大概是在準備DS的時候發現自己常常會有思緒突然斷掉的現象...
或是一整個腦袋不靈光(?)
不管事之前上了幾個訪談節目宣傳DS時
或是後來解封跟朋友見面聊天時
常常腦袋在聽別人講話
很用力想要進入狀況
可是卻突然停止運作😱
正當我開始覺得完蛋了😱「我發生什麼事」時
謝謝 @1day1music 的Koko在她的Podcast訪談不斷地斷掉後的我後哈哈
點出我斷掉時間點都是被問到有關自己的問題的時候~(這個神觀察!)
說我是不是需要跟自己多多講話了
我才意識到
Wow… 我好久~沒有讓自己腦袋休息了
常常很多時候
我們為了追上自己給自己
在一定的時間內所設定的目標
心無旁騖的一頭栽
因為深怕let ourselves down…
然後就這樣把達成的壓力一口氣扛在自己的肩上
但忘了停下腳步問問自己
my gosh are you okay?
我是個對自己要求很高的人
但也是一個沒有自信把焦點放在自己身上的人
會覺得別人focus在我身上很不自在
但是內在的inner child卻渴望被認可被了解
很矛盾卻總是不斷努力再抓一個自己舒服的節奏
找自己存在的價值與意義
打到這裡我已經不知道我在打什麼了.... 完蛋了是不是又要斷掉了!!!
我覺得啦~反正我就是想很多!是不是想太多腦袋真的會燒壞啊...
等一下maybe我的腦袋會斷掉是一種保護機制吧
它正在努力吶喊著
“Ok Dena enough! STOP thinking this much! Life can be so much more simple if you just take it one step at a time and effing BREATHE! If you can’t do this, I’m just gonna shut you off. It’s called tough love babe. ” 然後它就這樣為了要保護我強制把我腦袋關掉這樣 …
好啦!說到這裡
大家有沒有什麼可以保養腦袋的一些方式呢🥲😬
(謝謝最近朋友跟同事們對常常突然斷掉的我的包容與體諒
其實我每一次斷掉我真的很不好意思😖
因為you all truly deserve my time and attention!
So I just wanna let ya’ll know that when I space out it’s not because of you,
It’s MEEEE hahaha! And I’ll try my best to snap back soon!)
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早晨被一個夢打醒⋯
這個夢很有意思 代表我內心的渴求 狀態⋯有一陣子沒有這樣子有點複雜紛亂又清楚的夢⋯。
才知道今天是1月11日~1/11⋯❤️
在我生命中有兩個日子,刻劃很深的記號⋯11/1 和1/11~。我從來沒有覺得數字有什麼特別,但這兩個數字卻讓我永遠記得,紀念甚至感恩!❤️🌹🥰🥰
那是一段刻骨銘心很難明白的艱困過程,多年前1/11那個日子讓我跨了一個大門,有一點像是生孩子的過程,痛到你幾乎不想生,但是忍過那個最痛的階段,就是一個新生命的開始⋯,真的是如此啊⋯若沒有勇敢的跨過去往前走,我就看不到現在一片綠意盎然,充滿生氣的我的人生風景!所有的細節美麗和精彩啊⋯!
我曾經有一個經驗,很可愛很真實!轉換了我面對傷害的態度~!
特別傷你的人是你愛的人,特別難面對⋯。
有一次我跟主禱告,和著眼淚和氣憤⋯,在禱告中,我看見一個影像,就像電影一樣~那個傷我的人對著我扔石頭,但那石頭沒打著我,於是我撿起那塊石頭很生氣的回丟過去,扔過去時,覺得很沒力道手很輕⋯一看,我扔過去的,居然是一個麵包!我突然就噗哧的笑了⋯怎麼那麼沒力呀!連傷人都傷不到!🥰🥰這時上帝對我說,如果別人用黑暗用憎恨來對你,難道你回他的是一樣的嗎?你的心中有的是什麼呢?如果你有了我,你會知道要回應什麼⋯⋯
真的,我即刻從生氣到笑自己,這麼容易被激怒,因為我心中充滿的⋯真的不是這些,我可以給予的美麗和美好太多了⋯。
在黑暗中,唯有你自己成為光,才可以找出一條路⋯不要再等候其他的⋯。
你自己就可以成為光,你自己就是那個美麗!那個力量!那個智慧!那個勇敢!⋯只是你沒有找到那個鑰匙⋯甚至是你不想找~
最近有一個很深的體悟,不管你有多愛一個人,或者有人多愛你,不管你有多少人陪在你旁邊,你最終都是得孤獨的面對自己~靈魂的那一個你~如果你自己不能好好欣賞愛你自己,明白你自己是美麗的,你就沒有辦法自在和滿足~。

對於那些傷害與破碎,還有那些不明白為何傷害你的人~放了吧!
一句傷害的話都不用說,因為你更多的能量是看自己愛自己成為⋯美麗的那一個你~!使人看見你就開心就喜樂!好像吃到麵包那樣滿足!🥰🥰❤️🌹

在2021/1/11的今天~~這曾經令我痛哭欲絕的這一天,我向我的主獻上感恩~
謝謝祢總是不離不棄,在我最艱困的時候,用祢最溫柔有力的胸膛擁抱我!用祢最溫柔最有智慧的言語餵飽我,用祢最溫柔明亮的光帶領我,用祢最深最廣的愛情包裹我⋯。 使我可以在靈魂的海洋裡 大山裡面自由奔放⋯I love you,My Lord....🌷

(馬太福音 5:9) 使人和睦的人有福了!因為他們必稱為 神的兒子。
(Matthew 5:9) Blessed are the peacemakers: for they shall be called the children of God.
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Photographer:Su 蘇婭
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I Waked up by a dream in the morning...
This dream is very interesting. It represents the desire ,my situation in my heart....It hasn't been a somewhat complicated and clear dream like this for a while.
I just know that today is January 11 day~1/11...❤️
There are two days in my life, with deep marks...11/1 and 1/11~. I have never felt that the numbers are special, but these two numbers make me always remember, commemorate and even be grateful! ❤️🌹
It was a difficult process that was unforgettable and hard to understand. ..The day 1/11 many years ago ...made me step through a door. It was a little bit like the process of having a child. The pain was so painful that you almost didn’t want to give birth to ... But to endure the most painful stage is the beginning of a new life... , it’s true! If I didn’t step forward bravely, I would not see the greenery and fullness now. ...My Life...Landscape! All the details are beautiful and wonderful...!
I once had an experience, very cute and real! Changed my attitude in the face of injury~!
I once had an experience, very cute and real! Changed my attitude in the face of injury~!
The person who hurt you in particular is the one you love.
Once I prayed to the Lord, with tears and anger... During the prayer, I saw an image, just like a movie. The person who hurt me threw a stone at me, but the stone did not hit me, so I picked it up. I picked up the stone and threw it back angrily. When I threw it over, I felt very weak and light in my hand... At first glance, what I threw over was actually a piece of bread! Suddenly I laughed...how could I be so weak! Can't even hurt people! At this time, God said to me, if someone treat you in hatred in darkness way ,would it be the same for you to treat him? What is in your heart? If you had me, you would know what to respond...
Really, I instantly went from being angry to laughing at myself, I am so easily irritated, because my heart is filled with...it really is not this, I can give too much beautiful things and kindness...
In the dark, you can only find a way out by becoming the light yourself...don't wait for others...
You can become light yourself, and you yourself are the beauty! That power! That wisdom! That brave! ...But you didn't find the key...even you don't want to find it~
Recently, I have a deep realization that no matter how much you love someone or how many people love you, no matter how many people being with you, you will eventually have to face yourself alone~ the soul of you~ If you can’t appreciate and love yourself well, and understand that you are beautiful, you can’t be comfortable and satisfied~.
For those who hurt and broken, and those who don’t understand why they hurt you~ let it go!
There is no need to say a hurtful sentence, because you should take more energy to see yourself loving yourself and becoming...the beautiful you~! Make people happy when they see you! As satisfied as if they had bread! ❤️🌹
Today on January 11, 2021~~This is the day that once made me cry, I give my thanks to my Lord~
Thank you for always staying true to me. In my most difficult time, hug me with your most tender and powerful chest! Feed me with your tenderest and wisest words, lead me with your softest and brightest light, and wrap me with your deepest and broadest love... So that I can be free in the ocean of the soul...I love you, My Lord...🌷
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【萬善之頭】The Origin of Virtuousness
今天是農曆七月初五,也是我唸報父母恩咒的第五天。
這咒我唸了十五的農曆七月了。
讀到許多觀眾留言,說因為我的直播,他們也在今年開始持這咒,我真的真的⋯⋯為你們的父母感到欣慰。😄
在華人的社會裡,一般來說,正正當當的賺錢孝敬父母、和顏悅色、奉公守法、傳宗接代,不做丟人現眼的事是基本的孝。
但這些在佛教裡,實屬小孝。
以這定義,我絕對是不孝女,因為有很多年我做生意負債時,一分錢都給不到父母,又不敢對他們坦白,只說沒錢。
好啦,如果您有本事,做生意成功,風光回鄉,讓您父母和祖宗十八代笑得見牙不見眼,那也只有中孝而已。
最大的孝,是修行,因為您能助您父母脫離六道,您們都不用再受輪迴之苦。
因此釋迦牟尼佛成佛時,祂的母親摩耶夫人便得升忉利天中,享天福。
您能先從一佛號、一佛咒開始,便已向修行的道路邁出第一步了!
不要小看報父母恩咒,因為這是釋迦牟尼佛所傳的。所以各位大德,千萬要記得這一點 - 一定要教您的孩子和您一起唸報父母恩咒!👧🏻👦🏻
做父母的,要懂得投資啊!百善孝為先,孩子小小年紀就懂得盡孝,就有了人最基本的良知,為自己種下了廣大的福田。就算以後您不在他們的身邊,他們也必會遇到貴人扶持,命運不會太壞,只因為他們是孝子孝女。
再說了,萬一您有什麼三長兩短,修行失敗,還有個後代可以助您!錯過了蓮花捷運,到不了佛國淨土,到天界做天人,總比擠在一堆骨灰盎裡好呀!😂
報父母恩咒:「南無密栗哆。哆婆曳。梭哈」
Nan Mo Mi Li Duo Duo Po Yi Soha
(我是修真佛密法的,因此此咒結尾,我是依著我師尊的唸音,唸「梭哈」。這代表圓滿、成就的意思。)
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報父母恩咒49遍: https://youtu.be/a9XbKo6_L6E
唸報父母恩咒有何功德:https://youtu.be/x-7GPmbq5nw
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Today is the 5th day of the 7th Lunar month, and also my fifth day of reciting the Mantra of Repaying the Debt of Gratitude to Parents this year.
I have been reciting this mantra for fifteen years.
I read many comments from my viewers, that they started reciting this mantra this year after watching my Lives. I am so glad for your parents. 😄
In our Chinese society, generally speaking, the most basic forms of filial piety include:
1) making a honest living to give pocket money to our parents
2) being pleasant towards our parents
3) not breaking the law
4) carrying on the family lineage
5) not doing any shameful act
However, in the eyes of the Dharma, these are merely small acts of filial piety.
Going by this definition, I am definitely an unfilial daughter. Because there were many years when I got into debt from doing business and was unable to give my parents a single cent. I could not bring myself to tell them the truth and could only say I was broke.
Okay, if you are more capable than me congratulations on your big-time success in doing business! So you return to your homeland in triumphant victory and see your parents + ancestors of the past 18 generations grinning from teeth to teeth.
That is just the medium level of filial piety.
The biggest form of filial piety is spiritual cultivation. For you can help your parents to break free from the six realms of reincarnation and all of you will no longer have to undergo the sufferings of birth and death.
Hence, when Shakyamuni Buddha attained Buddhahood, his deceased mother, Queen Maya, ascended to Trayastrimsas Heaven to enjoy heavenly pleasures.
When you start reciting one Buddha’s name, or one Buddhist mantra, you have already taken your first step onto the path of Buddhist cultivation.
Do not belittle the Mantra of Repaying Debt of Gratitude to Parents, for it was expounded by Shakyamuni Buddha.
So to all my noble audience, please remember this very important point - you must teach your children to recite this mantra together with you! 👧🏻👦🏻
As parents, we should all be astute investors. Filial piety is the most important of all virtues. When a child knows how to be filial from a young age, he/she already has the most basic conscience as a human, and that will sow the seeds for fields of great blessedness.
Come one day when you can no longer be by your child’s side, your child will definitely meet many benefactors in the life path and not have a wretched destiny, because they are filial from young.
Moreover, if anything untoward happen to you and you fail miserably in your spritual cultivation, at least you still have a descendant to help you.
Should you miss the lotus train to the Buddha’s Pureland, to be a celestial being in the Heaven far surpasses the fate of being squeezed like sardines in a urn placed in the columbarium. 👻
報父母恩咒:「南無密栗哆。哆婆曳。梭哈」
Nan Mo Mi Li Duo Duo Po Yi Soha
(I practices the True Buddha Tantric Dharma, thus I follow my Root Guru’s recitation sounds and recite “soha” at the end of this mantra. This represents perfection and accomplishment.)
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Mantra to Repay Debt of Gratitude to Parents x 49: https://youtu.be/a9XbKo6_L6E
Merits of this mantra:https://youtu.be/x-7GPmbq5nw
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因為要當朋友的伴娘,所以目前在努力減肥中
昨天就問獨角獸卡說在她結婚前我能減到理想體重嗎?
結果抽出了兩張牌
pets <- 完全不懂 囧
One Step at a Time <-這張我能理解要我不要急慢慢來
那個 pets... 實在是讓我不明白呀~~ 囧
後來我說我不太了解意思耶~ 可以說清楚一點嗎?
又抽了兩張牌
It'ss Okay to Be Different <- 意思是還是會一樣肥吧?!
我朋友都是瘦子,只有我超標15KG
Light <- 要我相信自我的內在魅力吧~ 囧
後來我有點沮喪一直碎碎唸說所以我不會減到我想要的體重嘛...balabala...
然後又跳出一張牌,打開來看,又是那張 Light XDDDDDD
獨角獸真的很溫柔,很會安慰人耶~~
只是我還是不懂,減肥跟pets有啥關呀 orz
還有,我跟版友一樣問了獨角獸卡跟祂是什麼關係時,是抽出
Listen to Your True Feeilngs
@@ 不太懂耶~ 是說,它就是反應我內心的意思嗎?
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