【德多少,就得多少】
YOUR VIRTUES DETERMINE HOW MUCH YOU GET
最近家附近有建築工地,噪音多了。
客人聽我的聲音不會有問題,因為我的耳機有麥克風,但如果他們不戴有麥克風的耳機,我聽他們的聲音會比較辛苦。
幾天前,為一位年輕的保險經紀通過Zoom批八字。
他進入Zoom會議室後,呆看著我。
我微笑看著他,故意不出聲,觀察著他。
幾秒後,他才粗魯的說:「哈囉?!」
奇怪了,貴為一個保險經紀,見人應該無數,打招呼的方式,怎能這麼粗俗?我阿姨阿伯級的客人,雖不常用Zoom,都比他懂禮貌。
我馬上回:「X先生,您好。您進來會議室,怎麼打招呼這麼粗俗?」
「我一向來都是這樣先哈囉,有聲音我才正式打招呼。」
「我倒是從來不會這樣。」
其實,這是個人修養的問題。
「你沒有讀我發給你的貼文嗎?為何你視訊沒有戴耳機?」
「我一向來Zoom都是這樣,沒有戴耳機。我以為你只是建議而已,不一定要戴。」
「我在貼文裡寫關於戴耳機的理由,你覺得不成立嗎?」
他想了幾秒,回:「是成立的。」
「我們都是提供服務的人。客人找我們,需要三大元素。第一個,就是同理心。你沒有同理心,難怪你說你的客人寧願聽別人說,也不信你說。」
「如果你要我戴,我現在就戴。」
他講完後,依然坐在那裡看著我,一動也不動。
後來,我說了幾句,他肯戴上耳機後,藍牙耳機也並沒操作好。
等了我一個月,這麼簡單的事情都不願事先做好。
看著他理直氣壯的模樣,頓時覺得他很可憐。
貴人坐在他面前,他說的一大堆話,都是以「自我」為出發點,完全不懂得「以和為貴」的道理。這不就是親手把貴人轟出門嗎?
「你這樣講話,就算講贏了,你真的贏了嗎?」
換成我是他的客人,我絕不會向他買保險,因為很明顯這不是一位真心為別人著想的保險經紀人。
那天,雖為他看八字,該說的我都有說,但我依然保留許多。
因為他缺德。
許多人把「德」看得很輕,覺得沒做壞事就是好人。事實上,不按照別人合理的要求做事,蓄意破壞規則,只顧自己,也是沒有德行可言。
有些人會吐槽,哎呀你學佛的人,要慈悲,何必跟他計較?不要著相!
我不是在意氣用事。
沒有智慧的慈悲,會害死人的。
祖師有訓 - 看命本來就是依客人的福德多寡,而賜福。品行不端的人,承受不起更多的福報,反而會遭反噬。再說了,對貴人都不好的人,對沒有利用價值的人就會更善良嗎?
不是捐錢的,就一定是好人,什麼事情都是要用心才算。
每個人都想要與眾不同,可是如果你的所作所為和一般人一樣,沒有比他們做得更好,那你的命格只配拿得起一般的命運。
不要迷信,以為什麼都是人家為難你,就跑去求神拜佛要打小人。我們命運裡的每一個障礙,每一粒石頭,都是自己放進去的。
你不改,障礙物就不會移。
在這裡聲明:沒有麥克風耳機的Zoom客人,我一概會取消諮詢,進行退款,沒得商量,沒得瞎掰。
能突然放假,真是太過癮了!
——————————————————
Recently, a construction site sprouted up beside my place, creating a lot of noise every day.
Zoom clients wouldn’t have a problem hearing me, but if they do not have a earpiece with a mic, I would have a problem hearing them.
Few days ago, I did a Bazi analysis for a young Insurance Agent via Zoom.
After he entered my Zoom meeting room, he looked at me blankly.
I smiled at him, deliberately staying quiet, and observed him.
Few seconds later, he said bluntly, “Hello?!”
How strange that an insurance agent, who probably have met tons of people, would greet in such an abrupt manner. My middle-aged clients, who rarely use Zoom, have better etiquette than him.
I replied instantly, “Hi, Mr X. Why is your greeting so crude, upon entering this meeting room?”
“I always say hello like this and wait to hear a reply, before I greet officially.”
“I never do that.”
Actually, this demonstrates the refinement of a person.
“Did you not read the post I sent you? Why are you not wearing a earpiece?”
“All along, I do Zooms in this manner without a earpiece. I thought it’s just a suggestion from you and it was not mandatory.”
“I wrote about the reason for clients to wear a earpiece. Do you find it invalid?”
He pondered for a few seconds and replied, “It’s valid.”
“We are both service providers. Clients look for us based on three main qualities. The first being the quality of empathy. You lack empathy and it’s no wonder you say your clients rather listen to others and not trust you as much.”
“If you want me to wear, then I will wear it now”
And he sat there looking at me, not moving an inch.
When he finally put on his ear pods, they did not operate well either.
It’s peculiar how despite a month of waiting for me, he was slow to get this simple thing done right.
Seeing how “self-assured” he was, for a brief moment, I find his behaviour pitiful.
His benefactor was sitting right in front of him, yet his words remained self-serving, totally oblivious to what harmony is about. Wasn’t this sending your benefactor straight out of the door?
“Even if you gain an upper hand talking like this, have you really won?
I would never buy insurance from such an agent, as obviously he was not the considerate kind.
I still read his Bazi that day, said what I should but there were also a lot I did not reveal.
Because he is lacking in virtues.
Many people think lightly of virtues. They assumed that if they do no evil deed, they are virtuous humans. Fact is, if you do not follow the reasonable requirements of other people, deliberately breaking the rules for your own gain, you have no virtue to speak of.
Some naysayers will tell me, but hey you are a practicing Buddhist, so you should exercise your compassion and not be bothered with his behaviour! Don’t get attached to external form!
This isn’t about me.
Compassion without wisdom brings more harm than good.
Since ancient times, it is a rule of thumb that we practitioners allocate good fortune to clients, based on their conduct and luck.
A person with undesirable conduct is unable to bear greater fortune, or there will be adverse consequences. Moreover, if a person is unkind to his benefactor, it is very unlikely that he will be kinder to another person with no value to him.
You can’t define a person as a good man, just because he is willing to donate money. We got to look at how he uses his heart.
Everybody wants to be special and different from others. But if what you are doing is the same as other people, nowhere better than them, then you can only carry a mediocre Destiny.
Don’t be superstitious to think that everybody is out to get you, and you go running to the temples or Feng Shui masters to chase away the villains.
Every obstacle in our destiny, every little stone that trips us, is placed in our lives by no other person but ourselves.
If you do not change, the obstacle isn’t going to budge either.
And here’s an official note: For any Zoom client that does not wear a earpiece with a microphone, I will cancel the consultation and give you a refund.
Having off days out of the blue are so much more fun!
同時也有45部Youtube影片,追蹤數超過315萬的網紅Jordan Yeoh Fitness,也在其Youtube影片中提到,All level fat burning bodyweight workout. Beginners, please follow the alternative version. Intermediate level, try to keep up with my pace! Hardcore ...
running form 在 IELTS Nguyễn Huyền Facebook 的最讚貼文
TỪ VỰNG IELTS - CHỦ ĐỀ FOSSIL FUELS [Kèm ví dụ]
🎗PHẦN TỪ VỰNG
- to produce greenhouse gases: thải ra khí thải nhà kính
- the greenhouse effect: hiệu ứng nhà kính
- to contribute to global warming: góp phần gây ra sự nóng lên toàn cầu
- non-renewable, finite resources: tài nguyên hữu hạn, không thể tái tạo
- to be released into the air: được thả vào không khí
- to take a very long time to form: mất một thời gian rất dài để hình thành
- to run out of oil, gas and coal: cạn kiệt dầu, khí đốt và than đá
- power stations powered by fossil fuels: trạm điện chạy bằng nhiên liệu hóa thạch
- to be relatively cheap: tương đối rẻ
- to cause climate change: gây ra biến đổi khí hậu
- the dangers of rising global temperatures: những nguy hiểm của việc nhiệt độ toàn cầu tăng cao
- to threaten the lives of…: đe dọa cuộc sống của…
- oil spills and explosions: dầu tràn và nổ
- to wreak havoc on…: tàn phá…
- to generate huge amount of energy: tạo ra một lượng lớn năng lượng
- fossil fuel reserves: các mỏ dự trữ nhiên liệu hóa thạch
- to pose a threat to…: đe dọa đến…
- oil and gas drilling operations: hoạt động khoan dầu khí
- renewable energy sources: các nguồn năng lượng có thể tái tạo
- to build power stations: xây dựng các nhà máy điện
- maintenance and running costs: chi phí bảo trì và vận hành
- high levels of radiation: mức độ bức xạ cao
- to affect marine ecosystems: ảnh hưởng đến hệ sinh thái biển
- a national electricity grid: mạng lưới điện quốc gia
- the dominant sources of energy: nguồn năng lượng quan trọng, được sử dụng nhiều nhất
- to rely heavily on fossil fuels: phụ thuộc nhiều vào nhiên liệu hóa thạch
- to be formed from the remains of dead organisms over millions of years: được hình thành từ phần còn lại của sinh vật chết qua hàng triệu năng
🎗PHẦN VÍ DỤ page mình xem tại đây nhé: https://ielts-nguyenhuyen.com/tu-vung-ielts-fossil-fuels/
#ieltsnguyenhuyen
running form 在 Facebook 的最佳貼文
The photos you are looking at are the first bodyweight session I posted on my channel 6 years back. The difficulty of this session today is only level 2, but back then, I'm already struggling each round (4 min) despite coming from many years of training experience from weightlifting and running!
Since then, I have posted more bodyweight workouts than ever because I find bodyweight is super efficient; it could help a person get fit, burn fat, and maintain a lean physique, especially when we can't go to the gym or do cardio outdoor.
Time flies, today I've produced up to 1000+ bodyweight content in my socials, online programs, and app. The best thing is how we progressed throughout these years from Level 2 to Level 6! From a 4 minute routine to a 60+ minute nonstop session. You guys are fantastic!
Will there be a level 7 workout? Tbh, Level 6 is currently the best I can produce with proper form and pace. If you pay close attention to some of my level 6 workouts, you will notice that my form is slowly breaking down by the session's intensity.
Imo, coming out with the most brutal deadliest routine is not the hard part; anyone can draft out a 1000 burpees routine and name it a level 7 workout. A 2000 burpees and call it a level 8 workout etc... but executing it with poor form and taking way too long to complete is not a workout at all.
Well, that's not the goal for now. The goal is about executing it properly while keeping it safe and effective for everyone to follow along. That's what every workout session should be. So will there be a proper level 7 workout session in the future? Never say never. We shall see. ;)
Check out my first bodyweight workout video here: https://youtu.be/xUJLJbivMvY (try to follow my pace)
running form 在 Jordan Yeoh Fitness Youtube 的精選貼文
All level fat burning bodyweight workout. Beginners, please follow the alternative version. Intermediate level, try to keep up with my pace! Hardcore people, take no rest in between each round! As always, your form is the most important of all, slow down and do it with the proper form if you are running out of gas! Download my training App here: https://bit.ly/trainwithjordanapp
Estimated calories burned in this session: 250-450+ kcal
(your fitness tracker might show different results)
▷Connect with Me
Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/jordanyeohfitness
Facebook: http://facebook.com/jordanyeohfitness
Training & Coaching App: https://bit.ly/trainwithjordanapp
Music by Revealed Recordings
0:00 Warm Up
3:13 Round 1
6:25 Round 2
9:37 Round 3
13:00 Round 4
16:27 Final Round
DISCLAIMER
The exercises and workouts provided in this video are for educational purposes only and are not to be interpreted as a recommendation for a specific treatment plan, product, or course of action.
Before beginning this or any exercise program, please consult a physician for appropriate exercise prescription and safety precautions.
The exercise instruction and advice presented are in no way intended as a substitute for medical consultation. As with any exercise program,
if at any point during your workout you begin to feel faint, dizzy or have physical discomfort,
you should stop immediately and consult a physician.
#fitness #workout #weightloss
![post-title](https://i.ytimg.com/vi/7011WUaLNZE/hqdefault.jpg)
running form 在 好奇婆婆PoPoCurious Youtube 的最佳貼文
每天局勢都在變化ing,最好先上網或打電話詢問醫院是否還有足夠的test kits試劑
******** Update On 2021-05-24 ***********
Since Taipei City Hospital, Yongming Branch may not provide Covid test for Walk-in registration after running out of test kits.
It is strongly recommended that you register online first in case the walk-in clinic is temporarily cancelled.
Please note that as the epidemic in Taiwan continues, our CDC and all hospital regulations may change at any time.
For COVID-19 PCR test.
Please be prepared and bring the following documents:
Complete application Form
Bring your actual passport and copy of passport
Bring ID or ARC card and copy of ID or ARC cards
Bring a copy of flight e-tickets
The hospital I went
陽明院區急診室
所在地點: 臺北市立聯合醫院陽明院區
地址: 11146台北市士林區雨聲街105號
電話: 02 2835 3456 (call before you go)
![post-title](https://i.ytimg.com/vi/HMH_DPSeXf0/hqdefault.jpg)
running form 在 Jordan Yeoh Fitness Youtube 的精選貼文
You can do this after your gym or cardio running session.
One round of this is a good start, feel free to repeat 2 more rounds if you can take it. Be sure to maintain good form when exercising!
To get the best out of my workout videos, you must commit yourself to workout at least 3 times or more in a week (I still train about 5-6 times a week during this outbreak). Feel free to incorporate your workout with my other training routines from my channel, choose what works best for you!
▷Connect with Me
Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/jordanyeohfitness
Facebook: http://facebook.com/jordanyeohfitness
Personal Training Web App: https://ironmastery.com
DISCLAIMER:
This workout routine is not a spot-reduction exercise routine. Perhaps, Spot-reduction is a fitness myth. You can't burn fat in a specific area (belly, triceps, chest, legs) by doing a specifically targeted muscle group exercise. However, the title of this video "Fat Burning Abs Workout", is a couple of different abdominal exercises in a circuit form, added active rest that keeps your heart rate firing at a higher rate throughout the entire 4 minutes of this workout. Therefore, you will burn more calories/fat with this type of workout routine. Of course, the fitter you are the more rounds you can go = more calorie burn.
The exercises and workouts provided in this video are for educational purposes only and are not to be interpreted as a recommendation for a specific treatment plan, product, or course of action.
Before beginning this or any exercise program, please consult a physician for appropriate exercise prescription and safety precautions.
As with any exercise program, if at any point during your workout you begin to feel faint, dizzy, or have physical discomfort, you should stop immediately and consult a physician.
#TrainWithJordan #Bodymaster #IronMastery
![post-title](https://i.ytimg.com/vi/YHzfic-BuT8/hqdefault.jpg)