最好的自己不在未來,就在現在。
認真回想,以前我好像在每一段關係中都是在扮演某一個角色,不由自主的在為每個對象做調整。不只有在戀愛上,有時候可能跟朋友、工作夥伴都是,尤其是在前輩面前,常常我都會本能反應似的改變自己。聲音要甜一點嗎?笑話要低級一點嗎?從穿衣服就可以看出,我今天是要跟誰吃飯。雖然是微調,但透露出了一件事,我好像不夠喜歡真正的自己,所以才會擔心大家也不會喜歡真正的我。我告訴自己即使累,但如果持續努力,有一天就能變成大家都喜歡的Lara。
久而久之我和世界的相處模式只有「由外到內」,會依照別人對我的反應去斷定我的下一步。大家會覺得我很好相處,我卻越來越不快樂。現在我慢慢開始懂了,原來我把順序弄反了。我該優先處理的是自己內心的感受,其他人買不買單,其實跟你一點關係都沒有。就像找另外一半,如果我跟夢中情人在一起,但我根本無法在他面前做自己,最後還是會走不下去。
我現在33歲,So What? 終於懂,「當下的自己」才是人生時間軸上最重要的!
對了,有人好奇這次「{}」的意思嗎?簡單說是「大括號」,在數學運算式中稱作「空集合」。數學不好的人就想像一個清空的行李箱吧。「空」不是無,而是無限可能。括號還有另外一個更好懂的意思,就是「優先處理」。將過去整理過後的自己,回歸純粹,態度成熟自信!(失戀後重新出發的人應該很有感觸吧!🤣)
Your best self is not in the future, but in the Now.
Looking back, I seem to have been playing a role in almost every relationship I was ever in. I'm not just talking about romantic relationships. Whether it was with friends or colleagues (especially seniors), I would modify myself almost instinctively. Should my voice be sweeter? My jokes dirtier? If you wanted to know who I was eating with that day, all you had to do was look at the clothes I was wearing.
The changes were subtle, but they still reflected a truth: I didn’t feel like the real me was enough so I was worried that other people would also find her lacking. I told myself that if I just kept working at it, I would someday become a version of Lara that everyone accepted.
Eventually I only knew how to get my cues from the external world. I would always base my next step on feedback I got from others. Most people considered me easy to get along with, but I grew more and more unhappy.
I think I had it all wrong. My first priority should have been listening to my inner voice. Whether or not other people agree with it is not in my control nor of my concern. Take looking for a partner. Even if I found the person of my dreams, it would never last if I couldn’t be myself around them.
I am 33 years old. So What? I finally understand that "the present self" is the most important thing on the timeline of life! It’s time to prioritize me!
By the way, is anyone curious about the meaning of "{}" this time? Besides the more commonly known representation of parentheses as prioritization, these curly brackets are called “the empty set”. The empty what? If like me, math is not your strongest suit, think of it as an empty suitcase. "Empty" doesn’t mean nothing, but infinite possibilities! What will you fill your life with this time?
2021全新專輯《來者何人{}》
數位收聽:https://LaraLiang.lnk.to/DearYou2
<再也沒有你> 陳勢安 Andrew Tan
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#Lara梁心頤2021全新專輯二部曲 #來者何人{} 全球發行
#再也沒有你 #NoMoreU #SoWhat30
同時也有3部Youtube影片,追蹤數超過1,270的網紅Freeyon Chung 鍾君揚,也在其Youtube影片中提到,我會想念他 - 何雁詩 其實呢一首歌,我喺佢未正式出街嘅時候喺音樂節目拍攝當中聽過。真心非常之入耳,同埋就算Step嗰日有啲唔舒服 (有試過唱唱下因為咳要停止),佢把聲嘅穿透力都令人好易感受到首歌想表達嘅感覺同意思。其實聽頭一兩次都已經想跟住個副歌唱 Haha 但係點解要係 F# Major ? ...
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step on it意思 在 SU YANG , 蘇婭 Facebook 的最佳解答
早晨被一個夢打醒⋯
這個夢很有意思 代表我內心的渴求 狀態⋯有一陣子沒有這樣子有點複雜紛亂又清楚的夢⋯。
才知道今天是1月11日~1/11⋯❤️
在我生命中有兩個日子,刻劃很深的記號⋯11/1 和1/11~。我從來沒有覺得數字有什麼特別,但這兩個數字卻讓我永遠記得,紀念甚至感恩!❤️🌹🥰🥰
那是一段刻骨銘心很難明白的艱困過程,多年前1/11那個日子讓我跨了一個大門,有一點像是生孩子的過程,痛到你幾乎不想生,但是忍過那個最痛的階段,就是一個新生命的開始⋯,真的是如此啊⋯若沒有勇敢的跨過去往前走,我就看不到現在一片綠意盎然,充滿生氣的我的人生風景!所有的細節美麗和精彩啊⋯!
我曾經有一個經驗,很可愛很真實!轉換了我面對傷害的態度~!
特別傷你的人是你愛的人,特別難面對⋯。
有一次我跟主禱告,和著眼淚和氣憤⋯,在禱告中,我看見一個影像,就像電影一樣~那個傷我的人對著我扔石頭,但那石頭沒打著我,於是我撿起那塊石頭很生氣的回丟過去,扔過去時,覺得很沒力道手很輕⋯一看,我扔過去的,居然是一個麵包!我突然就噗哧的笑了⋯怎麼那麼沒力呀!連傷人都傷不到!🥰🥰這時上帝對我說,如果別人用黑暗用憎恨來對你,難道你回他的是一樣的嗎?你的心中有的是什麼呢?如果你有了我,你會知道要回應什麼⋯⋯
真的,我即刻從生氣到笑自己,這麼容易被激怒,因為我心中充滿的⋯真的不是這些,我可以給予的美麗和美好太多了⋯。
在黑暗中,唯有你自己成為光,才可以找出一條路⋯不要再等候其他的⋯。
你自己就可以成為光,你自己就是那個美麗!那個力量!那個智慧!那個勇敢!⋯只是你沒有找到那個鑰匙⋯甚至是你不想找~
最近有一個很深的體悟,不管你有多愛一個人,或者有人多愛你,不管你有多少人陪在你旁邊,你最終都是得孤獨的面對自己~靈魂的那一個你~如果你自己不能好好欣賞愛你自己,明白你自己是美麗的,你就沒有辦法自在和滿足~。

對於那些傷害與破碎,還有那些不明白為何傷害你的人~放了吧!
一句傷害的話都不用說,因為你更多的能量是看自己愛自己成為⋯美麗的那一個你~!使人看見你就開心就喜樂!好像吃到麵包那樣滿足!🥰🥰❤️🌹

在2021/1/11的今天~~這曾經令我痛哭欲絕的這一天,我向我的主獻上感恩~
謝謝祢總是不離不棄,在我最艱困的時候,用祢最溫柔有力的胸膛擁抱我!用祢最溫柔最有智慧的言語餵飽我,用祢最溫柔明亮的光帶領我,用祢最深最廣的愛情包裹我⋯。 使我可以在靈魂的海洋裡 大山裡面自由奔放⋯I love you,My Lord....🌷

(馬太福音 5:9) 使人和睦的人有福了!因為他們必稱為 神的兒子。
(Matthew 5:9) Blessed are the peacemakers: for they shall be called the children of God.
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Photographer:Su 蘇婭
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I Waked up by a dream in the morning...
This dream is very interesting. It represents the desire ,my situation in my heart....It hasn't been a somewhat complicated and clear dream like this for a while.
I just know that today is January 11 day~1/11...❤️
There are two days in my life, with deep marks...11/1 and 1/11~. I have never felt that the numbers are special, but these two numbers make me always remember, commemorate and even be grateful! ❤️🌹
It was a difficult process that was unforgettable and hard to understand. ..The day 1/11 many years ago ...made me step through a door. It was a little bit like the process of having a child. The pain was so painful that you almost didn’t want to give birth to ... But to endure the most painful stage is the beginning of a new life... , it’s true! If I didn’t step forward bravely, I would not see the greenery and fullness now. ...My Life...Landscape! All the details are beautiful and wonderful...!
I once had an experience, very cute and real! Changed my attitude in the face of injury~!
I once had an experience, very cute and real! Changed my attitude in the face of injury~!
The person who hurt you in particular is the one you love.
Once I prayed to the Lord, with tears and anger... During the prayer, I saw an image, just like a movie. The person who hurt me threw a stone at me, but the stone did not hit me, so I picked it up. I picked up the stone and threw it back angrily. When I threw it over, I felt very weak and light in my hand... At first glance, what I threw over was actually a piece of bread! Suddenly I laughed...how could I be so weak! Can't even hurt people! At this time, God said to me, if someone treat you in hatred in darkness way ,would it be the same for you to treat him? What is in your heart? If you had me, you would know what to respond...
Really, I instantly went from being angry to laughing at myself, I am so easily irritated, because my heart is filled with...it really is not this, I can give too much beautiful things and kindness...
In the dark, you can only find a way out by becoming the light yourself...don't wait for others...
You can become light yourself, and you yourself are the beauty! That power! That wisdom! That brave! ...But you didn't find the key...even you don't want to find it~
Recently, I have a deep realization that no matter how much you love someone or how many people love you, no matter how many people being with you, you will eventually have to face yourself alone~ the soul of you~ If you can’t appreciate and love yourself well, and understand that you are beautiful, you can’t be comfortable and satisfied~.
For those who hurt and broken, and those who don’t understand why they hurt you~ let it go!
There is no need to say a hurtful sentence, because you should take more energy to see yourself loving yourself and becoming...the beautiful you~! Make people happy when they see you! As satisfied as if they had bread! ❤️🌹
Today on January 11, 2021~~This is the day that once made me cry, I give my thanks to my Lord~
Thank you for always staying true to me. In my most difficult time, hug me with your most tender and powerful chest! Feed me with your tenderest and wisest words, lead me with your softest and brightest light, and wrap me with your deepest and broadest love... So that I can be free in the ocean of the soul...I love you, My Lord...🌷
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step on it意思 在 Eileen Carls 艾玲 Facebook 的最讚貼文
#無聊之解毒劑#情緒自律 #隔離#AntidoteForBoredom #Quarantine #english🔻
自從我抵達了達夏威夷以來,時間過得真快,我不敢相信這已經過了一整周!😱
這幾天專注於完成遠距離工作,念書,鍛煉,蹓狗,烹飪以及跟朋友視訊。
我人生中一直不懂那些會 「無聊」的人,這是什麼問題呀⋯? 我是時間都不夠用那種😅
唉⋯好啦,實際我知道問題出在哪...處在這個狀況的人不喜歡聽😬👇🏽
「如果你感到無聊,那是因為你沒有面對你現在應該做的事情」
就是這麼簡單!
意思是 你無聊時 其實正在拖延,不採取你的下一步 = 將責任推在你面前。
我們總有事要做,這是現實。 所以,要嘛去完成任務,不然做點有趣的事,或什麼都不做好好放鬆啊~ 無論做什麼,請盡情享受你的選擇🙌🏽😉
#抱怨無效
#自己的行為自己的責任
#情緒管理
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~~~english~~~
Since I arrived in Hawaii, time has past so fast, I can’t believe it’s already been a WEEK! 😱
I’ve been focusing on getting remote work done, studying, cooking, working out, walking dogs, and catching up with friends on video calls.
Man... if there is such a thing people being bored, I really don’t know what problem they have.
...No wait, I actually I do know ha... People just don’t wanna hear it. 😬👇🏽
“If you’re bored, it’s because you’re not facing the things you should be doing.”
Means you’re procrastinating, not taking the next step you have to take. Aka pushing responsibilities in front of you, like they’re going to get done themselves.
We always have something to do, that’s reality. Either go get shit done, do something fun, or relax doing nothing. Either way, just enjoy what you do.
#ComplainingNeverHelps #100%OwnResponsiblity
#EmotionalDiscipline
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step on it意思 在 Freeyon Chung 鍾君揚 Youtube 的最讚貼文
我會想念他 - 何雁詩
其實呢一首歌,我喺佢未正式出街嘅時候喺音樂節目拍攝當中聽過。真心非常之入耳,同埋就算Step嗰日有啲唔舒服 (有試過唱唱下因為咳要停止),佢把聲嘅穿透力都令人好易感受到首歌想表達嘅感覺同意思。其實聽頭一兩次都已經想跟住個副歌唱 Haha 但係點解要係 F# Major ? 首歌咁新好難喺網上面搵到 chord, 所以好多都要自己搵。自己搵chord搵得咁辛苦,冇理由之後轉Key唔彈嘅。呢個應該係我人生第一次用呢個Key嚟彈琴,仲要係自彈自唱 ? 我盡咗力㗎啦 ? The E# dim and Aug chords though...
If you think playing piano and singing at the same time is hard, try doing it while playing in F# major and having to figure out a large amount of the chords on your own (not the straightforward kind) Yeah...it's a whole new level of difficult that's new to me lol I think I levelled up after this recording ?? Keep learning and growing, then take on bigger challenges ?
Thanks Johnny yet again for letting me use your studio space after hours to record this cover ???
New video every other Wednesday!
隔個星期三有新video!
#我會想念他 #何雁詩 #牛下女高音
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段段亦是真心唱過 一首最愛的歌
陪伴過 寂寂無名的我
做夢或是一起上課 歡笑有這麼多
緣份似 來過又錯過 曾想講未說清楚
我會想念他 定會相逢嗎
逝去的青春 來抓緊著尾巴
我要找尋他 力竭與聲沙
還在唱 唱出心裡牽掛
成年後告別童話 習慣向上爬
閉上眼睛 再見回憶中那個他
我太想念他 定會相逢嗎
再美的歌聲 和他總有偏差
夢裡都是他 沒著上婚紗
離別了 卻始終最牽掛
step on it意思 在 Coolgang Youtube 的最讚貼文
🎊聖嬰節是菲律賓宿霧的年度盛事,為期一週🎊
在每年一月的第三個星期舉行,有許多活動(舞蹈、藝術展覽、選美比賽、煙火等)重頭戲是在最後一天市區會封街舉辦花車遊行,全部街上的朝聖者也會一起跳舞,Sinulog的舞步是前進兩步再退後一步的節奏,你也會同時看見許多造型獨特的花車表演。當地人也會帶著家中的小耶穌神像一起上街遊行,其實有點像是台灣媽祖遶境的宗教儀式。遊行兩天,宿霧市全區會把手機訊號網路全部封鎖,以防恐怖攻擊的發生📵
我發現年輕人的慶祝活動更好玩,會聚集在另一條街上,將五彩繽紛的顏料互相塗抹在彼此臉上,也會對觀光客進行熱烈歡迎的見面禮,口中大喊著“Pit Senyor”就是代表著“聖嬰萬歲”的意思👼
這是菲律賓人慶祝聖嬰節的方式,明年計畫前往的朋友記得先訂房,其實是在奧斯美娜圓環的飯店,可以讓你在房間輕鬆地看完遊行表演👏
Sinulog Festival is an annual event in Cebu, Philippines, for a week
In the third week of January each year, there are many events (dance, art exhibitions, beauty contests, fireworks, etc.). The highlight is that on the last day, the city will hold a parade on the street, and all the pilgrims on the street will dance together. Sinulog's dance steps are a step forward in two steps, and you will also see many unique float shows. The locals will also take to the streets with the little Jesus in their homes. It is actually a religious ritual of Taiwan's Mazu. Two days after the parade, the entire cell phone signal network will be blocked in Cebu City to prevent terrorist attacks.
I found that the celebrations of young people are more fun. They will gather on another street, smearing colorful paints on each other's faces, and will also give a warm welcome to the tourists. The mouth yells "Pit Senyor" as the representative. The meaning of "Long live the Holy Baby"
This is the way Filipinos celebrate the Sinulog Festival. Friends who plan to travel next year will remember to make a reservation first. It is actually a restaurant in the Fuente Osmena Circle, which allows you to easily watch the parade in the room.
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step on it意思 在 鍾舒漫 Sherman Chung Youtube 的最佳貼文
在「模造自己」的過程裡,必然遇上很多衝擊,當困難像硬石般重力的向你擲去時,若然你也打算跟它一樣變成硬石,硬碰硬最後可能兩敗俱傷。但如你選擇化身成永遠都不能被擊倒的水,柔軟靈活,随屈就伸,不但硬石不能傷害你,而且最後也能保持原本的你!? 這就是致勝之道!!
Step 1:首先要「奪回初心」❤️《從不信自己》https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=CYV-3lucGcY
Step 2:再給勇氣去「尊敬你的真本性」❤️《隱型》https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=lyTWY8w22w4
Step 3:尊敬後必定要「堅持」❤️《小碎步》https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=8SgRP9BnmTA
Step 4:堅持當中,必然要「模造自己」❤️《Be Water My Friend》
“Empty your mind, be formless, shapeless - like water. Now you put water into a cup, it becomes the cup, you put water into a bottle, it becomes the bottle, you put it in a teapot, it becomes the teapot. Now water can flow or it can crash. Be water, my friend.” - Bruce Lee
btw 我這次MV中是 7個景換7套衫
17位Dancers跳足17小時?
我跟填詞人陳詠謙說了這一次的題目是想講關於「模造」的,他閉關思前想後,替我想了李小龍的名言去帶出裡面的意思,我驚訝萬分,這是一個很有智慧的表達,同時我親身被歌詞鼓勵,希望大家都可以細味!
這是非常我鍾舒漫的音樂類型,充滿90s味,對我而言,90s音樂節奏與質感是最最最有型的,包括舞蹈!排舞師Rock@Studiodanz最清楚我這一點,把我的BLOOD完全投射在舞蹈中,可能不是你們常喜歡看到的舞步,但我好想跟你們分享我心目中最有型的動作!就像李小龍所說的「The Art of Expressing Human Body」。
這次是我與偶像 王雙駿 (Carl叔叔) 第二度合作的作品,不過今次又有新合作模式。Carl叔叔這次還擔上我MV的Creative Director!不過這位新晉MV導演,相當貪心?,單是取景就要求一日走7個景,還要每個場景配上一套衫,造型師 Inggrad就是這次的SuperStar,她為我塑造了7個sherman,帶著不同的自己,由朝拍到晚,Dancers連同我,一行18人跳足17小時,我可以好肯定對大家說︰「呢個係我入行以來,拍得最辛苦嘅一個MV!」,但,值得!!!
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曲: 王雙駿
詞: 陳詠謙
編: 王雙駿
監: 王雙駿
人哋話 成熟不止一套方法
有青春 有心機 任我花
Be water, my friend
點解雕一個銅像 受萬人景仰 但望落去表情好僵
點解榜樣淨係得呢個樣 yee-ah yee-ah yee-ah
七十個巴仙水份 人類有水嘅特質
我哋可以係杯 可以係樽 可以係茶壺肥又矮
人哋話 存在不止一套風格
人哋話 模範不止一個她
人哋話 成熟不止一套方法
有青春 有心機 任我花
Be water, my friend
你動 我靜 你問 我搖頭不答
太多聲音可以啞
你怒 我樂 你罵 我悠然插花
人說欺山不欺水你懂嗎
九點鐘公共交通 一齊返工 但發嘅夢各有不同
尊嚴溝水飲咗會止到痛 yee-ah yee-ah yee-ah
我一路一路浮沉 漂流到夢想附近
終於可以做浪 可以扮潮 但未知上唔上到岸
人哋話 存在不止一套風格
人哋話 模範不止一個她
人哋話 成熟不止一套方法
有青春 有心機 任我花
Be water, my friend
你動 我靜 你問 我搖頭不答
太多框架可以打
你怒 我樂 你罵 我悠然插花
人說欺山不欺水你懂嗎
即使怎麽再雕刻
盛載不起各位每杯茶
算吧 我要變水 要作主 然後一滴滴滴下
你動 我靜 你問 我搖頭不答
你怒 我樂 你罵 我悠然插花
無固態更有性格
你動 我靜 你問 我搖頭不答
太多框架可以打
你怒 我樂 你罵 我悠然插花
人說欺山不欺水你懂嗎
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