最好的自己不在未來,就在現在。
認真回想,以前我好像在每一段關係中都是在扮演某一個角色,不由自主的在為每個對象做調整。不只有在戀愛上,有時候可能跟朋友、工作夥伴都是,尤其是在前輩面前,常常我都會本能反應似的改變自己。聲音要甜一點嗎?笑話要低級一點嗎?從穿衣服就可以看出,我今天是要跟誰吃飯。雖然是微調,但透露出了一件事,我好像不夠喜歡真正的自己,所以才會擔心大家也不會喜歡真正的我。我告訴自己即使累,但如果持續努力,有一天就能變成大家都喜歡的Lara。
久而久之我和世界的相處模式只有「由外到內」,會依照別人對我的反應去斷定我的下一步。大家會覺得我很好相處,我卻越來越不快樂。現在我慢慢開始懂了,原來我把順序弄反了。我該優先處理的是自己內心的感受,其他人買不買單,其實跟你一點關係都沒有。就像找另外一半,如果我跟夢中情人在一起,但我根本無法在他面前做自己,最後還是會走不下去。
我現在33歲,So What? 終於懂,「當下的自己」才是人生時間軸上最重要的!
對了,有人好奇這次「{}」的意思嗎?簡單說是「大括號」,在數學運算式中稱作「空集合」。數學不好的人就想像一個清空的行李箱吧。「空」不是無,而是無限可能。括號還有另外一個更好懂的意思,就是「優先處理」。將過去整理過後的自己,回歸純粹,態度成熟自信!(失戀後重新出發的人應該很有感觸吧!🤣)
Your best self is not in the future, but in the Now.
Looking back, I seem to have been playing a role in almost every relationship I was ever in. I'm not just talking about romantic relationships. Whether it was with friends or colleagues (especially seniors), I would modify myself almost instinctively. Should my voice be sweeter? My jokes dirtier? If you wanted to know who I was eating with that day, all you had to do was look at the clothes I was wearing.
The changes were subtle, but they still reflected a truth: I didn’t feel like the real me was enough so I was worried that other people would also find her lacking. I told myself that if I just kept working at it, I would someday become a version of Lara that everyone accepted.
Eventually I only knew how to get my cues from the external world. I would always base my next step on feedback I got from others. Most people considered me easy to get along with, but I grew more and more unhappy.
I think I had it all wrong. My first priority should have been listening to my inner voice. Whether or not other people agree with it is not in my control nor of my concern. Take looking for a partner. Even if I found the person of my dreams, it would never last if I couldn’t be myself around them.
I am 33 years old. So What? I finally understand that "the present self" is the most important thing on the timeline of life! It’s time to prioritize me!
By the way, is anyone curious about the meaning of "{}" this time? Besides the more commonly known representation of parentheses as prioritization, these curly brackets are called “the empty set”. The empty what? If like me, math is not your strongest suit, think of it as an empty suitcase. "Empty" doesn’t mean nothing, but infinite possibilities! What will you fill your life with this time?
2021全新專輯《來者何人{}》
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我這次跟我很喜歡的一個牌子合作❤️
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👉🏻Any arm balancing variation- share what slow fashion means to you
👉🏻 Any butterfly variation- how do you empower yourself to fly
👉🏻Any inversion variation- what small thing you do everyday to save our beautiful planet
We will pick the winners on 10 August❤️
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《白月光與硃砂痣》小提琴版本 | Violin cover by Lin Tzu An of《Bai Yue Guang Yu Zhu Sha Zhi》
大家知道白月光與硃砂痣這個比喻的典故嗎?
來來~~~大年初一聽cover長知識~~~
白月光朱砂痣的典故出處是張愛玲的小說《紅玫瑰與白玫瑰》,白月光指的是可望而不可及的人事物,常常和「朱砂痣」對應。原文是這樣的:「也許每一個男子全都有過這樣的兩個女人,至少兩個。 娶了紅玫瑰,久而久之,紅的變了牆上的一抹蚊子血,白的還是『床前明月光』; 娶了白玫瑰,白的便是衣服上的一粒飯粘子,紅的卻是心口上的一顆朱砂痣。」
大家有沒有發現「白月光」和「紅玫瑰」這兩個意象從本質上來說是一樣的,代表男人生命中遇到的各色性格不同又難以忘懷的女孩子,都是指愛而不得未能相守的遺憾,再加上所有回憶都停留最相愛的時候,不會去經歷柴米油鹽與漫長時光的折磨,反而停留在當初的美好時光,所以更令人難忘,成為觸不可及的床前明月光,刻在心頭無法忘懷的朱砂痣。
這其實是張愛玲對感情的悲觀意象,並不是白月光紅玫瑰本身有多麼美好,只是因為無法相守,而「得不到的永遠在騷動」,我們的才女張女士除了諷刺渣男喜新厭舊外,還有反對父權壓迫的層次內涵,張愛玲的諷刺總是非常辛辣的,算是早期辣妹代表啊🌶️🌶️🌶️🌶️🌶️🌶️🌶️🌶️🌶️
所以以後有另一半對著我各位有水準的聽眾說「寶貝,我覺得你就是我的朱砂痣」,先忍住不要打下去,請他來看我這篇,順便刷刷我的頻道吧🤓
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She used the metaphor of the red roses and white roses to refer to the grass is always greener on the other side of the fence, and trying to oppose against patriarchy.
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Illenium - I Care 我在乎
"It’s unavoidable"
"這是無法避免的"
"Just happens"
"一切就那樣發生"
"When you grow up"
"當你長大後"
"Your heart dies"
"心便隨之死去"
"Who cares?"
"誰在乎啊?"
"I care"
"我會在乎"
Illenium feat. Georgia Ku - Hold On 放不了手
I can't listen to these stupid songs
我無法接受這些愚蠢至極的情歌
Cause they all remind me that you're gone
因為那只會讓我不斷回想起你已離開我的事實
I'm still sleeping in your favorite tee
我依舊穿著你最愛的那件衣服入睡
Pictures I just can't delete
仍無法刪除這些回憶
Don't know how to be
不知道該如何
How to be alone
獨自面對孤獨
If I can't live without you
若我的人生少了你
I can't live at all
我根本就無法度過啊
I'm sick of finding reasons
我也早已厭倦再去尋找
To feel the way I did before
當初令我心動的那種感受
I don't wanna waste another day
我不想再浪費任何時間
I don't wanna wish that you would stay
不想再傻傻希望你會留下
If I know
若我明知道
I should let go
該要讓你走
Why do I hold on to you?
那我又為何仍緊握你的手?
I don't wanna waste another day
我不想再虛度其他天
I don't wanna say I'm not okay
也不想再裝作自己沒事
If I know
若明知道
I should let go
得要放手
Why do I hold on to you?
為何我仍無法就這樣讓你走?
Why do I hold on to you?
為何仍會想起當初的你我?
Why do I hold on to you?
為何仍想緊抓你的手?
I'm still listening to this stupid song
我依舊聽著這些愚蠢的情歌
Like I don't know where it all went wrong
彷彿仍然不知哪裡出錯
All my friends are asking where you been
朋友們不斷問我你去了哪裡
Memories keep on creeping in
一想到你腦海就浮出滿滿回憶
Don't know how to be
不知該如何度過
How to be alone
如何撐過寂寞
I don't wanna waste another day
我不想要再浪費時間
I don't wanna wish that you would stay
不想幻想我們的情誼永不破滅
If I know
若早知道
I should let go
最後得讓你走
Why do I hold on to you?
為何仍想抓緊你的手?
I don't wanna waste another day
實在不想再浪費時間
I don't wanna say I'm not okay
不想老實說我心好累
If I know
若終究
I should let go
得讓你走
Why do I hold on to you?
為何我就是無法放手?
Hold on to you
無法放手
Why do I hold on to you?
為何我就是不想讓你走?
Why do I hold on to you?
為何仍想將你的手緊握?
Why, oh why, do I lose my mind?
為何我 喪失理智了?
When I hold on tight?
為何放不開?
No, I don't wanna let go
但我真的不想放手
Why, oh why, do I lose my mind?
難道我 早已失心瘋?
When I hold on tight
就是放不開
No, I don't wanna let go
我果然就是無法放手
Why, oh why, do I lose my mind
看來我 真的看不開
When I hold on tight
曾有你的愛
No, I don't wanna let go
所以不想要放手
Don't wanna let go
不想放開手
Don't wanna let go
不想放開手
Don't wanna let go
不想放開手
Don't wanna let go
不想放開手
I don't wanna let go
不想再從頭來過
I don't wanna waste another day
我不想再次浪費時間
I don't wanna wish that you would stay
也不想祈禱你不會走
If I know
即便懂
I should let go
改變念頭
Why do I hold on to you
我仍只想牽著你的手
I don't wanna waste another day
怎樣才不是浪費時間
I don't wanna say I'm not okay
怎樣才能說出我心不累
If I know
若早知道
I should let go
得讓你走
Why do I hold on to you?
為何我就是放不了手?
作詞/作曲:Nicholas Miller / Georgia Overton / Andrew Goldstein
剪輯, 歌詞翻譯by Ray
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just do not衣服 在 吉娜英文 Youtube 的最佳貼文
Forget it.
Forget about it.
(1) 算了,無所謂。(生氣時用)
(2) 算了,沒關係,不要在意。(中立語氣)
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課程例句:
A: Sorry, I put this paper in the wrong file.
B: Forget it, it’s not a big deal. I’ll put it back later.
A: 很抱歉,我把文件放在錯誤的文件夾裡。
B: 沒關係,不是很重要的事情。我等一下會把它放回去。
A: Do you know what today is?
B: No, what?
A: It’s my birthday.
B: Really? Do you want to go out to dinner?
A: Forget it. I thought you would plan something for me.
A: 你知道今天是什麼日子嗎?
B: 不知道,是什麼?
A: 是我的生日。
B: 真的嗎?你想出去吃晚餐嗎?
A: 算了!我還以為你會為我計畫什麼驚喜。
A: Sorry, what did you say?
B: Forget it. It’s not important.
A: 很抱歉,你說什麼?
B: 算了,沒關係。不是很重要。
A: Did you remember to put your clothes in the wardrobe?
B: Sorry, I forgot. I’ll do it now.
A: Forget about it. I’ll do it. You never remember!
A: 你記得把衣服放到衣櫥裡去了嗎?
B: 很抱歉,我忘了。我現在去做。
A: 算了。我自己來做。你從來就不記得。
A: I'm really upset. He was so mean to me!
B: Forget about it. He was just having a bad day. You know he is your friend.
A: Yeah. I guess I can forgive him.
A: 我真的很心煩。他對我很壞。
B: 算了,不要在意。他今天過得不好。你知道他是你的朋友。
A: 是啊。我猜我應該是可以原諒他。
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