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[ ชนะคนบ้า ด้วยความบ้ากว่า?]
"หนุ่มแว่นหัวร้อน" ที่สื่อมวลชนเรียกกัน มีชื่อจริงว่า รชฏ (อ่านว่า ระ-ชะ-ตะ) ถึงตรงนี้เขาเละไม่เหลือซากแล้ว
ประโยคที่เขาพูดออกมาในคลิป เป็นการกระทำในสิ่งที่คนไทยไม่ชอบครบทุกอย่าง มันเป็นการสร้างความเกลียดชังได้อย่างดีที่สุด
- อวดร่ำอวดรวย
- พาดพิงถึงสถาบันพระมหากษัตริย์
- ดูหมิ่นนายกฯ (แม้หลายคนจะไม่ชอบนายกฯ แต่อย่าลืมแฟนคลับนายกฯก็มีเยอะเช่นกันนะ)
- ด่าคนไทยด้อยพัฒนา การศึกษาต่ำ
- ด่าคนอื่นเป็นขยะสังคม
- ด่าคนไทยชอบเสือกเรื่องชาวบ้าน
- กล่าวอ้างว่ามีตำรวจคอยช่วย ไม่เกรงกลัวกฎหมาย (แต่ความจริงไม่มีนะ อ้างเฉยๆ)
ยิ่งไปไล่ดูประวัติเก่าๆแล้ว เคยมีประเด็นกับผู้คนบนท้องถนนมานับไม่ถ้วน ขับรถปาดหน้า ชูนิ้วกลางใส่รถคันอื่น คือจัดว่าเป็นตัวจี๊ดเลยทีเดียว
ดังนั้น มันก็ไม่แปลกเลยที่จะมีฟีดแบ็กความเกลียดชังถึงตัวเขาหนักขนาดนี้
แล้วในทางกฎหมายล่ะ? ในคดีเรื่องการเฉี่ยวชนกับคู่กรณีคนอัดคลิป ทั้ง 2 ฝ่ายตกลงกันได้ โดยไม่ได้เรียกประกัน มีการชดเชยค่าเสียหายให้กันเรียบร้อย
ขณะที่คดีในทางอาญา ก็มีเพียงหมิ่นประมาทซึ่งหน้า โทษปรับ หรือจำคุกไม่เกิน 1 ปี ซึ่งเป็นคดีไม่ได้ใหญ่เลย ในแง่ของตัวบทกฎหมาย
อย่างไรก็ตาม สิ่งที่รุนแรงกว่าคือกระแสสังคม ต้นสังกัด บริษัท Kasa Development แน่นอน ย่อมไม่อยากติดร่างแหไปด้วย ใช้เหตุผลเรื่องที่ นายรชฏ อ้างถึงสถาบันพระมหากษัตริย์ ในการไล่ออก
เท่ากับว่าเพียงพริบตา นายรชฏ มีคดีอาญา โดนไล่ออกจากงาน และ กลายเป็น Public Enemy ศัตรูเบอร์หนึ่งของประเทศไทย
คือก็เข้าใจได้ เพราะสิ่งที่ นายรชฏพูด มันไปกระทบใจของคนส่วนใหญ่ในสังคม จึงนำมาสู่กระแสความเกลียดชังรุนแรงเพียงนี้
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คลิปของนายรชฏ เป็นไวรัลอย่างรวดเร็ว ยอดคนแชร์เกือบล้าน ซึ่งเป็นคลิปที่ร้อนแรงที่สุดในปี 2019 เลย
เหตุการณ์ยิ่งบอกปากต่อปาก ยิ่งทำให้สถานการณ์ทวีความรุนแรงมากขึ้นเรื่อยๆ ตอนแรกกระแสก็ไปทางเดียวนั่นแหละ คือด่า หนุ่มแว่นยับเลย
อย่างไรก็ตาม เมื่อเวลา ตี 1 ของเมื่อคืน เพจ Phuri's News ได้ปล่อยคลิปวีดีโอในอีกมุมหนึ่ง ที่หลายคนน่าจะรู้สึกสะเทือนใจเป็นอย่างมาก
คือคลิปที่สถานีตำรวจพุทธมณฑล มีชาวบ้านประมาณ 4-5 ร้อย ไปดักรอ นายรชฏ และครอบครัว ที่มาให้ปากคำกับเจ้าหน้าที่ตำรวจในโรงพัก
ทันทีที่คุณแม่ของ นายรชฏ เดินออกมาจากโรงพัก มีเสียงตะโกนด่า แม่ของเขา ว่า "เลี้ยงลูกแบบไหนหรอ" ตะคอกกันอย่างหนัก
ภาพที่น่าเศร้าคือสะใภ้ของบ้านนี้ แฟนสาวของนายรชฏ จับมือคุณแม่แน่น และพาไปขึ้นรถที่ตำรวจคุ้มกันอยู่
คำถามที่คนคงคิดตรงกันคือ จะไปด่าแม่กับเมียเขาทำไม?
คือด่าผู้ก่อเหตุก็ว่ากันไป คนทำผิดก็ต้องรับผิดชอบในสิ่งที่ตัวเองกระทำ แต่คนอื่นที่ไม่ใช่บุคคลนั้นล่ะ เขาสมควรรับหางเลขไปด้วยหรือ?
ในคลิปแรกสุดที่รถเฉี่ยวชน เราเห็นภาพภรรยาของนายรชฏ ห้ามปรามสามีของตัวเองอยู่ตลอด และพูดจากับคู่กรณีอย่างดีมากๆ ถามว่าเธอผิดอะไรล่ะ ถึงจะต้องโดนด่าไปด้วย
ความผิดของเธอมีเพียงอย่างเดียวคือนั่งอยู่ในรถคันนั้น ณ เวลานั้นแค่นั้นเอง เธอก็พยายามจัดการแก้ปัญหาทุกอย่างให้ดีที่สุดแล้ว
แล้วพ่อแม่ของเขาล่ะ ควรโดนลากมาด่าด้วยไหม ในเมื่อมนุษย์เราเป็นปัจเจก ต่างคนต่างมีความคิดของตัวเอง คือมีพ่อแม่คนไหนอยากสั่งสอนให้ลูกเป็นคนไม่ดี เที่ยวด่ากราดคนอื่นแบบที่หนุ่มแว่นทำ มันไม่มีพ่อแม่คนไหนอยากให้ลูกเป็นแบบนี้หรอก
ในอดีต กฎมณเทียรบาลสมัยอยุธยา มีโทษประหาร 7 ชั่วโคตรอยู่ คือคนทำผิด ต้องฆ่าให้ตายทั้งตระกูล นักโทษ เมีย ลูก หลาน เหลน พ่อแม่ ปู่ย่า ตายาย ทวด ต้องฆ่าให้หมดทั้งวงศ์ตระกูล
แล้วทำไมโทษประหาร 7 ชั่วโคตรถึงถูกยกเลิกไป ไม่มีในปัจจุบันล่ะ?
นั่นเพราะสังคมเรารู้ดีว่า เรื่องความผิด มันเป็นเรื่องของตัวบุคคลนั้น และมันไม่ยุติธรรมแม้แต่นิด ที่จะลากคนรอบตัวของผู้กระทำผิด มาลงโทษด้วย
ในแง่กฎหมาย พ่อแม่ และแฟนสาว ของนายรชฏ ไม่ได้ทำอะไรผิดเลย เช่นเดียวกับในแง่ของสังคม พวกเขาก็ไม่ควรจับแขวนมาด่าแบบนี้ด้วย
ถ้าเห็นว่าใครทำผิดอะไร ใช้กฎหมายเป็นตัวตัดสิน ถ้ายังไม่พอใจกับบทลงโทษทางกฎหมาย จะด่าคนทำผิดก็ด่าเจ้าตัวไป แต่คนไม่เกี่ยวข้องนี่ ไม่แฟร์กับเขาถ้าโดนลากมายำด้วย
คนที่โกรธเขา เกลียดเขา แต่ไปด่าแม่ด่าเมียเขา เอาแต่สะใจตัวเอง
มันจะต่างอะไรกับที่ หนุ่มแว่นทำในตอนแรกล่ะ มันก็ด่ากราดเหมือนกันล่ะนะ
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การที่ไปรุมเตรียมจะประชาทัณฑ์จากเหตุผลเพียงเพราะเรื่องในคลิป แสดงให้เห็นถึงความอารมณ์ร้อนของคนไทย ที่พอได้ฟังสิ่งที่นายรชฏพูด ก็ฟิวส์ขาด แล้วเตรียมเอาคืนด้วยกำลัง
ใช่ คำพูดมันไม่น่าฟัง แต่กฎหมายบ้านเมืองก็มี ให้กฎหมายทำหน้าที่ของมันไป ผิดเท่าไหร่ บทลงโทษทางกฎหมายก็แรงเท่านั้น
ถ้าใครไม่พอใจอยากด่า ก็ด่าในออนไลน์ก็ได้ ไม่จำเป็นต้องเข้าหาตัวไปใช้ Physical ใช้กำลังทำร้ายร่างกายเขาเลย
ความรู้สึกเหมือนเจอคนเหยียดผิว เราเอาคืนด้วยการเหยียดอีกฝ่ายให้หนักกว่า หรือไปไล่กระทืบอีกคนให้ตาย มันคือการแก้ปัญหาที่ถูกต้องหรือ?
วิธีที่หน่วยงานที่อังกฤษแนะนำคนโดนเหยียดผิว คือเอาสิ่งที่โดนเหยียดเก็บหลักฐาน แล้วมาแจ้งที่เจ้าหน้าที่ โดยบทลงโทษน่ะมันมีอยู่แล้ว คุณไม่จำเป็นต้องไปเอาคืนด้วยการด่าคืน หรือไปต่อยตีอีกฝ่าย คือมันไม่ได้แก้ปัญหากันแบบนั้น
เราเห็นนายรชฏด่ากราดไปทั่วแบบนั้น เราก็ได้แต่คิดในใจไอ้เวรนี่มันบ้าหรือเปล่า
เพราะมีแต่คนบ้าเท่านั้น ที่ด่าไปทุกหย่อมหญ้าขนาดนั้น คนสติดีที่ไหนจะทำ
แล้วเมื่อเจอคนบ้า เราจะไปบ้าเหมือนเขาทำไม ทั้งๆที่เราสามารถแสดงความเป็นอารยชนได้
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ท้ายที่สุดแล้ว เราต้องมองเรื่องนี้ให้ลึกเกินกว่าแค่ ไอ้แว่นคลั่งด่ากราด มองลึกลงไปเลยว่าเราจะได้อะไรจากเรื่องนี้บ้าง
สำนักข่าว ก็ไม่ควรจะเฮโล ไปเล่นประเด็นซ้ำเดิมๆว่าใครทำอะไรที่ไหนยังไง หรือเล่นข่าวว่า มีเซเล็บคนไหนอยากจะกระทืบไอ้แว่นบ้าง แต่มันน่าจะดีกว่า ถ้าเราลองวิเคราะห์ดูถึงปรากฏการณ์นี้อย่างจริงจัง
1) ตั้งคำถามว่า นายรชฏ ทั้งๆที่เป็นคนไทย มีพ่อแม่เป็นไทย 100% ทำไมถึงเกลียดประเทศไทยขนาดนั้น ทำไมถึงคิดว่าคนไทยเป็นพวกชั้นต่ำ อะไรที่ทำให้คิดแบบนั้น
คำว่าชั้นต่ำของเขาคืออะไร และในมุมของเขาคนประเทศไหนคือชั้นสูง คือมีอะไรในสังคมไทย ที่เขาไม่ชอบ ต้องมานั่งถกกันเลย
2) พิจารณาสภาพอาการป่วยของ นายรชฏ ว่าเป็นโรคอะไรหรือเปล่า พ่อบอกว่าปกติดี ส่วนแม่บอกว่ากินยาอยู่ ความชัดเจนคืออะไรกันแน่ สิ่งสำคัญคือเราควรจะรู้ว่า นายรชฏนี่สติดี 100% ใช่ไหม ตอนที่ออกสตาร์ตด่ากราดขนาดนั้น ทำไมถึงควบคุมอารมณ์ตัวเองไม่ได้เลย
พ่อแม่ผู้ปกครองที่เห็นแนวโน้ม ว่าบุตรหลานของตัวเอง จะออกอาการบ้าคลั่ง จะได้นำตัวลูกหลานไปปรึกษาแพทย์ก่อนที่จะเกิดเรื่องแย่ๆขึ้นมาแบบนี้
3) เป็นข้อเตือนใจให้เราได้เห็นว่า ในสังคมไทย เวลาคนเขาด่า เขาไม่เคยด่าเราแค่คนเดียว แต่คนรอบข้างทั้งหมด จะโดนด่าไปด้วย ดังนั้นจงชั่งใจให้ดี ก่อนตัดสินใจทำอะไรลงไป ถ้าหากยังรัก ยังแคร์คนรอบข้าง ก็อย่าทำให้เขาได้รับผลกระทบและต้องเสียใจไปด้วย
4) ได้เห็นการแก้ปัญหาขององค์กรที่เกี่ยวข้อง อย่างบริษัทต้นสังกัดของนายรชฏ ที่ประกาศไล่ออกทันที คือเป็นการตัดปัญหา แสดงจุดยืนขององค์กรว่าไม่สนับสนุนคนทำผิด คือถ้ากระแสมันแรงแล้ว คุณต้องรีบ Take Action ก่อนองค์กรจะโดนหางเลขตามไปด้วย
5) ชี้ให้เห็นว่ายุคนี้ พลังของโซเชียล เน็ตเวิร์คไปเร็วมาก ทำผิดอย่าคิดว่าหลบซ่อนได้ แค่พริบตาเดียวคนรู้กันทั่วประเทศ หากเราโดนใครกระทำไม่ดี มือถือเรามี อัดคลิป อัดหลักฐานเอาไว้ ถ้าสุดท้ายเราเป็นฝ่ายถูก สังคมจะช่วยเราเอง
6) เราได้เห็นความใจเย็นของหนุ่มคู่กรณี ที่โดนด่าขนาดนั้น แถมยังถูกบังคับให้กราบเท้า แต่ยังไม่น็อตหลุดใช้กำลังในการจบปัญหา ซึ่งนำมาสู่ความชื่นชมอย่างมาก เพราะการใช้กำลังไม่ใช่คำตอบที่ถูกต้องอยู่แล้ว เขาคือผู้ชนะตัวจริงของเหตุการณ์นี้
7) เวลารถยนต์เฉี่ยวชนบนท้องถนน ควรรู้ไว้เลยว่าถ้าหากมีประกัน ก็โทรเรียกให้ประกันมาจัดการ ไม่ต้องลงมาด่าทอกันเอง เหตุการณ์มันเกิดไปแล้ว มันคืออุบัติเหตุ และหน้าที่ของประกันรถยนต์ก็เพื่อเคลียร์ปัญหาในลักษณะนี้ล่ะ ไม่ต้องโมโหขนาดนั้น ให้ประกันได้ทำหน้าที่ของเขาไป
8) สื่อมวลชนควรไปทำการเจาะชีวิตของคนที่จะไปประชาทัณฑ์นายรชฏ ที่สถานีตำรวจ ว่าอะไรที่ทำให้เขาไม่พอใจขนาดนั้น ถึงขนาดต้องการลงไม้ลงมือ คำพูดไหน ที่เป็นการกระตุ้นความรู้สึก ให้ถึงขนาดต้องขับรถหลายกิโลมาที่สถานี เพื่อรอดักกระทืบผู้ก่อเหตุ
และ 9) การได้คนรักดี คือลาภอันประเสริฐ ปฏิเสธไม่ได้เลยว่า คนที่พอจะช่วยให้สถานการณ์ของพี่แว่นนั้นเบาลงไปหนึ่งสเต็ป คือคุณภรรยาที่อยู่ในเหตุการณ์ทุกอย่าง
เธอทั้งช่วยเจรจากับเรื่องอุบัติเหตุ ในตอนแรกก็เป็นเธอนี่ล่ะที่ยกมือไหว้คู่ก่อเหตุ และคอยห้ามปรามสามีตัวเอง นอกจากนั้นยังคอยอยู่กับพ่อแม่สามี ตลอดเรื่องราวที่เกิดเหตุขึ้น เชื่อได้เลยว่า 24 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมาเป็นวันที่หนักหน่วงที่สุดในชีวิตของเธอ
ถ้าได้คนรักดี ที่มีความฉลาด และพร้อมอยู่เคียงข้างเราเสมอแม้ในวันที่เจอปัญหา ไม่ว่ายังไงก็อย่าปล่อยมือเขาไปเด็ดขาด
เห็นไหม มีหลายมุมตั้งเยอะ ที่เราจะหยิบยกมาคุยกันได้จากเหตุการณ์นี้ นอกเหนือจากกูหมั่นไส้ไอ้แว่น อยากกระทืบมันจังเลยว่ะ จริงไหม
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จากนี้ไปเรื่องของพี่แว่น ก็จะอยู่ในกระบวนการของตำรวจ ถ้าหากทำผิดจริงตามข้อหาหมิ่นประมาทซึ่งหน้า ก็จะโดนลงโทษปรับ หรือจำคุก ก็ว่ากันไป
นอกเหนือจากโทษทัณฑ์จากตำรวจ พี่แว่น ก็ต้องรับบทลงโทษทางสังคมไปตลอดชีวิต เขาจะโดนตีตราเอาไว้จากคลิปนี้ ซึ่งจะส่งผลให้การเข้าสังคม การใช้ชีวิตต่างๆในประเทศไทย ก็จะทำได้ยากมาก เพราะคนจะย้อนไปนึกถึงเรื่องนี้เสมอ
ขณะที่เรื่องการใช้ชีวิต ณ เวลานี้ เขาตกงานแล้ว ซึ่งก็ไม่รู้ว่าจะหางานใหม่ได้หรือไม่ จะมีองค์กรไหนกล้ารับเผือกร้อนชิ้นนี้มาร่วมงานด้วย ชีวิตของเขาจะอยู่ยากมากๆ
บทลงโทษของเขานั้นแรงมหาศาล และคลิปสั้นๆแค่ 5 นาทีนี้ ได้เปลี่ยนแปลงชีวิตเขาไปตลอดกาล
แต่แน่นอน มันเป็นสิ่งที่เขาก่อขึ้นเอง ก็ต้องรับมันไว้เอง
ขณะที่คนนอกที่คอยดูเหตุการณ์ ก็วิจารณ์กันได้ จะด่าพี่แว่นก็ด่าไปเถอะ จากความห้าวขนาดนั้น บอกตรงๆก็สมควรโดนนะ
แต่อย่าลืมนะครับ ว่าทั้งหมดนี้มันเป็นเรื่องของเขาเอง พ่อแม่เขาไม่เกี่ยวอย่าลากมาด่าด้วย คนรักเขาก็ไม่เกี่ยว อย่าลากมาด้วยเช่นกัน
สุดท้าย พี่แว่นบอกในคลิปว่า "กูดูถูกคนไทยทั้งประเทศ" ดังนั้นมันก็น่าจะดี ถ้าเราทำให้เขาเห็นว่า คนไทยไม่เห็นมีอะไรน่าดูถูกตรงไหน
ทำให้พี่แว่นได้เห็นว่าเนื้อแท้ของคนไทยเรานั้น จิตใจดี มีเหตุผล มีอารยะ
และที่สำคัญคนไทยเรา จะไม่ชนะคนบ้า ด้วยความบ้ากว่าอย่างแน่นอน
#หนุ่มแว่นหัวร้อน
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รูปถ่ายขออนุญาตแคปมาจากคลิปของ Phuri's News นะครับ ถ่ายได้ดีมากๆ และสะเทือนอารมณ์จริงๆ
[win a crazy man with more craziness?]
"Hot-headed glasses guy" that the press is called rachatat (read that ra-Cha-ta). He is messy here. There is nothing left.
The sentence that he says in the clip is an action of what Thai people don't like. Everything is the best hate.
- show off to be rich
- refer to the king's Institute.
- Disrespect The Prime Minister (even though many people don't like the Prime Minister, don't forget the Prime Minister's fans too)
- Scold Thai people, undeveloped, low education.
- cursing other people is social trash.
- Scold Thai people. I like to be nosy about other people
- I claim that there is a police to help. Not afraid of the law (but there is no truth. Just claim)
The more I went to see old history, there was an issue with people on the road for cuddle baht. Driving to cut my front and put my middle finger in other cars. It was a hot.
So it's not strange to have a feed back to him this heavy.
What about legal? In the case of crashing against the party, the 2 people who recorded the clip. Both parties agreed without calling insurance. Damages have been compensated.
While criminal cases are only defamation, penalty or imprisonment under 1 years, which is not big in terms of law.
However, what is more severe is the social trend. Kasa development company certainly does not want to be stuck. Use the reason why Mr. Racht referred to the king's institute for expulsion.
It's equal to a blink of an eye. Mr. Racht has a criminal case fired from the job and became public enemy number one of Thailand.
Well, I can understand because what Mr. Racht says hits the heart of most people in society, so it brings to this severe hate trend.
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The clip of Mr. Rachatat is fast cuddle fast. The total of almost a million people share, which is the hottest clip of 2019
The incident, the more you tell the mouth to mouth, the more it makes the situation increase more violence. At First, the trend went the only way. That
However, at 1 am of last night, phuri's news page released a video clip on the other end that many people should feel very heartbreaking.
It's a clip at phutthamonthon police station. There are about 4-5 hundred villagers to wait for Mr. Rachatat and family who came to talk to police officers in the police station.
As soon as Mr. Racht's mother walked out of the police station, there was a shout out to his mother, " what kind of child is this yelling hard.
Sad picture is the in-laws of this house. Mr. Racht's girlfriend held her mother's hand and took him to the car where police guarded.
The question that people may think the same thing is why do you scold his mother and wife?
If you scold the perpetrator, let's talk about it. The wrong person is responsible for what they do. But other people who is not the person. Do they deserve the number?
In the first clip that the car crashed, we saw the wife of Mr. Racht forbid his husband all the time and spoke to the party very well. Ask what was wrong with her to be scolded.
Your only fault is sitting in that car at that time. That's all. She's all the best solution.
What about their parents? Should they be scolded? When human beings are the cuddle th grade. Everyone has their own idea. is that any parents want to teach their children to be bad people to scold other people like the way the glasses guy does. No parent wants a child to be like this
In the past, the law of Ayutthaya, there was a death penalty for 7 EVIL. The wrong person must kill them. The whole family, wife, children, grandchildren, great-Great-Great-Great-Great-Great-Great-Great-Great-Great - All of them all family
So why is the death penalty for 7 evil being terminated, no present?
That's because our society knows the fault is about the person and it's not even fair to drag the perpetrators to punish.
In terms of law, the parents and gf of Mr. Racht did nothing wrong, as well as in terms of society, they should not have hung like this.
If you see that someone does wrong, use the law as a judge. If you are not satisfied with legal punishment, you will scold the wrong person, scold him. But the irrelevant person is not fair to him if they are dra
Those who are angry with him hate him, but scold the mother and scold his wife. He is satisfied with himself.
What's different than the glasses guy did in the first place? He was angry too.
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The way to fight is preparing to lynching for the reason. Just because the story in the clip shows the temper of Thai people who hear what Mr. Racht said, he is torn. Prepare to take it back with power.
Yes, words are not nice to listen to, but the law of the city has the law to do its duty. No matter how wrong, the legal punishment is strong
If anyone is not satisfied, you want to scold, you can scold online. There is no need to go to use physical to use physical to hurt him.
Feeling like we meet a racist. Do we take it back by racism harder or beat the other person to death. is it the right solution?
The way the British agency recommends racist is to take what is to collect evidence and inform the authorities by punishment. You don't have to take it back by cursing back or hit the other. It doesn't solve the problem. That's it.
I see Mr. Racht all over the place. I just think in my heart. is this motherfucker crazy?
Because only crazy people scold every grass patches like that. Where will the sane person do it?
Why do we go crazy when I meet crazy like him when we can show my mood?
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In the end, we need to look at this deeper than just the crazy glasses. Look deeper what we can get from this.
News Agency shouldn't be halo to replay the same point of who did what, where, or play news that any of the nail wants to beat the glasses, but it would be better if we analyze this phenomenon seriously.
1) ask if Mr. Racht, even though they are Thai people have 100 % Thai parents. Why do you hate Thailand so much. Why do you think that Thai people are low class?
What is his low class and in his corner. which country is the high class? What is there is in Thai society that they don't like? We have to sit and discuss.
2) consider the condition of Mr. Racht's illness. Dad said it's normal. Mom said that she was taking medicine. What is the important thing is that we should know that Mr. Racht is 100 % conscious, right? I'm so angry when I'm so angry. Why can't I control my emotions?
Parents who see the tendency that their children are going to get crazy so they can bring their children to consult with doctors before this bad things happen.
3) it's a reminder for us to see that in Thai society, when people scold, they never scold me alone. But all people around you will be scolded. So weigh your heart before you decide to do something if you still love, still care. People around you don't affect them and regret it.
4) seeing the solution of relevant organizations like Mr. Racht's precincts that announced that immediately is to cut off the problem. Show the organization's stand that they don't support the wrong person. If the trend is strong, then you need to take action before the organization gets hit. Tail number. Follow me.
5) indicates that the power of social networks very fast. Don't think that you can hide just a blink of an eye. People know all over the country. If we are bad, our mobile phone has a clip to record evidence if we are. The right society will help us.
6) we have seen the composure of a guy who was scolded and forced to pay respect to the feet, but still didn't get rid of the power to end the problem which brought to much appreciation because using force is not the right answer. He is the real winner. Of this event
7) when a car crashes on the road, you should know that if you have insurance, call insurance to deal with it. Don't come down to scold each other. The incident has happened. It's an accident and the duty of car insurance to clear the problem in Look like this. Don't be that angry. Let insurance do his duty.
8) The Press should go to penetrate the life of someone who is going to lynching at the police station. What offends him that he wants to get into the wood. Which words that stimulates the feeling that he has to drive many kilos to the station. To survive cuddle kg. Beat the perpetrator.
And 9) having a good lover is a good fortune. I can't deny that the person who can help the situation of brother glasses is one step lighter is the wife who is in all events.
She helped negotiate with the accident. At First, it was you who raised your hand to pay respect to the crime and forbidden her husband. Besides, she stayed with her parents-in-in-law all the scene story. Believe that the last 24 hours were the worst day of my life. Yours.
If you have a good lover who is smart and always ready to be there for us. Even when you encounter problems, don't let go of his hand.
See, there are so many angles that we can talk from this incident. Besides I'm irritating. I want to beat them. is it true?
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From now on, brother glasses will be in police process. If you do wrong, according to defamation, the face will be punished or imprisonment, let's say.
In addition to the police penalty, brother glasses has to take social punishment for the rest of his life. He will be beaten by this clip which will result in social. Living in Thailand will be very difficult because people will always think about this.
While living at this time, he lost his job, which doesn't know whether to find a new job. Which organization dares to get this hot taro to attend. His life will be very difficult to live.
His punishment is so strong and this short 5 minute clip has changed his life forever.
But of course it's what he made himself. Take it himself.
While outsiders who watch the incident can criticize each other. If you want to scold brother glasses, just scold. from that bad. Honestly, I deserve it deserves it.
But don't forget that this is all about him. Parents are not involved. Don't drag me to scold. Love is not related. Don't drag them either.
Finally, brother glasses said in the clip that "I insult Thai people in the whole country" so it would be good if we show them that Thai people don't see anything right.
Make Brother Glasses see that the real texture of Thai people is good, reasonable, civilized.
And most importantly, Thai people will not win crazy people with craziness.
#หนุ่มแว่นหัวร้อน
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Photo shoot. I would like to capture from @[174157096462442:274:Phuri's NEWS]'s clip. Very good shot and I feel really emotional.Translated
i am satisfied with my job because 在 Roundfinger Facebook 的精選貼文
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เพียงสัมผัสแรกก็พอจะบอกได้ว่าเก่งหรือไม่เก่ง
น้อยสิ่งในโลกนี้ที่ผมจะรู้สึกว่าตัวเองเป็นผู้ชำนาญการ แต่ด้วยความที่ชอบนั่งๆ นอนๆ ให้คนอื่นนวดร่างเพื่อผ่อนคลาย ผมพอจะบอกได้ตั้งแต่วินาทีที่มือของหมอนวดจับหมับเข้าที่เท้าตอนล้างเท้าว่า หมอคนนี้นวดดีหรือไม่
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Just the first touch, I can tell if I'm good or not.
Not many things in this world that I feel like I am an expert, but by sleeping, let other people massage my body massage. I can tell you from the second that the masseuse's hand caught cuddle baht on my feet when I wash my feet. Does this person have a massage?
Doctor Keng will catch our feet with weight. Even if it is a doctor's finger crushing the dirty stain has enough power to make you feel relaxed. Most importantly, it's often along the corner of the muscles and tendon in the position that " got hit. " Always while rubbing soap.
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Walking into a massage shop that is like playing a lucky game. Yesterday was the day I meant to make a massage because I worked hard for many days in a row. As soon as the doctor's hands touched my feet. I knew that - ! Because the doctor is like a little bit. Cherish, but come on, I give the doctor a chance.
Come to sit and massage. The more I remind me to be insecure in the doctor. As soon as I feel like someone is putting his hands on the same confused.
I used to talk to someone near and friends. Even though I met a masseuse. When I didn't like it. When I said it, I was considerate of the doctor. I was afraid to lose his self. When I wouldn't change, it became me who had to endure for hours. I don't relax my body and I'm still feel frustrated. I have met a masseuse. I haven't arrived " in a row. Three times in a row. I have to decide to tell the doctor that I want to stop like this. Then I intended to endure it. The solution is to tell And friendly, " I would like to change to a doctor who has a harder massage. I apologize
I told the doctor before, " It's heavy that I have massage now. I don't feel it. I can massage to the fullest Doctor is working more hard, but it doesn't make me feel less. I raise my hand to pay respect to the doctor Sorry. Can I change the doctor? But I am a heavy massage The rest of the masseuse shouted to call a doctor's name to take care of the place
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Doctor two can go for ten minutes, but still " not here " and " didn't get " I found that the person who is good at massage is not about working hard, but someone who knows how to massage and know how to press and ironing muscles. When I get massage, I will relax.
A chiropractor who is standing in massage. The customer turned to ask, " How are you? Is it better You may have seen that I am not satisfied, so I recommend you to sleep in the doctor's room so that she can use elbow, knee, grinding by
Me and the second doctor went to the doctor's room. I tried many ways. But I still don't know how to massage. Personally, I believe that for massage to relax. Doctor who massage like this should do a good job. Many women don't like to massage. It's a good massage. It's a good massage. But for me that I'm tight, it may be a violent person. I think that you want to " hit
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I spent almost an hour with the doctor. When I walked into the shop. I told my brother at the counter that I was going to massage for two hours while sleeping in my heart. I thought in my heart was enough because I feel more comfortable and I wouldn't dare to come to come to Here we go again
Suddenly, the chiropractor who always asks me "how are you better walked into the room and asked with the same question again. I answered" it's okay You seem to catch the feeling in the voice. You just got it. Put your hands from the customer, jump on the futon, I pulled it out, bent in, ironing, full massage, even though doctor two is still massaging my arm.
First touch, I know that this is " Guru " every move of your hand. It brings relaxation, weight and position. It's up to " all " all the move.
Among the masseuse, we know whose skill is. I guess the third brother can guess that the two should not satisfy my massage taste by looking from the first doctor I said.
It's not just a short time. She squeeze, pulls, pulls, kick, kick, constantly. It says, " I can't. I want customers to go back with happiness. If you come to massage, it's not happy, it's not good. Come and I want you I'm sorry.
If I had a chance to look at a picture of myself from a high-angle CCTV, it would be like being lynched by two masseuse. One of the upper body. The other one hit the bottom. I feel more tortured than relaxing, but I really have to admit that the third brother is very good massage. I should be one of the best masseuse I've ever met
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I'm happy with my third brother. I want to tell the second brother to stop massaging. Wait outside. I have never met two doctors like this before. I feel like a frog for a bed for the test to cut the body. I don't know, but I know that the second brother can't walk away. Otherwise he may not get money for massage, which I want to whisper that I will pay you a tip for you, but you stop twisting my body in different directions. I'm afraid the pillow. Bone will fall out of the spinal cord
It's been a long time until the upper verse has nothing left to massage. The third brother, which is loudly sounds clearer. It seems to tell the second brother to go outside and she gives me a massage until the end of time until
"How are you She asked me to answer" Thank you very much. She told me that she didn't want to feel bad. I want you to get a doctor who likes it. Next time you can name. I think in my heart. I will come back to massage with him again because he is good and massage.
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The awkwardness in my heart is how will the masseuse share the money? I guess the third brother may not get money for massage. I want to tip the third brother for two hundred baht (which is so much) but I want to tell you so much. That the most impressive thing is not your " skill " if it is your " heart " I want to encourage the vocation that I have in this heart.
Third brother does something unnecessary. It's not your duty, but she cares about the customer's feelings. Don't want to feel bad about the service. Don't want to feel bad about the shop she works. She feels she is responsible for satisfaction. It's not your client, but she volunteered to solve the problem that you can't fix. If you do it without money, the more respect your heart.
As expected. When the owner of the shop asked me who massage her hand to the second doctor and said she charged that brother. She didn't want money. I stood to look at this little incident with a big heart. I feel like I met "teacher" Another person who teaches valuable lessons in life.
I paid for massage. I walked to tip the second brother and walked to the third brother and tipped in the number more than the second brother (luckily, both of them were apart). The second brother smiled and said it's okay. I could choose the doctor. If you like it, the third brother, I repeat, come back to use the service again. "You can name. If you massage and like it" I wrote his brother's name in my heart. Ask for the shop number to call to reserve the masseuse first. Next time I thought in my heart that I will Now I changed my mind. I will come back to massage with "Brother Rama cuddle" because I am not only impressed with his skill, but also impressed with his heart.
I said to her, " I am very impressed with the commitment to make my customers feel good. Thank you very much I can only speak in a language that I shouldn't be magnificent that I listen to it and I feel goosebumps.
But in fact, I want to tell her that she makes me know the value of working with the heart. Not focused on the only money, but she does this job with an attitude that you see that it can make those who come to use the service. Happy go home and you can't give up if he doesn't get that happiness from the career you do. She has no line that this is my job - that's my job. You are happy to give help without a share from colleagues. This makes the organization (shop) at you Work, live, benefit and keep customers from running away.
This is a matter of "value" of work.
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I walk out of the shop and ask myself how much work we are doing. We try to pay attention to let those who read, can see our work feel good or do we just to finish it. Wait to get paid
If we are not good, do we think about developing skills or not. If we are good, how much do we think about helping colleagues and important questions -- What do we think about the work we do? How much do we see how much we see it if we see? - I believe that we will be dedicated. No different than the third chiropractor.
I walked into the shop, started with a disappointed experience, but walked out of the shop with the first time. That's not just relax, but I felt at the same time.
Same job, done with different attitude. Different value.
I will go back to this massage shop
I want a massage with someone who sees the value of being a chiropractor.Translated
i am satisfied with my job because 在 謙預 Qianyu.sg Facebook 的最佳貼文
【賭上靈魂的女人】
青竹蛇兒口,黃蜂尾上針,兩者皆不毒,最毒婦人心。
I have a Bazi client, who has been a social escort for over a decade.
She didn't tell me the truth at the start. In fact, she "challenged" me to use my 6th sense and offered her Bazi.
I do not need your Bazi to read you inside out. Also, Bazi analysis is a highly methodological and scientific method to understand a person's past, present and future Destiny. I'm no medium. There is no 6th sense needed.
Over the many short messages before our meeting, she expressed her shock that I could read so much from merely her words.
I didn't have her birth details at that time, nor had I seen a single photo of hers.
With the internet era, a competent Metaphysics practitioner must have the ability to dissect a person's true character and intention, even from a simple "Hi".
Impossible? Too judgmental? You just haven't met a seasoned human scanner in real life. Or you don't know the true you well enough to see the rock hard truth in our words.
While messaging me questions about a (legitimate) business of hers, I replied with a verse written by my Grandmaster, Living Buddha Lian Sheng:
"君子愛財,取之有道。
不義之財雖到手,
無限後患跟著來。"
(While wealth is covetable, a gentleman makes his wealth through just and ethical means.
Ill gotten wealth, though in your hands, will elicit endless troubles pouring your way.)
She was astounded and asked, "Do you actually know what my job is? This is shocking..."
I guess I passed her challenge with flying colours.
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She wasn't a sex worker, due to harsh circumstances like severe poverty or mountains of heavy medical bills for her family.
A drunk gang rape incident in her uni days changed her views on men and she wanted to take revenge on men. She lived a life of drugs and alcohol in between her lectures.
The way I see it, is her obsession for money that caused her downfall.
On one hot summer day in 2006, she answered a social escort advertisement. She was barely 21 and was influenced by what she read online.
The "Mama-san" who looked her over told her she needed to put on weight.
She was surprised. Wasn't it easier to earn money with a slim figure?
The Mama-san snapped, "Nonsense. Most men dislike a woman who is too slim. They prefer those with some flesh."
She silently made a promise to herself to swallow more burgers.
Her first client was an Arabic businessman. She was paid US500 for one hour.
That virgin taste of easy money lured her deeper and deeper into the abyss.
Clients of powerful backgrounds, Singapore and overseas, single and married, private and government sectors...one-on-one, multiple players, mass orgies...
She lived like a bird freed from her cage. Suddenly she could buy anything she desired, just by sweet talking and giving lusty men access to her nubile body. She was in and out of hotels, as frequently as 5 times a day.
The carefree lifestyle, the freedom of not answering to any boss and those money that poured from the sky was her drug.
In her own words, she was "the woman that all wives curse and fear".
She referred to herself as the woman the wife will loathe to find traces of existence, when the wife checks her husband's handphone with trembling hands.
It was as if she took pride in that.
How did her cause of seeking revenge on men become a twisted path of demolishing other women's marriages?
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It didn't take her long to accumulate 6-figures in her bank account.
The more money she had, however, the more insecure she became.
She worried about losing it all. She deeply craved the warmth of love to complete her soul.
She was only 22. The client was manly, handsome and charming. He gave her $20K for her company.
She badly wanted him for her own. To be his wife.
With $100,000 withdrawn, she gave it all to her 2nd Mama-san. She decided she would use black magic to lock his heart. And soul.
But it was a fraud. The Mama-san started exhorting from her.
She was desperate and down to her last $2. She began stealing from her family and lying to feed the incessant demands and threats from her Mama-san.
She gradually realised this was her retribution of selling her body for quick money.
However, this new realisation didn't change her a bit.
She met a new client, Dave. He was a married man. It was love at first sight for her.
The initial joy she had from the money and attention he showered her blinded her wisdom to the extramarital affair.
She stayed in one of Hong Kong's expensive apartments at a prime district. But it soon became an soulless shell of loneliness that prompted her suicide attempts.
Dave coldly dumped her like a hot potato, as he didn't wish to handle an emotionally volatile woman.
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Ken told her she bore an uncanny resemblance to his first love. She fell hard for his sweet words and gentle demeanour.
He weaved a forlorn tale of an emotionally abusive and lonely marriage, and how it was impossible for him not to to be attracted to her.
They travelled greatly and dined at expensive restaurants.
To have a married man giving his heart to her, was like tasting the forbidden apple. That first juicy bite satiated her craving to be desired. And to win another woman.
This time, she decided she would use black magic again to break up his marriage. She coveted that role of his wife. A permanent and lasting relationship, finally.
Black magic uses the dark forces of ghosts to carry out the client's wishes. She paid a good US$10,000 for a famous sorcerer and another US$4000 for her Thai amulet and mud puppet.
Did she capture Ken in the end?
They got into physical fights crazily. The amulet that controlled the ghosts backfired, and her sanity was devoured by the ghosts.
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Her craziness drove her to swallow 200 sleeping pills and cut her wrists. ANYTHING to have him stay with her. Ken was horrified and visited her daily at the hospital. She felt triumphant. Finally, he was at her beck and call.
The happiness was short-lived. After her discharge, he broke up with her when he was on an overseas stint.
She went absolutely berserk and grabbed a knife to her throat. It felt that the ghosts wielded full control of her mind and body. Her mum kept yelling at her.
The realisation of truth came too late for her: A man, who lied to his wife and had an affair, will never be honest with her. Once a liar, always a liar.
She was warded into the high-dependancy unit at the mental hospital. Everyday, she was surrounded by suicidal and high-risk patients. They were bounded at their feet and hands. It was a petrifying sight. Was this the end of her life? She wasn't even 28. How did she allowed a man to destroy her prime years?
She sought to understand love and karma. She delved into Buddhist books, wanting to know what caused her to lose her mind. She started to have deep regret about taking short cuts in life and her laziness in earning money the ethical way. She saw, on her hands, the fresh blood of people's happiness that she had killed.
But the greed and anxiety in her couldn't be satisfied with a regular job. Or a single man who doesn't make enough to provide for her.
She was needy, attention-seeking and quarrelsome. I had called her a yoyo. I had spent many hours over a few months, replying to her messages.
Every day, she fought hard against the temptation to take up another escort job
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「捨邪歸正」
I lost count how many Masters she sought advice from before she found me online.
She read my posts and was amazed by my tenacity to take failures.
She watched my video on suicide and became aware of the Hell that all suicide victims go to. To repeat that act of killing themselves every day at the same time they died.
Among the many things I said at our consultation, I could tell her the age range she sold herself and that it was a elder lady who gave her the chance. She was surprised at my accuracy.
I told her the only way out was to sincerely repent for her past misdeeds. Blind listening to Buddhist chants and sutras would do nothing to change her fate. That is passive. Being active is to recite it and abide by the precepts.
I instructed her to write out her story in as much details as possible, to lead other sex workers, or wannabes, suicidal people and men with affairs to the Right Path.
This was one of the fastest ways I know that can change a disastrous life around.
All the Thai amulets, crystals and pendants she stashed in her room MUST go. She spoke of their decreasing power over time, and it seemed like a never-ending black hole as she kept on buying more and more to help her legitimate business.
She asked whether she would be able to get a publisher to buy her story.
I told her to forget about making money from her book. Give it for free. Post it online. Somehow, somewhere, everywhere. Get the story out. Fast.
When her boyfriend left her a sum of money, I insisted that she returned it. Don't take money that you didn't earn it rightfully. She said that was her breakup fee. I put my feet down, and said it was a proper relationship between two singles, and she caused the breakup. Why would she need money for loving a man who had loved her?
She promised she would write her story.
But she lied to me. Just like how she lied of making the $49 donation the next day, before seeking a Bazi consultation with me.
She went to the Guan Yin Temple at Waterloo Street, and sought a divination stick. It was her favourite activity whenever she was troubled or at a dilemma.
Right after she left the temple, she messaged and questioned why she received a 下簽 (bad lot) for my recommendation.
I asked for the number of the divination lot and the actual question she posed.
"I want to write a story about my life to encourage women not to sell their bodies and for married men not to have affairs. I may be hurt or sabotaged by people, so please protect me."
That didn't sound like a question. But the Bodhisattva had a way in teaching sentient beings.
I was dumbfounded at the Bodhisattva's omnipresent accuracy and foresight, when I saw the divination number.
It was a bad lot indeed, but not because of the solution I gave to my client.
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「莊子試妻」
Zhuangzi was a famous and well-respected Chinese philosopher of the Warring States Period.
One day at the mountains, he walked past a new grave and saw a woman kneeling over the freshly turned soil, hurriedly fanning it.
Not understanding the woman's behaviour, Zhuangzi asked for her intention.
The woman replied, that her husband lied beneath the soil. Before he died, he had said she could only remarry, when the soil of his grave dried. It was the rainy season at that time, hence her fervent fanning, so that she could quickly seek a new man.
Zhuangzi shook his head, when he heard of her heartlessness.
Unknown to many, Zhuangzi was an accomplished Taoist practitioner. With his supernatural powers, he helped the woman to dry the soil almost immediately. Thrilled at the dried grave, the widow gave her fan to Zhuangzi and hurried down the mountain.
Zhuangzi returned home, singing and waving the fan. His wife, Tian, questioned where he got the fan from. When she heard of the widow, Tian was so angry that she tore the fan into pieces and called the widow shameless.
Zhuangzi pacified his wife and said he had faith in her chastity.
A few days later, he fell very sick and died. Tian was saddened at her husband's sudden death and wept in sorrow
At his funeral, a very handsome young man showed up with his old servant. He said he was Zhuangzi's student, and a son of an important government official.
He wanted to perform the rites of a dutiful student, and helped in his teacher's funeral, by watching vigil for three years.
His good looks caught the eye of the newly minted widow, Tian. She sought to know more his eligibility from the old servant.
Within 20 days, they got married.
On the night of their wedding, the young man was struck with an ear-shattering migraine. Tian anxiously asked the old servant for help. The old servant said his young master had this strange illness since birth. The only cure was to consume the brain of a human. Back in his hometown, the father would take the brain from the prisoners sentenced for death for his son.
But in this remote countryside, where could they find a human brain as medicine?
Tian thought of her dead husband. She promptly took an axe and hacked open his coffin.
Zhuangzi leapt out from the coffin and mused this now-famous Chinese verse, "青竹蛇兒口,黃蜂尾上針,兩者皆不毒,最毒婦人心。"
Tian proclaimed that she heard noises in her coffin and wanted to see if Zhuangzi was alive.
Zhuangzi questioned the red finery on her and the red decor in the house. Tian argued that she wanted to welcome him. So she donned on the wedding finery to get married with him again.
The young man and his servant walked in. They were actually manifestations of Zhuangzi's supernatural powers.
Tian was so ashamed of her heartless and deciteful act that she eventually hung herself.
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Every divination lot comes with a poem and a background story. This was the background story on my client's divination lot.
The poem states:
因名喪德如何事 卻恐吉中變化凶
酒醉不知何處去 青松影里夢朦朧
Virtues are destroyed in pursuit of self gain. Fear that the auspicious will morph into bad.
The drunkard knows nowhere to go. In the green forest a shadow lingers in a dreamy haze.
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It is common to encounter clients that lack faith in my recommendations.
Some will ask many questions after our session, wanting to know why my solutions will help them or how I derive my solutions. There are also emotional clients who would flare up and lose all their manners, when they can't get an answer that they like from me.
I don't ask my doctor what ingredient goes into the making of my cough syrup and how it works scientifically in my body.
I take action by drinking it as prescribed. Because based on past experience, I trust that his medicine will work to help my predicament. I don't drink, I continue to be sick, I don't see results.
My suggestions don't require my clients to consume unknown medical liquids into their bodies. Yet few clients take action, when it comes to their Destiny.
Despite me being recommended by their friend who experienced positive results with my help, and have genuine testimonials to justify my fees.
That divination lot was Bodhisattva telling me: My client will not write her story, for she does not sincerely regret her past acts.
It was also a grave reprimand to her to mend her ways before it was too late.
But she didn't see the divination lot in the same manner as I did.
Not only does she lack faith in my words, she distrusted the holy words of the Bodhisattva too.
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Give money, buy love, buy fame, buy business, buy wealth and buy that. No need hard work.
Such is the sexy appeal of many ghostly amulets. They appeal to people who want many things in life but refuse to follow the Law of Karma, to sow seeds the right way.
I see one client bidded for a Thai amulet from a Facebook Live. Another wanted to buy a multi-coloured bracelet, because "so pretty! Got power some more!" Luckily, his Wife who had learned some Buddhism from me stopped him.
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In March 2017, this client sent me a message:
"Hi Ji Qian, hope you are well. Good luck for your Home Fengshui For A Happy Marriage tomorrow.
I was looking thru our past convos where we first started speaking online. Yes, Im a spoilt brat and Im a yoyo porcupine. I look at a sentence that is poignant - "the day you stop relying on men is the day you become prosperous". I wonder if that day will ever come. I I finally understand that my Facebook Adverts getting disabled is due to my past karma. And I haven't finished writing the repentance story which u instructed me to write in August. I think I know that I'm half-hearted in repentance, that's why I can't bring myself to finish the story. I'm just wondering if I am supposed to survive on my savings till my Facebook Advert Account get reactivated.
I haven't been able to find any new product to sell since XXX (sales also failing miserably). I am weak-willed and too reliant on men. The only thing keeping me from committing suicide is my mum and because I'm reminded by Shifu's words that a suicide victim is doomed to repeat the same act."
菩薩英明。
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Last year, I had casually asked if I could share her story. She promptly gave me the permission.
Yesterday, one client called me unempathetic towards him. The way he wrote suddenly jolted my memory of this client. I had taken too long to write her story.
I told her to write in English and Chinese, and she did part of it.
The account you read of her past was adapted from her written work. Though there are many grammar and structural mistakes, she does write very well.
The poison in our hearts will eventually consume our souls if we do not purge it out. What joy is there when we resort to brutal force to keep a man by our side? Should he chooses to leave, that does not discount the value of our self worth. A man who isn't interested in you for the right reason isn't attractive.
The same goes for men who cheat or pay for sex. You are ruining another woman's life when you satisfy your lust.
When you inflict suffering on another being, in return, you get pain and suffering on yourself. So don't sow the seed in the first place. Repentance done right over a period of time can prevent your past bad seeds from germinating, and reduce your suffering.
If there is any merit in sharing her story here, I dedicate all of it to my client.
May she have the inner wisdom and stability to lead a virtuous life.
May she always be surrounded by good teachers to show her the way.
May her vile affinities be broken and replaced by good ones.
May her greed and hatred be subdued.
May she repent for her past transgressions in time.
No matter how long it may take, one step forward into the Light is one step away from Darkness.
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ཨོཾ་མ་ཎི་པདྨེ་ཧཱུྂ༔
Om Ma Ni Peh Me Hom