關於 it doesn't make sense to wait for me ，我們在網路上蒐集到這些相關的討論、資訊與評價

Bertunang dan berkahwin ni nampak indah tapi realitinya hanya yang melalui je tahu. Siapa yang rancang nak bertunang tu, korang tengok ujian dan cabaran yang selalu orang bertunang hadap. Ikut dan hayati baik baik , yang mana buruk jadikan tauladan dan yang mana baik ambil sebagai pedoman 🌸

Situasi 1: DIUJI DENGAN MASALAH KEWANGAN
godaan: gunalah duit sikit untuk melabur. lepas dua tiga bulan dapat duit lebih, boleh guna tampung majlis. kahwin banyak pakai duit. kurang sike...
Continue ReadingGetting engaged and married looks beautiful but the reality is only those who know. Whoever plans to get engaged, look at the tests and challenges that people always get engaged in. Follow and appreciate good good, which is bad make an example and which is better take as a guideline 🌸

Situation 1: TESTED WITH FINAL PROBLEMS
Temptation: use some money to invest. After two three months of earning extra money, you can use the event. Married a lot with money. Just a little less now. later can replace more

IMPORTANT NOTE: make sure the ready-kept marriage money is not teased by side. If you have extra money, you can use it. But if that money is enough for marriage needs. It's good to prioritize the important thing, discuss with your partner to decide. There's one case, regretting myself because of using dowry money to join the business, at last, I didn't get money Wedding has to be tough

Situation 2. PRESENTATION OF UNLIMITED GUEST (ex)
temptation: i love you again. If I propose to you? I'm waiting for you. I'm willing to wait for you until you divorce and etc

IMPORTANT REMINDER: why did she become an ex? because she is EXperienced! let go and start! Appreciate those who appreciate more. if it wasn't a good love before. it's time to prove we can be the best love! Let go.. start a new story that can be the most beautiful story for children and grandchildren. God willing.

Situation 3: TESTED WITH ATTITUDE
temptation: suddenly engagement becomes too sensitive, angry, less patient

IMPORTANT NOTE, when you want to marry. Definitely putting us in a stressful level. Because there's a lot of things to think about, settled. Added to the feeling of commitment (feeling like a husband, wife), so he becomes more care. Simple things become complicated. The devil has added a dose to cancel the good things. It's getting more exploding! Patience.. this time everyone has to play a role. You won't settle things in anger. Invite to pray, to study. take ablution. When two two are calm. Discuss without emotion. the important thing is. Remember the original intention! Married because of Allah. Look at the problem. Discuss the discharge. Don't focus on the cause. lower your ego and learn to accept and listen. insyaAllah will be better than before fighting.

Situation 4: TESTED WITH HOUBT
temptation: do you want to marry him? but why?. don't you feel young anymore? Many more ambitions to achieve? Are you ready to be a wife? and etc

This one is all natural. Married because I want to accept Allah. If you want to chase the world, until when will we stop chasing? maybe we die running after him. Stop thinking negatively! No one is ready. The most important thing is try to be ready. Seek knowledge (read books, talk and others). Is it a question that I can't be a wife or a daughter that's the experience. Repair from mistakes. example, cooking is not delicious, after this fix the cooking. We won't be perfect. But we can work hard, right? Change the mindset!

Temptation II: is it true that I want to marry him. If you want to say (rich or handsome or good or good or....) that A person looks better than my fiance
* istigfar. back with the original intention. Married because of what? This is a partner even though we clearly see the shortcomings, his weaknesses, we can't hate. even though her face may be full of acne and others. We feel calm looking at it. When you fight, you still feel like being together. Praying to Allah so that the love of him will be stronger, the love of Allah is stronger

Situation 5. PRESSURE OF FAMILY & FAMILY OF FUTURE HUSBAND

Temptation: When you know the family of future couples, setting up dowry, etc, there may be a terrible sense of their decision.

No matter what, we don't judge someone too quickly while we don't know them completely.
Family, feeling hearted in the family, starting to feel right to my mother-in-law will like me, is it true that my brother-in-law will be willing to me, this is all from the devil who always haunts us to cancel our good intentions

Situation 6. STARTING TO BE CAREFUL

After all sorts of tests came over, some of them started to give up and weren't interested in continuing the engagement period.

Survey first the cause of giving heart and try to solve it as long as you can.

Situation 7. EMOTIONS ARE NOT STABILOUS

Some are not happy to sit down when tying the engagement rope. Sometimes sad, angry, too happy, and some keep thinking of his fiance while some have long known his own heart.

When you're friends, you might not feel how serious this relationship is, and how committed you are to a marriage that's about to happen. So, maybe this reason makes you restless and anxious.

Situaso 8. AFRAID OF WRONG DECISION

Temptation: Between phobia and challenges during engagement, some start to show up the real 'attitude'. So, you start to feel doubtful about your choice.

According to Suzana Ghazali, a Syarie Family Psychology Consultant, the Islamic Family Law decides that an individual can obtain a replacement if an engagement is decided by the other side without a strong reason.

Thus, you deserve to receive any form of your gift to her, especially if you spent a lot of money on a wedding to be held.

Situation 9. JEALOUS BLIND

Oh yes, sometimes there are people who suddenly get too jealous and always want to control their fiance's movement. This is a challenge when engagement is common.

While this man is not yet entitled to be obeyed by the woman before pronouncing the marriage ceremony. So is a woman who doesn't have the right to ask for any form of burden from the man.

However, as a Muslim, we must keep our friendship even where we are, whether we are engaged or not

Situation 10. BUSY OF WEDDING MARRIAGE

Busy ahead of wedding ceremony! In the last moment, it's not impossible that it doesn't go as planned. However, this is beyond our control.

Challenges during engagement among them can happen technical mistakes in quotations, change in ceremony, wedding dresses don't fit or wrong sewing, and more

p / s: just share good intentions, want to be halal. It's not easy, there are many challenges that have to be taken before the legal bond.
Want to get married right. whatever it is, every test. Seek Allah! The test is a sign that we need to be stronger with God. May this sharing be blessed. May Allah accept it. Actually, as Muslims, we have to believe that all the challenges during engagement that come are from Allah, as a test to His servants.

Therefore, no matter what the challenges when engaged happen, we should always accept and ask for help from the Almighty. Truly, Allah knows more about something we don't know.

In addition, try to get closer to Allah before we set foot in the household, in preparation of being the leader and mentor of the family institutions that will be established.

As in surah Al-Imran verse 54:

′′ And They Plan, Allah also plans, And ALLAH is the best Planner ′′

📸: Elshaa NatashaaTranslated

Assalammualaikum wbt Semua

Apa khabar?

Semoga anda semua sentiasa di dalam Rahmat & Kasih Sayang Allah swt serta baginda Rasulullah SAW.

Pagi ini saya rasa sedih di atas kehilangan seorang guru yang baik iaitu Al-Fadhil Ustaz Dato’ Ismail Kamus. Dan Allah swt ambil beliau pada hari, malam dan bulan yang penuh barokah. Mengenali beliau ketika hayatnya, saya yakin beliau telah Allah swt pada saat yang menjadi tanda-tanda pemergian ramai orang-orang yang soleh iaitu pada malam jumaat atau hari jumaat.

Arwah ayah saya juga kebetulan meninggal dunia pada waktu maghrib malam jumaat pada 4 November 2010.

Semoga mereka dan semua orang kita sayangi yang telah kembali lebih awal dari kita termasuk kita satu ketika nanti ditempatkan ruh di kalangan orang-orang soleh! Diampuni dosa, dilapangkan liang kubur kita semua serta dilepaskan dari siksaan kubur.

Mohon sama-sama baca Surah Al-Fatihah dihadiahkan buat ruh beliau serta ruh-ruh orang yang terdekat dengan kita.

Al-Fatihah.... Mohon baca seketika sampai habis.

Sesungguhnya waktu kita amat singkat. Dan saat kematian arwah ayah saya pada November 2010 benar-benar menyedarkan saya. Saya berlumba dengan masa dan kematian. Dan saya mesti buat apa yang saya mampu untuk beri manfaat kepada orang lain dengan niat setiap manfaat adalah menjadi pahala buat kedua ibu-bapa saya.

Dan saya memilih untuk berkongsi ilmu dengan membina RichWorks International sebagai sebuah perniagaan specialised dalam membangunkan usahawan-usahawan dari Zero hingga mereka pula mampu beri manfaat kepada ramai orang samada beri peluang pekerjaan kepada ramai orang, beri peluang perniagaan atau bantu selesaikan masalah orang dengan produk atau servis berkualiti yang mereka boleh tawarkan.

Saya amat yakin dengan prinsip dari Hadis Rasulullah SAW ini, Sebaik-baik manusia adalah manusia yang bermanfaat untuk ramai orang lain.

Dan saya pilih untuk jadikan perniagaan sebagai salah satu cara untuk beri manfaat kepada ramai orang lain Insha Allah. Dan bimbing mereka yang mahu beri manfaat melalui membina perniagaan.

Apalah ertinya hidup sekadar hidup dan tidak banyak manfaat?

Takkan Allah swt lahirkan kita hanya untuk hidup biasa-biasa? Sekadar hidup, makan, tidur, kahwin, beranak dan tunggu mati?

Saya sentiasa percaya bahawa Allah swt tidak lahirkan saya dan ramai dari anda hanya untuk sekadar hidup.

Bak kata Prof Hamka,

Jika hidup sekadar hidup, babi dihutan juga hidup.

Jika kerja sekadar kerja, kera dihutan juga kerja.

Apa manfaat yang anda bawa ke dunia ini? Atau sebenarnya kita pilih nak buktikan yang Allah swt “ter” salah lahirkan kita ke dunia? Kita hanya bawa mudarat atau tidak ada manfaat?

Mana mungkin! Allah swt terlalu hebat dan Dia boleh jadikan kita lahir sebagai haiwan lain seperti nyamuk, kucing, unta, biawak but instead, Dia lahirkan kita sebagai manusia. Makhluk Dia yang diberi kemuliaan.

For what? You ni sebenarnya ciptaan Dia yang “membazir” wasted dan tidak ada manfaat?

Atau sebenarnya you boleh pilih menjadi seseorang yang banyak manfaat kebaikan kepada manusia sekeliling sekurang-kurangnya...

Jika kita tidak mampu menjadi mentari menyinari orang lain di waktu pagi atau lilin membakar diri untuk menerangi orang lain di waktu malam, janganlah pula kita menjadi api yang membinasakan orang lain.

Allah swt beri kita akal. Untuk apa? Untuk buat pilihan dan ilmu adalah penyuluh bagi akal untuk membuat pilihan yang terbaik.

Mudah-mudahan anda menjadi manusia yang bermanfaat kepada diri, keluarga dan orang lain Insha Allah!

Sebaik-baik manusia adalah manusia yang bermanfaat kepada ramai orang. - Hadis

Itulah impian hidup saya. Saya nak jadi manusia yang bermanfaat Insha Allah. Saya bukan sesiapa tapi saya cuba buat apa yang terdaya melalui perkongsian video-video percuma di Youtube, IG, Facebook yang kami kongsikan setiap hari. Dan Syukur kerana ramai yang beri feedback mereka dapat manfaat malah ada yang berjaya berniaga dan buat duit serta merubah kehidupan keluarga dengan amalkan apa yang dikongsikan.

Dan Insha Allah hari ini sampai ahad, ada di kalangan anda yang baru nak berniaga atau telah lama berniaga bakal hadir sesi Virtual Zoominar 3-hari Millionaire Marketing Mastery (MMM). Anda perlu tahu, MMM adalah kelas marketing saya yang terbukti benar-benar telah merubah hidup dan bisnes ramai orang dari zero sampai jutaan ringgit setahun jika bukan sebulan.

Pastikan anda fokus belajar dan berikan komitmen dari mula sampai habis! MMM ini telah melahirkan jutawan sepantas ada yang capai dalam masa 1-3 bulan selepas gila-gila mengaplikasikan apa yang di pelajari!

Semoga dengan asbab anda belajar dan capai tahap kewangan yang lebih baik, anda bukan sahaja dapat ubah hidup dan tahap kewangan diri serta keluarga, malah dapat bantu lebih ramai orang lain Insha Allah dengah zakat dan sedekah serta beri peluang pekerjaan kepada ramai!

Saya ingin melihat pencapaian anda Insha Allah langkah demi langkah Insha Allah sehingga saya dapat mentoring anda secara dekat dekat 1 to 1 soon Insha Allah!

Saya doakan All The Best dan Berkah untuk anda yang membaca ini!

Love

DAO
Assalamualaikum wbt everyone

How are you?

May all of you always be in the grace & love of Allah swt and his majesty rasulullah saw.

This morning I feel sad on the loss of a good teacher that is al-Fadhil Ustaz Dato ' Ismail Dictionary. And Allah swt takes him on a day, night and a month full of blessings. Knowing him during his life, I believe he has Allah swt at the moment that is the sign of the passing of many righteous people which is on Friday night or Friday.

My late father also happened to die during maghrib night Friday night on November 4, 2010.

May they and all our loved ones who have returned earlier than us including us once upon a time placed the spirit among the righteous! Forgiven by sin, our grave is opened all and released from the torture of the grave.

Please read the Surah Al-Fatihah to be gifted to his spirit and the spirit of the people who are close to us.

Al-Fatihah.... please read for a while until the end.

Indeed, our time is very short. And the moment of my late father's death in November 2010 really woke me up. I race with time and death. And I must do what I can to benefit others with the intention of every benefit is to be a reward for both my parents.

And I choose to share knowledge by building richworks international as a specialised business in developing entrepreneurs from zero until they are able to benefit many people whether to give a job opportunity to many people, give a business opportunity or help solve people's problems with products or services Quality they can offer.

I am very confident in the principle of the hadith of Rasulullah saw, the best of humans is a human being who is beneficial to many others.

And I choose to make business as one of the ways to benefit many other people insha Allah. And Guide those who want to benefit through building a business.

What does life mean just life and not much benefits?

Won't Allah swt give birth to us just to live a normal life? Just live, eat, sleep, marry, give birth and wait to die?

I always believe that Allah swt doesn't give birth to me and many of you just to be alive.

As Prof Hamka said,

If life is just life, the pig in the forest is also alive.

If work is just a job, the monkey in the forest is also working.

What benefits do you bring to this world? Or actually we choose to prove that Allah swt "Ter" is wrong to give birth to the world? We only bring harm or no benefit?

How is it possible! Allah swt is too great and he can make us born as other animals like mosquitoes, cats, camels, lizards but instead, he gave us as humans. His creature that was given glory.

For What? You are actually his "waste" creation and no benefit?

Or actually you can choose to be someone who has many benefits of kindness to humans around at least...

If we are not able to be the sun shining on others in the morning or the candle burn themselves to illuminate others at night, let us not be the fire that destroys others.

Allah swt gives us common sense. For What? To make choices and knowledge is the penyuluh of the mind to make the best choice.

May you be a human being who is beneficial to yourself, family and others insha Allah!

The best of humans is a human being that is beneficial to many people. - the hadith

That's the dream of my life. I want to be a useful human being insha Allah. I'm no one but I'm trying to do what I can through the sharing of free videos on Youtube, ig, Facebook that we share every day. And thankful that many people give their feedback can benefit but there are people who succeed in business and make money and change their family life by practicing what is shared.

And Insha Allah today until Sunday, some of you who are just about to do business or have been doing business for a long time will attend a virtual zoominar 3-Day Millionaire Marketing Mastery (mmm). You need to know, mmm is my marketing class that is proven to have really changed the life and business of many people from zero to millions of ringgit a year if not a month.

Make sure you focus on learning and give commitment from start to finish! Mmm this has given birth to a millionaire as soon as there is a achieve in 1-3 months after crazy apply what is learned!

Hopefully with the reason you learn and achieve a better financial level, you are not only able to change your life and financial level and family, even can help more people in sha Allah give zakat and charity and give a job opportunity to many!

I want to see your achievement insha Allah step by step insha Allah until I can mentoring you close near 1 TO 1 soon insha Allah!

I pray for all the best and blessings for you who read this!

Love love love love love love love love love love love

DaoTranslated

一個自以為是的外國人
訂了不買就算了,還惱羞成怒
Alfie Bolanos
是要多有名

還出賣介紹他的朋友
真令人看不起

文章大意:
他朋友跟我買了一隻奧創,然後介紹他跟我買
他跟我說他要買奧創與浩克
但浩克還沒發
我可以先幫他訂奧創
然後奧創到了~通知他付錢
他說沒錢~過幾天付
然後過了一周後跟我說她只要浩克
我就說你奧創我幫你訂了
怎麼可以不守信用說不要呢
然後他就不爽了
說我不知不知道他是誰
他是全加州最多收藏的人...八八八八八八之類了
(但一隻奧創的錢都沒付)
然後還說介紹他的人不老實的人要我等著看
但那個人已經付錢也取貨了

I can't help my self for not saying anything I think I should enlighten everyone by telling the details of my conversation with Alfie Bolanos and for everybody to understand more the real situation. Coz everybody has their own opinion regarding this matter. I don't want everyone falls into more and more misunderstanding. Well this Alfie Bolanos friend name Sean Senders bought Ultron first he doesn't have paypal account so he introduce me to Alfie Bolanos and mentioned that he gonna use his account in PayPal to pay me. After the transaction done in PayPal the day I got the money is the day I ship the Ultron to Sean as well. After this Sean got the Ultron this Alfie message me and place an order I said ok will inform him when the Ultron arrived. So when I got the Ultron I message him to inform him that his order is ready to ship. He said ok please send me the total cost in the receipt from PayPal I said ok. After I'm done making the receipt and sent him he ask me again about other thing the hulk I said it's free order and not yet published its coming soon. But if you want to place your order I can accept the reservation fee now. He said ok he is willing to pay for reservation fee and ask me to make another receipt this time for both Ultron and Hulk. When I'm done making it and sent to him he said he will pay me for the total cost. But here is the problem now no words from him after 3 days then the 4th day he replied saying an alibi that he is so busy at work and no time to reply me. Ten making promise again for the second time that he will pay me. And then waiting another day he replied me and saying same alibi he is busy and surely will pay ASAP but his ASAP that day over and the next day here another promises that he really want it and if I can wait for a few days more he gonna pay me. So I think this man is really no money to pay me . And then he message me again Saying that he is willing to pay partial first of the total amount. Still I am kind to him I told him I understand his situation. .. And I told him no need to pay me partial of the money coz its gonna cost him a lot because the PayPal will deduct 4% of the total money when ever you transferred and not to mention the bank service charge so I said to him just tell me when he can surely pay it. And he replied a few days so I said ok I will give you 1 week and I will reserved it for you. But after one week no replied and more than one week after he message me again and for what? that he doesn't want to buy the Ultron anymore just the Hulk. So that's the time I replied him what kind of person are you is this the way you do business? Why I said that ? First I'm confused am I talking to a child? A woman? Or a man ? Is he making a joke? I am upset and disappointed deeply disappointed because I treat him nice and kind why deceiving me?? My point is if you don't have enough money then why buying? He should tell me from the first and not that make me like stupid waiting for long weeks and then at the least will say sorry I may I just get the hulk instead? For all those trouble why not saying I don't have money because I'm BROKE !!! So much alibi and lies. And most of all humiliating other person like Sean Sanders they are friends why he needs to inform me that I shouldn't trust him coz he is block listed in their network that's not my damn business and Sean Sanders did nothing wrong to me that's why I trusted him he paid on time and not making any bullshit alibi. Common sense here that's what I'm saying we are not child here I'm talking to him man to man and I trust his words that's why I'm deeply disappointed And I don't think my replied to him is rude coz I am just asking man to man here what kind of business is this is that bad??.. I don't think asking what kind of business you doing and asking what kind of person he is are rude in fact I said I'm trusted him why he did this to me? Is that wrong? Well after all those alibis and lies he made making me waiting for nothing shouldn't I'm asking him this question I don't think it's rude and impolite and I don't think it's a bad business ethic as well because the main lesson here is that making too nice and too kind will makes you looks stupid for the person who wants to deceive you and taking advantage of you. I am just FRANK by telling him a direct words so that if he is a real smart he will understands that Asia people are not easy to be deceive but those hustler deceiving person like him.. That's my purpose. And now he twisted it saying he cancelled his orders because I'm Sean Senders friend.. I know now that he is a liar, dishonest person hustler in deceiving people by twisting the real situation. He claimed that he is the huge collector in the whole USA how come he can't paid for 850 U.S. Dollars. Well perhaps all his collection he comes from begging it to other distributor. I think it will enlighten us all here that there is a situation like this and so that everyone here be informed and avoid this person to deceive others again in the future. That our lesson for today!! PEACE to EVERYONE....