It’s always baffled me that we think it’s appropriate to remark about changes in someone’s weight when we see them... this video has been a long time coming.
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Do we think they have no mirrors in their house and they haven’t noticed?
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I’ve used a few examples here that are closest to my personal experiences, but it’s an issue that affects people young and old, skinny, fat and everything in between.
Everyone seems incapable of putting themselves in the other person’s shoes.
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It’s really fucking simple. Just shut the fuck up and keep your observations the fuck to yourself.
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Maybe it’s a dear friend and you’re concerned about what the changes in their physique indicate about their lifestyle and their happiness... well then find a way to ask them about that! There are plenty of ways to ask someone how they’re doing and if they’re taking care of themselves without highlighting how it shows to everyone who looks at them.
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I live behind the scenes these days, working with people who struggle with their physiques and as a confident for friends. I know how sensitive a subject it is, even if they don’t show it and nervously laugh off comments.
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I grew up thinking it was an Asian thing, but then I realised that in Asia people (particularly older relatives) are particularly blunt about it with “Wah, so fat now ah?” whereas in the West people like to make it a joke with a “Ooh heck, you’ve let yourself go a bit eh mate!”.
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Both parties can go fuck themselves, and I’d love it if as many of you as possible who ever get made even slightly self-conscious about such remarks would take it upon yourselves to tell them so 🖕🏽
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Spread the word. Maybe, if it happens enough, we can sway the culture.
同時也有8部Youtube影片,追蹤數超過7,170的網紅AlexanderLamTakShun,也在其Youtube影片中提到,Alexander Lam Tak Shun-"BEEF"-(Official MV)-featuring Jun Kung and Doughboy BEEF Don’t eat no fish you better take it away Don’t eat no greens man ...
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"7289????" Daniel was shocked to see the drastic increase in the number of covid cases. He received the msg in one of his whatsapp groups.
"I don't know what the hell are these people doing until there are so many cases...🙄" he replied in the group.
Shortly after that,
"Ma, I'm going to my friends house for a while... I told him to give me all the pictures of the "secret gathering" we had yesterday, in a thumb drive.. Cannot upload on FB, they will catch, so I'm going to take it secretly.. 😁", he said while laughing.
Mother : "Ok boy, come back fast ok... I cooked your favourite mutton curry..
Too many Covid cases around... Dad and myself have not gone out for a long time because of this... Pls don't bring back any virus ok..."
Daniel laughed... "OK maa.. The way u are saying is as if I'm going to pack the virus and bring it back...🤣"
So Daniel went to James's house.
Lunch was ready, so James's mother invited him inside for lunch. James's mother know the covid cases are increasing, but she felt this boy doesn't have Covid because she knows this boy for such a long time. Daniel also know the Covid cases are increasing, but he felt this family won't have covid because they are like family to him too. Daniel loved all of them so much, especially the aunty. She always cooked for him.
So he went inside, took his mask off, asked them for a plastic to keep his mask so he can use it later when he is going back home, hugged everyone, everyone hugged him back, had his lunch together with the whole family, and had a great time catching up....
Then he went back home.
The next day, Daniel got a call from his Boss that one of his colleagues has been tested positive, so all of them have to do the swab. He hit his forehead and said "OK Boss, I will go and do."
Before doing the swab, he went to the supermarket. There he met another old friend, Ben after a long time. While talking, they both removed their masks because they are meeting after a long time.
Ben just got a baby after 10 years of waiting. Sincerely delighted with the news, Daniel gave Ben a big, tight hug before leaving.
"We will all come and visit the baby soon brother" he said...
Then he went for the Covid swab and went back home.
The next day, he received a call from the doctor that his swab results is positive.
He shouted back at the doctor "Cannot be laa doc!!! I don't have any symptoms... I wore mask everywhere I went what!!!"
Now - the most important part....
The Doctor tells him "Mr Daniel, now u have to give us a list of people that you had close contact with for the past few days, without leaving anyone out. They all need to do the swab."
So Daniel wrote the list down.
This time, he didn't laugh anymore.
His hand was trembling while writing, because they were all his loved ones.
In the list, were his parents & siblings who stayed with him, his friends that he met during the secret gathering, his girlfriend that he drove all around with, James, James's family, Ben...
"God, pls let this end with me... I hope I didn't pass it to anyone...How if anything happens to anyone of them because of me? God, none of them must be positive, please... " he prayed silently, wiping his tears.
So all their results came back the following day. His parents were positive, 4 of his friends that he met in the secret gathering was positive, James was positive, James's mother was positive, Ben was positive, Ben's precious baby was positive.
________________________
After 4 days, Daniel's mother was admitted to ICU.
During her last video call before intubation, she told him,
"Boy... Remember that I love you a lot... Take care of Dad... Dont feel bad that you brought the virus home... Either way also I am old already, that's why I can't cope... Remember its not your fault ok..."
She didn't make it in the end, and they couldn't even do the funeral.
While this was going on, he received a msg that James's mother needs to be admitted to ICU but all the ICUs are full at the moment, so she is still waiting in the normal ward, praying hard and hoping to get an ICU bed soon. According to James, the frontliners are going out of their way to help her with whatever they have, while waiting for the bed.
Daniel could only cry out loudly, but he can't undo what he has done. Now he finally understands how the number has increased.
Moral of the story :
With the increasing number of cases, every person you meet may either be a close contact, a contact's contact, or a POSITIVE COVID.
But you know what is the good news? You can avoid Daniel's situation if you stay at home.
#StaySafe
This msg is brought to you by :
Dr. T. M. Shamani
(Based on a few true stories)
🌺Copy and paste🌺
what happens when you get old 在 Facebook 的精選貼文
Long read but basically sums up why we cannot be too laid back when it comes to adhering to the SOPs.
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Comment YES if you agree!
"7289????" Daniel was shocked to see the drastic increase in the number of covid cases. He received the msg in one of his whatsapp groups.
"I don't know what the hell are these people doing until there are so many cases...🙄" he replied in the group.
Shortly after that,
"Ma, I'm going to my friends house for a while... I told him to give me all the pictures of the "secret gathering" we had yesterday, in a thumb drive.. Cannot upload on FB, they will catch, so I'm going to take it secretly.. 😁", he said while laughing.
Mother : "Ok boy, come back fast ok... I cooked your favourite mutton curry..
Too many Covid cases around... Dad and myself have not gone out for a long time because of this... Pls don't bring back any virus ok..."
Daniel laughed... "OK maa.. The way u are saying is as if I'm going to pack the virus and bring it back...🤣"
So Daniel went to James's house.
Lunch was ready, so James's mother invited him inside for lunch. James's mother know the covid cases are increasing, but she felt this boy doesn't have Covid because she knows this boy for such a long time. Daniel also know the Covid cases are increasing, but he felt this family won't have covid because they are like family to him too. Daniel loved all of them so much, especially the aunty. She always cooked for him.
So he went inside, took his mask off, asked them for a plastic to keep his mask so he can use it later when he is going back home, hugged everyone, everyone hugged him back, had his lunch together with the whole family, and had a great time catching up....
Then he went back home.
The next day, Daniel got a call from his Boss that one of his colleagues has been tested positive, so all of them have to do the swab. He hit his forehead and said "OK Boss, I will go and do."
Before doing the swab, he went to the supermarket. There he met another old friend, Ben after a long time. While talking, they both removed their masks because they are meeting after a long time.
Ben just got a baby after 10 years of waiting. Sincerely delighted with the news, Daniel gave Ben a big, tight hug before leaving.
"We will all come and visit the baby soon brother" he said...
Then he went for the Covid swab and went back home.
The next day, he received a call from the doctor that his swab results is positive.
He shouted back at the doctor "Cannot be laa doc!!! I don't have any symptoms... I wore mask everywhere I went what!!!"
Now - the most important part....
The Doctor tells him "Mr Daniel, now u have to give us a list of people that you had close contact with for the past few days, without leaving anyone out. They all need to do the swab."
So Daniel wrote the list down.
This time, he didn't laugh anymore.
His hand was trembling while writing, because they were all his loved ones.
In the list, were his parents & siblings who stayed with him, his friends that he met during the secret gathering, his girlfriend that he drove all around with, James, James's family, Ben...
"God, pls let this end with me... I hope I didn't pass it to anyone...How if anything happens to anyone of them because of me? God, none of them must be positive, please... " he prayed silently, wiping his tears.
So all their results came back the following day. His parents were positive, 4 of his friends that he met in the secret gathering was positive, James was positive, James's mother was positive, Ben was positive, Ben's precious baby was positive.
________
After 4 days, Daniel's mother was admitted to ICU.
During her last video call before intubation, she told him,
"Boy... Remember that I love you a lot... Take care of Dad... Dont feel bad that you brought the virus home... Either way also I am old already, that's why I can't cope... Remember its not your fault ok..."
She didn't make it in the end, and they couldn't even do the funeral.
While this was going on, he received a msg that James's mother needs to be admitted to ICU but all the ICUs are full at the moment, so she is still waiting in the normal ward, praying hard and hoping to get an ICU bed soon. According to James, the frontliners are going out of their way to help her with whatever they have, while waiting for the bed.
Daniel could only cry out loudly, but he can't undo what he has done. Now he finally understands how the number has increased.
Moral of the story :
With the increasing number of cases, every person you meet may either be a close contact, a contact's contact, or a POSITIVE COVID.
But you know what is the good news? You can avoid Daniel's situation if you stay at home.
#StaySafe
This msg is brought to you by :
Dr. T. M. Shamani
(Based on a few true stories)
This is how the case increases…Trust no one
what happens when you get old 在 AlexanderLamTakShun Youtube 的精選貼文
Alexander Lam Tak Shun-"BEEF"-(Official MV)-featuring Jun Kung and Doughboy
BEEF
Don’t eat no fish you better take it away
Don’t eat no greens man
Or the soup of the day
I need the real thing
Give it to me give me my beef man
Give me the meat
I’m gonna make it happen
Because my back is broad
So send me in there captain
I can keep it rocking all night long
Once I get you in my sight
Once I get you good
Once I get you in my sight
I’m gonna have you til I’m satisfied
Throw your hands up high come on touch the sky
You gotta put your back into it start a fire with me
Throw your hands out wide baby keep it alive!
Now you know what happens when you get me the BEEF come on!
Ohhhh (throw your hands in the air)
Ohhhh (I’m adding fuel to the fire)
And you know people well they love to say
Look at the stars man out in the sky
And you know me I'm, I'm built the same old way
A burning rock man
And I'm on Fire!
Once I get you in my sight
Once I get you good
Once I get you in my sight
I’m gonna have you til I’m satisfied
Throw your hands up high come on touch the sky
You gotta put your back into it start a fire with me
Throw your hands out wide baby keep it alive!
Now you know what happens when you get me the BEEF come on!
Ohhhh (throw your hands in the air)
Ohhhh (I’m adding fuel to the fire)
What’s all this hating and beefing
Who’s gonna take it and leave it
I don’t even see the reason
For these haters that you feeding
You want beef I’ll be keeping it raw
You want a piece I’m a leave it to y’all
Back in the day I’ll be the first one to start
Up in the streets or up in the park
I lay low now I don’t clash
Not in school but I got class
Don’t need enemies I got friends
You want it too now don’t pretend
Still want beef we could fix it now
All my boys they gon take you out
If you try to step on us then you’ll see what I’m all about
I’m gonna make it happen
Because my back is broad
So send me in there captain
I can keep it rocking all night long
Throw your hands up high come on touch the sky
You gotta put your back into it start a fire with me
Throw your hands out wide baby keep it alive
now you know what happens when you get me the BEEF
Throw your hand up high come on touch the sky
I'm gonna float like a butterfly and sting like a bee
Throw you hands out wide baby keep it alive
Come on everybody let me hear you scream!!!
Ohhhhh (throw your hands in the air)
Ohhhhh (throw your hands in the air)
Ohhhhh (throw your hands in the air)
Music and Lyrics: Alex Lam, Jun Kung, Doughboy
Produced by: Jun Kung
Directed by: Seanie Pictures
Assistant Director:Justin Chan
Assistant: Abbie Wong
Cinematographer: Carlos Lam
Associate Producer: Henry Leung
Hair: Jeff Li
Make up: Jess Yung
Special Stunning Guests: Christina Tang, Vera Rodrigues, Ayu Wong
Special thanks: Tom Lee
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what happens when you get old 在 Rayner Teo Youtube 的最讚貼文
Rayner: 00:00 Today, I have a question from Kara who asks, "Hey, Rayner, if I want to use multiple timeframes in my trading, for example, the price is coming to a daily support, how do I use multiple timeframes to better my entry? Should I be looking at a one-minute timeframe, a five minutes timeframe, or the one-hour timeframe?" Here's my take on it when using multiple timeframes. You can think of it like let's say, for example, you're old. You're about 70 years old and you're trying to read the words on the monitor on your screen.
Rayner: 00:33 Okay, and that's pretty small, so what do you do? You get a magnifying glass and you look at the monitor. The magnifying expands the words and it's easier to read because now the font size is larger, but what if you magnify too much? Let's say you magnified to 10 times what it was and the font size expands, huge, so what happens? If you look at that now, the words will appear very large like one huge thing in front of you. You can start to see the individual grain of the pixel, and if you're looking at it, does it make sense? No.
Rayner: 01:11 You pretty much forgot what you're trying to accomplish in the first place because the thing is way too zoomed in, and this is the same as trading. If you're looking at the daily timeframe, for example, the price coming to an area of support and you zoom in down to the one-minute timeframe to better time your entry, it's way too zoomed in just like the magnifying glass example. You can see the individual bar and stuff like that, but it has no relevance to the higher timeframe because you're too zoomed in and whatever data you're looking at is pretty much noise relative to the daily timeframe. So my suggestion is if you want to find a sweet spot where you zoom in enough to see additional information at the same time using the information that is related to the higher timeframe, I suggest using a factor of four to six.
Rayner: 02:01 What I mean by this is that let's say, for example, the daily timeframe ... Price comes into support and you want to better time your entry, you can use an example of a factor of six. One day, you have 24 hours, so a factor of six means that you go down to the four timeframes to better time your entry.
Rayner: 02:27 If you want to use a factor of four, let's say you identify resistance on the four timeframes, so a factor of four would be then you go down to the one-hour timeframe, four hours divided by four which is a factor of four.
Rayner: 02:51 So this is the sweet spot to use multiple timeframes. If you use a factor of 20 or 30, I would say the information is too detailed and it has no relevance to the higher timeframe. With that said, if you want to learn proven trading strategies to get rich slow, head down to my website tradingwithrayner.com and I'll talk to you soon.
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what happens when you get old 在 chungdha Youtube 的最佳解答
In this video I am showing you my journey up Tai Mo Shan 大帽山 trying to capture timelapse shots above the clouds in Hong Kong 香港 , but also knowns as the sea of clouds 雲海 which is a natural phenomenon that only happens under specific weather conditions. Its very hard to predict and really you have to be lucky and be at the right place at the right time to capture it. But when you are there its an awesome sight to see and to capture, however I also show you that hiking up a mountain can also be dangerous, but also most of the time you might fail at capturing the shots when its not the perfect condition.
To get to Tai Mo Shan 大帽山 , I suggest to get on the MTR and go to Tsuen Wan West 荃灣西 and get the bus 51 to the Tai Mo Shan Country Park and follow the road up and up and its pretty much just one road you follow to get all the way up the Tai Mo Shan Mountain.
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