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Anxiety .
Macam mana mahu cakap eh . Orang yang tak rasa dia takkan paham . Sakit dia lagi perit . Orang tengok macam sihat tapi dalaman tu tak kuat . Rasa dia memang rasa nak mati . Memang sakit dia tidak ada luka , tidak ada lebam ,tiada apa apa pon .
...Continue ReadingEdit: This is not my story / experience. This story is someone else's experience. Please read to the bottom because below once I have credit from whom is this story 🤗.
Anxiety .
How to say eh. People who don't think won't understand. It hurts so much more painful. People look healthy but the interior is not strong. Feels like he's dying. It's painful he has no wounds, no bruises, nothing.
When you go to the doctor, check it's nothing. There are even people who consider anxiety to be mentally ill, mentally insane. Because I don't feel it, right? If you feel it, you'll know it. We don't ask for this pain but he will keep attacking without giving a hint. Anyone can actually get it.
I explain it simple and easy to understand. This anxiety will make someone worried for no reason, hard to breathe, heart beats quickly, can't sleep, too think of something at a time, mind is messed up, the most afraid is always thinking about death. Those who got gestric, gerd will be like this too.
Heard people will laugh. Undeniable. Even if you tell people about it, people will say crazy. Crazy is different, pressure is different. The average anxiety is caused by mental and physical and often thinking aimlessly. and many factors too.
This anxiety is about to recover, it takes time. Some have been living since childhood to adult. Someone has been alive for years. Someone passed away. Yes. People look at one eye but don't feel it. If seen with rough eyes, they won't show the anxiety suffering. Always crying for no reason because of fear and worry.
When you want to sleep, everyone is scared. out of the house scared. Easy story all scared and worried. Some have lost their appetite until they become thin and dry. Not going out of the house as if I felt something was going to happen but it wasn't Always feel ′′ soon I will die ′′ but it doesn't happen. Life becomes depressed and depression happens.
Patients with anxiety can recover. but he won't recover 100 %. Depends on someone too. What determines it is MINDSET. No one wants to be like this right 😊 even me too.
There are people who don't understand, they will say anything 😅 lack of faith, lack of religion and all sorts. Wrong. I'll tell you a little. When anxiety patients want to pray, even the prayers will not be humble. How do I know? I've also experienced anxiety so I'm very memahmi.
Here I mention how to cure anxiety in general. If anyone wants to add, you can do it.
1) get close to god. More istighfar, prayers, prayers. Inshallah
2) please stay away from negative people. Let's not have many friends as long as they are quality friends. When being friends with negative people, our minds will be stressed and worse anxiety
3) mindset. Always say in my heart and exchange the mindset ′′ I'm healthy, not afraid ′′. Sometimes because our mindset is weak. Fix the mindset.
4) do not be alone. Always hang out, talk and tell the problem to people who understand us and believe. Luv everything, must be relieved.
5) doing fun activities with friends, husband, children or parents to avoid thinking too much and worrying. A little bit can make us forget about that ′′ thing
6) do not sleep alone. Always sleep to be friends so that you can handle the unwanted happen. An example of anxiety will lack of sleep and be anxious quickly, or maybe short of breath. People around are very important and play roles.
7) if necessary, get doctor psy advice. Anxiety is not crazy. Don't be afraid. A little as much as can relieve patients. They are understanding. get their advice.
8) eat healthy maknan. Drink more cooking water.
9) challenge yourself to break the wall you're afraid of. for example, afraid to get out of the house. Challenge yourself to get out and be sure. Change mindset. Inshallah can.
10) mental and physical moral support. Skongan from Family, husband, wife, friends and those who understand what anxiety is. Always give them support.
Someone asked ′′ how to get anxiety?". Hmm as what I know is the possibility of a physical mental that is tired, weak, often thinking, stress because of taking care of your child, work, business, stress about people, and others (please refer to the expert).
If things come, we won't be expected. Anyone will get it. Even artists have to do it again, we are ordinary people 😊
Finally said, this anxiety comes without us being invited. And it's not necessarily what I say above. Maybe because of gastric, gerd and others. I'm telling you what happened to me and how I overcome everything I mentioned above. If there are other suggestions, it's up to follow or not. Everyone is different and I mention the way above is public. I'm not a doctor, but I'm sharing my expert only.
Please be alert if you have any friends or someone who lives this. Give support to each other and inshallah everything will be ready.
Anxiety and panic attack are different. Please ask the more arif.
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Credit: Shehnaz KhanTranslated
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เริ่มต้น เราอยากไปเที่ยวทริปนี้ เพราะเราอ่านหนังสือ
“ทริปในฝัน 41 วันครึ่งซีกโลก” ของพี่วินพี่โจ้
แล้วแบบเริ่มปิ๊งคิดขึ้นมาว่า เห้ยนี่เรามานั่งทำอะไรในห้องสี่เหลี่ยมเล็กๆวะ
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เป็นแบบนี้ทุกวันมานานแค่ไหนแล้ว จริงๆแล้วเราไม่ใช่คนแบบนี้เลยนะ
ไม่ใช่คนที่ชอบอยู่เฉยๆ นั่งนิ่งๆ อะไรแบบนี้
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เจอประสปการณ์ใหม่ๆ เราคิดว่า ถ้าเราได้ไปแบบนี้บ้างคงดี
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อย่างแรกคือ คนทำงานประจำอย่างๆเราๆ
เจ้านายที่ไหนเค้าจะให้ลาเกือบ 2 เดือน อย่างที่สองคือ ใคร
หรือเพื่อนคนไหนแม่งจะไปเที่ยวกับเราได้นานขนาดนี้วะ
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เริ่มแรก เราโพสลงเฟสบุ๊คว่าอยากไปเที่ยวหวะ อยากไปแบบนี้
แต่เราไม่ได้คาดหวังอะไรมาก คนที่มาคอมเม้นก็จะเอออยากไปเหมือนกัน
แต่ไม่มีเวลาอะ บางคนอยากไปแต่ไม่มีเงิน บางคนบอกมึงจะบ้าหรอ
คุณหนูอย่างมึงจะรอดหรอ แต่มีเพื่อนอยู่คนนึงนางชื่อ ‘จีย่า(สุนีย์)’
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และพี่จีย่า เป็นเพื่อนที่ทำงานเก่า ที่ต่างคนต่างลาออกมาแล้ว
เคยเจอกันจังๆ คุยกันจริงๆ แค่ 3-4 รอบเท่านั้นแหละ
นอกนั้นก็คุยกันผ่านทางเฟสบุ๊คอะไรงี้ ไม่เคยคิดเลยว่าจะเป็นพี่จีย่าที่ทักมา
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แต่หลังจากกลับมาจะเป็นยังไงก็อีกเรื่องเนอะ
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ตอนนั้นในใจเราแบบเห้ยยย เราพร้อมมากเลยนะ
พร้อมที่จะไปกะพี่ทันที ใจมันไปแล้วเว้ยยย ไปถึงปารีสแล้ว
แต่ว่ามันยังติดอยู่อีกข้อใหญ่ๆอะดิ คือเราทำงานอะ
ทำงานแล้วจะไปยังไง นอกจากจะไปขอแล้วเจ้านายจะให้ไป
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เอ่อภัทรอยากไปนะ มากๆเหมือนกัน แต่ต้องลองเสี่ยงตายไปขอเจ้านายก่อน
ว่าเค้าจะอนุมัติไหม
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เราเตรียมใจอยู่นานกว่าจะกล้าพูดออกมา พูดอ้อมไปก็อ้อมมา
ก่อนจะแยบๆถาม ลองเชิงเจ้านายคนที่ดูจะใจดีที่สุดใน 3 คนว่า
พี่โจ้ขาาา น้องอยากไปเที่ยวแบบพี่ อยากไปบ้าง ไปนานๆๆ
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เอ่อ หลอกๆๆๆๆ พี่โจ้ตอบว่าบอกขอไปปรึกษาพี่อีก 2 คนก่อนนะ
เราก็แบบเออรอก่อนละกันอย่าพึ่งหวังไปเยอะ
ถ้าหวังมากแล้วไม่ได้ตามที่หวัง จะผิดหวังป่าวๆ
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บอกตามตรงตอนนั้นไม่ได้หวังมากนะ แค่พี่เค้าไม่ด่ากลับมาก็ดีใจละ 5555
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แต่ด้วยความที่อยากโคดดด ถ้าไม่ได้ไปจะดิ้น อะไรเบอร์นั้น
ทำให้เรามีความใจกล้ากน้าด้านไปขอ
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หลังจากนั้นไม่นานๆ พี่ๆทั้งสามคนก็มาบอกข่าวดี ว่า... น้องไปได้ครับ
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แต่ แต่ แต่ๆๆๆ อะไรรู้ไหม ก้างชิ้นโตตตต อีก 1 ชิ้นที่เราลืมไปซะสนิท
นั่นก็คือ คุณแม่จ้าาาา คุณแม่ที่หวงลูกยิ่งกว่าไข่ในหิน
ริ้นไม่ให้ไต่ไรไม่ให้ตอมมาตั้งแต่เด็กๆ จะขอไปต่างจังหวัดยังยากเล้ยยยย
ตอนนั้นพยายามนั่งคิด ว่าเราจะทำไงดีหละนี่จะพูดยังไงจะขอยังไงดีน้าาา
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เราก็เริ่มต้นด้วยการชวนไปกินข้าวก่อน ให้ท้องอิ่มจะได้อารมณ์ดีๆๆ
แล้วค่อยบอกแม่ว่าเนี่ย อยากไปเที่ยวกับเพื่อนอะ แม่ก็ถามว่าไปไหน ไปกับใคร
ไปกี่วัน ไปยังไง ละเอียดมากเว่ออออ พอเราเล่าไปแล้วแม่ก็ถามว่า
ไม่อยากให้ไปเลย เราก็พยายามอธิบาย พยายามบอกว่าจะโทรหาบ่อยๆ
จะติดต่อทุกวันนนนะ ขอเถอะะะะะะ แม่ก็คิดไปสิ 2-3 วัน
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และแล้ววววว ก้างทั้ง 3 ชิ้นของเราก็หมดไป ได้เวลาเตรียมตัวแล้วสินะ !!
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ตอนนั้นก็คุยกับพี่จีย่าว่าจะไปช่วงไหนดี หน้าหนาวดีไหม หรือหน้าร้อนดี
แต่ว่าไปเที่ยวเราก็อยากจะไปหนาวๆเนอะ
เบื่อแล้วอะร้อนๆ เหมือน ปททไทย 5555
คุยไปคุยมาสรุปได้ช่วง ปลาย กพ ถึง ต้น เมย
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พวกเราใช้เวลา 1 ปี ในการศึกษาหาข้อมูล รวมทั้งถามข้อมูลเรื่องที่งงๆ
หรือไม่เข้าใจจากผู้มีประสบการณ์อย่างพี่วินพี่โจ้ด้วย
พวกเราเตรียมแผนการเที่ยว และพยายามจองทุกอย่างที่ราคาถูกที่สุดเท่าที่หาได้
รวมทั้งหาข้อมูลเพิ่มเติมเรื่องวีซ่าโครเอเชีย
และทุกอย่างที่คาดว่าอาจจะเกิดปัญหาเอาไว้ก่อนด้วย
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เรากับเพื่อน พูดกับตัวเองเอาไว้ว่า เราจะไปกันอย่างสวยๆ
ชิคๆนะ หน้าต้องเต็ม ชุดต้องสวย ถึงแม้จะต้องแบกเป้ก็ตาม
จะไม่ไปกันแบบพี่วินพี่โจ้ เสื้อตัวเดียวตลอดทริป ไม่ได้จริงๆอะ!
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ด้วยความที่เป็น winter และ spring ตอนต้น ตอนจะหาชุด
ก็จะเริ่มจากเช็คอุณหภูมิ ว่ามันจะอยู่ประมาณไหน
เช็คไปก็ได้ความว่า -20 จนถึง 15 องศาเซลเซียส
คือตอนนั้นชอคเบาๆ ชีวิตนี้ไม่เคยไปถึง -20 มาก่อนเลย
จะรอดไม่รอดวะเนี่ย ชุดก็ต้องหนาไปอี๊กกก แบกไปยังไงหละนี่
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หลังจากนั้นก็มาดูว่าแต่ละประเทศควรจะใส่ชุดตีมไหนถึงเข้า
ชวนเพื่อนไปเดินซื้อที่ Platinum และ Siam ต่างๆ
พอเอาเสื้อผ้าต่างๆที่คิดจะเอาไปมาลองจัดกระเป๋า
ซึ่งตอนนั้นมีเป้ใบเดียวขนาด 60 ลิตร ซึ่งดูภายนอกโคตรใหญ่
ต้องใส่พอแน่ๆ 5555555
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ขาดไปเยอะเลยด้วย 55555 เอาไงดีหละ ต้องคัดออกงั้นหรอ ไม่เอา ไม่ได้หรอก
ตอนนั้นคิดว่าชุดไบคาลชั้นต้องเป็นแบบนี้ ชุดที่ปารีสชั้นจะต้องเฟอร์แบบนี้
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พอลองจัดกระเป๋าใหม่ คือมันไม่พออยู่ดีเฟร้ย แบบตอนแรกยัดไปเต็มสตรีม
ขนาดใส่ถุงสูญญากาศแล้ว รีดแล้วรีดอีก ตอนปิดกระเป๋าแม่งต้องขึ้นไปนั่งทับ
แล้วมันเหมือนจะแตก ตัวลอคเหมือนจะเด้งหลุดออกจากกัน
มายก็อด ป๊าถามว่า มันจะแตกไหมลูก ลูกจะแบกคนเดียวไหวจริงๆหรอ
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ตอนนั้นคิดว่าถ้ามันแตกระหว่างทางหละ ทำไง จบเห่เลยนะ
เอาออกหน่อยละกัน มันเอาไปหมดไม่ไหว แต่ก็เกือบหมดวะ!!
บวกติดกระเป๋าลูกที่เป็นผ้าไปด้วยอีก 1 ใบ เผื่อชอปปิ้ง เพราะในใจคิดว่า
เอาวะเดี๋ยวไปซื้อเพิ่มเอาก็ได้ เข้ายุโรปแล้วคงไม่ลำบากเท่าไหร่มั้ง 555555
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ตอนนี้อยากพาไปดูกัน ว่า 44 วันของเรา ตั้งแต่ ปักกิ่ง จนถึง อัมสเตอร์ดัม
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Halo we just got back from the longest journey of life
Let's go like two girls who have never backpack to travel anywhere before.
Finally conquered all Siberian Trans Trans Railways 44 days from Beijing to Amsterdam
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Many people inbox to ask both on the shop page and personal Facebook.
About... ′′ How do we pack bags? Why do we take so many clothes?!!"
Seriously, it's a question we didn't expect anyone to ask. Hahahahaha
Well, there may be some, but I don't think that there are many people asking.
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Started we want to travel this trip because we read books.
′′ Dream trip 41 days and a half hemisphere ′′ of Brother Win, Sister Jo.
And starting to crush, think what the hell are we doing in the small square room?
Keep working. Keep doing loops. Wake up early. Work. Go home. Sleep.
I have been like this everyday for how long it has been. I'm really not like this.
I'm not someone who likes to sit still and sit still.
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We love seeing new things, meeting new people.
I think it would be good if I could go there like this.
But to travel for a long time like this, there are many obstacles that everyone knows. Haha.
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First of all, we work full time.
Where is the boss? He will say goodbye for almost 2 months. Who is the second one
Or any friend who can hang out with me for so long.
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In the beginning, I posted on Facebook that I want to travel. I want to go like this.
But we don't expect much. Those who come to comment will be well. I want to go too.
I don't have time. Some people want to go but don't have money. Some people
A little girl like you will survive, but you have a friend. Her name is 'Jiya ( Suni )'
Message me via inbox. Facebook says ' Phatthan
I want to go. I want to go too. I'm serious. Do you want to go together? '
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And sister Jiya is an old workplace friend that everyone resigned.
We have met each other. We have talked for only 3-4 times.
Other than that, we talk via Facebook. I never thought that it would be Jiya who greeted me.
If you ask for intimateness, we are not close. Haha.
But after coming back, it's another story.
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That time in my heart. Hey, I'm so ready.
Ready to go with me immediately. My heart is gone. I have arrived in Paris.
But it's still stuck. The big thing is that I'm working.
How can I go to work? Unless I ask, my boss will let me go.
The chance to get it. I think it's very dimmer. I told Jiya that.
Well, Phatthani is too hard. It's too much. But you have to risk your death. Let's ask
Will he approve it?
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We have prepared ourselves for a long time. We dare to say it. Speak around and around.
Before being quiet, ask for a boss. The 3 people are the kindest people.
Brother Jo, I want to travel like me. I want to go there for a long time.
I can ask for no pay leave. I want to go there very much...
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Brother Jo has been quiet for a while and replied.....
You can resign now. You will resign. Haha......
Well, it's fake. Brother Jo said that he told me to consult with 2 more people first.
We are like, wait. Don't expect too much.
If I hope for a lot, I won't get what I hope for.
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To be honest, I didn't expect too much. Just that brother doesn't scold me back. I'm happy
It's something like I didn't think I would do anything like this. Why is it so shameless?
But I want to go. If I don't go, I will struggle with it.
Make me brave enough. I want to ask for it.
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After a while, the three brothers came to tell the good news that... you can go.
I remember that brother said that he let him go. He didn't waste anything.
Let my sister go to experience a wider perspective. I'm screaming alone.
Hurry up to call sister Jiya that you can go now. We have to go to travel together.
And we know that there is still sky above the sky. There is someone happier than me. Haha.
This girl is better than 10 times more than 5555555
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But but but but what? You know, another 1 pieces of toothpaste that I completely forgot.
That's the mother. The mother who cherish the child more than the egg in the stone.
I won't let you climb anything. I won't let Tom come since I was young. It's difficult to ask to go to other provinces.
At that time, I tried to think about what I would do. What should I say? What should I ask for?
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We start by inviting you to eat before you have a full stomach. You will have a good mood.
Then tell mom that I want to hang out with friends. Mom asked me where I went with anyone.
How many days I have gone? It's very detailed. When I told you, mom asked me.
Don't want to leave. We try to explain. Try to say call often.
I will contact you every day. Please, mother, just think about it. 2-3 days.
And come back to say go. Mother can't stop me? Haha.
And finally, our 3 bones are gone. It's time to prepare!!
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At that time, I talked to Sister Jiya about where to go. Should I go to winter or summer?
I want to go to travel. It's cold.
I'm bored. It's hot like Thai PTT. Haha.
Talked and talked to the conclusion. The end of Feb to Ton May.
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We spent 1 years studying and asking for confusing information.
I don't understand from an experienced person like Brother Win, Brother Jo.
We prepared a trip plan and tried to book everything the cheapest possible.
Including finding out more about the Croatian visa
And everything expected to be a problem.
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Me and my friend said to myself that we will go nicely.
It's chic. Face is full. It has to be beautiful even if I have to carry backpack.
I won't go together like Brother Win, Brother Jo. One shirt for the whole trip. Really can't!
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With winter and early spring, I will find a dress.
Let's start by checking the temperature of how it is.
Check it out-20 until 15 degrees Celsius
I was shocked back then. I haven't reached-20 in this life.
I won't survive. The dress has to be thick. How can I carry it?
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Afterwards, let's see which batting suit each country should wear.
Invite friends to buy at Platinum and Siam.
When I take clothes that I want to take, I try to pack my bags.
There was only one backpack, 60 liters that looked outside, so big.
Must wear enough lol
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In summary, I stuffed it. Why does it look smaller than I thought? It's not enough.
There are plenty of them missing. Haha. What should I do? I have to remove them? I can't take them.
I thought my bikal dress would be like this. The dress in Paris would be like this.
I need to find more bags. I got 1 inch Carry On bag.
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When I try to pack a new bag, it's not enough. It's like the first episode. Stuffed to the stream.
Even in vacuum bag, ironing and ironing. When I close the bag, I have to sit on it.
And it seems to explode. The lock seems to bounce apart.
My goddess. Father asks if it's going to explode. Can I carry it alone?
When I say that I'm okay, dad and dad will smh a bit and walk away hahaha
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I thought if it broke on the way back then. What should I do? It's done.
Let's take it out. I can't take it all. But it's almost gone!!
Plus, I have 1 bags of clothes that are fabric. In case I'm shopping because I think that I think that I'm in
Oh. I will buy more. I will get into Europe. It may not be too difficult. Haha.
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Now I want to show you our 44 days from Beijing to Amsterdam.
How many sets have we taken. Which one should match the city?
I have been shredded for a long time. I haven't started traveling yet. I want everyone to read this post.
A life diary full of obstacles to many
We can still remember the feeling of everyday, every event clearly.
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If everyone is ready, we will travel from the 0th kilometer. After watching, you will know that ′′ Trans Siberia ′′ is okay... 😘
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how to tell someone to hang in there 在 Sam Tsang 曾思瀚 Facebook 的最佳解答
Read to the end! This is written by an American black officer. People still deny there's racism in the US. They honestly need new glasses and perhaps new thinking cap as well. Perhaps they need a complete metaphorical makeover.
Starbucks.
Alleged events.
Two black males entered Starbucks to wait for a friend to arrive and did not order anything from the business. Prior to ordering and prior to their friend’s arrival, they decided to attempt to use the restroom. An employee denied the men access to the restroom because they had not purchased anything and asked them to leave. The men calmly refused and the employee called the police. The police arrived at the scene and asked the men to leave the facility. The men refused numerous times. The men were told that they would be arrested if they did not leave the restaurant. The men told the officers to arrest them. The men calmly stood up and allowed the officers to arrest them. They were transported to jail, when Starbucks contacted the police department and stated that they did not want to follow through with charges against the men. They were released.
Why did the police officers have to arrest them? Why didn’t the officers investigate further?
Any employee of a business has the right to ask a person to leave their business. If a person refuses to do so, it is trespassing, period. The modern-day purpose of that charge is to reduce physical conflicts, escalating situations and to protect patrons/employees. The number 1 reason why trespassing is important is because the mentally ill and homeless “camp out” inside of businesses scaring/employees and customers. I trained near downtown and I was frequently called to arrest the mentally ill/ homeless for trespassing. It isn’t to discriminate against them, but they cause disturbances. I removed a guy for clipping his toenails on a table. I removed a woman for bathing in the toilet. I removed a man for masturbating in a trash can next to a family with small children. We have a homeless/ mental illness problem in America and there is no real solution to the problem. Trespassing charges are the quickest way to remove them and the nuisances associated with their behavior.
If you have ever been to a parade or any other event, you know that business often post signs stating that no one can use the restroom unless they are paying customers. You can imagine the nuisances caused by hundreds of drunk people creating a line only to use the restroom, pushing actual customers away from a business. It has caused numerous fights and disturbances. Trespassing charges are the easiest way to get people to leave and go on with their day.
In this Starbucks situation, the police were called and an employee wanted the two men out of the store. When the police arrive, it is their job to arrest someone who refuses to leave after being asked to do so by the business. Period. It doesn’t matter if the men were correct or not. A business can ask someone to leave. This prevents escalation between patrons/ employees for the most part. If a patron has a separate civil issue with the company, they are free to file that complaint or seek justice in other methods. The officers did nothing wrong.
As an officer, I know that most officers hate arresting people for trespassing. In an officer’s heart, they are hoping that the person being asked to leave will be gone prior to arrival. Most officers are disappointed to see the person still at the location. Trespassing charges are way too much paperwork and take too long to process at jail considering the charge. It’s annoying, but needs to be done in some circumstances. The officers asked the men to leave several times hoping they would just leave. They refused and told the officers to take them to jail. The officers were forced to take them to jail. They were professional and did their jobs. This is a civil issue and the issue lies with Starbucks and not the officers.
Racism / Cognitive Bias
It is not my place to accuse the employee of being racist, as I don’t know her heart and I wasn’t there. Racism and cognitive biases towards black people are real. I experience it all the time. Both affect black people the same way, regardless of the intention of the person exhibiting that behavior. It is tiring.
The beauty of this incident occurring at Starbucks as opposed to any other restaurant is that Starbucks encourages and cultivates an environment of loitering. College students spend hours there studying without making a purchase. People go on first dates without spending a dime. Business meetings take place there without a dime being spent. Friends gather there to pass time while waiting to go to a concert. People go there to read books. People go there to hang out. Starbucks has less standing to try to enforce a strict bathroom rule because of the environment that it encourages among citizens.
Many people use the restroom before placing an order. I would never order anything prior to using the restroom. You might miss your name being called for your order. I don’t like leaving my food/beverages unattended while in the restroom. I will not take my food/ beverage in the bathroom.
There was nothing about those two men that should have made this employee think they were mentally ill/ homeless. There was nothing about these men that should have made this employee believe they were a threat. There was nothing about these men that should have made the employee believe they were at a parade and using the restroom without intentions of patronizing their business.
Opinion
I get numerous messages from white people who desire to understand why black people get so upset about situations like this and I will try to explain.
I’ve gone to jail to do an interview with a prisoner, wearing the proper credentials and I had a jail worker put their hand on my chest (and the badge allowing me access) telling me that I can’t enter the facility. I was with a white officer, who was not wearing the proper credentials and he was allowed to pass through. When the white officer saw that I had problems passing through security, he came back and told the security worker that I was an officer. I did everything I was supposed to do, but my credentials meant nothing because her racism/cognitive bias told her that most officers are white males and she decided in her mind that I couldn’t be an officer. What if I punched her for putting her hand on my chest? How would I be viewed? She never looked at my credentials. She only saw my hair and face. I needed my white co-worker to validate my existence.
I was talking on my phone in CVS getting ready to buy toiletries for a trip. I was being followed around the store by an elderly white woman. I ignored it and continued to speak on the phone. Suddenly, an officer was called to the store. I saw the officer, but I didn’t care because I am an officer and I just knew he wasn’t there for me. The officer walked up to me and asked what I was doing in the store. I told him I was shopping. He told me that a suspicious person call came out about me. I started laughing and began to look for the elderly white woman. I knew she called because these things happen to me more than they should. She was peeking around a shelf to see what would happen. I knew she called the police. As he began to ask for my name to check and see if I had warrants, I showed him my badge. He stopped gathering my information. The officer was very professional. It wasn’t his fault that he was called there. If he refused to investigate and I robbed the store, he would have been in trouble. He marched me over to the elderly lady and asked her why she called the police. He showed her my badge and she still didn’t believe that I was an officer. He criticized her behavior and stormed out of the store. Good thing I had my “I’m not just another black person” badge. What happens to those who don’t have one? I needed the white officer to validate my existence.
I was at work for nearly 48 hours finishing up a big case. I went to my car to retrieve something and began to walk back into the police department headquarters. I was wearing plain clothes and wasn’t wearing identification. A white officer was in front of me wearing plain clothes and not wearing identification. A uniformed white officer was exiting the building and asked the white undercover officer, who looked like an extra from “Duck Dynasty,” if he was an officer. The guy stated that he was an officer and the uniformed white officer allowed him to enter the building. I was a few steps behind that exchange and the white uniformed officer asked me for my identification as I began to approach the building. I have been through this production many times so I already knew where this was headed. I told him that I was an officer to see if that same privilege would work for me as I entered the station. He repeated that he needed to see my identification and blocked the door. I was tired from being at work for so long and wasn’t as politically correct as usual. He began to try an enforce policy stating that he needed to see my identification. I told him that I would not show him my identification until he chased down the white, homeless looking guy that he didn’t recognize as an officer and ask him for his identification. He was clearly upset. He was upset that his authority wasn’t respected. He asked why everything had to be about race. I told him I’ve been trying to figure that out my whole life. He plead for me to just show him my identification because it wasn’t a big deal. I told him it was a big deal. I won’t comply because that’s what you want me to do and you want your authority respected. I told him to show me his identification and he refused. He got upset and walked away cursing me out. I wouldn’t have had a problem showing him my identification because it is policy. I wasn’t showing him anything because he trusted the white undercover officer’s word, but mine wasn’t good enough. If only I had a white officer with me to validate my presence at the police department.
What would that officer say about me if I filed a complaint? What if I got loud with him? Would he label me as another angry black woman? Would he tell everyone on the department that I am a race baiter to defend his behavior? I didn’t complain.
I went to Gloria’s (Addison) for a birthday party around 2 pm. I had on Timberland boots, but was dressed fashionable. The security guard let the rest of my group in, but told me that I couldn’t wear tennis shoes inside. I told him that I was wearing boots and he said boots and tennis shoes were the same. I politely asked to speak with the manager. I tried to show him my “get out of looking suspicious” police identification and told him that I wasn’t there to cause problems, I drove an hour to get here and I was there for a birthday party. He rudely said that I wouldn’t be attending any party at their business. There were numerous white guys wearing actual tennis shoes and they were immediately allowed inside the business. I pointed to those guys and asked why those tennis shoes were acceptable? He called more security guards to the scene and said that I would not be allowed inside their business. I missed the party, nor did I desire to be there anymore. I never go to that Gloria’s and I think about that experience every time I pass by it. This may not seem like a big deal to you if you are white. These things don’t happen to you all the time.
Every day black people have to be calmer and pick and choose their battles. It is tiring. I understand the frustration of white officers who don’t understand all the frustration exhibited by blacks. These incidents don’t happen to them daily. Their position is validated just by existing. I understand why white people say “just be compliant.” Generally, people should just comply, but sometimes you have to dig your heels in the sand to effect change.
Again, the police did nothing wrong in this situation. There is no recourse when white people call the police because of their own racism/ cognitive biases. What if those men were supposed to see their daughters off to prom and missed it due to their arrests? What if they had to acknowledge this arrest as they applied for jobs? What if their sons had soccer games that they missed because of this incident?
If these white people didn’t step up and say that they come to Starbucks all the time without ordering and are allowed access to the bathroom, where would those black men be? If those white people refused to get involved because the incident didn’t affect them, where would those black men be? If those white people didn’t record the incident, documenting proof of how calm the black men were, where would those men be? If those white people didn’t raise so much hell, that the company called the police station and refused to press charges against them, where would those black men be? Where would black people be without white chaperones to prove their existence is valid and harmless? Black people should not need validation from white people to exist.
Just as criminals don’t wear signs indicating that they are criminals, racists and people with cognitive biases don’t wear signs indicating their status. If you are white, I encourage you to try to imagine going through incidents like this every day as you buy groceries, pump gas, ride the bus, purchase clothes at the mall, attend parties, go to bars, watch your children play sports, and a long list of other everyday activities. It doesn't make you a racist if you don't insert yourself in situations such as this to defend people. It takes a special person to stand up for people dealing with an issue that will never affect you.