People say that you should forgive whomever that wrongs you, regardless of whether they ask for forgiveness or not. I THINK THAT'S A LOAD OF CRAP. You shouldn't fixate on the wrongs people commit upon you, yes, but all this unsolicited forgiving ever does, is allow the perpetrator to get off scot free.
Only forgive people who seek forgiveness from you, and only forgive them if they really ARE contrite about their wrongdoings. Otherwise, cast them asunder and forget about them, but don't bother exonerating their sins - it does nothing to benefit you.
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Gonna share something very personal & private to me, even my mom doesn’t know.
Here goes.
When I was 15, I was molested. It was night time after Sec 3 camp & I was standing near the front in the packed bus surrounded by random guys. I felt someone touching me. At first I thought it was my imagination. But it kept going on for at least ten minutes.
I was really scared. I recalled looking around to identify the culprit but everyone looked totally normal. Then I tried shaking his hand off. But it became worse. He grabbed and fondled even harder. Trust me when I said I wanted to scream. But I didn’t. I endured the entire thing in silence.
Looking back, I could have done a lot more to protect myself. But I also can recall my exact thoughts then and why I kept quiet.
1. If I screamed, everyone would look at me. That quizzical look that strangers always give. And then I have to speak up to the entire group of strangers that I’m getting molested. What if they just look away and think I’m crazy?
2. If I screamed, the man might stop. But he is not going to own up. He is just going to blend in the crowd and walk away scot free.
3. I still had to go home alone. What if the culprit takes revenge on me for daring to shout and stop him. What if he follows me later when the crowd dispersed?
4. Everyone looked busy. If I screamed, can I count on a stranger kind enough to help me apprehend the culprit and deal w all the formalities later?
And the list of “why I should just endure this” goes on. After that, I didn’t tell anyone too. Cos knowing my parents, they gonna ask for details & that’s even more embarrassing. Knowing my friends, they would probably joke and say, “You very sexy meh? Got people want to molest you ah?”
I have gotten over this incident and I can laugh at such comments now. But I know for many traumatised victims, such victim shaming comments don’t help.
In conclusion, I hope my sharing sheds some light that sexual harassment is more common than we all think. Support and understanding goes a long way. 🙂
If by now, you are wondering, “so what were you wearing?” My answer is - You have completely missed the point. 🤦🏻♀️ #donttellmehowtodress @ NomadX
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這幾天在印度最大的新聞,應該就是這個了。
在今年一月的時候,印度Jammu區的一個8歲小女孩,正在幫忙家務,要牽著馬匹去外圍吃草,而性侵犯就在這個時候找上了她。
而這個性侵案件最誇張的點是,執行性侵的有八個男生,其中有四名是印度警察,其中一名還是SPO特別警員,再來還有一個是印度廟的廟祝?!
在當下有一名男子誘騙了女孩,並且將他施打鎮定劑之後,就將小女孩暫時藏在一間印度廟裡面,而這八名男子就在四天左右的時間,輪流性侵這個孩子,最後在勒斃並且用石頭攻擊女孩致死。
印度有性侵案件不稀奇大家都知道,而今天我想要分享這件事的原因,其實也是來自於我一直以來我對印度人的困惑,你們看看右邊那張照片,他就是那間印度廟的廟公,他看起來就像我們在印度旅遊各地,所會遇到老伯、好人,如果跟他聊個幾句,或許還會請你喝一杯奶茶。
我困惑的就在於這裡,我永遠沒有辦法分辨眼前的這些印度人,我正面跟他們講話的時候人模人樣好聲好氣,轉過頭後,會不會其實是個卑劣的人?曾經就參與過什麼惡劣、侵犯女人的行為。
而且各位仔細看,照片中的人兩個人,額頭都有宗教祈福的紅砂,宗教的世界,妙吧?
(當然我還是遇過很多好的印度人,很明顯就不是那樣子卑劣的人,大家在貼文下方也會看到,對這些性侵害事件非常憤怒)
這件新聞目前在印度北邊應該在大幅燃燒,希望至少能讓政府做做樣子懲罰壞人,而不是就讓這件事這樣子過去。
#下方請就不用留言什麼
#所以我一輩子都不會去印度
#印度就是這種鬼國家我才不會去之類的
#因為說這種話的人通常一輩子都去不了什麼地方
#再說台灣也有很多惡劣的性侵事件只是大家沒看到
In this case, the 8-year girl is said to be kidnapped, gang-raped, and murdered by 8 men. She was out taking her ponies to gaze.
I have replaced her picture with two of her abuser's pictures.
1. Deepak Khajuria. 28 years old. He is an SPO - Special Police Officer. (Yes, please - read that again).
2. Sanji Ram. 60 years Old. Is the main caretaker of the "Devasthan" (small temple), and is listed as the main conspirator in the crime.
3. Tilak Raj - Head Constable (We were asked to take the pictures down, as they were not verified)
4. Anand Dutta - Sub-inspector (We were asked to take the pictures down, as they were not verified)
They took Rs. 4 lakh from Sanji Ram to destroy crucial evidence.
5. Surinder Kumar - Special Police Officer (No picture found)
6. Vishal Jangotra - Sanji Ram’s son who studied in Meerut. He raped the girl with the juvenile.
7. Parvesh Kumar - Deepak's close friend who was asked for help and assistance in executing the plan on the ground.
CASE 2: A faith healer in Kashmir has been accused of abusing 5000 children. Because of no specific law like POCSO the case has been on for over 2 years.
Their pictures need to go viral. Not her's. We don't need to be scared of being that child but these men in power, authority, and access.
Reason: To cause communal disharmony. Of course!
So, basically threaten the community by raping and murdering their children so that they live in perpetual fear of their safety and leave the place.
This is NOW a case of dispute between two political parties. Where people actually took to the streets to save him. He might go scot-free. #Kathua might not get her justice. The justice is not just for her, but ALL the children in the country.
He goes scot-free, and we have so many more children left in the country (including our own) for him and his likes to exploit. You can keep your children at home to keep them protected. Stifle their growth, movement, and let them be abused by someone at home. Or let them out and face this.
What can we do: At least baat shuru karte hain. 53% of people are abused in the country. Meaning, about half of the folks on my list here. Break your silence and share with someone close to you about what happened.
#JusticeForKathua #Bola #FocusOnTheAbuserNotTheVictim
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