最好的自己不在未來,就在現在。
認真回想,以前我好像在每一段關係中都是在扮演某一個角色,不由自主的在為每個對象做調整。不只有在戀愛上,有時候可能跟朋友、工作夥伴都是,尤其是在前輩面前,常常我都會本能反應似的改變自己。聲音要甜一點嗎?笑話要低級一點嗎?從穿衣服就可以看出,我今天是要跟誰吃飯。雖然是微調,但透露出了一件事,我好像不夠喜歡真正的自己,所以才會擔心大家也不會喜歡真正的我。我告訴自己即使累,但如果持續努力,有一天就能變成大家都喜歡的Lara。
久而久之我和世界的相處模式只有「由外到內」,會依照別人對我的反應去斷定我的下一步。大家會覺得我很好相處,我卻越來越不快樂。現在我慢慢開始懂了,原來我把順序弄反了。我該優先處理的是自己內心的感受,其他人買不買單,其實跟你一點關係都沒有。就像找另外一半,如果我跟夢中情人在一起,但我根本無法在他面前做自己,最後還是會走不下去。
我現在33歲,So What? 終於懂,「當下的自己」才是人生時間軸上最重要的!
對了,有人好奇這次「{}」的意思嗎?簡單說是「大括號」,在數學運算式中稱作「空集合」。數學不好的人就想像一個清空的行李箱吧。「空」不是無,而是無限可能。括號還有另外一個更好懂的意思,就是「優先處理」。將過去整理過後的自己,回歸純粹,態度成熟自信!(失戀後重新出發的人應該很有感觸吧!🤣)
Your best self is not in the future, but in the Now.
Looking back, I seem to have been playing a role in almost every relationship I was ever in. I'm not just talking about romantic relationships. Whether it was with friends or colleagues (especially seniors), I would modify myself almost instinctively. Should my voice be sweeter? My jokes dirtier? If you wanted to know who I was eating with that day, all you had to do was look at the clothes I was wearing.
The changes were subtle, but they still reflected a truth: I didn’t feel like the real me was enough so I was worried that other people would also find her lacking. I told myself that if I just kept working at it, I would someday become a version of Lara that everyone accepted.
Eventually I only knew how to get my cues from the external world. I would always base my next step on feedback I got from others. Most people considered me easy to get along with, but I grew more and more unhappy.
I think I had it all wrong. My first priority should have been listening to my inner voice. Whether or not other people agree with it is not in my control nor of my concern. Take looking for a partner. Even if I found the person of my dreams, it would never last if I couldn’t be myself around them.
I am 33 years old. So What? I finally understand that "the present self" is the most important thing on the timeline of life! It’s time to prioritize me!
By the way, is anyone curious about the meaning of "{}" this time? Besides the more commonly known representation of parentheses as prioritization, these curly brackets are called “the empty set”. The empty what? If like me, math is not your strongest suit, think of it as an empty suitcase. "Empty" doesn’t mean nothing, but infinite possibilities! What will you fill your life with this time?
2021全新專輯《來者何人{}》
數位收聽:https://LaraLiang.lnk.to/DearYou2
<再也沒有你> 陳勢安 Andrew Tan
數位收聽:https://kkbox.fm/Iss26l
#Lara梁心頤2021全新專輯二部曲 #來者何人{} 全球發行
#再也沒有你 #NoMoreU #SoWhat30
同時也有4部Youtube影片,追蹤數超過5,660的網紅踢萬8IG8A8Y,也在其Youtube影片中提到,🌐 踢萬's new single 360° (Beatbox Freestyle) 字幕MV 把 freestyle bars 直接當一首新歌重做,加上副歌,曲也重編 老早就想把它完成,最近在錄大嘻哈小炸 ° Song Credit: Produce by 薑母鴨 Ginger Duck ...
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🌻另一個Zoom會議(第二次貼......有補上一些內容)
繼上次的年報導讀會議後, 讓我們再做另一個會議! 這次很榮幸邀請到一位對估值很有見解的股友前輩來帶大家了解估值(恩, 這次我會是主持人, 不是主講人).
主題: 估值(valuation)分享會(Cat: 這不算基礎的估值會議)
主講人: 小揚(from安泰價值投資)
https://www.facebook.com/antaiinvestment (此為小揚的粉絲頁)
參與者: 具基本估值能力. 若打算參加者, 請事先跟我(請私訊)提出一個關於估值的case study, 到時候可在會議中分享(最好是以投影片形式呈現, 這樣到時候好跟大家分享). 若有估值的問題, 也可以提出.
Case study可以是美股, 也可以是台股.
時間: 台灣時間07/10 (周六)晚間9點.
預計一個小時(不會像上次那樣冗長了😅): 前30分鐘由小揚做分享, 後30分鐘大家分享估值案例&提問
進行方式: 以Zoom進行(之後會私訊會議資訊給參與者)
🌻Morgan Stanley Mid-year Investor Outlook: A tricky transition
https://www.morganstanley.com/ideas/midyear-2021-global-markets-outlook
🌻在您投資生涯中, 有沒有一些觀念讓您受用很多?
下面這位投資名人的好觀念影響我很深. 他的意思是, 一般投資人, 只要能説出三個買一家公司的理由, 就很夠了. 這也迫使我, 每次在買股票時, 問自己對這家公司的了解有多少. 也會去衡量公司的優點與缺點在哪裡.
"It is vital (重要的) that you know what you own, that if I asked you on the street why you like a certain stock, you can give me three reasons. If you don't know how they make their money, who their key clients are and what they make if, then I will tell you that you are over your head and should not own individual stocks."
全文在此:
Jim Cramer: In Times Like This, Go for the Easy Money
Look at the stocks you own. Can you tell me why you've got them? If you can't answer the following three questions, then have a look at several I like right now.
We've endured the meme stock craziness, with all of its love for heavily shorted stocks. We have watched the collapse of bitcoin to levels viewed as shocking, even if they are still more than double where they were not that long ago. We've dealt with Fed officials making it clear that they are no longer on the side of the bulls or the bears. They are on the side of job growth, but are wary of inflation. We've seen the end of the rush to get vaccines, which means that millions of people are going to get the new COVID variant, because there is no natural immunity to it. We've watched as the hopes for an infrastructure bill have collapsed. We've endured shortages of everything from chips to plastic to imported goods and labor.
And we're still standing, yeah, yeah, yeah.
Yep, we are in one of those halcyon moments, where the masks are off -- even if they shouldn't be -- and Americans are back doing what they do best: consume, spend, go out to eat and then consume and spend some more.
There are times in the stock market where the collective mindset is revealed. This is one of those times: Things are cool, it's not a big moment, there's no real news for a bit, it's the historically strong period and we can reach some conclusions about where we are.
When things are like this, it is important to remember that buyers like to revert to tried-and-true companies that thrive no matter what. These are companies that have an edge and are better at what they do than other companies.
You know that I am a great believer in index funds, that the average person doesn't have the time or the inclination to research individual stocks. It's a difficult barrier. I think you need to make time to read the quarterly report and listen to the conference call, to Google articles and, if possible, get some research about the companies you own. It is vital that you know what you own, that if I asked you on the street why you like a certain stock, you can give me three reasons. If you don't know how they make their money, who their key clients are and what they make if, then I will tell you that you are over your head and should not own individual stocks. I am reminded by this, because, once again, without a mask, I can be recognized and if I am not holding "Nvidia the Second," I can carry on a conversation.
I have had many in the last two weeks and when I have asked this litany of questions, I find myself at a loss as to why almost no one knew what they owned. But they thirsted for individual stocks, because they, like me, think things are better post pandemic. No, that's not a facetious comment. Many, many stocks did better with a stay-at-home economy. A huge number.
So what do I do? I revert to what others do when you are stumped about how to stay in touch with stocks, but want to do less homework. That means buying stocks that are accessible, not stocks like Unity (U) or Snowflake (SNOW) or Twilio (TWLO) or Okta (OKTA) .
I revert to normal businesses people know and I suggest they Google some articles, peruse the conference call, but, above all, like the company's products so you can buy more if it goes down.
Here's some that I have been telling people I like:
First is Ford (F) . I think the Ford lineup is amazing. The electric F-150 series will be incredible. I am eager to get a Maverick for my family, because it is a smaller pickup that will get the job done for the myriad little things I need to do with this farm I bought from that crazy bitcoin foray. I like the competitive edge of the CEO, who says he is going to bury Elon Musk when the Lightning comes out. I even think the Bronco is cool as all get out. Most important, though? I think the chip shortage is ending. My semiconductor friends are telling me the foundries are producing more feature-rich chips and that means Ford can pump out the trucks small business people love and need. Plus, the used car prices at last have plateaued, according to their most important pricing index. Halcyon times.
Second, Costco (COST) : The samples are coming back. Tell me you don't love the samples. You need things in bulk. You want low prices. You want to get all of the things that people don't think of with Costco, like insurance, hearing-aids -- hey, they are a fortune -- jewelry, things around the house. You go and you will buy far more than you first came for. My kind of store.
The kids love this American Eagle Outfitters (AEO) , which we just bought for my charitable trust, which you can follow along by joining the Action Alerts PLUS club. Jay Schottenstein, the CEO, came on "Mad Money" recently and it's clear that his Aerie model has real staying power: 26 consecutive quarters of double digit growth. No flash in the pan, that one. Number one brand in jeans for the 15 to 25 year old group. The best in the mall. How did I know this? I see the credit card bills.
I got up this morning to do my physical therapy. I have been doing it ever since I hurt my back in February. I have this really cool pair of sneakers that fit me perfectly and I love them, but I am fortunate enough to have a vacation house and I am always taking those shoes with me.
So I went on Amazon (AMZN) this morning and lo and behold I saw them for half price. I bought two pairs. Then I went over everything I have bought in the last year and got a bunch of those things. Then I bought a pair of binoculars, because mine were stolen. I paid half price.
Yep, Amazon's universal. I was talking to Alexa, while I was ordering, getting some new music on, asking questions. I saw that despite all of the Sturm und Drang of Amazon being late with things, all the delivery dates were within range. I didn't click on any ads, and I didn't need the speed of Web Services, but the whole thing reminded me about how special the darned company is. I don't care if it's ahead or behind plan for the moment. I would just buy some more when it goes down.
Finally, Apple (AAPL) . I think people who don't own Apple should look what they are holding at this very moment. Yes, right now. Or look at what's in your lap or on the table besides your fork. And then think about the bill you paid last night without knowing it. Think about what you bought in the App store yesterday. Think about what would happen if it would break or get stolen or, left in the Uber (UBER) , or heaven forbid, be dropped into the pool or in the, yes, toilet.
There, that's what you buy in halcyon times. Stocks of companies you know that if they go lower, because things get less halcyon, you are fine with it and buy more. If things go up, believe me, you will participate.
So accept the moment. Don't try for the hard money. Go for the easy kind. That's the best kind.
https://realmoney.thestreet.com/jim-cramer/jim-cramer--15692051
Picture: 牡丹(peony)花開. 恨不得院子裡有一塊地是牡丹園.
look around意思 在 Claudia Mo/毛孟靜 Facebook 的最讚貼文
A #dirty magazine 色情雜誌,a dirty movie 三級電影,一句 give her a dirty look,或會誤解為「色迷迷的眼神」,這是錯的。 A dirty #look ,係 #𥇣死你。
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A dirty look 「𥇣」死你
明報英文 | 毛孟靜
一日,在家偷拍家狗動靜,狗兒回眸一瞪,明顯不高興的眼神,用廣東話表達,就是:「影咩影,『𥇣 』死你吖嗱。」用英文講「𥇣 」死你,第一個想到的是:Give you a dirty look。
要留意,我們說 a dirty magazine 指色情雜誌,a dirty movie 係三級電影,一句 give her a dirty look,有人或會誤解為「色迷迷的眼神」,這是錯的。句子是說:給她一個憤怒 angry、表示反對 disapproving 、反感 disgusted 的眼神;簡單一點,就是怒視、「𥇣 」或矋。
· The other passengers gave me dirty looks for taking up too much room on the bus. 因我霸佔了太多空間,巴士上的其他乘客都向我怒目而視。
若在網上一查 a dirty look 的中文翻譯,會出現「骯髒的外觀」,這自然也是錯的。要記得,dirty 除了解作不潔、憤怒,亦可解作「不可接受、令人反感的事物」。
像 dirty word(s) 髒話,好像就代表粗口,就與性有關?不一定呢,看以下 dirty word 的用法:
· For environmentalists, "disposable" has become a dirty word. 對環境保護者來說,「即用即棄」已變成一個髒詞。
· "Quarantine" is quite a dirty word among business travellers amidst the pandemic. 在大流行病期間,商務客視「隔離」一語如髒話。
回說 a dirty look,若要進一步形容憤怒,可說:
· Getting increasingly annoyed, I decided to give her AN EVIL EYE. 我益發惱怒,決定向她惡狠狠地瞪眼。
· He had a dark look in his eyes, AN EVIL STARE. 他眼睛裏閃過一份陰沉,散發敵意。
這個 evil,固然也解作邪惡,但一般是指「不懷好意」;當中確也包含仇恨 hateful、惡意 malicious 以至恐嚇 threatening 的味道。
· I saw him giving me the evil eye, so I turned around and walked the other way. 看到他用敵意以至恐嚇的眼神瞪過來,我於是掉頭走另一條路。
或問,不管 a dirty look 或 an evil stare ,平鋪直敘說 an angry look、an angry stare 不就可以了嗎?當然可以,但文字就少了色彩。還有,不喜歡用不等於不用知道 —— 尤其是 a dirty look 是常用語,聽人家說了,不要誤解意思也就好。中文同樣會形容一個人「眼放飛劍」,是說眼神之凌厲如有殺意。英文用短劍 daggers,眾數。
· Daggers were coming out of her eyes. 她眼放飛劍。
. He obviously hates me. He stares daggers at me. 他一定是憎恨我,他向我眼放飛劍。
· He saw her sour and angry face. He was getting daggers from her. 他看到她一臉惱怒,一直在向他發放飛劍。
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look around意思 在 踢萬8IG8A8Y Youtube 的最讚貼文
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踢萬's new single 360° (Beatbox Freestyle) 字幕MV
把 freestyle bars 直接當一首新歌重做,加上副歌,曲也重編
老早就想把它完成,最近在錄大嘻哈小炸
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Song Credit:
Produce by 薑母鴨 Ginger Duck
Mix by 薑母鴨 Ginger Duck
Master by 薑母鴨 Ginger Duck
Record by 薑母鴨 Ginger Duck, Jacky
Lyrics by 踢萬8IG8A8Y
Compose by 踢萬8IG8A8Y
Video Credit:
Direct by 阿邦 AnBang
Edit by 阿邦 AnBang
Logo Design by 冠宇
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Note:
歌詞中
"I" so clean 意味著 穿著 Reebok Iverson 擦得很乾淨很 fresh
Flexing 三百六十度 代表 各個方向零死角炫
With my BIGGIE 表示 踢萬的樂團 BIGGOE 萬
萬 hunnit 代表 One Hundred ㄧ百分的意思
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Stream & Links:
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在街聲StreetVoice 上面聽:https://streetvoice.com/papetone/songs/645117/
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Follow 踢萬 IG: https://www.instagram.com/onemoretimebabywu/
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Lyrics:
Hook:
“I” so clean 沒毛病 flexing 三百六十度
Look at me 187 萬 hunnit 0894 酷
“I” so clean with my BIGGIE 一起 三百六十度
You know I 製造優質 crew, hustle hard 直到休止符
(Okay) x2
Rap Verse:
要創作先搞懂文化
Pull up ideas 融會 貫通文法
似懂非懂的假董仔 別裝懂就上
道不同不相為盟 炒著相同舊帳
I’ve done told y’all
Think like a boss, stay loyal like a soldier
I dunno what you talking’ bout
So fuck what you thought
出來混先潤潤筆法 不然真叫人疲乏
文不對題 聽你一堆屁話 I might speed up
Spit it out 全部都是 truth
Click Clack Bow 一觸即發 so ruled
Gun off safety 沒有任何人 gonna save me
所有 homies 來自不同背景
共苦 能否一起同甘 同步 chase dreams
Still on my Day One same team
Not a Damn thing changed
With my squad 肩並肩
After show 喝完唱完 先領錢
Hook:
“I” so clean 沒毛病 flexing 三百六十度
Look at me 187 萬 hunnit 0894 酷
“I” so clean with my BIGGIE 一起 三百六十度
You know I 製造優質 crew, hustle hard 直到休止符
(Okay) x2
2nd Rap Verse:
I don’t even care,
Fuck is you wearing?
Can’t compare me with them I’m very ill
Got many skills
Staying still
Paying bills
沒聽錯
You might get got
被追殺 白目注意嘴巴-
We stay fly
Go outside 穿上 AI,
搜刮金錢袋
安靜 淡定 grinding 的天才-
I made my-
time come around
到現在-
發現原來
做自己愛事 阿嘶
爽度沒變卦
說真的
世界上沒有 Santa-
Not a gangsta
依然能 make it rain
就像 weather man
Change the weather
正要開始 台詞 跟上拍子 愛死
Cold as ice
Cut the beat, sliced
Beatbox, switch up
真要代言我選擇 Reebok
Fila 先別 我堅決
當我開口就先把 文法
不通順的全部殲滅
I can’t stand it,
understand me
回頭是岸 沒後路只能前進
這場賽跑馬拉松 不是田徑
聽天由命 或者單槍匹馬
突破險境
扶 搖 直 上 way up
奪走最大塊的甜餅
Get it?
Hook:
“I” so clean 沒毛病 flexing 三百六十度
Look at me 187 萬 hunnit 0894 酷
“I” so clean with my BIGGIE 一起 三百六十度
You know I 製造優質 crew, hustle hard 直到休止符
(Okay) x2
#beatboxfreestyle #360 #三百六十度
look around意思 在 歐陽娜娜Nana OuYang Youtube 的精選貼文
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《NANA I》中三首創作歌曲代表著破碎、炙熱和平行線,而首支單曲〈The Best for You〉的創作過程只花了15分鐘,「起初是想寫一首三拍子的歌,還覺得應該挺難寫的,因為有時候想表達心中想說的東西並不容易,但是當天的製作人和合作的吉他手特別快了解我的意思,我那時只告訴他們我想要一首三拍子和能在下雨天聽的歌,然後15分鐘後旋律就好了!」特別的是,這次的配唱都是在歌曲寫完當下立刻錄製,紀錄當下最真實的感受,她以甜美清新的歌聲唱出最真摯的情感,用音樂喚醒愛情中最真實的風景,愛情不只甜蜜也伴隨痛苦。
Nana Ouyang’s first original EP - NANA I
this EP collects three English tracks revolving around Shakespeare’s “Love is a sweet pain.” Ouyang has co-written and composed all three English tracks, this album is a profound and genuine creation of Nana.
詞曲 Lyrics/Melody: Nana Ouyang,Wyatt Sanders
製作人 Producer:Gingerbread (aka Barry Cohen)
One day I knew
This wasn’t fixable
I still want you
But I won’t be in this if
you don’t want to
you don’t want to
Open up
Oooh
This how it starts
Fighting bout nothing and going too far
I just can’t look now we’re
Falling apart
Falling apart In my arms
Oooh
Oooooh I
I must confess
You made a mess
We got regrets
Saying things we never meant
Tryna get into each other’s head
Somehow I still got love
After all that you’ve done
Swear no matter what we do
I still want the best for you
Cuz even when things seem bad
I wouldn’t change what we had
Swear no matter what you say
Yea no matter what you do
I still want the best for you
Let’s just pretend
We could still make it
That this ain’t the end
Things could be different
That we’ll still be friends
we’ll still be friends
That’s a lie
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look around意思 在 Mumu MusicTV Youtube 的精選貼文
?【Creep】?- RadioHead Cover by Mumu Ngui
"But i am a creep, i am a weirdo, what the hell i am doing here?" ??
那天直播時讓觀眾點唱一首曾經很有感覺的歌 - Creep,當時不懂歌曲中的含義,今天我重新詮釋了,知道你們一定會喜歡的!?
我在想 MV 部分該如何表達,最後決定用自己的 IG Story 片段,把生活中最直接的一面結合起來作為這次的音樂影片。所以有被 Tagged 到的朋友,不好意思啦!你已經出現在畫面裏了!?
Creep
Radiohead
When you were here before
Couldn't look you in the eye
You're just like an angel
Your skin makes me cry
You float like a feather
In a beautiful world
And I wish I was special
You're so fuckin' special
But I'm a creep, I'm a weirdo.
What the hell am I doing here?
I don't belong here.
I don't care if it hurts
I want to have control
I want a perfect body
I want a perfect soul
I want you to notice
When I'm not around
You're so fuckin' special
I wish I was special
But I'm a creep, I'm a weirdo.
What the hell am I doing here?
I don't belong here.
She's running out again,
She's running out
She's run run run run
Whatever makes you happy
Whatever you want
You're so fuckin' special
I wish I was special
But I'm a creep, I'm a weirdo,
What the hell am I doing here?
I don't belong here.
I don't belong here.
#creep #radiohead #music #cover #instagram #story
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