「從夫姓」這件事，我很想問問大家的意見！結婚許久，我一直沒冠夫姓也沒從夫姓，在台灣也沒有這樣的問題，但，每每在南法的家庭聚會都會提到這個，法國人怎麼會這麼古板？還是因為我嫁給外國人，所以我真的必須放棄自己的姓氏？我一直以為外國人的女權主義比亞洲還強大，但我好像錯了！
請大家評評理吧！
為什麼不是男人跟女人姓？
為什麼女人要順從男人？為什麼不是男人順從？
為什麼女人嫁到夫家要做牛做馬？而男人就只出一張嘴？只出一指神功滑手機電腦？還要我們跟你們姓？
為什麼？？？？？？？？？？？
而且，這世界就是一個重男輕女的世界，歐美各國女性結了婚就要冠夫姓，這是父權主義的產物；阿拉伯女人不能露臉更別說露身體，這是也是父權主義下的犧牲者；日本女人要服侍先生，就連韓國偶像劇劇情多半也是如此，在中國一胎化的問題，讓多少的家庭因為生了女兒而必須遺棄？！在在的這些都是父權主義下的產物，這，對女性公平嗎？
現在，雙薪家庭比比皆是，男女平等也是應該，我們是在21世紀不是19世紀啊！！！！
為所有的女性吶喊！！！！！！
我們要的是尊重，要的是平等！
如果要我們做什麼，就請你們跟我們同步！以示公平！
Crown husband's name or not?
I would like to ask everyone's opinion! Married for a long time, I did not crown husband's surname.
In Taiwan, there is no problem about this, it even an old school way not a lot of people do it.
but, on the family gathering in southern France keep talking about this. how French people can be so old-fashioned? Or because I am married to a foreigner, so I really have to give up my surname? I always thought that foreigner's feminists also stronger than Asia, but I feel like I was wrong!
Please let's talk about it.
Why do not change the surname of the man and woman at the same time?
Why women should obey men? Why do not men obey women?
Why women have to do anything? The men just use their tongue talking non stop? Only use one finger slide phone or computer all the time?
why? ? ? ? ?
Moreover, this world is a patriarchal world, Europe and the United States women married need to crown husband's surname, which is the product of patriarchal; Arab women can not show their face, the body, the hair, which is also under the patriarchal Victim; Japanese women need to serve their husbands, and even most of the Korean idol drama too, China's one-child issues, some of the family because was born a daughter must be abandoned? ! Those are the product of patriarchal, is it fair for the women?
Now, double-income families everywhere, it should be gender equality, we are in the 21st century, not the 19th century ah! ! ! !
for all women! ! ! ! ! !
What we want is respect, what we need is equality!
If you want us to do something , we ask you to sync with us! for a fair!
