「少子化」原因千千百百種,錢當然是關鍵,但這社會對「母親」不太友善也是原因之一:
小孩有甚麼問題,旁人會歸咎媽媽沒教好,不會是爸爸
下班後照顧小孩的責任也是媽媽,家務的責任也是媽媽
職場上,孩子有甚麼事要請假時,有些上司會白眼與留難,升遷也是更難了
生了女兒,有些長輩會說些刺耳的話,時代變了,但有些長輩沒變
母親是克苦耐勞的象徵,所以不克苦耐勞,就好像不合格了
…
要有對媽媽友善的社會,推動政策才能有效啊
好像說太遠了,其實我是想說
各位媽媽都是勇者,辛苦了!
遲來的母親節快樂!
There are lots of reasons for “low birth rate”. Money is the key, but the unfriendly tradition to role of “mother” is a reason as well.
Whenever the kid behave badly, people will blame the mother instead of father.
Mother needs to take care the kid after work and finish the house work too.
In workplace, if mothers apply a day off for family reason, some supervisors may not approve. The opportunity to get promoted is rather low for mothers.
If your baby is a girl, some relatives will say something sarcastic. They are living in the old days.
The image of “mother” is very hard working. If you are hard working enough, you are regarded as a failed mother.
…
If the people are more friendly to mothers, the policies regarding low birth rate will be more effective and efficient.
Anyway, I want to say “Mothers, you all are very brave.”
Belated Happy Mother’s Day!
#inksundae
#art #artist #instaartist #artistsoninstagram #illustration #illustrations #illustrator #illustratorsoninstagram #editorialillustration #drawing #drawings #draw #doodle #doodles #doodling #doodleart #doodlelove #イラスト #イラストレーター #일러스트 #插畫
同時也有10000部Youtube影片,追蹤數超過2,910的網紅コバにゃんチャンネル,也在其Youtube影片中提到,...
mothers day art drawing 在 InkSundae Facebook 的最佳貼文
各位母親,你們的母親節快樂嗎?
由子女的角度,說說怎樣維持良好親子關係,給你參考看看
聽說,西方的父母會養子女到20歲,或者到大學畢業,然後便要他們搬走自立
因為養育的責任完了,子女已經成為大人,要面對自己的人生了
有空回來探望就可以,父母的人生也就自由了
我不知道有多少父母會這樣,但第一次聽,已經覺得這是很棒的理念
父母帶子女的生命來到世界,人的存在不是擁有
期限到了,就要說再見
「再見」就是下次再見面,不是斷絕來往
你希望子女愛你嗎?是真愛那種
就是要懂得說再見
好好珍惜相處的時間,有質素的相處,比每天「給意見」更有意思
期限不一定是20歲,但一定不是99歲
祝各位母親與子女相處融洽,母親節快樂
Dear mothers, do you have a happy Mother’s Day?
From the view of a child, let’s talk about how to maintain a good family relationship.
Some parents in Western countries will ask the children to move out when they are 20, or graduate.
It’s because the children become adults already. The responsibility finishes. Children needs to live their own life.
Come back anytime to visit us is enough. Parent is free then.
I don’t know how many parents will do that. The idea is really great.
Parents bring a life to the world, but not owning it.
When the time comes, parents need to say goodbye.
It means “see you later”.
Do you want your children love you deeply?
You need to know how to say goodbye.
Treasure the time together is much better than “advising” the kids every day.
The deadline may not be 20, but it would not be 99.
Wish you all have a cheerful family relationship.
.
.
.
Please follow InkSundae’s Telegram: t.me/inksundae
.
.
#inksundae
#art #artist #instaartist #artistsoninstagram #illustration #illustrations #illustrator #illustratorsoninstagram #drawing #drawings #draw #doodle #doodles #doodling #doodleart #doodlelove #イラスト #イラストレーター #일러스트