ่นที่เพิ่งมีโอกาสเลือกตั้งครั้งแรก (18-21 ปี) พอจะจับความรู้สึกได้ว่า เขารู้สึกรู้สากับบรรยากาศรอบตัวซึ่งเกิดขึ้นในช่วงที่เขาไม่ได้เลือก เมื่อมีโอกาสเลือกตั้งจึงต้องการเลือกในสิ่งที่ตนเชื่อว่าน่าจะดี ซึ่งคำตอบว่า 'ดี' นั้นก็หลากหลาย
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Hearing many ' Adult s' are worried that ' new generation ' will decide to choose ' wrong '. This one asks you to wonder what is confirmed and ensure that their choice is ' right '
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From talking to a generation who just had the first election chance (18-21 years), he felt that he felt about the atmosphere around which happened during the time he didn't choose. When there was a chance to vote, he wanted to choose what he believed would be good. The answer is 'good' is a variety.
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Think and similar to ' Adult ' in an atmosphere without prejudice. When it comes to election opportunity, we will decide from government work. Before that. If you like it, choose that party again. If you don't like it, turn to try another party. There is no gods or permanent devil. You are good at not following the policy that you said or the cuddle-Function Corps will change your mind.
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The new generation is based on the current government's work. Their vote will reflect how he feels. (no one knows the result, only some adult concerns)
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The need for what values and value in each person's life. Each age is different. Taking the value that you hold to judge the value of others is a bit ' not honoring ' (don't want to use the word insult) when we are in the era. All ages have access to the news. Maybe - the new generation may even have access to new resources than some predecessors.
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When the constitution determines over the age of 18, it means he is a self-thought citizen and imposed to show his will. He chooses what he values, what is the value for him and what he wants to see. In this country which... is his country as much as the elders.
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The important point is that we should not divide the people into ' Adult ' and ' young generation ' because the way to look like this is risky to use proverbs that follow adults. Dogs don't bite or adults. Hot shower before. It's worth the birth before senior knows better. Better, smarter. Even thinking about virtue more
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I don't mean that the new generation is better than nothing. I just want to say that we should think that the voters at any age is equal status. Adults have adult value. The new generation has value. There are many ideas, beliefs that are true. It's not. Can be divided by ' age '. It's a matter of background and focus on something different.
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The more you draw, the more you create conflict. The world is not divided by 'age' in each group. There is a variety. Putting signs for each other to create conflict for Maya City.
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The most important thing is that we all should honor and respect the opinions and choose of different people from us, whether he is a young generation, women, gender, poor, rich, handicapped people, other provinces, yellow shirts, red shirts, etc.
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'honoring' means that his 1 VOICE IS EQUAL TO OUR 1 voices.
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If you want to convince those who think differently from us, convince by giving information, not to oppress you that I know better. I am more virtue or you were born later. These things besides not being able to change your mind and also create a line for two sides to spread. More and more and more.
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We all were young people before. We both know that when adults say he knows better, it doesn't make us want to listen to him. Ask you to smile weak and smh with adults who like to use ' Adult ' to oppress.
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The world has changed. We have to accept that the difference is made more ' equal ' every day. When everyone realizes their own ' right ' to act, check and objection without thinking he is older than me. He is more powerful than me. He is a man I'm a girl, he's high school, I study less, etc.
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Because older people don't mean to be a good person, powerful people do wrong, think a lot of bad things. Good education people are not that they think good to everyone. When it's like this, we can't ' surrender ' and ' believe ' anyone who says they are ' better ' better ' Someone else if you don't have a chance to check it out
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What is the advantages to realize your own 'rights' and equality for me? Then this brings honor as human beings.
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I just went to make a list of life areas in South Korea, a country that has been talked about as a transition from a long military government to strong democracy. (of course, there are many dimensional problems like in many countries, but there are things to learn)
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With the basis of Confucius cult, South Korea, there is a similar to Thai similarity in the old days. Social Hierarchy is very focused. The crew must listen to the boss. Students should not argue. Teachers, teachers, female must respect men, children must obey parents,
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Those things have beauty and good things, but there are bad sides too. For If those who should respect ' do wrong, it is difficult for those who have lower status to fight. But these values have changed quite.
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While I travel to Seoul National University (number one university in South Korea), there was a student protest in front of the chancellor building. In Case a male teacher uses words and touch to abuse. Many students come out to gather together. Ask the university to manage the university. There is an important tv channel.
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I have a chance to talk to Thai teachers who teach Thai language to South Korea. The teacher told me that when teaching, you need to be careful of words. Because if you speak sensitive or disrespectful things, it may be complained by students like examination. It must be very thoughtful if I have scored less than I thought. I would write a complaint letter to the teacher to explain. Everyone takes care of their rights. Not let anyone take advantage of or do bad things for themselves
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These things make the teacher not think that they are big or more powerful than our students are equal. Just have different duties. But the rights in life are not high, low. You can check it out.
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This kind of equality brings honor of humanity. He is younger. It's not that we can do anything to him. Men are not to abuse young women on a whim.
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The more you honor, the more power in us will be reduced, the power against respecting the thoughts and humanity of others.
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In Thailand, there is also complaints and keeping rights like this. What is considered is the result when complaint. When criticize or examining someone who has more powerful than that person is taken care of.
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Not accepting election results by thinking that another group of less knowledge or less virtue reflects the level of respect of social friends as well.
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In a society where many people are so normal for us to like. Different. Choose different. What we should realize is the ancient idea. Melody " I know better " or " I am higher " how often does it come up in our hearts? What we use to support. That belief that self is better than higher than it is, age? Experience? The number of gray hair? Qualifications? Being a city man? Status? Or what? Are those ' Maya s' that we use to fool ourselves that we should have more rights than other lives?
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Do we believe that every life has the potential to learn. It's not different from us. Let him choose him to try wrong and learn to choose a new one. Just like we used to choose right and choose wrong.
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More than that, how do we know what we say is good for him?
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Which is right - wrong. Good-bad for choosing a leader is hard to judge many good people. When power becomes bad people. It doesn't mean cheating only. Even if it's bad, using power in the wrong way. imposed others is not good too.
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More important than choosing ' good person ' or ' choose right ' is to choose and have the right to check, ask, ask, criticize.
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These need citizens who believe in their rights and protect their rights. Choose and continue to check.
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But how can we expect citizens who realize their rights if we keep intimidating others that they are stupid to choose that. Don't know that choose like that and say that you have to choose like me only to be right. This is the idea that doesn't honor different people. Very corny.
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This election should be a good opportunity for us to start exploring our own thoughts when we hear which party this person chooses. Which party do we feel, how do we feel about him. Hold yourself big or honor the difference.
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The reason to honor other people's thoughts because that is honoring him by honoring each other. It will create a better atmosphere than intimidating each other, because that may be the foundation of how some people see that they are better than others. It may be. The Root of how men disrespect women by thinking that it's okay. Seniors punish juniors when they accept the younger brother and think it's normal. People are better than insulting people until without knowing. For a better society, it has to start by giving the same person to honor his thoughts
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Seeing a lot of people coming out to pre-election. I feel excited about using the rights of friends, brothers and sisters in society. I want to support the new generation (of course, all generations) who just had a chance to go out to use the first election rights in my life. I want I want to listen to your voice. It may be different from me. But no matter what I choose, I will honor and count every voice equal to one of my own voice.
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I don't think I know better. Don't believe that the value I hold is more important than the value that the kids hold or see that it's good and also see that we still have to exchange. Learn from each other on a long path that we have to try wrong. Try right and correct. Let's develop together
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A path called " democracy
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Democracy is not just about going to be bad and dropping the election card. If it is to realize your rights and honoring other people's rights, not only the right to election, but also means everyday rights in every dimensions.
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The Beauty of democracy is here. It is an atmosphere that no one can abuse another. Just because they are different. Don't think the same, don't like each other, but we have to respect each other's humanity rights
When so, there will be no ' Adult ' or ' young generation '.
There are only 'people' who honor each other.Translated
follow your own path and let the others talk 在 Dr Sheikh Muszaphar FanClub Facebook 的精選貼文
Pic - Do catch the January issue ... and it’s in Malay . 😀
I will be touching on lots of issues on parenting tips . Many wanted me to write in Malay on my posts here but I felt the need to encourage everyone to speak in English - hence my reason .
To me parenting is an experiment because there’s no black & white on how to raise your kids . Every child is different and some method might not work on others . You might give them the best education but at the end they might turn out differently and not as you expected . You might give them the best values but the outcome might be different . In other words - teach them the basic values and the best education and let them choose their own path once they leave the nest . But be there at all times from afar ....
But I believe the eldest child plays a big role on the rest of the siblings . Normally the younger ones will follow the eldest as an example .
Play with them with lots of love during the first 7 years . Teach them the good values , sharing things and on how to handle their emotions . EQ plays a big role here . From 7-14 it’s time to discipline them . Start making schedules and letting them know what you expect of them . Let it be Solat , Reading the Quran , doing their homework or even taking care of the other siblings . Have a one to one talk with your child as by now they should be able to berfikir by themselves. And above 14 - be their friend . Not just a friend but the best of friends . Daughters need mommy the most during these times and so are sons to Daddies .
I still have a long way to go with my children but I believe with this formula you can’t go wrong .
Not forgetting lots of Doa”s too along the way ....
InsyaAllah....
To me family is everything and I would do anything for their best interest . And spending quality time with them as much as possible is what they need at the moment . They certainly need our love and guidance the most .
Have A Great Week Everyone ....