【別以爲孩子不完美就不能有自己的成功】
Don't Assume That An Imperfect Child Will Never Have His Own Success
我教書,從小學到中學級別,斷斷續續有十年。
我學命理堪輿超過十五年。
在我家族裡的孩子,還未到十歲,每個幾乎都有十八般武藝,生活能力特別強,就算是女生也特別獨立。
因為這幾種經驗的結合,對於如何栽培孩子的潛能我特別有心得。
在我眼裡,每個人都是佛,所以有無限的可能,孩子也一樣。
但諷刺的是,有時父母反而成為孩子的絆腳石。他們會把自己思維的侷限套在孩子的身上,斷了孩子未激發出來的潛能。
怎麼會這樣?
因為父母本身的八字潛能,也從來沒有被他們的父母激發過,因此成了這惡性循環。在忙於工作和兼顧家庭的無頭蒼蠅日子裡,他們又有何能耐和知識去做這些看似吃力不討好的事呢?
我批的孩童八字當中,有自閉兒、過動兒,有先天缺陷如聽力障礙、語言障礙等,學習過程會比一般孩子來得艱辛。
孩子還未進小學,要嘛就是父母因為這孩子而影響了婚姻,要嘛就父母覺得這孩子不行了,將來做什麼工作就將就吧!
今世的先天缺陷是前世惡因結的果,不該代表孩子的這一世就是死刑。
六歲前為孩子看八字和風水,對孩子的學習人生有很大的補助。三歲前,更佳。
破繭而出的蝴蝶,才能展翅高飛,而不是你打著真愛的口號,拿把剪刀去剪破毛毛蟲的繭。
父母是孩子的第一任老師,如果你們不懂得改善自己的命,你的孩子也會很容易向命運低頭。
愛孩子,就請告訴他們,人生的選項沒有必要鎖在ABCD,我們可以自己創造XYZ。
成功不只是有一種定義。
無論您是一位老師還是一位家長,我大力推薦大家去看這部適合一家大小一起看,由鄧超主演,挑戰我們華人社會對教育和親情習以為常的觀念的大陸電影《銀河補習班》。
看了之後,深入的去思考:我們追求有個孩子真正的意義應該是什麼?
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I have ten years of intermittent teaching experience, from primary school level to secondary school level.
I have also learnt Chinese Metaphysics for over 15 years.
In my family, before the age of ten, almost every child would have acquired a lot of life skills. Even the girls in our family are especially independent.
Because of these myriad experiences, I have my unique insight on how to cultivate the potential of children.
I see everyone as a Buddha, thus having infinite potential. The same goes for children.
Yet ironically, sometimes parents, the people who proclaimed the loudest that they love their children, are the exact ones who tripped their children in Life. They impose their limiting mindset on their children, disrupting the undiscovered potential of their children.
Why so?
Because the potential in the adults' Bazi was also never unearthed by their parents, thus forming a vicious cycle. In the daily grind of juggling family and work, running around like a headless chicken, how will they have the patience and knowledge to do such seemingly thankless acts?
In the children's Bazi I have analysed, some have autism, ADHD, listening or speech disabilities etc. Their learning process will understandably be more difficult than normal children.
Thus even before the child enters primary school, the parents would either face marriage disharmony or think that the child should just settle for any decent job in the future.
Born disabilities of this life are the fruits of our past-life karmic deeds, but this should not mark a death penalty in the child's destiny this lifetime.
To get the child's Bazi analysed and Feng Shui audited before age 6 can have enormous positive effects on the child's learning path. Even better if before age 3.
The butterfly that breaks out of its cocoon on its own is able to take flight, but will be crippled when you cut the caterpillar's cocoon with a scissors in the name of supposed true love.
Parents are the first teachers in a child's life. If you do not know how to change your destiny, your child will bow down to Life easily.
If you love them, please let them know life does not have to be restricted to ABCD options. We can create our own XYZ choices.
Success has more than one definition.
Whether you are a teacher or a parent, I recommend you and your children to watch this inspirational China movie on challenging Chinese societal norms in parenting and education, Looking Up (銀河補習班), starring Deng Chao.
And think in depth, what should be the real meaning in having children?
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Hello March... Parenting means pretty in pyjamas..
Sometimes I feel we are too hard on ourselves in this parenting journey. Worried too much, cares about other's people point of view. It makes it even harder when social media have a say in our parenting style.
Baby are not robot, parenting doesn't come in 10 years series. It's all about trial and error, we only know it works when we see positive outcomes from our kids, sometimes immediately, sometimes only when they grows up.
Whatever it is, parenting journey is a never ending learning and growing journey for both adult and child.
Yesterday my girls came back home and asked why I'm still in pyjamas, I told them after sending both of you to dancing class, it's a never ending battle with your xiaomei and didi. At the end of the day, all of us are happy, now say I'm pretty in my pyjamas.. Thank you 😜
They asked me because I told them that are supposed to change their pyjamas when they wake up. Now I know my parenting done right 🤣
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Many parents worry when their child doesn’t speak clearly or fully in a sentence at a certain age .
Most child speak their first word at 10-14 months of age .
18 months - able to say about 10 simple words
2 years old - 50 words , use phrases or able to put together 2 word sentences .
4 years old - able to speak clearly
5 years old - able to tell a story and >5 words in a sentence .
Do remember that every child is different. And it’s an indicative if your child doesn’t reach a certain milestones.
Tips for early talk in your Child
1. Let your child talk even if he mumbles .
Most of the time we always interrupt trying to correct them . That’s a big No ...
2. Only correct them when they finish their sentences or done talking or whatever they are mumbling.
3. No baby talk even to babies
Communicate with your child like an adult . Do not use word like mamam, etc
4. Listen more
Parents should listen more to their child . This gives the opportunity for the child to talk much more .
5. Use ‘ Why, What and How ‘ in a conversation.
Broaden the conversation by asking questions to the child . This helps the child’s level of thinking and creativity .
6. Read stories together
Make Reading a fun manner and as exciting as possibly could . Usually the child loves the same story again and again .
7. Some kids are just natural talkers ...
Kids have different personalities. Some just talk and talk which is a positive thing while others may be the quiet type . It’s just how they are .
8. Do not silent them
Let the child talks or mumbles whatever comes in their mind . Just let it be ...
9. Build their confidence
Talking involves confidence in your child . Kids talk a lot because they are comfortable and confident with themselves . It’s their nature being curious and wanting to learn new things .
10. Kids are copies of their parents
Talkative mothers usually end up with talkative children . Rarely there are talkative Dads out there - Haha
Salam Everyone
Love As Always
Just sharing ...
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親眼見證為何三歲的蓓兒無法在家中實況⋯
Experience why a large amount of Bell energy cannot be contained in a modest home!
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Episode 131, A Textual Analysis
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We open with Char sitting too close to the screen who goes on to tell Bell not to sit to close to the screen. In the background is Purple Pony - not sitting too close to the screen and the only blameless character in this entire story. Bell ignores mom's instruction and makes a virtue of sitting too close to the screen by pulling faces. She gets so close she accidentally nudges the camera.
[The opening "Hi" was from later in the VOD and got pulled to the front to set up Char to fail.]
As Bell runs out of and back into shot, we get the first hint of the cooped-up energy that will power the following drama. A misunderstanding occurs between touching and moving - in the literal interpretation of a three year old, accidentally touching the cam isn't deliberately moving it. The potential for conflict increases.
Char rightly involves Bell in her hair drying choices and the shot finishes on Purple Pony exhibiting an expression that tells us what it takes to survive in this household; Pony's seen things we people wouldn't believe.
Char is attacked by her own domestic appliance, makes an appeal for sympathy but gets a wide Pony grin. She puts on a brave face, Bell attempts her first strangulation then possesses the stream, Char gives her first 'not like this' speech explaining why Bell and chores don't mix. Bell proves she and chores don't mix by jumping on freshly folded laundry which fully triggers Char leading to Act 2.
Act 2 - full Bell meltdown. Char's ultra-mom skills birth Bell off the bed and slowly out of the world of pain she created for herself but she's still full of "no". Char counters with breathing, hugging and drinking but Bell responds by banning her from talking to Chat. Char deploys an entire bookshelf plus water plus science in what is rapidly becoming turn based combat then Bell makes a fatal mistake. Instead of banning mommy from making animal noises she instead bans Chat from reading a book we can't see anyway (well, she is only three!). Bell is slowly running out of "no", Char corners her into talking about her feelings (scary, am I right fellas?).
Act3 - age check, strangle #2 and Bell's in possession again. Char counters with "hug" but Bell cruelly starts to follow her knowing full well mommy's got more used to losing followers than gaining them. Bed incursion and the stream is knocked flat, Char enters the fray but Bell kicks clean over her to floor the stream again - our vision's blurred: medic!. Then Bell shows how she did it by kicking her mommy but it's too late: we lost this one Chat. A knockout, two falls or a submission, them's the rules. Game over.
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To the ocean, man! Char practices her usual social distancing and yoga, Bell does not and just sneezes and drools on everything which must have frightened some and may explain why, despite Char's best efforts, she failed to get Bell adopted by complete randoms. Oh, and cam is sometimes a little scuffed - fix is a software update, waiting for it to be released.
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