TLDR: #Breastfeeding is still (insert expletive) hard now, because Jude throws up like the Merlion frequently.
I’m writing this at 11:43pm, craving sleep so bad, but still sitting up in bed holding Jude against my chest in the hope that he will sleep deep enough so I can put him down on the bed without waking him. Just about 20 minutes ago, he threw up like the Merlion (again) while I tried to nurse him to sleep in bed. I feel like a failure every time this happens. Why can’t I stop him before he throws up? Why can’t I soothe him any other way besides nursing? Why do I have a fast letdown that causes him to gulp down too much milk too fast? Why do I suck at this bf (insert expletive) so bad?
And then, this smile. He flashes me this exact smile after throwing up. No fussing, no crying. It’s like “Ah Mama thanks for over-feeding me till I threw up, now I feel better!”
So, if you are in a similar situation, with a 11-week old baby who is breastfed and needs to nurse every 2 hours, and on top of that needs to comfort nurse in between, and on top of that you have a fast letdown and possible oversupply (I overdid the breastmilk boost), know that you are not alone.
Here are some things I’ve learnt on my bf journey so far that is totally in contrast to what the internet told me:
1) You CAN overfeed a breastfed baby. Because that’s what’s happening to me and Jude. He vomits or spits up a lot at least once a day, but he’s delivering good diaper output and putting on weight.
2) Some websites claim you never have to unlatch a baby; babies will know when they are full and unlatch themselves. Not true. Jude will nurse and nurse all day if I let him, or until he throws up like the Merlion. And no, it’s not a growth spurt. Because it’s every. single. day.
3) Some websites also claim that by 2 months, babies can sleep “through the night” or “in stretches of 4-6 hours”. They also claim that around the same time babies can go longer in between nursing. Not true. Because Jude is at 11 weeks and he still nurses every 2 hours, 3 at best, sometimes hourly. Even in the night.
Ok I shall now try to put Jude down in bed. Wish me luck. #breastfeedingjourney
同時也有1部Youtube影片,追蹤數超過2萬的網紅Anh Minh,也在其Youtube影片中提到,Baby is being very fussy and so I wanted to stimulate him by taking him outdoors for a change of scene. Get some fresh air. He seems to sleep better a...
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10 PERANGAI PELIK IBU MENGANDUNG TAPI BENAR!
Ketika mengandung, ibu hamil berhadapan dengan pelbagai perubahan yang drastik. Dia bukan sahaja berubah bentuk badan, malah emosi dia juga kejap ok kejap tak.
Antara perangai-perangai pelik, yang suami perlu tahu bila isteri mengandung :👇👇
1. MALAS NAK BERSIAP- Ada ibu hamil, suka yang simple2 je. Sampaikan nak bersolek pun malas. Tapi, ada juga yang suka berdandan. Lain orang lain pembawakan.
2. TAK SUKA BUNYI BISING - Ada ibu hamil yang sensetif sangat dgn persekitaran yang bising, lebih2 ditempat2 terbuka seperti pasar malam, tengok konsert dan sebagainya. Diorang lebih suka suasana yang aman.
3. TAK BOLEH MASUK DAPUR - Ini jangan pelik ya! dia bukan malas atau sengaja nak mengelak dari masak, tapi ada ibu hamil yang langsung tak leh nak hidu bau tumis atau bau ikan.
4. SUKA BAU SUAMI - Ini memang kerap terjadi. Perubahan hormon yang berlaku membuatkan si isteri jadi lebih happy dan tenang sangat bila bersama suaminya.
5. SUKA TIDUR : Ada ibu hamil yang lesu, lemah dan jadi hilang tenaga dek kerana morning sickness yang teruk. Dan ada juga yang tak dapat tidur waktu malam sebab kepanasan atau kejang kaki. So, tidur adalah rehat yang paling menenangkan mereka.
6. TERLALU SENSETIF : Ada ibu hamil yang kuat sentap dan touching habis! janganlah silap cakap, nanti ada yang kena tidur luar. 😂😂 nak merajuk aje kerjanya.
7. SUKA MENGIDAM PELIK-PELIK - Tak dinafikan ada ibu hamil yang suka sangat mengidam yang bukan-bukan. Ada suami sampai pening, tak tahu mana nak cari apa yang isteri dia nak. Dia mengidam bukan sebab mengada, sebab makanan yang dihidang kadang2 tak kena dgn seleranya. Especially ibu yang mengalami mual teruk.
8. MAKANAN FAVORITE JADI MAKANAN YANG DIBENCI- Sebelum mengandung elok je makan, waktu mengandung jadi loya dan tak suka makan.
9. PELUPA- Ada ibu hamil yang diserang amnesia ketika mengandung. Sebenarnya banyak benda yang diorang nak ingat. itu yang sampai lupa. Papa jangan marah ae..
10- KUAT MAKAN KETIKA MENGANDUNG- Ada ibu yang hilang selera ketika hamil, dan ada juga yang naik selera ketika hamil. Itu normal.
Mommy yang mana satu?
Papa take note tau.. Jangan marah naaa..
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During pregnancy, pregnant mothers face a variety of drastic changes. He doesn't just change his body shape, but his emotions will be okay for a while.
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1. LAZY TO GET READY for pregnant mothers, just like the simple ones. I'm lazy to make up even if I'm not able But, some like to dress up too. Different people bring it.
2. DON ' T LIKE NOISY SOUND - There are pregnant mothers who are very sensetive with noisy environment, especially in open places like night market, look at concerts and others. They prefer a safe atmosphere.
3. CAN ' T ENTER THE KITCHEN - Don't be weird! She's not lazy or deliberately avoiding cooking, but there are pregnant mothers who can't even smell stir-fry or smell of fish.
4. LOVE HUSBANDS - This happens often. The hormone change that happens makes the wife happier and very calm when she's with her husband.
5. LIKES TO SLEEP: There are pregnant mothers who are weak, weak and lost their energy due to bad morning sickness. And there are also those who can't sleep at night because of heat or leg cramps. So, sleeping is the rest that relaxes them the most.
6. TOO SENSETIVE: There are pregnant mothers who are strongly yanking and touching! Don't say wrong, someone will have to sleep outside. 😂😂 just want to sulk.
7. LIKES TO BE STRANGE - Undeniable there are pregnant mothers who love to be craving for non-non-non-non-non-non-non There's a husband who's dizzy, don't know where to find what his wife wants. He's craving not because of making it up, because the food served is sometimes wrong with his taste. Especially mothers who are sick.
8. FAVORITE FOODS BECOME HATED FOOD-Before pregnant it's nice to eat, when pregnant becomes nauseous and doesn't like to eat
9. FORGET-There are pregnant mothers who are attacked by amnesia during pregnancy. There are actually a lot of things that they want to remember. That's what you forget. Papa don't be angry ae..
10-STRONG EATING WHEN PREGNANT-There are mothers who lost their appetite during pregnancy, and there are also those who have appetite during pregnancy. That's normal.
Which Mommy?
Papa take note you know.. Don't be angry..
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he needs some milk 在 9bulan10hari Facebook 的最佳貼文
Suami tak layak untuk kata isteri yg menyusu badan ni kuat tidur.
Sebab menyusu badan ni sepatutnya ada upah khusus. Tp ramai isteri tutup mata, dan tetap gigih menyusukan. Walhal tugas lunas nafkah anak ni adalah tugas suami. Tetapi memandangkan bayi dibawah 2 tahun makanan mereka adalah susu badan, maka isteri kena bantu lunaskan.
Lama kelamaan dah jadi trend dan kebiasaan isteri sahaja sibuk gigih menyusukan. Dan ada yg bekerja membantu suami. Si suami cuma pandai sound is...
Continue ReadingHusband doesn't deserve to say that the wife who is breastfeeding is sleeping hard.
Because of this breastfeeding, there should be a special wage. But many wives close their eyes, and are still hard to breastfeed. This child's work is the duty of a husband. But since the baby under 2 years of their food is body milk, then the wife needs to help her.
It's been a long time since it has become a trend and the habit of the wife is busy with breastfeeding. And there are people who work to help the husband. The husband only knows how to sound the wife is strong to eat, sleep hard. When the wife comes back to her husband's hometown, by obeying her husband, the husband is bullying the wife's emotions by opening the household things in front of her family members.
Man of this species, if advice usually does not walk. Because his ego is big. As long as there's no problem, he'll just make a fool.
Until the wife is sick, then she regrets and has a sense.
Brother...
When I'm breastfeeding, I'm really tired. Breastfeeding this child is burning calories bang. When the burning process happens, then there is energy that is used. When there is energy used it means tired, hunger will be felt by breastfeeding wife.
No need to give a direct feed, brother.. the wife pump the milk for 20 minutes they will be tired, tired, hungry. That's why they have to eat a lot. Leaps the milk pump has to continue doing homework. Those who work have to continue working.
Tired. Like going to the gym.
You can do it.. Go to the gym, go back, take a bath. Food is ready to be is. And then you've already eaten and you're sleeping. Child in riot, you look like he's sleeping while making your child say he's sleeping hard.
Come here brother...
In the body milk there are 2 types of hormones that are main to come home a lot.
What is it?
Hormones and prolactin hormones. Oxytocin this hormone happy2,, riang2. when this hormones are secreted, the body will be relaxed automatically. Calm, cool. And the milk is kurg, this hormones are kurg. This hormones are kurg because the wife breastfeeding the child in pressure, fear, tiredness, hungry or angry.
Why does the wife feel like that? Sbb the surrounding factor. One of them sbb husband fun sound my wife strong sleep.
When this hormones come out, the body will rest automatically, the eyes will fall asleep. Because the brain will ask the body to rest. Then there's a lot of milk and power quality.
Plus the prolactin. This hormones that strengthen the bonding of mother and child's bond. This hormones that increase the feeling of mother so that mother will be more calm when looking at the child in front of the eyes.
Hormon2 This is all secreted on one goal. To produce a lot of milk and quality.
And this hormone killer has only one.
Pressure.
So the reason that many mothers didn't make it until 2 YEARS ONLY BECAUSE OF 1 things. Pressure. Support the support.
It's already making a child who can't pay. The more you sound, he sleeps hard. Ehh.. What's the attitude...
Already able to save money. Just respect the wife, is it difficult?
When he tertido the time when he susukan his child. Don't disturb. Don't wake up. Let it be a moment. Let him rest because he is tired of breastfeeding.
Don't worry, direct feed the child will not choke on milk. Because God has created another CCK hormone. This hormone is in humans. He will be put on the human brain so that humans feel full. If full automatic baby will be deep and take off his mother's nipples. This cck hormone just like off for human eating.
The one who always choke is sbb breastfeeding for milk bottles. Haa... This is special beb directfeed.
So please.. We men should be our responsibility to cure our children's lives. The body milk is a living.. That's why if the wife doesn't want to make it, it's a must for husband to look for a mother. Can't help them. There's no special wage.
This wife helps to give free milk is already good. Suddenly sound he sleeps hard. That asked to blajo. When Blajo you will understand. Can't be a label issue like this.
Ready to talk about wife making up. You are the one who made it up. If you are so Jonathan, go find a mother. If you don't have it, you'll answer it in front of Allah, that's the living. Child's milk is not a mother's the. That's Father's responsibility.
That's why some of their culture will really find a mother for their children. So that the wife is not too bad to do. But this time women have to work, they have to give milk to the husband who does not support.
That's why the child's name is the name of father. Sbb the child is the responsibility of father. Not mom. Father is dead, father's family got handled by the kid. Still not the responsibility of mother. Got it?
Babai
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Baby is being very fussy and so I wanted to stimulate him by taking him outdoors for a change of scene. Get some fresh air. He seems to sleep better and more clam when in the stroller. A quick walk should so the trick to get him to chill out. Plus it's good exercise for us.
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