Bila Ibu kita sudah tua.
Ibu kita ini sering kesunyian. Ibu sering ketakutan. Ibu sering dilanda kerinduan. Dahulunya hidup si Ibu bertemankan suaminya yang dicintai. Kini teman sehidupnya telah lama pergi. Janji semati tidak mampu lagi ditepati. Tinggallah si Ibu sendirian meniti hari.
Jika kita letak diri di tempat Ibu sebegini, mampukah kita menjawab soalan - soalan yang bermain di fikirannya? Dapatkah kita mendengar bisikan hatinya tanpa menitiskan sedikit pun air mata?
...Continue ReadingWhen our mother is old.
Our mother is often lonely. Moms are often scared. Mother is often affected by longing. Once a mother lived with her beloved husband. Now friends in life are long gone. The promise of the life is no longer able to be fulfilled. Leave the Mother alone on the day.
If we put ourselves in a mother's place like this, can we answer the questions that play on her mind? Can we hear the whisper of his heart without shed a little tear?
Well, feel some of what's playing on our Moms mind.
′′ My husband, why did you go first? Why leave love alone? My husband, dear miss, how do you love to live this life? Baby is scared, love is quiet. Love can't live alone. Please return my husband. Unusual love. We always do everything together. Why go first? What do you want to do? Baby is so scared."
At the time and time I type the verse in the paragraph above, I literally cry desperately - esak like a child. That's just a little bit actually. Can't afford to dive any deeper. My heart feels so small as squeezed - pinch being as small as a guli. The eyes are heavy looking, the shoulder is still heavy.
Don't be reprimanded why Mom always remember what the late Father likes and does together often. Dozens of years, there must be things that will be attached to Mom's mind forever. Surely every one that has been touched, will be felt, every happiness that has been fulfilled, will be remembered.
Don't dare talk about ′′ move on ′′ and life must go on. If we have never felt the loss of a friend who has been together for decades, we will never ever understand the longing and loss that Mother has passed until we go through it ourselves.
Don't you rudely suggest a replacement. Mom already knows who's waiting for her in heaven later. The most loved person is the husband.
Our mother is often misunderstood. Usually Mom doesn't mean what we interpret. Sometimes Mom is too honest because she's been tired all the time holding back, taking care of her heart and always ignoring her sensitivity.
We as younger, we as children must be patient. Although sometimes it's bitter to swallow, but we have to accept the way our Mother is as Mom has accepted us since we were young.
How can we not stand the burden of mother while this Mother is the one who gave birth to us? How can we raise our voice to the people who introduced us to the world? If you ever treated a mother like this, don't you remember sin, a rebellious child?
When was the last time we asked our Mother what our Mother wanted to do? If there is, try to realise it. If you haven't, make it as soon as possible. We don't know maybe it's his last desire or maybe that realised desire will give him the spirit to live for years.
At this age, Mom likes to tell stories. Sometimes the same thing. Surely most of the old things. Pay attention to him. Enjoy the conversation and the sharing. That's all that's left in Mom's mind, past things. Memory of a million color life. Moments of joy, distress, role model and border. As long as you can, take it all. Absorb the sharing. Hopefully we can follow through the experience of life.
Old age brings a thousand pain. Practice asking how our Mother's health is. Accompany Mom to the hospital when needed. Now everything is upside down. Remember us when we were small? How scared are we to see a Doctor? However, Mother's hand leadership calms everything down. Just like now. Our mother is like a terrified child, believe that she really needs a soul calm that we are her children.
The end of the word, let us not be children who do not remember our services. When we're in trouble, Mother among the first to put a hand out. Everytime we feel like being angry at Mom, think what we have donated to her? Is it the same as what we have ever received? If not, it's better to be silent than to say. Because our responsibility will not be equal. No matter how much gem gold is in the world, we can't afford to give Mother lives.
So much my heart nukilan about Mom. Hopefully can open eyes and mind.
Share this writing for more people's viewing and as a sign you love your Mother
If your mother is gone, pray and give charity through the benefits she has given and in her name. Hopefully this can help him in the afterlife.
Credit: Akhtar SyamirTranslated
how much does life sharing pay 在 Foodeverywhere Facebook 的最佳解答
If you all know my IG and my blog, you'll see me sharing plenty of curated work. But I always like to keep things rooted and as close to reality as possible. Because I feel that social media can be a toxic if not being used correctly, at current moment it's gone to the stage where people are willing to pay to get followers on their social media accounts, just so the numbers look good to 99% of people whom they've not met in life (how and why do this people matter anyway?), just to competitively feel obligated to have those numbers, because they see influencers having such glam life and they want to be like them. Well, unless it is adding some sort of value to your life, please keep in mind that influencers curate contents and half the time they are done not in conventional ways. You see a beautiful flatlay of food on the table with nice table cloths and props but in real life (and real indulgence) nobody does that ok.
I find it relatable and relevant to share more BTS so viewers get as much of the realistic situation as possible. So while I'm sharing what's possibly a recommended indulgence, bear in mind that I'm curating content as well.
This is Mar, and she writes about luxury hotels and resorts. And #YTLHotels group are obviously on the list when it comes to luxury so here we are at The Majestic Malacca as part of the #YTLNomad influencer program, where the a group of us spent close to a week and hop on from one YTL Hotels to another. Starting from this one in Melaka , before we move on to the one in KL. Here's us getting our photos before we then eat the COLD food.
The kitchen crew were all nice to offer more food cause these are cold, but we obviously reject it to avoid wastage. I mean, look at the amount of food here!
Remember this, recognising your privilege on social media (influencer or not influencer) and sending the right message out is equally as important as curating the most perfect post (that could possibly be misleading to your followers).
Sekian.
Watch all episodes :https://www.youtube.com/playlist?list=PLjavHFFETxjygoc2VShz2zHhaE3MmMcQW
Have a great day everyone :)
#foodeverywhere #YTLNomad #sycookiesxmelaka
#sycookiesxytl #sycookiesonsocialmedia
how much does life sharing pay 在 謙預 Qianyu.sg Facebook 的最佳解答
【福禍休咎】
In the last 3 months of 2017, I was horribly sick.
I still do not know the exact cause of my ailment, but my guess is overworking and undersleeping.
When a person is sick for a period of time, it means his luck status at that time isn't tip top.
It will affect the wealth and of course, his mood.
Best way of dealing with it is to ensure speedy recovery and not let impatience get in the way.
I was feeling down in the dumps when I wasn't healing well, despite two rounds of medication.
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水神就是財神
On 4th Jan, I announced my CNY Wealth Manifestation Feng Shui Workshop, through a Facebook Live.
The Facebook Live was streamed at a Pizza Hut restaurant.
I ordered finger food and a beverage. I also requested for warm water to take my medication.
I was expecting just a glass of warm water but the waiter sent it in a 1-litre canister.
It was too much for me to finish.
I don't like to waste food and water. I wanted to fill up my glass and return the canister.
Then a thought flashed past, hey, 水就是財! (Water represents money!)
Must be a sign that my workshop will bring me extra income.
I drank the whole 1-litre of water after doing my Live. Not sharing with anyone.
True enough, the consistent posting and selling of my workshop for the past 10 days brought me more queries than usual.
My January income is already 2 times of both November and December combined.
Proof that Facebook Likes is not necessarily equivalent to income.
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桃李滿天下
For the first time ever in my 12 workshops, a workshop participant came up to me with a bag of plump Australian cherries, at my Wealth Manifestation workshop yesterday.
My first workshop in 2018.
She bought a pack for me, when she was shopping for cherries herself.
I like cherries very much, ever since I had a red sugary one on top of my Swensen's ice-cream sundae.
One of my favourite ice-cream flavours is Ben & Jerry's Cherry Garcia.
Fruits represent harvest.
In Singapore, cherries are more expensive, compared to the usual oranges and bananas.
You can say that they are the classier kind of fruits.
While my mum had always taught me not accept food from strangers, I happily received the fruity gift from Mevlin with thanks.
It was in a Giant plastic bag.
I recognise this as an auspicious sign that my work in 2018 will bring me bountiful rewards, and my reach will gigantically extend beyond the shores of Singapore.
(Actually Mevlin had came for my workshop in Nov 2016, so she isn't a stranger to me. 😁)
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接財神
Leaving the workshop venue, while cruising down the long Geylang road, I caught sight of a towering inflatable smiley God of Fortune.
I asked the Husband to make a Uturn at the lorongs so that I could have a photo taken with the first God of Fortune I see in 2018.
The Husband asked for permission to snap a photo, from the friendly Uncle, seated in front of the hamper shop.
The Uncle grinned and replied, "可以!這是好兆頭!"
("Can! This is a good sign!")
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修福修慧
Back home, I laid out the red packets that I need to pray for.
I picked up this ritual from my Shifu, Master Dai Hu.
Every red packet he receives from his client, no matter the amount, he will do a short 5-minute prayer and dedicate the merits to the client.
I have seen him done so for the past 12 years.
While most people are happy to earn money and spend on themselves, Shifu makes sure he does the prayer, so that the client will have some of his negative karma eradicated.
He often reminds me that it is very tough for most people to earn more money, because their daily conduct are not virtuous.
They are like hamsters in a running wheel, caged up and not knowing what will come next.
Most people react to Life instead of moving ahead of Life.
They have no control over their destiny because they lack the wisdom and benefactor guidance. Some are blinded by lures of easy success.
As a person who is ahead of them, Shifu sees it as his duty to bestow blessings to his clients, not just in the form of Chinese Metaphysics help.
He imparts wisdom to his clients and swears by teaching a man how to fish, rather than giving him a fish outright.
Poverty, debts, lack of growth in career, no recognition at workplace, no benefactors, family disharmony, losing money in investments...
Are all signs of depleting merits and negative karma.
Only when these blouders of negative karma are moved away, and the client mends his conduct to a more virtuous self, Chinese Metaphysics will then be able to manifest its full power to help the client.
That is why Shifu always does the prayer within the same day of receiving it.
He says, "One never knows what might happen the next day to the client, if I don't do the prayer in time."
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先知
In Chinese Metaphysics, there is a divination practise known as 梅花易數, Plum Blossom Oracle.
One can gain an insight into the unknown future, based on what he sees, hears, smells, experiences, and the movement in his surroundings, the people he interacts with, the animals that move around him, and the timings of the happenings.
There is a lot more technicality to it but in short, what we do and experience everyday is always a glimpse into the future.
We are sensory animals. I'm sure if you are in bad luck, you would know without an expert telling you.
You just don't know what to do to get out of it.
The biggest mentality difference between a layman and a wise expert is that...
A layman reacts.
A wise expert preempts.
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窮人相
Yesterday at the workshop, I told my students that if you are penniless, don't expect anyone to sympathise you.
It is your own responsibility to be sufficiently affluent.
Make sure you return what you have borrowed.
Don't hanker for handouts or favours, because the more you take from others, the more you will be karmically indebted.
When you meet-up at a cafe, order something even if it's only a cup of tea.
People are running a business. There's labour, rental, water and electricity bills to pay.
You are using their facility.
To not pay in one way or another is stealing.
Don't grumble or whine when you hit a wall of bad luck. This will add on to the negative energy around you, pushing the God of Fortune further and further away from you.
The God of Fortune is always jovial. He laughs when he gives a lot of money away to many people. He does not sulk, cry, or stinge.
Everybody likes to see the God of Fortune. He is well-liked and has great affinity with millions of people.
It is a joke that talent brings in money.
If you want more people to like you enough to push their hard-earned money to you, buy your products and services...
You need 眾生緣.
The affinity with sentient beings.
Think Jackie Chan, Mark Zuckerberg, Michael Jackson, JK Rowling.
In simplistic terms, when no one owes you, no one will give you money.
How many people have you helped?
How many people's lives have you changed for the better?
Did you help the right people?
How much love and happiness have you given to others?
How much wisdom have you inculcated in them?
What is your motive for helping?
Why do you deserve to be rich?
What are you going to do with all the money?
A poor man can still give his time, effort, and a listening ear. Or donate blood to save a life.
I recognised my lack of affinity with sentient beings in my Bazi. I had incurred 5-figure losses in 2 failed businesses.
I am now making up for lost time, with the amount and depth of content I produce on my Facebook consistently.
I don't do it with a profit mindset.
When you Like my content, comment or share it, and your FB friends get to read it, you are also forming better affinities with sentient beings. #leverage
All these are like savings.
When you are down in your luck, or your negative karma manifests itself, these savings will pull you up in the form of benefactors appearing.
I am aware that some of you read my Facebook to get your dose of happiness, wisdom and positivity.
I am generally not an optimistic person, if not for the Dharma I learnt.
On the other hand, I am also aware that there are people with malicious intent consuming my content.
Should I write less than? No. An affinity formed is an affinity formed.
If it's untruth that is spoken, if malice is the true intent, the person is still indebted to me karmically.
But if it is me who had done that to him or her previously, then all is even.
In any case, it's troublesome and distracting to keep track of who is doing what behind my back.
I also know some of you wanted to get a seat at my workshop but couldn't afford to.
If money is painful for you to talk about, implement what I recommend in this post everyday.
I had been posting here for the past 2 years.
Original content, not just shared posts.
It still feels surreal that strangers are willing to pay to see and hear me talk.
I don't market myself aggressively or go for meet ups to put my name out there. I'm not sociable.
I focus on my content.
Money still comes.
Especially now that I am much better than 3 months ago.
If you are struggling now, think about what you should improve about yourself.
And do it! Don't stick to the same old way of living life.
Disaster is often a recipe for success.
Success, when mismanaged, can also lead to disaster.
When you unravel these two, you will realise they actually mean the same thing.
人要懂得靈活變通。
Riches come easier to those who have a flexible mind and virtuous conduct.
Oh, good mental and physical health is always the greatest wealth.
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