最好的自己不在未來,就在現在。
認真回想,以前我好像在每一段關係中都是在扮演某一個角色,不由自主的在為每個對象做調整。不只有在戀愛上,有時候可能跟朋友、工作夥伴都是,尤其是在前輩面前,常常我都會本能反應似的改變自己。聲音要甜一點嗎?笑話要低級一點嗎?從穿衣服就可以看出,我今天是要跟誰吃飯。雖然是微調,但透露出了一件事,我好像不夠喜歡真正的自己,所以才會擔心大家也不會喜歡真正的我。我告訴自己即使累,但如果持續努力,有一天就能變成大家都喜歡的Lara。
久而久之我和世界的相處模式只有「由外到內」,會依照別人對我的反應去斷定我的下一步。大家會覺得我很好相處,我卻越來越不快樂。現在我慢慢開始懂了,原來我把順序弄反了。我該優先處理的是自己內心的感受,其他人買不買單,其實跟你一點關係都沒有。就像找另外一半,如果我跟夢中情人在一起,但我根本無法在他面前做自己,最後還是會走不下去。
我現在33歲,So What? 終於懂,「當下的自己」才是人生時間軸上最重要的!
對了,有人好奇這次「{}」的意思嗎?簡單說是「大括號」,在數學運算式中稱作「空集合」。數學不好的人就想像一個清空的行李箱吧。「空」不是無,而是無限可能。括號還有另外一個更好懂的意思,就是「優先處理」。將過去整理過後的自己,回歸純粹,態度成熟自信!(失戀後重新出發的人應該很有感觸吧!🤣)
Your best self is not in the future, but in the Now.
Looking back, I seem to have been playing a role in almost every relationship I was ever in. I'm not just talking about romantic relationships. Whether it was with friends or colleagues (especially seniors), I would modify myself almost instinctively. Should my voice be sweeter? My jokes dirtier? If you wanted to know who I was eating with that day, all you had to do was look at the clothes I was wearing.
The changes were subtle, but they still reflected a truth: I didn’t feel like the real me was enough so I was worried that other people would also find her lacking. I told myself that if I just kept working at it, I would someday become a version of Lara that everyone accepted.
Eventually I only knew how to get my cues from the external world. I would always base my next step on feedback I got from others. Most people considered me easy to get along with, but I grew more and more unhappy.
I think I had it all wrong. My first priority should have been listening to my inner voice. Whether or not other people agree with it is not in my control nor of my concern. Take looking for a partner. Even if I found the person of my dreams, it would never last if I couldn’t be myself around them.
I am 33 years old. So What? I finally understand that "the present self" is the most important thing on the timeline of life! It’s time to prioritize me!
By the way, is anyone curious about the meaning of "{}" this time? Besides the more commonly known representation of parentheses as prioritization, these curly brackets are called “the empty set”. The empty what? If like me, math is not your strongest suit, think of it as an empty suitcase. "Empty" doesn’t mean nothing, but infinite possibilities! What will you fill your life with this time?
2021全新專輯《來者何人{}》
數位收聽:https://LaraLiang.lnk.to/DearYou2
<再也沒有你> 陳勢安 Andrew Tan
數位收聽:https://kkbox.fm/Iss26l
#Lara梁心頤2021全新專輯二部曲 #來者何人{} 全球發行
#再也沒有你 #NoMoreU #SoWhat30
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窮小孩也能搭遊輪 學馬術
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聽到問題的當下我停了一拍心跳
與其說驚訝 更多的是不捨和難過
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四月的一個週一早晨
我在高雄中學和一些學弟妹分享我的生活
我說要把握時間 活在當下
也說要無愧於心 逐己所愛
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我告訴其中一部分的音樂班同學
喜歡主修樂器的話請繼續享受 努力
根本不喜歡音樂的話
現在掉頭才不會誤了剩下的青春
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我相信學弟妹都有認真聽我的分享
才會在結束後提出對我的問題
而且有好幾個人提出類似的問題
令我錯愕又不捨的問題
「是不是因為學長的職業是牙醫師 收入不錯所以才能追逐自己的興趣?」
在他們的教育和認知中 收入竟優先於興趣
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感謝學弟在提問的時候有強調『提問時沒有冒犯的意思』 而不是酸溜溜的質疑
我執著於這個問題一週之久
然後請老師幫我向學弟妹轉達以下幾點:
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1.我看過很多快樂的人 成功的人 都是追求自己熱愛的事物 發光發熱 同時藉此賺取生活費 因應社會 該職業的社經地位 也許高 也許低 但都是滿足快樂的�.
2.高收入的人不在少數 就以牙醫為例 難道是所有牙醫都有追求自己喜歡的事物嗎?都幸福美滿?身體健康?我想告訴你們的是:我從興趣中找到快樂和滿足 所以分享給你們 若非為了向升學關口的你們分享職業特色 我根本懶得提牙醫這塊 因為那不是我熱衷的事情 應該由熱衷於牙科治療的誰向你們口沫橫飛地說�.
3.錢是我們生活中的一部分 就只是一小部分 不是全部 也不是必要的 我們一定比上不足比下有餘 我個人喜歡往下比 因為更容易讓我感到滿足 往上比的話我可真窮 買不起豪宅 沒有跑車 遊艇 也不能任性地說不上班就不上班 說買奢侈品就買奢侈品
如果我們的水很多 可能可以裝滿大碗公 如果我們的水很少 可以換成一個瘦瘦高高的玻璃杯 也可以有一樣的水位高度 那代表著快樂和滿足的程度 在自己的能力範圍 盡該盡的責任 享受能夠享受的舒適 公寓 大樓 豪宅 別墅 各有合適的住客 然而都是一個安全舒服的家�.
最後要提 如果你的夢想是搭豪華郵輪 除了先攢足船票的錢 也可以應徵船上服務生的工作
又例如我大學的時候沒錢學馬術 我願意刷馬 掃馬廄一個下午 換得半小時的騎乘機會
.�祝各位善良勇敢 不枉此生
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First of all, this article is too long for me to translate properly @@
So I will summarize it short and please forgive my grammar mistakes 😅
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I was in my alma mater, Kaohsiung Senior High School, to give a speech to the students.
I shared with them my philosophy of life and suggest them follow their hearts, live in the present moment, do not regret.
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I told students who majored in music, to keep enjoy in music and to work hard with their beloved musical instrument, but be brave to quit if this was not what they did enjoy in. Maybe they were forced by the society, parents or anything. Now is the most early time to save the rest of theirs youth from such a burden.
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I knew they did listen carefully, that’s why they asked me some questions.
Many of them got the same question, which made me astonished and a bit sad,
“Do you think being a dentist with high income is the key enabling you to be engaged in your hobbies?”
Does this question mean they believe one’s income is more important than what one is interested in?
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I cared about this question so much for one week after the speech.
And I asked their teacher to pass on to the cute and young, and maybe perplexed, students as following,
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1.I’ve seen many people who are happy and successful. They are devoted to what they love and get money for living from it. He or she might be rich or poor, upper class or lower class, depending on the definition of the society, but their contentment and joy cannot be defined�.
2. There are a lot of people with high income. Take dentists as an example, is every dentist looking for what he loves? Or happy? Healthy? I find my happiness from my hobbies, that’s why I share this with you. Dentistry should be shared by some dentist who are enthusiastic about dentistry, not me. I shared my occupation to you only because you are facing the college entrance timing.�.
3. Money is a part of our lives, a little part of our lives. Not the whole life, and not necessary either. We are richer than many people, and at the same time, poorer than many people. I would rather compare myself with those poorer than me, because that makes me feel better, and feeling is the most important thing for a person. When I compare myself with those rich men, I am nothing, I can’t afford a villa, a personal airplane, a yacht.
If we have a lot of water, we can fill a big pot. If we have little water, we can fill a thin glass and reach the same height of water level, which represents the degree of contentment.
Make clear who we are, and take our responsibility, and enjoy what we deserve.
There are different people for different places, apartments, condominium, mansion, villa, however, the common point of them are being a nice and safe cozy home.
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If you want to get on a cruise ship, you can earn enough money for the ticket or get the job as a waiter on the ship.
When I couldn’t afford the fee for equestrian class, I worked in the stable and took care of the horses for an afternoon to get the chance to ride the horse for half an hour
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May you kind and brave, enjoy the life with no regret
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你看過 #靈魂急轉彎 了嗎?
你認為人生要追求使命、還是火花?
英文片名就叫靈魂 #Soul
這個字也指靈魂樂 soul music
一種源自非裔美國人族群
混合福音樂、R&B、爵士樂的音樂
而爵士樂 #Jazz
跟整部片的劇情和主題息息相關
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主角 Joe 夢想成為爵士樂手
他遇見的靈魂 22 (twenty-two)
是音樂大外行,把 jazz 當動詞
自創了 #jazzing 這個動名詞
Joe 回覆說沒有人會說 jazzing!
因礙於時間和篇幅的關係
中文字幕翻成「玩爵士」
但其中更深一層的意思是:
享受當下、即興演奏、隨遇而安
電影將爵士樂當作象徵
用來比喻把握當下的人生態度
發揮當下生命可取得的素材來表演
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jazz 作為俚語還有其它用法,例如:
胡說、誇大、騙人
Don't jazz me「別跟我瞎扯」
使...開心、興奮
The surprise present jazzed David.
其它類似的東西(有的沒的)
I really love the holidays with the festive decorations, cheerful music, and all that jazz.
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來聊聊觀影感受,會帶點劇透:
我一直認為自己的興趣(片中的 spark 火花)很鮮明,像是享受音樂、翻譯,特別是專注於口譯時,很容易進入忘我的「心流」flow,這很容易被歸類成「天命」calling 或 purpose。
但人生如果只有使命,其實會很單薄也很枯燥,更重要的是與他人連結,常想著創造更多的價值與意義,因此看起來會像是活在未來的人。
相比之下,R就像22,不是使命感特別鮮明的人,沒有強烈的創造動機,而是當別人邀請或需要她時,她樂意配合幫忙——球來再打、活在當下。
我們的相處可說是互補,因為活在未來的人都把心思放在打造遠大事物,不太重視生活細節,日子過得隨意,也因為專注在興趣領域,不太關注最新的吃喝玩樂資訊,覺得不怎麼重要。
R完全相反,非常在乎感受和體驗,追求嘗試最新的餐廳、酒館、表演等生活享受,跟著世界不斷轉變,帶著我打開眼界,給我刺激和靈感
我因為自認有重要任務,所以感到踏實,充滿安全感,但偶爾也想要冒險;R天馬行空、創意無限,卻也需要有個能停泊的港口。
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就像電影一樣
每個與眾不同的靈魂
終究有屬於自己的旅程
我們能彼此陪伴
但不能囚禁靈魂的自由
你永遠不知道
明天和意外,何者會先來
因此為活著感恩吧!
真心珍惜契合的靈魂,勇敢活一遭
面對 2021 新的一年
這是我從電影領悟的重要提醒和勉勵
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各位觀眾,酒意思Sip with Joyce 的最新餐酒搭配影片已經在YouTube上更新囉!
這集,我邀請到了一對與我非常要好的夫妻朋友,Vicky 及澍坤來為我們示範他們一家人都很喜歡的一個套餐,「漢堡排親子餐」。「漢堡排親子餐」可以在短短30 分鐘內完成。大人們在備餐的同時,還可以小酌一杯,這是多麽棒的一種生活模式啊!
漢堡排配葡萄酒看似簡單,但其中的配菜及搭配的醬汁才是影響選擇什麼樣的葡萄萄的關鍵所在。趕快把這集收藏起來,下次想吃漢堡排時,你就知道可以搭配什麼樣的葡萄酒囉!
非常感謝 Vicky 及澍坤以及他們一對可愛的兒女的大力的支持與配合。相隔 6,824 英里之遙以及 12 小時時差的我們,能一起完成這個單元實在太不容易,真的太感謝你們了!❤️❤️❤️
想要找更多、更精采有趣的餐酒搭配請至 酒意思 Sip with Joyce
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酒意思Sip with Joyce’s newest food and wine pairing video is up on YouTube!!! 🙌🙌🙌
In this video, I’m so excited to have my very good friends, Vicky and Shukun, and their beautiful kids, who live 6,800 miles away from NY, join me and show us how to make “Hamburg Steak Two Ways”. It’s a combo meal they enjoy very much and only takes 30 minutes to make.
What wine would go with “Hamburg Steak Two Ways”? Sounds like no brainer, but you know me. I always give fun pairing ideas. Don’t miss out.
Feeling so grateful that Vickey and Shukun are willing to be part of the project. Truly blessed to have a group of people support me and this project. Our team will try our best and continue to present our best work to you. ❤️❤️❤️
Looking for more food and wine pairing ideas, please visit 酒意思(Joyisi) Sip with Joyce
Website: https://www.sipwithjoyce.com/ Facebook:https://www.facebook.com/sipwithjoyce
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· 全英文 podcast · 視訊家教
· 線上課程:發音教學、文法解析
1 【presentation 簡報】-- 名詞
She will give a presentation later.
她待會將做個簡報
present 呈現(動詞)
presentation 簡報,其實就是一種「呈現」
2 【report vs. presentation】
report 回顧、總結、報告狀況
我每週五會向經理匯報進度
I report to the project manager on progress every Friday.
presentation 介紹、銷售
我將為新產品做個簡報
I will make a presentation on our new products.
對方購買 or 老闆開發
report — 回顧 事情差不多結束了,或是有個進度,彙整報告
presentation — 展望 說服聽眾行動,介紹新事物
【賓狗小偏方】 presentation 跟 report “re” 重複、再一次,所以是「回顧」的報告
3 【可以 do a presentation 嗎】
She will deliver a presentation on the new services.
她將做一份簡報,介紹公司提出的新服務
有些英文教學文說,不可以用 do,do是錯的 但實際上搜尋,還是有人用,甚至有少許字典會列出 do a presentation 所以 do a presentation 應該是聽得懂的、說出口也可以放輕鬆
很常見的搭配動詞是 give, make, deliver
4 【keynote presentation 主題簡報】— 名詞
The conference will start with a keynote presentation on solar energy.
這場會議將以太陽能主題簡報開場
講者 keynote speaker — 有份量
4 【presentation skills 簡報技巧】 - 名詞
Presentation skills are the skills to create and deliver a clear and effective presentation.
簡報技巧好,就能順利準備及發表成功的簡報。
簡報上多用圖,字不要太多
less text and more visuals
看觀眾的眼睛
maintain eye contact with your audience
簡潔有力
keep it short
5 【怎麼結束英文簡報】 The is the end of my presentation. Thank you!
簡單複習
1 presentation 簡報
2 presentation 可以搭配的動詞有 give, make, deliver
3 keynote presentation 主題簡報
4 presentation skills 簡報技巧
5 簡報結束時,簡單說“This is the end of my presentation. Thank you!” 就好了
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