Ustaz Datuk Kazim Elias ada share 4 punca kenapa satu-satu perkahwinan tu tak bahagia.
Sebab duit ke? Sebab rupa? Atau sebab agama semata?
1. Punca pertama ialah sebab semua benda isteri buat. Basuh baju isteri, kemas isteri, masak isteri. Sedangkan isteri ni cuma dituntut untuk layan suami je. Jadi, tak perlu ke isteri buat semua tu? Isteri solehah dia TOLONG buat kerja. Bantu sama membantu. Masing-masing kena faham erti tanggungjawab.
...Continue ReadingUstaz Datuk Kazim Elias has shared 4 reasons why the marriage is unhappy.
Because of money? Because of the look? Or just because of religion?
The first 1. reasons are because all the wives do. Wash wife's clothes, clean the wife, cook the wife. While the wife is only claimed to treat her husband. So, don't the wife have to do all that? His pious wife HELP him do the job. Help together help. Everyone needs to understand the meaning of responsibility.
Ustaz said it, the more husband feels easy to relax and do nothing, the easier he forgets his responsibility. It's not that you're going back to tell your husband ′′ You, starting today I don't want to wash the clothes what's all cooking
No no no.
Difficult things will be easy when you do it together. Don't be happy together. When it's difficult, it's just a couple. No no no 🙅🏻 ♀️🙅🏻 ♀️🙅🏻 ♀️
2. Second reasons why we don't understand the ATTITUDE of our own partners.
It's easy to take care of this man as Ustaz Kazim said.
1-Feed full food. Zahir and inner heart. May everything be considered a worship. Amen oh Lord.
2-Where the husband went, followed! Hahaha 😂
As long as you can follow, follow.
3. The third reason is because we don't accept that is our partner. Many people only appreciate someone and then someone dies. So it's not good to wait for your husband or wife to die and then to say, ′′ Nothing is like my husband / wife." 😢
We won't know our partner as long as we don't share the same house, sekatil, pillow with him. Even his parents won't know him as deep as we know him. That's why, the wife knows her husband than her mother she knows her.
But a smart man, a religious man, a pious woman will always consider that the partner is a GIFT.
There is a couple, be grateful. Because there are still many who still Allah doesn't grant his prayers for couple. So be thankful.
Not happy nowadays, want to get a partner who prays, who reads, whose living is not crafty. So if we get a partner like that, learn to appreciate even though she is not beautiful to boroi to what.
Hat boroi, tak lawa, no comey to anything, there is Allah nak test us, which one of us is the most LAUGHING. Choosing religion, overcomes everything.
4. The last one, the reason is when someone doesn't become happy with each other. Yee, learn to be a fun couple.
If our partner likes so much, so we try to give so much or more. The most important thing is to work, let the rest decide. God willing.
The Ustaz shared again, this disaster he came in 3 forms:
• EXAMS
• TERRIBLE
• BULLET
If we feel that in marriage we're always a disaster, let's see these three. Which one is actually that Allah wants to show.
The test is for the believers. He gave an example, Asiah who is pious married to the evil Pharoah. That's a test for him.
The one that Allah tests someone is soleh solehah, the prayer is not left, the recitation is not missing, the fasting is full but the years of not having a That's a test of his name. And this test is no other than to lift the position of taqwa and our faith higher. Be patient and be happy with Allah's test.
The second, the misfortune that mai in the form of reprimand. Allah sends this because Allah wants to tell us to return to the goodness.
For example, we are careless of chasing money here, rich here and there, papppp Allah gives an accident. Can't find the cause of sustenance anymore. That's a warning. Maybe we don't pray humble. We make worship but a lot of crafty. So, Allah wants to flick a little to give advice. Want to let us go back to Him. So, don't talk about Allah. Allah doesn't do anything in vain
The last thing is this disaster come in the form of bullet or punishment.
In this marriage, if we want peace, we have to learn to ACCEPT. Accept what Allah gives. Acceptance is our partner. Accept all Allah's tests.
If it's one moment later Allah tests it without sustenance for a long mate, no fortune to be with.
′′ If you still can, hold it well, if you can't, let it go well."
Always learn to steal husband / wife's heart. Learn to take all the rewards that Allah wants to give in marriage. Learn to be a person who thirsts for reward.
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Kau ingat senang jadi mak bapak?
0-12 bulan : Kalau kau rasa jaga baby tu susah kau silap. Jaga baby paling senang (kot?), cukup makan cukup susu tidurlah dia cuma susah part kembong, manja (melekap macam anak panda) atau waktu main dia ikut zone US. 😎
1-2 tahun : saat paling mencabar bila dia dah pandai berjalan, memunggah, menyepah dah 1 hal nak kene selesaikan semua benda dari pagi sampai malam. Ini part yang kau sentiasa kene monitor dia 24/7 ! Kalau tak ade je benda pelik dia buat termasuk tabur bedak 1 rumah atau gunting rambut kau masa kau tertidur. 😏
2-3 tahun : saat paling menduga sebab inilah saat keemasan tantrum dia! Berguling depan kedai, meraung tak nak jalan, melalak dalam mall. Menjerit-jerit tak dapat naik kereta mainan.. eh macam-macam hal lah time-time ni 😂
4-5 tahun : saat buat perangai! Buat perangai tak nak mandi tak nak makan tak nak pakai baju tak nak jalan tak nak segala benda semata tak nak pegi skool (taska). Ulang setiap pagi selama setahun sambil ulang no.1 untuk adik dia.
5-6 tahun : saat kecemerlangan. Okey tahap ni boleh tarik nafas lega sikit sebab dia dah ade kawan boleh nyanyi-nyanyi balik sekolah (tadika) tapi kau jangan lupa ulangan dari atas untuk part adik dia pulak..kah..kah..kah.. 😜
7 tahun : ini nasib..dapat yang pergi sekolah balik sekolah okey alhamdulillah tapi dapat yang pergi wangi balik belacan padahal baru hari isnin kau urut je lah dada kau laki bini. Ha..ha..ha.. 😂😂
8-12 tahun : tak banyak masalah di sekolah kecuali part susah nya nak suruh buat kerja sekolah! Rasa macam menyanyi hari-hari duk ulang suara 😭 kalau yang no.1 perangai cemerlang dari darjah 1 tapi yang no.2 kau kene sabar tahap langit ke-7 dengan perangai #ikutsukaakulahnakbuatketak 😭😅 Tu belum masuk part hari-hari hilang pensil, hari-hari hilang pemadam, hari-hari hilang buku! 💆
Ohye sambil "menyanyi" sambil ulang dari part baby sampai ke bawah untuk adik-adik dia. Kah..kah..kah..
13-17 tahun : cabaran remaja kita sambung lain kali okey ✌
Sebenarnya jadi mak ayah ni best tau, so korang yang belum jadi mak ayah tu aku doakan 1 hari nanti jika diizinkan Allah SWT korang akan dapat rasa macam ni juga, cepat & lambat hanya Allah je yang tahu. Pada yang tak tahu erti kekuasaan Allah SWT tu baik kau diam jangan tanya-tanya orang bila nak ade anak.
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Do you think it's easy to be parents?
0-12 months: If you feel like taking care of your baby, it's hard to be wrong Taking care of the most easy baby (maybe? ), enough to eat enough milk, sleep, it's just difficult to have bloated part, spoiled (sticking like a panda child) or playing time he follows the zone US. 😎
1-2 years: the most challenging moment when he's good at walking, unloading, squeezing 1 things to solve everything from morning to night. This is the part that you always monitor him 24/7! If there's nothing strange, he'll do it including sprinkle powder for 1 houses or cut your hair while you're asleep. 😏
2-3 years old: the most suspected time is the golden tantrum of her! Rolling in front of the shop, roared no way, melak in the mall. Screaming can't ride the toy train.. eh it's all the time 😂
4-5 years: when behaving! If you don't want to take a bath, you don't want to wear clothes, you don't want to go to school (nursery). Repeat every morning for a year while repeating no. 1 for her sister.
5-6 years: a moment of brilliance. Okay this level can take a breath of relief because he already has a friend who can sing back to school (kindergarten) but don't forget to repeat from the top for his sister's part.. kah.. kah.. kah.. kah.. 😜
7 years: this is the fate.. got the one who went to school back from school okay alhamdulillah but got the one who went to smell good back belacan even though it's only Monday you'll massage your Ha.. ha.. ha.. 😂😂
8-12 years: there aren't many problems in school except for the hard part to ask to do school work! Feels like singing every day on repeat the voice 😭 if no. 1 brilliant behaviour from 1th grade but no. 2 you have to be patient with the 7th sky level with the attitude #followsukaakulahnakbuatketak 😭😅 That hasn't entered the part of the days of losing the pencil, the days of losing the eraser, losing the book 💆
Ohye while ′′ singing ′′ repeating the baby part to the bottom for his younger siblings. Kah.. kah.. kah..
13-17 years: our teenage challenge continue next time okay ✌
Actually being parents is the best, so those who haven't become parents, I pray for you 1 days if Allah SWT allowed you will feel like this too, sooner & later only Allah knows. To those who don't know the meaning of the power of Allah SWT is better to keep silent don't ask people when you want
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Ustaz Datuk Kazim Elias ada share 4 punca kenapa satu-satu perkahwinan tu tak bahagia.
Sebab duit ke? Sebab rupa? Atau sebab agama semata?
1. Punca pertama ialah sebab semua benda isteri buat. Basuh baju isteri, kemas isteri, masak isteri. Sedangkan isteri ni cuma dituntut untuk layan suami je. Jadi, tak perlu ke isteri buat semua tu? Isteri solehah dia TOLONG buat kerja. Bantu sama membantu. Masing-masing kena faham erti tanggungjawab.
...Continue ReadingUstaz Datuk Kazim Elias has shared 4 reasons why the other marriage is unhappy.
Is it because of money? Because of the look? Or just because of religion?
1. The first reason is because everything wives do. Wash the wife's clothes, clean the wife, cook the wife. While this wife is only claimed to treat her husband. So, don't the wife have to do all that? His solehah wife HELPS to do work. Help and help. Everyone needs to understand the meaning of responsibility.
Ustaz said, the more husband feels easy to relax and do nothing, the easier he forgets his responsibility. It's not coming back, you're going to say to your husband ′′ You, starting today I don't want to wash all the clothes."
No no no.
Difficult things will be easy to do together. Don't be easy together. When it's hard to pass to the partner. No no ♀️🙅🏻 🙅🏻 ♀️🙅🏻 ♀️
2. Second reasons is because we don't understand the ATTITUDE of our respective partners.
It's easy to take care of this man as Ustaz Kazim says.
1-Feed full-full food. Zahir dan Batin. May everything be considered worship. Aamiin ya Rabb.
2-Where did the husband go, follow! Hahaha 😂
As long as you can follow, follow
3. The third reason is because we don't accept that is our partner. Many people only appreciate someone after someone dies. So it's not good to wait for your husband to die and then you'll say, ′′ nothing is the same as my husband / wife before." 😢
We won't know our partner as long as we don't share our house, together, a pillow with him. Even his parents won't know him as long as we know him. That's why the wife knows her husband than her mother knows her.
But a wise man, a religious man, a religious woman will always consider that the partner is a GIFT.
There's a couple, be grateful. Because there are still many who are still Allah who doesn't answer their prayers for couples. So be grateful.
Not happy nowadays, want to get a partner who prays, who reads, who doesn't know what all. So if we get a couple hat like that, learn to appreciate it even though she is not beautiful to boroi.
Hat boroi, tak lawa, not comey to anything, there is Allah nak test us, which one of us is the most FEARFUL. Choosing the religious, overcoming everything.
4. The last one, the reason is when someone doesn't become fun with each other. Ye, learn to be a fun person each other's partner.
If our partner likes it so much, so we need to give so much or more. The most important thing is to work, the others let Allah decide. God willing.
The Ustaz has shared again, this disaster has come in 3 forms:
• TEST
• REGRET
• BULLET
If we feel that in marriage is always a disaster, let's see these three. Which one is actually what Allah wants to show.
The test is for the believers. He gave an example, Asiah who is pious to marry an evil Pharaoh. That's a test for him.
The one that Allah tests someone is pious, the prayer is not left, the reading is not missed, the fasting is full but years of not having a child. That's his name test. And this test is nothing else to lift our position of taqwa and faith higher. Be patient and be happy with Allah's test.
The second one, the disaster that comes in the form of reprimand. This is what Allah sends because Allah wants to ask us to return to goodness.
Example, we are not carelessly chasing money here, rich here, Allah gives accident. Can't find the cause of sustenance. That's a reprimand. Maybe we pray without humility. We do worship but it's a lot of crafty. So, Allah wants to flick a little to give advice. Want to give us back to Him. So, don't talk about Allah. Allah does not do anything in vain.
The last one is this disaster, come in the form of bullet or punishment.
In marriage, if we want peace, we have to learn to accept it. Accept what Allah gives. Acceptance is our partner. Acceptance for all Allah's tests.
If one second Allah will test the provision of a long soulmate, there is no fortune to be together.
′′ If you still can, hold it well, if you can't afford it, let it go well."
Always learn to steal husband / wife's heart. Learn to take all the rewards that Allah wants to give in marriage. Learn to be a greedy person ❤️
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